kandiikane:

@Babe, do you play hard to get? My shoes? I am moving from hertfordshire oo. .

kandiikane:

Loool, don't make me insult you ooo. .


Yeah, will still be in the UK but moving North West for Uni. .Law with Criminology. .

Excited!!Cannot wait for the essays, I missed them. .

You nor serious. .I know I will not see those shoes. .

You have not answered my question, sef.

merge:

What ever you say about me does not matter. I have my belief. Nothing can change that. Criticize me all you want I will remain the same. Its not going to change a DAMN thing.

merge:

I have never rejected any guy like an animal. I'm fairly nice about it. I don't know where you got that from. I have never supported such behavior.  Seriously, I'm not easily impressed by anybody. Plus I don't like cocky/arrogant guys. I'm not like  the women you meet that jump on a guy because of his money or whatever.  

BABE!:

Nice-- That's Neat!

You'll get your shoes. No jokes.

Do I play hard to get?  Yh, sometimes. 97% of that time, I don't like the guy, so you can't really call it playing hard to get--I just don't like him.

premechaz:


I dont see you making it through Uni. You will probably get pregnant midway and fail out.

BABE!:

Kandi

Nice-- That's Neat!

You'll get your shoes. When the lord provides resources, you'll get them.

Do I play hard to get?  Yh, sometimes. 97% of that time, I don't like the guy, so you can't really call it playing hard to get--I just don't like him.

BABE!:

Kandi, that premechaz dude is Fstranger, so insult him all you want.  

Princek12:

You lads are confusing rejection with playing hard to get. Playing hard to get means you like the guy but are still forming as if you don't like him, sometimes to the extent of being impolite to him. Rejection on the other hand means you do not like the guy, have no intent whatsoever to engage him, and you respectfully and maturely decline his advances.

No be the same thing?. Rejection o, playing hard to get o, Na the same thing na. The guy is chasing you, and it's hard for him to get you = Playing hard to get.

Yh, I get you.  

coogar:

we don't want you to change. . . .remaining this way forever would please us.

you dislike nigerian men and you are on a nigerian forum? what is it with you that is distorted?
maybe you need a psychiatric hospital to sort out your dementia.
you are probably one of those akata babes who has aged beyond marriageable age and you are looking for an avenue to pour out your frustrations.

i have met several girls like you in the states. one-tracked mind, mostly virgins, spent more years in school than in the outside world looking for the cure of hiv virus, kept themselves holy for mr right until they realized their market is now obsolete and so on and forth.

the bad news is. . . . .nigerian males don't care about your standards. . . . .nigeria is the most populous black nation in the world.
there are bazillions of better women like you in nigeria. . . . . .we have seen it all, so stiffen your middle finger and sit on it.

BABE!:

Prince

Actually, your explaination/terminologies are applicable to a female's point of view.

As a guy, Rejection is the same as Playing hard to get. Coz, at the end of the day, the guy is thinking "This chick, doesn't like me, so she's rejecting me".

The guy wouldn't know that he likes her if she's forming.

merge:



All you can do is judge me. I don't care to be the nigerian standards. I will not marry 100 men. Only one. I can only be me and that is enough. Most Nigerian men want women that shout  out Jesus and wear weaves. I don't do any of that. If I voice my opinion that means I'm older than 30. Funny logic.

Princek12:

Merge, I am not trying to judge you, but I think I know what your problem is. You have Nigerian parents who are either from the village or are illiterates, and you have never been exposed to a variety of Nigerian people. Your parents were fortunate to get an American visa or won a lottery and stayed in America. You grow up in an environment where you suffered from identity crisis, not knowing whether to embrace your parents village or illiterate way of life or your American way of life. Your parents did not acculture you properly to Nigerian customs and practices; and if they did, it was to the village or archaic way of life. You now fear that the average Nigerian man will be like your village father. You have probably never been to Nigeria before; and even if you have, your parents took you straight to the village, where you were exposed only to palmwine tappers. You now know think you are on some mysterious higher level than Nigerian men because you were raised in Yankee. I have seen many girls like you. Eya? Pele. Sorry sorry oooooo

Princek12:

Yea, but a guy knows the girl is playing hard to get if the girl ignores after she acts as if she is not interested, then the same girl who had acted as if she is not interested now thereafter tries to link up with guy.

Princek12:

Therein lies the question: why all the forming and attitude in the first place when she is genuinely interested?

merge:


All you can do is judge me. I don't care to be the nigerian standards. I will not marry 100 men. Only one. I can only be me and that is enough. Most Nigerian men want women that shout  out Jesus and wear weaves. I don't do any of that. If I voice my opinion that means I'm older than 30. Funny logic.

coogar:

you can only marry one man?
and this man would be from where? nigeria?

if you meet any nigerian male that is ready to put up with this baggage of yours, be wary and flee from him.
he only needs you for the green card. no nigerian man would tolerate 1/100th of the crap you keep spewing.

merge:

There a time and place for everything. This is a forum.  A time for debate and discussion. Not a marriage sermon/courtship. How dumb do you really think I'm? lol Some women know how to play the game remember that.

coogar:

thanks for proving me right then.
like i stated earlier, it's either you are a wum or you're suffering from identity crisis
probably a bit of both. . . .

i rest my case. . . .

BABE!:

Exactly my point. At some point in time, in a guy's dictionary, those two terms are interchangable.

Some females find joy and happiness in making guys look desperate.

There are classier and more subtle ways to form, besides insulting and being impolite. Not everyone is classy, so you should understand.

BABE!:

Exactly my point. At some point in time, in a guy's dictionary, those two terms are interchangable.

Princek12:

Yea, but a guy knows the girl is playing hard to get if the girl ignores after she acts as if she is not interested, then the same girl who had acted as if she is not interested now thereafter tries to link up with guy.  

BABE!:

At some point in time,  A.K.A  Prior to the guy knowing whether she's "playing hard to get" or rejecting.

You even made the point yourself:
He knows which term to use on the girl, only after she tries "to link up with him".

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Quote from: okooyinbo on Today at 00:49:07 Babe!, iyawo mi kii se dudu o. Bi oruko ti mo nje lori Nairaland ti wi, bee gele lo se ri. Oruko nro mi daadaa.

you live in the projects?