yeah u can be friends with a guy with NO STRINGS ATTACHED but you ve to be careful to achieve that.lol

Yeah u can be friends with a girl/guy,like in my own case i find better friendship with girls rather guys and i've neva thought of dating any.

Watch guyz u move wit if u a gal,cuz 85% of guyz wants sumtin frm d opp sex,remeba d yoruba lang dat says ''ore kini aja n b'ekun se''wat friend do dog&lion make.

I say no. You can never be friends with a guy without strings attached. My closest boy friend just told me recently that he wants us to take our friendship on a 'lil test drive'- more than being friends. It's always the guys that can never be just friends. You should at least be happy they come clean with it instead of having fantasies about having sex with you. No matter how old they get. Nothing like just friends in male genders' lives unless he is a pastor.

Yes they can be friends why not as long there is no hidden agenda. i have friends that are girls and there is nothing in it. But you have to be very careful and watchful.

hey my best friend is a guy and he's d best thing dat has eva happened 2 me

mekoyo:

Yes they can be friends why not as long there is no hidden agenda. i have friends that are girls and there is nothing in it. But you have to be very careful and watchful.

this guy must be a pastor

now lets get things straight here, having female and male friends onthe platonic level is normal but about ur best friend or a very close friend?
my best friend a girl wants to take it to another level(i dont mean sex), but i dont(makes 4vaglowing wrong). for some one of the opposite sex to be ur best friend, both of you's heart cant always be clean, trust me on this. if any gurl denies this she's lying.

there's always one person with another agenda on their mind. all that "there's nothing in it" is just bull. either one of you is butt ugly, gay or just umph! 

For the most part, it is difficult to have the opp sex as a
friend with no strings attached.

But it is possible. What if a guy is not attracted to a lady at all
but the lady is very very smart. The guy can be friends with the
lady so that she can teach him math (for instance) and have
his own girlfriend.

So it is possible, especially if you are not attracted to the opp
sex.

Yea u can b friends & still have sex

GNature:

But it is possible. What if a guy is not attracted to a lady at all
but the lady is very very smart. The guy can be friends with the
lady so that she can teach him math (for instance) and have
his own girlfriend.

Yeah, like math in the bedroom. It's only a matter oftime b4 the girls starts daydreaming about being married to u, or the guy starts a-diving for the booty. It doesnt work believe me.

soulpatrol:

there's always one person with another agenda on their mind. all that "there's nothing in it" is just bull. either one of you is butt ugly, gay or just umph!

I second that opinion. Butt-ugly, gay or just . . .

jaybaby:

Yea u can b friends & still have sex

I like ur style o jare. Friends with benefit. At least they wont be fooling themselves that "ah, nothing dey"

yes it is possible.i do av some couple of female friends.to b sincere 4 some of them,i wanted to get to them thru friendship but we ended up bin good friends dat if i tried taking it to anoda level wat we shared will b ruined so i didnt bother.i wont lie to u all my longest relationship has bin wit 1 of my good friends,we crossed the line b4 we knew it.like some1 said ere it depends on individual true intention

well as a tom boy,it's very possible.i will love to fall in love that way but it,s not possible.

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sure, i have loads of male friends no strings attached

that's because you dont know what thots they might have going on in their minds

I used to think girls and guys can be ''just friends'' but in my case it did not work, so I am doubting that notion.

4 real its impossibe wit sum

but yet


possible wit some

"free" plssssss speak for yourself. i have long time male friends.There is nothing impossible about  having a long time male friend.

that vone no be wahala, girls are my majority friends, but vstill i play my own game d way i want it to be

Gurl, u are so right, I find it hard to get along with guys too and yes i'm layed back and also a tomboy, like wer are just d same, my friends try to take it to d next level, its hard for me to make friends cos they might end up liking me more than a friend

well, I try to fight it, it will work but it takes time

@felia
i said is possible wit some and not possible wit sum


well lately
is really been impossible for me to hv guy friends
cuz dey dnt want friendship

this friends thing gets me in a twist coz my bf tries to tell me how his female friends are jus friends, hes a suck for female attention, loves to flirt hence his female friend network has 80% of the time fallen into two categories
1. girls that he thinks are hot, he knows i he cant have them but he wants them around for back up.
2. girls that fancy him n he's loving the attention

I gave him a taster of his own medicine by making friends with guys that i blatanlty know want to get into my pants and hes now angry, ?

Free:

@felia
i said is possible wit some and not possible wit sum


well lately
is really been impossible for me to hv guy friends
because dey dnt want friendship

really, i never knew.

YES,DEPENDING ON YOUR INTENTION FOR THE FRIENSHIP.I HAVE MADE FRIENDS OF FOUR,FIVE,SIX YEARS WITH OPPOSITE SEX WITHOUT HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH THEM AND I AN LOOKING FOR MORE FRIENDS.

hell to the no!

yeah i think both sex can be friends but they both need to know where they stand with each other.

why not i have enough opposite sex and there is nothing like thrash,u may fall in luv along d line with 1 of dis frend of urs but u must know how 2sort dis out.

just friends? abomination, tufiepa

yes it is possible, depend how u guys handle issues

of course it's possible!!! and of course, that's if it's done with caution!!!! I've heard experiences that involved temptations of wanting to take the friendships with my guys friends to another level, but i overcame.VICE VERSA with me as well ; well, my situation is all just part of growing up,17yrs,u know, so its' all kool! So, YES, it's doable!!