https://www.nairaland.com/7735286/husband-wants-us-relocate-village#123920640


I'm sorry that I have to create this post. From my previous post, some people have adviced me to edit my post to indicate my state of residence Incase of an assistant, but I tried to edit, and I'm not giving the access maybe because it was pushed to front page. That's why I created this.
After much thought and advice, I have decided not to relocate to the village with my husband and it's not a violence situation.

This is not an act of disrespect either, but I want to be strong for my children. The only issue I have now, is how to secure a cheaper accommodation and I'm sure between now and new year, I will work harder to meet up with next rent.
Pls, should you have any way you can be of help, pls Help us.
I'm in Abuja. Thank you
@KOMBE, @valentineuwakwe, @eminikansoso

Make sure u are on the same page with ur husband. He is lord over u. In all u do, add God first. God will continue to help and deliver us all in Jesus name amen.


Shalom!!!

Good

its well

Everything must not be relocate to village

Abuja also have villages and people who suffer also.

You said your budget is 250k a month some families don't see that .

You can cut your budget relocate to iyanya where housing is cheaper and manage yourself till you stand again

ok

Okoro going back home is a death sentence

Wahala no dey ever finish.

Your account here is new, you can't tell me you just knew about nairaland in June this year..

You're prolly one of those uncultured ladies with popular monikers here. Reveal your true self or else some of us won't take your posts serious..

Because when men are talking, you ladies (instead of learning), would be arguing. But it's quick for you to open an alternate account seeking help..

Same goes for those seeking financial assistance, with your old active account, I can take you serious..

Imagine the cheap scammer below ...

Wetin de pursue from your village

Hmm
My mum had the same dilemma when Dad was retired and wanted to relocate and build his plantations in the village.
I'm happy mum stood her ground because of our schooling

U no wan Relocate?
Something is fishy.

That's a very good decision. Don't ever make a mistake of relocating those children to the village otherwise you will regret it. May God answer your prayers amen

AntiMarxist:
Okoro going back home is a death sentence

This was the reason your father locked you outside and told your mom not to bother .

See your life

momsloved:
https://www.nairaland.com/7735286/husband-wants-us-relocate-village#123920640


I'm sorry that I have to create this post. From my previous post, some people have adviced me to edit my post to indicate my state of residence Incase of an assistant, but I tried to edit, and I'm not giving the access maybe because it was pushed to front page. That's why I created this.
After much thought and advice, I have decided not to relocate to the village with my husband and it's not a violence situation.

This is not an act of disrespect either, but I want to be strong for my children. The only issue I have now, is how to secure a cheaper accommodation and I'm sure between now and new year, I will work harder to meet up with next rent.
Pls, should you have any way you can be of help, pls Help us.
I'm in Abuja. Thank you
@KOMBE, @valentineuwakwe, @eminikansoso

Shortup with your blackmail.

Madam, it's best even after the support from people, don't leave your husband. Make sure you have a stronbond with your husband incase he insists on him leaving you guys for the village.. make sure you startup a joint business with both of you having different accounts for the income and making him understand he's nothing without his kids and you

So Torching. The Lord is your strength

onuman:

Shortup with your blackmail.

lol

Waka well

Please don't relocate to the village, you can beg your siblings if you can stay with any of them with your kids until when you have money then you rent a cheaper apartment.

E get as e be if you finally go village at an early age.

✌️

If you really want to stay strong for your children, better relocate with your husband.
Follow him to wherever he is relocating to, unless he is a lazy and an abusive husband, or your village is affected by Simon Ekpa's madness. One good thing about coming from a village, is that when things go south like this, we relocate to our villages to make a better come back. I know many rich families today, who relocated to villages when things went bad for them, and came back stronger than they were.

Any monetary help that you receive here should be channeled to the welfare of your entire family (your husband inclusive).

If you mean well, you would not accept any situation that would separate you from your man. Marriage is supposed to be for better and for worse. That man that you are about to show your true colours now, may come back stronger than you can ever imagine.

This is the right time to prove that you did not marry him for his money

Nice

Madam, I'll strongly advise that you be in same page with ur husband. Try to convince him further, if possible get ppl u know he respects involved

See our just concluded 3bedroom bungalow construction if you're about starting your building project.. Link in my signature. Plus we offer building designs and construction services nationwide

Discourse with your husband. NL shouldn't give you support to break up your family. The children are HIS too. If he believes going to the village is the best for his family, who are you to forcefully object? Appeal to him. If he insists, then go with him and see how things pan out.
There are people living a good life in the village.

RESPECT YOUR HUSBAND'S WISH!!

Salvation2:
Make sure u are on the same page with ur husband. He is lord over u. In all u do, add God first. God will continue to help and deliver us all in Jesus name amen! Shalom!!!

Momsloved, whatever, you do, stay away from people whose minds have all but imploded from the weight of religion like this Salvation2 fellow here. If you go mental hospital for here, na them full the place but at least those ones know and are seeking help unlike the many out there who remain blind to to predicament. Absolutely nothing of what comes from their mouths are from God as they seek only to ensnare their fellow men in the same lies they are caught in.

Marriage is FOR BETTER FOR WORSE

Don't join the I DO.. I DID.. AM DONE group ooo