Blaze14k:
I have been dating this girl for about two years now and our relationship was leaning towards marriage until we broke up. The reason we broke up was because she always go through everything on my phone including my bank transaction, who i called, the pictures i deleted on my phone, and who i blocked on whatsapp and facebook.

She literally goes through everything until i got fed up.. not only that shes also disturbing me about getting married to her all the time.

And i broke up with her because of something that is meaningless. We both moved on and I met this girl online and told her I dont want to date buh we can be friends. So after about 2 months my friends ex called me and said she cry almost everyday that she wants to speak to me. So she apologized for everything that happened and i just had to no choice than to take her back.

The twist here is that i told this new friend about my ex and she noticed a few good things about me. So she started having a crush on me that she wants to pay me a visit. Just this night she sent me a picture of her wearing some skimpy cloth and that definitely put my guards down and im really tempted to invite her.

Guys am back with my ex and this is really tempting what do i do. Please i need a mature advice cos this new girl might grow more feelings for me if i invite her. I'm thinking of paying her a visit instead of inviting her.

Matured guys please

Oluromantic:
1. Consider both as friends for a while. Anyone who's not patient enough to be a friend should leave. She's not yours. Don't be surprised, both of them may leave.

2. By friends I mean don't commit yourself to marriage with either of them. Not that if they give you sex you shouldn't take.

3. Don't complain about pictures with skimpy clothes. In fact if they can send you nudes, allow them. That's one way to know who is who.

4. While you're rocking your friendship with them, you'll know the character of the new girl and find out if the old girl has changed and find out thier past.

5. Give your rules, anyone who complies despite it's inconvenience is closer to your goal

6. If you choose the first girl, warn her sternly to desist from going through your privacy on your phone and every other things you don't like.

7. After making your choice, the other maybe your sidechick if you wish.

8. Don't ever tell a girl you quit. Thier brain is too tiny to fathom that. Just be forming busy till you meet again

Blaze14k:
I have been dating this girl for about two years now and our relationship was leaning towards marriage until we broke up. The reason we broke up was because she always go through everything on my phone including my bank transaction, who i called, the pictures i deleted on my phone, and who i blocked on whatsapp and facebook.

She literally goes through everything until i got fed up.. not only that shes also disturbing me about getting married to her all the time.

And i broke up with her because of something that is meaningless. We both moved on and I met this girl online and told her I dont want to date buh we can be friends. So after about 2 months my friends ex called me and said she cry almost everyday that she wants to speak to me. So she apologized for everything that happened and i just had to no choice than to take her back.

The twist here is that i told this new friend about my ex and she noticed a few good things about me. So she started having a crush on me that she wants to pay me a visit. Just this night she sent me a picture of her wearing some skimpy cloth and that definitely put my guards down and im really tempted to invite her.

Guys am back with my ex and this is really tempting what do i do. Please i need a mature advice cos this new girl might grow more feelings for me if i invite her. I'm thinking of paying her a visit instead of inviting her.

Matured guys please

Blaze14k:


I understand what u said buh she also bought me two designer top and shes working very hard to make sure everything goes well. I am very cautious with her at the moment

Sonnobax15:

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No matter what, don't ever accept an ex who left you for no just cause back.....An ex ought to remain in the X-axis.........Op,it's like you're too emotionally soft and that ex of yours definitely knows your soft spot...Hence,she knows how to melt you down .

Las las,how guyman wor take share him feelings between two bannies now?

Klchnjoku:


So out of the over 3 billion women in the world, you had no choice but to take back an unruly one.

All these weak men are the reason why women misbehave especially in this generations.

The men of this generation have grown to become the weakest of all generations.

And by the way....

Some things are happening on Nairaland lately but most guys are not sensitive or observant enough to notice it.

All these accounts advicing men to get entangled with damaged women are actually accounts created by women parading as men just to convince and manipulate men to get involved with these useless women.

Guys let's stay woke, all these damaged women will stop at nothing to feed their shît to unsuspecting men.

The writing is clearly on the wall, the rate at which several account are popping up on nairaland and advocating for damaged women is alarming.

Guyman02:
Plan on how to make more money in 2022 and stop disturbing us

Dybala11:

Your life, your choice, your decision. I won't tell you who to go for between the two of them, but hope you thrashed out the bone of contention between you and your ex before you accepted her back hence your affliction will rise even more stronger the second time.
Also, that talk by the friend of your ex that she's always crying is a big lie, na planned work and lie, unfortunately for you it worked. After her waka upandan across all the nooks and crannies of her environment she now remembered that she had one SIMPle man somewhere about 2 months ago. God help you o, hence na another episode of hot premium lamentations await you.
You know what you want, you'll be the one to bear the consequences of your actions, so whatever option you decide to go for, all the best fun e.

Bola146:
wahala invite her to visit you or what do you expect people to tell you orishirishi . Just don't come here explaining one mumu pregnancy mistake or you cheated, combine the two together and enjoy your life pele, you need to get more sense and more matured before you get married seriously

Guys am back with my ex

Kyase:


I don learn one bad thing i go carry enter 2022
beebeeóoh come see our master

BeeBeeOoh:


This master na end time master I swear. He's not justtt mean and wicked, he's also a time waster

Kyase:
I think say promising someone daughter Onitsha bridge worse I no know say somebody worst pass us
chai

Oluromantic:
1. Consider both as friends for a while. Anyone who's not patient enough to be a friend should leave. She's not yours. Don't be surprised, both of them may leave.

2. By friends I mean don't commit yourself to marriage with either of them. Not that if they give you sex you shouldn't take.

3. Don't complain about pictures with skimpy clothes. In fact if they can send you nudes, allow them. That's one way to know who is who.

4. While you're rocking your friendship with them, you'll know the character of the new girl and find out if the old girl has changed and find out thier past.

5. Give your rules, anyone who complies despite it's inconvenience is closer to your goal

6. If you choose the first girl, warn her sternly to desist from going through your privacy on your phone and every other things you don't like.

7. After making your choice, the other maybe your sidechick if you wish.

8. Don't ever tell a girl you quit. Thier brain is too tiny to fathom that. Just be forming busy till you meet again

BeeBeeOoh:


Baba, I taya o. Make we just collect our "L" in peace and come and be going

Kyase:
lol
ehen
wetin happen yesterday for king power

Blaze14k:


I love this write up.. from what u said it really reflect to what i have in mind. I do believe my girl is only pretending until i tie the knot. I just want to give her a couple of months and see how she can handle it. I wont take those crazy attitude i get from her anymore and i dont want to put my eggs in one basket this time around.

Blaze14k:


I love this write up.. from what u said it really reflect to what i have in mind. I do believe my girl is only pretending until i tie the knot. I just want to give her a couple of months and see how she can handle it. I wont take those crazy attitude i get from her anymore and i dont want to put my eggs in one basket this time around.

MsCassano:



All you men, I hope when your girls also decides not to put their eggs in one basket, you would not condemn them for that?

BeeBeeOoh:


I don't understand English anymore, I understand fulfulde better