Jashub:
That's your opinion. But it doesn't change the fact that he's an adult and should be living on his own . If you like staying your father's house at 90, then that's your own prerogative.

That's your own opinion but it's very wrong and misleading. Stop misleading young men.

He's an adult and can choose to stay wherever he wishes, even if it is at his parent's.

There is nothing wrong with staying at your parent's at 90.

Buddha3:


Just spent the last 4 minutes sifting through your profile and comments on previous threads.

You, my friend, are a "handful"!

😂😂 Handful good or handful bad?

Your sister needs therapy and you can provide it. Firstly, what was her growing up like, was your parents the type that fight in front of their kids? Was she surrounded with hostility? Was she a guttersnipe (Street kid)?. She yearns for love. If you have the enormous time and material (Money) to spend on a DIY therapy session, start by taking your sister out every week, lavish her with gifts and take her shopping, remind her always that you and the entire family loves her and nobody hates her. Be friends with her, show her only love, flood her head with love and care. Make her know that she is loved and no one Hates her. Keep doing this therapy for 6 to 7 months consistently and observe changes. Be patient with her when she engulfs, calm her down, be her soothing balm. With all your sacrifices, she will change. How her husband treated her could also be a contributing factor. When she starts to change for better, get her a bisiness to do and rent a comfortable apartment for her and her kids. She will definitely be a better person. Ultimately, sustain the progress with prayers. She is just lacking love and care and the economic pressure and expectations on adulthood is also a contributing factor. If you cannot carry out this therapy session, take her to a professional psychologist and therapist to help her recover from depressive mood.

AmuDimpka:
your parents failed in raising a decent girl...carry yhe cross

You see you can only force the horse to the river but you can't force it to drink water ,
My parents had really tried for this girl but she has decided to be the black ship of the family.

It is clear that the lady has mental health problems. Hospital can help and spiritual house can help too.

90% of Nigeria ladies has mental health issues and this is main problem of the Nigeria society today because they have raised demons in name of children.

Even here in NL, u can see that 99% of the ladies suffer from mental illness

I have one, she is 19 I'm 23, very violent, she actually wanted me dead, 4th times murder attempt.... she is in school, whenever she comes home, I leave house until she go back. I don't want wahala 🤦🏽‍♂️

Check well, hope she is not a bastard.

Ubanz:


Those are red flags for mental ill health.
Your family should take her to a neurotic hospital.
She doesn't know what she's doing.
For now she's acting like someone drunk.

We are just planning to send her away ,I can't watch her destroy my parents happiness never.

SyrusdeHansome:
When the girl was exhibiting that attitude when she was an infant what did ur parent do to discipline nd correct her? Do u think habit is a one day process? It is a gradual repeated processes that take place overtime nd i bliv ur parents played their parts either directly or indirectly to bring out the monster u see now. So just bear with her cos nothing u do will change a grown up woman with a bad attitude. This is why parents shud sit up nd perform their parental responsibilities. Stop breeding evil spirits nd monsters calling them children because this world is already too sick because of bad parenting.

Happy meeting a sane person today

Nia69:
😂😂 Handful good or handful bad?

Lmao

In the context he wrote, nothing gud only bad.

U are not mentally normal so what gud can come out of u and ur colleagues here

nikola:

Two kids from a year old marriage? Break it down.
She is all you guys have got. It's all or nothing. It's a phase, except she has been exhibiting these traits before now.
Try to talk to her, maybe she is depressed or something.
Too many 'maybes'
It is well.

Even when you try to talk her she flares up so easily,
Even when my parents wanted to send her abroad because of her character she declined
(I am so fed up I can't take it anymore)

1Battery:
Ever since we have been growing as kids and now into adults we have known no peace because of my sister, she has been a torn to everyone's flesh we don't know peace because of this lad.

Her marriage couldn't last because of her attitude, can you imagine it lasted for a year the husband can't afford to take her back because of her way world life style she attacks the man with any available weapon around, the man couldn't take it anymore he had to throw her things out of the house.

Since then she has been in our house fighting every one ,the other time she wanted to fight my mom telling her that if time is not taking she will be in the hospital treating her self,
Plus so many other things

Most times I just wish I never had a sister. This lady has caused us so much troubles in life, at every small thing she blows the families secret to everyone's ear and the worst part she is a single mother of two boys.

We are just tired of her on a serious note, I have decided to get her arrested and sent to prison if she continues.

I don't know if this is what having a sister means. in my next life I don't wish to have any
I will commit murder if her nonsense continues.

your parents obviously did a bad job bringing her up so what do you want us to do ? Don't waste money arresting her instead, use the money to pay a self contain or one bedroom flat for your jonsing sister

IgOga:


Try DNA test

On a serious note I have asked if truly she is my sis cause she doesn't act like someone who's from my family,

In my family we are so calm but she is different

Nia69:
😂😂😂 Your opinion doesn't matter and doesn't change anything.

My dear😀if we are to play by your rule... your opinion on the OP story dosent matter.Youre only upset because it paints your gender as bad so dont cry

So what do you want us to do? To come and beat her or drive her out of your fathers house or get married to her? I don’t understand.

She blows your family’s secrets to people at ease. So what exactly are you doing right now? You must be under 25

1Battery:
Ever since we have been growing as kids and now into adults we have known no peace because of my sister, she has been a torn to everyone's flesh we don't know peace because of this lad.

Her marriage couldn't last because of her attitude, can you imagine it lasted for a year the husband can't afford to take her back because of her way world life style she attacks the man with any available weapon around, the man couldn't take it anymore he had to throw her things out of the house.

Since then she has been in our house fighting every one ,the other time she wanted to fight my mom telling her that if time is not taking she will be in the hospital treating her self,
Plus so many other things

Most times I just wish I never had a sister. This lady has caused us so much troubles in life, at every small thing she blows the families secret to everyone's ear and the worst part she is a single mother of two boys.

We are just tired of her on a serious note, I have decided to get her arrested and sent to prison if she continues.

I don't know if this is what having a sister means. in my next life I don't wish to have any
I will commit murder if her nonsense continues.

Tough one.. but there is no other life bro.. YOLO is the anthem so do what you gatto do.

SyrusdeHansome:
When the girl was exhibiting that attitude when she was an infant what did ur parent do to discipline nd correct her? Do u think habit is a one day process? It is a gradual repeated processes that take place overtime nd i bliv ur parents played their parts either directly or indirectly to bring out the monster u see now. So just bear with her cos nothing u do will change a grown up woman with a bad attitude. This is why parents shud sit up nd perform their parental responsibilities. Stop breeding evil spirits nd monsters calling them children because this world is already too sick because of bad parenting.

Though upbringing us vital but as we come to this world each one comes with his/her character. That's why every child in the family has a different and unique way of life. Giving a child the best of home training doesn't guarantee 100% he won't later becomes a bad person.

If you have 5 kids and didn't train them, tomorrow some of them will behave better than those that are well trained.

Some girls are well brought up morally,... They can't even wear trousers or apply make-up at home but when they go back to school, you won't even recognise them.every family has a such child this OP own is even in grade B, not in A which is the worst, some are in C,D,E, etc.

1Battery:
Ever since we have been growing as kids and now into adults we have known no peace because of my sister, she has been a torn to everyone's flesh we don't know peace because of this lad.

Her marriage couldn't last because of her attitude, can you imagine it lasted for a year the husband can't afford to take her back because of her way world life style she attacks the man with any available weapon around, the man couldn't take it anymore he had to throw her things out of the house.

Since then she has been in our house fighting every one ,the other time she wanted to fight my mom telling her that if time is not taking she will be in the hospital treating her self,
Plus so many other things

Most times I just wish I never had a sister. This lady has caused us so much troubles in life, at every small thing she blows the families secret to everyone's ear and the worst part she is a single mother of two boys.

We are just tired of her on a serious note, I have decided to get her arrested and sent to prison if she continues.

I don't know if this is what having a sister means. in my next life I don't wish to have any
I will commit murder if her nonsense continues.

She needs psycho therapy.

JustcallmeFavou:


I know of a guy who has been the black sheep of his family since he was a child. He has caused his family so much heartache that everyone has left him to do as he pleases with his life, except his mum.

If it comes to lying, he has PHD in it. If it comes to selling off family/a close friend valuable he doesn't care how his family/the friend in question would feel. He gets angry and fights at the slightest provocation. He is so lazy, but has the strength to have s*x 5 times a day or more without caring if anyone is around.

He has children with different women. If he asks you for a favour and you decline, if you are not careful he can attack you, or manipulate you.

His family has tried helping him through different deliverance session no way! If he goes and comes back, continue praying, stop your old ways,no way!

But what I observed in his own case is that, his mum couldn't conceive a male child on time. So when he came, they overly spoilt him at his early stage in life. Until some years later when his younger brother came along.

So in your sister's case, it's either she's under some demonic influence such as marine spirit husband. They influence their victims in different ways, or she was overly spoilt while growing up by your parents.

If she's willing to change, and be a better person. There's no situation too powerful for God to handle. Until then, she will continue being the way she is. But most of the time, they are blinded to see that they even have a problem, they just feel others hates them, and they get more angry, and rebellious.

May God help us all!

Even while growing up the have taken her to so many church ,but the keep indicating that she has a strong spiritual husband,do you know how many deliverance the have done to this girl,we are just tired of her.

[quote author=vickydevoka post=120812992]
Having a sister is sweet, having a wayward or stubborn sister is bitter [/quote

I wish I never had one

jasent:


Well,we all have someone like that in OUR family. My elder sis is somebody I don't wish to set my eyes on ever. She is evil to be honest. Her children are doing Yahoo and they have money, could you believe she told her children not to support my mother financially? I'm the only one that takes my parents responsibilities, and sometimes she sends little money despite her and her children being so well to do.. infact,I hate her more than any one else right now.. I JUST TOLD YOU THIS STORY SO YOU UNDERSTAND THAT EVERY FAMILY HAVE SOMEONE LIKE YOUR SIS.

In my next life I don't wish to have some one like her as my blood

Nia69:
😂😂 Handful good or handful bad?

Omoh, handful troublesome... !

If you're my sister, I for don sell you since, use the money buy another car.

By the way, I hope @op u are not my friend ejike from pH and ur sister is not ngozi that attended futo. Anyways, this said ngozi is worse than what u described here.

99.9% of imo state ladies are 100% mad with demonic behaviours

That is why other igbos hardly marry imo ladies because they are the example of demons and evil.

Make una rent house for her far and support her for some business. That kin girl is easy catch for men but no one will marry her cox she is bomb

Bonapart:
a lady is refer to as 'lass' not lad
But take your sister for deliverance

We have done all this things but nothing is working

iLoveYouToo:



No vex na Guzape, Abuja una dey stay?

No

jumper524:
its in every family. There's that one person tbnatn brings trouble. But dont give up on her. Keep helping her, if her family gives up on her, no one would help her.
But yes, don't be emotional.
You can still send her to prison if it needs to. But still care for her.

I can't anymore,do you know what I have done to make her happy, before I go for work I drive her two kids to school, I show her so much love but she doesn't like it.

Aboguede:


Lmao

In the context he wrote, nothing gud only bad.

U are not mentally normal so what gud can come out of u and ur colleagues here

Oh! Isn't that interesting.

Zazaza:
Rent a comfortable apartment for her and her kids and by any/all means make sure she leaves your house.

We are looking into that

aktolly54:
where was she conceive ? Maybe some spirit enter your mom during pregnancy and it affect her attitude.Your mom should keep praying for her, like going to mountain or praying quietly at home .

She might not truly understand what she is doing.

She must be possessed by some kind of spirit

God bless that woman,she has done her best.

Lemos14:


My dear😀if we are to play by your rule... your opinion on the OP story dosent matter.Youre only upset because it paints your gender as bad so dont cry

😂😂Okay love.

Op, u want to send her to prison because she committed what crime exactly?

Nursepepeye:
you can never choose who you related to not even in your next life. If she commit any act of Violence. get her arrested, let her learn lessons

That's my next action