claremont:

But is there any evidence that "playing hard to get" will make a guy value a girl more? I strongly doubt there is. Most Nigerian women engage in a thought process that is totally beyond the ability of a rational human being to understand; what prevents a girl who fancies a guy from making the first move as it's widely done in the western world?

Pls could someone/anyone define "cheap" in this context?

BABE!:

Pls could someone/anyone define "cheap" in this context?

BABE!:

^^ Sup. Not in NY.

premechaz:

Just wanna tell you you look really beautiful. Still coming to NY?

Beautiful? Where? When? How? Who?

Still? Did we have a convo. prior to now, about me coming to NY?

This is Fstranger right? Quit messing with my head jo.

so you're saying Nigerian men in the UK are cheap?  
they sleep with women for money and items?

NRI PRIEST:

All these chics here playing ajebo sef. If you meet them in person and you are well to do they will encroach you faster than Bolt can finish 100 meters, They are all weak just like most guys are, nothing like playing hard to get.

BABE!:

Quick question: Are you well to do? #Justasking.

premechaz:

I am well to do. I drive a BMW, spend 10000 dolls on escort. What else do you need Babe?

premechaz:

And i know G4 pilots on a first name basis.

LOL-- Freaking Fstranger! Not coming to NY anymore, due to some "technical difficulties".

All these chics here playing ajebo sef. If you meet them in person and you are well to do they will encroach you faster than Bolt can finish 100 meters, They are all weak just like most guys are, nothing like playing hard to get.

toyemz:

@jenifa_

No point of correction
i am not generalizing and saying all
but boy there is a pretty large percentage that do this
don't be deceived ,if they say guys in Nigeria are bad
wait till you jam some UK guys
latest trendor is it oldest?)
'asking the girl to buy stuff for them on credit,then refusing to pay and when katakata come burst,watch as they begin run mouth'
and we have guys saying Nigerian ladies are cheap
na so

toyemz:


If you wake up daily and repeat this to yourself
and believing it rocks your boat
who am i to burst your bubble

na to shock quench be that?

Lwkmd!!! Gal you are funny,they can be proper actors when asking you to buy stuff for them on your CC,even swearing by grandma's name they will pay you back before you ask, This is what the recession has turned UK guys into

toyemz:

@Freesia

Na today! these guys have given cheapness to another level oh
shei na shoes and blackberry guys dey complain of
UK guys (those who do men-runz)  na TV and cars etc ah yes with phone bill,rent and school fees!
come see promise and lie and cry
you want see fake cry? land UK
after that, to pay back na waya then insults go flow
on top all this na them de do yanga pass

Jenifa_:

Just put yourself in the shoes of the girl and try to think about it and you will realize that it is very rational.
In the western world, many women date just to date or have fun. in that sense, they will date any guy that catch their fancy.
for Nigerian women, they date in order to eventually get married. not to be used for a ride. consequently, the criteria is different.

next!

Tjluv:

Today,Nigeria women are cheap like pure water.
Tomorrow,Nigeria women play hard to get. The ideal question should be, why are Nigeria men confused?

Princek12:

so do you mean playing hard to get will Nigerian women get married? how come they are all in churches at age 33 and up praying for a husband after playing hard to get?

bottom line is you have to date multiple people before you eventually find the right fit for you. dating is a trial and error situation.

Jenifa_:


have you ever seen a naija woman playing hard to get for a rich or successful man?
besides if you are taking about the UK or US most of those women are single at 33 are that way for a reason. If you look at their black american and carribean counterparts you will notice that most are unmarried as well. only difference is that they are more likely to be baby mamas while nigerian women are less likely to be baby mamas.

just speaking from my own perspective as a female and some of the guys I meet.
I personally WILL NOT play hard to get for a financially stable, disciplined and responsible guy who looks like a marriage material. but such guys are so rare.
most of the guys out there are irresponsible and just looking for a ride. and i'll really rather be a professionally successful single at 33 than be a baby mama for a useless fool.

trust me, if u are professionally ok, with a good head on your shoulders, you will have absolutely no problem with most naija women.  just that such guys are rare nowadays.
does that answer your question?