house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

This and beign promiscuous are two of my biggest red flags. I will run as far as I can. Non negotiable even if she is Nicki Minaj.

Maryjane001:
Most men I know don't mind when a good woman says this. They know that for sure, she doesn't mean it.
Some men won't even want their women to spend her money on them or even feel uncomfortable when women do so but would prefer themselves doing so as they see it as their primary responsibility.

A good person should say what they mean and mean what they say

FervorEsp:


Bro stqay away from her if u intend to marry her, if you like her go ahead and be with her. Then hide your finance from her if you get 10naira tell her its 3naira. Open acct with a bank do not take atm or activate sms notification maybe email you can always logout the email whenever you sign in. If you have money crises fall back and tell her you guys should borrow, then you borrow from that account. Then every month you pay it back into that acct.Never agree to open joint acct with her, my friend took is wife to a another country she has this character and it was a problem

It is not advisable to be playing hide and seek in marriage. If her mentality is a barrier to openness then it is best to not marry her

Daroldigits:
My wife used this statement for me but she didnt means it.

She meant it you just didn't see it..she will probably give you one naira and collect a thousand naira or borrow money to collect 10 times in return. It's business to her.

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

All women use this Policy ! Nothing new

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

That's a selfish and leech mentality.

I tell the marriage won't work because she is not to decide that

chatinent:
Response should be: ara gbwakwa gi.

Lol..

Run for ur life

Na those feminist dey brain wash them with those lines.

3verblazing:
My wife says that alot, even before marriage. She is the most supportive wife ever. I married her bc I could see through her, she didn't mean it. Can you see through her?

3verblazing:
My wife says that alot, even before marriage. She is the most supportive wife ever. I married her bc I could see through her, she didn't mean it. Can you see through her?

keep deceiving yourself, she's killing you and you are claiming to possess the ability to see through your wife.

my money is my money, that it is to say it is the man that will provide while her own money is for her alone lol

Do not marry a stingy woman.

That is a recipe for marital failure.

Though a lot of women say this, but not all of them mean it.

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

. Woman dey entitled be say because one mumu man dey take rubbish from her. For me, once you show signs of nonsense, I throw you overboard. I don't give space for rubbish.

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

Just run for your life abeg. That is the definition of immaturity and selfishness.

Aguilar:
keep deceiving yourself, she's killing you and you are claiming to possess the ability to see through your wife.

point is recognizing when someone says a thing as a joke. Or says it with all seriousness. Actions and reactions towards the things said also Metter a lot. Not sure how else to explain it... If you don't Gerrit...

newoffer:
Na those feminist dey brain wash them with those lines.

it's a totally wrong mentality. No marriage can truely work with such mentality

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
if your skin can resist bullets doesn't mean other skins can. It's deadly when a woman have such mentality

I gave the OP an advice. Judging a person goes beyond what comes out of the mouth. Pple say a thing but act differently. I'd prefer a person that talks bad but acts good than a person that talks good and act bad. if I must pick. Op needs to know if she stands by what she has said or she's just talking bc she never see life

Divoc19:
That's an indirect way of telling a man that he should not rely on her money.
Men as head of the family are supposed to be natural providers

Translated: a man should be a woman's slave for life..... the era of that is over.

Orgasmgiver123:
I’ll just kill her and feed her grilled carcass to my vultures


One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

Toxic masculinity of the evil violent toxic male gender on full display again. You are a barbaric savage

Solofresh2:
And the women?
Natural receivers?

No mind am.... I hate when they say that....

kingsceemark:


She still dey observe you from afar, by the time she starts dealing with you, na here you go still report her matter

Time will tell. No one really knows tomorrow. Even the good can turn bad. But if you really understood my post you'll see that I painted a different picture far from what you are seeing

Destiblack:




Bros because he work for you nor mean say he go work for am.

Just know this today, what you say is who you are.



Bleep whatever you think about me, always remember there is no competition in destiny.

isn't that how life is for everyone?. What works for Mr A may not work for Mr B. That shouldn't stop us from sharing our experience.

Well incase you missed it: The summary of what I said up there with my first post is that. The OP should observe his woman well. Before taking a decision.

Wuminity:


Yes o, your money is our money, and my money is my money.

Most women's mentality, of which I'm inclusive.

Don't let it affect you, cos eventually you will benefit from that her money without taking permission from her, as in 90% of that her money.

Just make joke out of it whenever she says it, don't argue.
Honestly that her money also belong to you indirectly.



1 bottle of Hennessy for you man.

1 bottle of champagne for ya.

A woman who has gone to school and gotten a degree which allows her to work and also dated/had boyfriends before getting married, has lost her right to husband provision.... if d man is still providing its just mercy and he has no obligation to so.

As soon as a woman goes to school earns a degree and has her fun with various guys, this automatically triggers Article 5 - which is: "my money is my money while your money is your money"....

No one eats their cake and has it back.....

Wuminity:


Yes o, your money is our money, and my money is my money.

Most women's mentality, of which I'm inclusive.

Don't let it affect you, cos eventually you will benefit from that her money without taking permission from her, as in 90% of that her money.

Just make joke out of it whenever she says it, don't argue.
Honestly that her money also belong to you indirectly.



1 bottle of Hennessy for you man.



1 bottle of champagne for ya.

some women mean it and live by that code 100%
I have seen woman that are making money yet they will waito buy soap

worst still is, if your money is your money, at least spend small for the kids, ehhhh fia! they won't even spend on their kids but you will see her buying expensive party wear.

Eagba:
some women mean it and live by that code 100%
I have seen woman that are making money yet they will for the husband to come to buy soap

worst still is, if your money is your money, at least spend small for the kids, ehhhh fia! they won't even spend on their kids but you will see her buying expensive party wear.

Wuminity:


Yes o, your money is our money, and my money is my money.

Most women's mentality, of which I'm inclusive.

Don't let it affect you, cos eventually you will benefit from that her money without taking permission from her, as in 90% of that her money.

Just make joke out of it whenever she says it, don't argue.
Honestly that her money also belong to you indirectly.



1 bottle of Hennessy for you man.



1 bottle of champagne for ya.

some women mean it and live by that code 100%
I have seen woman that are making money yet they will wait for their husband to come before buying soap.

worst still is, if your money is your money, at least spend small for the kids, ehhhh fia! they won't even spend on their kids but you will see her buying expensive party wears.

czarr:
Tell her this " your vagina is our vagina, my dick is my dick" in other words you can use your dick on who ever you want to, just as she can use her money on whatever she wants.

Comrade, one bottle of Heineken for you.

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

Already married but a woman cant say that to me

I will back off immediately

My Madam had no such mindset
She brought a bit of her own
She made some good sacrifices

I can never marry a woman with such mindset never

Because I don't know how to live with such a woman
She no go see shi shi from me
Lai Lai

Men make sure you marry someone that brings something to the martial table

But even if she doesn't have anything
At least let her have an appreciative mindset
That appreciates your sacrifices

But if not
Never marry such one with that kind of mindset

You will regret it

house10s2:
How Do You Respond To These!!! From A Woman You Intend Marrying?

When she says

Your money is our money
my money is my money.


What is your response?

She should marry her money. If she still want the relationship to go all the way. She must be prepare to SUBMIT all.....Her money inclusive

czarr:
Tell her this " your vagina is our vagina, my dick is my dick" in other words you can use your dick on who ever you want to, just as she can use her money on whatever she wants.

this won't settle the score but only make her cry bitterly and dislike the man

3verblazing:
point is recognizing when someone says a thing as a joke. Or says it with all seriousness. Actions and reactions towards the things said also Metter a lot. Not sure how else to explain it... If you don't Gerrit...

i don't need to gerrit. I hate what i don't understand.

Divoc19:
That's an indirect way of telling a man that he should not rely on her money.
Men as head of the family are supposed to be natural providers

in life, there are some woman they are Destiny to richer than their husband, so you expect such woman to keep disturbing their husband for money again?

Haywhymido:
this won't settle the score but only make her cry bitterly and dislike the man

he doesn't have to mean it, he can start by saying "what if I say that......
Just to show her how selfish she sounds