Lax75:

Hmm, it's ok. I guess time will tell then. Let the poster go on her trip and then come give some feedback. I don't get this whole having a boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife w/out meeting the individual though. Why do people take this BIG risk?

coogar:

the op is satisfied to make the trip.
you should encourage her and wish her good luck - don't discourage.

Lax75:

Hmm, it's ok. I guess time will tell then. Let the poster go on her trip and then come give some feedback. I don't get this whole having a boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife w/out meeting the individual though. Why do people take this BIG risk?

Mrs.Chima:

Go to an amusement park.  Get all the thrills you need.  

Lax75:

If you asked me, I'll tell you that anyone who has already claimed boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife status WITHOUT meeting the individual, is a glutton for punishment. My humble opinion ooo.

coogar:

like you didn't have to cross the atlantic to meet your spouse. . . . .

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Lax75:

If you asked me, I'll tell you that anyone who has already claimed boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife status WITHOUT meeting the individual, is a glutton for punishment. My humble opinion ooo.

Mrs.Chima:

You must got me confused with another Akata.  I would NEVER EVER meet any man online let along go see someone in another country nor continent I haven't met.  That's your lifestyle.  Don't get twisted.  

I don't do illegals.  No offense OP.  

Mrs.Chima:

Exactly. I think Coogar is the guy she is meeting in Mexico. He sure amped up about it.

coogar:

if it's not your lifestyle, kindly get the feck out of the thread then. you have absolutely nothing to contribute but negative vibes.
off you go. . . .
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Mrs.Chima:

Just make sure you don't violation the girl when she come see you in October.  

coogar:

you are a caveman!
meeting the individual before claiming boyfriend/girlfriend have punished people more than the other way round.
people have been breaking hearts before internet was invented and if more people are not succeeding finding their dream spouses on the net, dating sites would have been put out of business by now.

coogar:

that is not your business.
leave this thread and make sure the door does not hit your vagin[i]a[/i] when you close it.

Lax75:

And NL is full of emotional guys who are full of estrogen. Sorry man, no caveman here. The REAL world is risky enough already for me to now begin calling a chick my girlfriend BEFORE meeting her. Seriously, one is opening up his/her world to a plethora of problems if one does that. I'm not ignoring the success stories, however there is such a thing as reducing one's risks of fatal encounters. The internet is the internet. People are crazy and it is EASIER to impersonate or present yourself "AS IF" and not "AS IS" on the internet than offline.

Mrs.Chima:

Encouraging foolishness is not my thing.  Step up the game. 

Use a condom.  1 minute nut doesn't have to end with a lifetime disease.  

Mrs.Chima:

Make me leave.

coogar:



i don't see how this is your problem either.
if you are happily married, you won't have the time to be trolling.

coogar:



i leave that task to the man that married you.
make you leave? i'll pass.

Mrs.Chima:

Jealous huh?

Mrs.Chima:

I am sorry I didn't know this was your site.  My bad Seun Jr.   

You said something I agree with.  She's old so she doesn't have much time to waste.  

Waste no more and seek the world!  

eddy1977:

The thread has been derailed just like i feared.

coogar:

derailed by a married woman.
the only married woman who trolls 23 hours per day.
one has to wonder whether she's married to a wimp or a 7-foot mannequin

kistehsia:

It would be greatly appreciated if certain people would refrain from insulting me,  I have done nothing to warrant such behavior, only asked for advice on something I am trying hard to do correctly,  so please stop, I am asking nicely! Don't make a mockery out of my situation.


kistehsia

claremont:

@OP: You may receive some negative stories about Nigerian men from some wicked posters on here, but just ignore those ones. Nigerian men are one of the best in the world in terms of taking care of our ladies.  Don't listen to haters!!!
BTW, you do look cute on your profile picture for a 47 year old lady.

Mrs.Chima:

And derailed by a broke, dusty, chitterling smelling, swollen clit face looking, and SINGLE ho arse sissy

kistehsia:

It would be greatly appreciated if certain people would refrain from insulting me, I have done nothing to warrant such behavior, only asked for advice on something I am trying hard to do correctly, so please stop, I am asking nicely! Don't make a mockery out of my situation.


kistehsia

Mrs.Chima:

When you post threads on NL you will have all kinds of people posting whatnots. You may have some that will tell you what you want to hear and some that will not tell you what you want to hear.

You did bring your THREAD online to a faceless forum. Deal with it.

coogar:

why are you appealing to her? she's always like that.
she's the wisest woman on the planet. she's never made a mistake all her life. her nigerian husband swam the whole atlantic ocean to meet her on their first date. she has every man she's met in her palms and she controls them. such is her prowess!

coogar:

is that your husband?
i can see the compatibility!!!