I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

Don't know if it is the right thing but it's definitely not wrong.

Go ahead

..

After nysc she go drop ur az

Is she comfortable with it?

If She is Mature in reasoning and conduct, Go Ahead!
But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl who is obsessed with Selfies, Instagram, Tiktok, Fashion trends, Omah Lay, Fireboy,etc, You better Wise ur brain!

Vinnie2000:



If She is Mature in reasoning and conduct, Go Ahead!
But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl who is obsessed with Selfies, Instagram, Tiktok, Fashion trends, Omah Lay, Fireboy,etc, You better Wise ur brain!

No ooo, she's Godly & have a post in her fellowship & also matured.

ignis:
Is she comfortable with it?

Yes,she is. Na she dey tell me say make I nor disappoint her

ifinger:
After nysc she go drop ur az

are you that harsh�.

Scout60:
Not by being in 400l, under 23 will drain your energy.

I understand.like I said she's matured in reasoning.

One of the ways to know that she loves you, get to know her parents or siblings and feel the vibes they show towards you. If they are warm towards you, then make your intentions known to the mother first or the father whoever you think calls the shot. Some mothers call the shot in a home; so know who runs the parade. But start with the mother. Emotionalise your feelings for her daughter. Mothers feel emotions and words have power over them; This can get you a forever acceptance by her. But it could also go the wrong way if she decides to exploit it, God forbid, that is if she's materialistic. Also be close to her siblings; start with the one or ones they feel is difficult and start penetrating them little by little. It's a tough call, I know. But this is the way to show that you're responsible and are willing and ready to take their daughter to the altar. If you just know the daughter but the family doesn't know you, somebody else can show up before you and take her.

Life is a competition. I was living in a fool's paradise not recognising this. If you indeed love her, some efforts have to be exerted to win her family over to you.

All the best.

okay o but hope she is not one of those with mickey mouse phone casing and always playing joeboy with the other one that sang love wantiti, if she also do tiktok and argues about starboy you have better run for ur life

ersonleads:
Yes,she is. Na she dey tell me say make I nor disappoint her

Na your money she dey after.

Vinnie2000:



If She is Mature in reasoning and conduct, Go Ahead!
But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl who is obsessed with Selfies, Instagram, Tiktok, Fashion trends, Omah Lay, Fireboy,etc, You better Wise ur brain!

Comrade please use this mic and increase the volume.....

Lol, just be managing her till she is out of university,when she comes out she's no longer interested,besides guy wey go dey chop the babe all through that remaining four years for school ehh, and service year.

A lot will change and strain you,

Vinnie2000:



If She is Mature in reasoning and conduct, Go Ahead!
But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl who is obsessed with Selfies, Instagram, Tiktok, Fashion trends, Omah Lay, Fireboy,etc, You better Wise ur brain!

. Like seriously bro,you don talk wetin de my mind finish

How did 19yrs be in 400l


Too early

Vinnie2000:



If She is Mature in reasoning and conduct, Go Ahead!

make sense

But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl
who is obsessed with Selfies, Instagram, Tiktok, Fashion trends, Omah Lay, Fireboy,etc, You better Wise ur brain!

the "regular nigerian 19year old girl" wasnt necesary! Al over the world we got teenagers who are freaks when it comes to the internet/trendings

Abudu2000:
okay o but hope she is not one of those with mickey mouse phone casing and always playing joeboy with the other one that sang love wantiti, if she also do tiktok and argues about starboy you have better run for ur life

So does that make her a bad gal?
Tiktok..Mickey mouse..joeboy music..is that how you judge people?

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her. Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

Man if you love her fine..age is nothing but number as far as she's above 18..
It's all about love man..

Hmm..

I no get advice for you

Holly Gram if u sponsor her schooling, na thunder go fire u. WTF MAN

lereinter:
How did 19yrs be in 400l

Too early

my brother age is just a number she might be 19yr on paper 20+ on ground

So you guys are going to wait for 3 years !!!!!!

OP if you feel you can wait till then to marry , that's on you


But it's always better to do what needs to be done As soon as possible.

In the next 3 years you dont know how things would be

She might fall in love with someone else

You might not even have that job again (God forbid )

She may get belle for another man before then,
Like 1 million and one nonsense can happen.


See ehn all these young girls still believe in Hollywood love, and these ladies make decisions based on emotions , so you can't trust a woman's advice especially when it's tied with emotions.

OP na express you dey go o


Change is constant !!!! It's the only thing we are sure of .

I'm sure the lady hasn't tasted freedom a bit , very soon she would want to explore !!
Her hoe phase is still coming

OP think this thing well, if you want to get married asap , find a woman that's ready !!!!

You can't take a girl's word seriously !!!
They keep saying different things.


My advice, tell her you can't promise to wait till she's 22, but for now let's see how things are going

Keep your options open
That girl never see anything, once her eye tear you may not even like her person again



OP na your life o, put yourself first !!.
Lead a woman, she can't lead you o

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

Your popular actress Omotola Jalade got married at what age?

See judgement every where
Omo chief judge plenty 4 Dix House oo

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram if u sponsor her schooling, na thunder go fire u. WTF MAN

I don't sponsor her schooling o, she has a well to do dad & fam

slickycee:
So you guys are going to wait for 3 years !!!!!!

OP if you feel you can wait till then to marry , that's on you


But it's always better to do what needs to be done As soon as possible.

In the next 3 years you dont know how things would be

She might fall in love with someone else

You might not even have that job again (God forbid )

She may get belle for another man before then,
Like 1 million and one nonsense can happen.


See ehn all these young girls still believe in Hollywood love, and these ladies make decisions based on emotions , so you can't trust a woman's advice especially when it's tied with emotions.

OP na express you dey go o


Change is constant !!!! It's the only thing we are sure of .

I'm sure the lady hasn't tasted freedom a bit , very soon she would want to explore !!
Her hoe phase is still coming

OP think this thing well, if you want to get married asap , find a woman that's ready !!!!

You can't take a girl's word seriously !!!
They keep saying different things.


My advice, tell her you can't promise to wait till she's 22, but for now let's see how things are going

Keep your options open
That girl never see anything, once her eye tear you may not even like her person again



OP na your life o, put yourself first !!.
Lead a woman, she can't lead you o

she's already tasting freedom @ school. She's in 400level.This makes me have confident she knows what she wants

ersonleads:
I don't sponsor her schooling o, she has a well to do dad & fam

Holly Gram better 4 u bcus I don see many guys wey de sponsor girls 4 school, thinking sey Dem go marry d girl after her studies but my broda man, d story no de end well. e get one wey sponsor girl finish reach NYSC d girl come tell am sey em no go fit marry am, sey she don see anoda guy and make d guy calculate how much wey em don spend so dat em new guy go pay.. I swear down. naso dis man travel. in d next 2week dat girl run mad. her own madness was kind of different bcus she no enter market, her brain no just correct again. and boys 4 my street come de Nack her up n down.. I was sitting down rolling my WEED wen some group of bois carried her to go and Nack her. she was just useless. WTF MAN