Magnoliaa:


Won tun gbe tun tun de.

A life without pussy = a life of loneliness and bitterness for men? So men's happiness and fulfilment in life is intricately tied to access to sex?


This is what happens when you swallow agenda buzzwords without no thought and mental filtering of your own. You end up regurgitating rubbish.

Lack of money will not lead to a life of bitterness for men. Poverty will not. Unfulfilment will not, broken relationships will not, childhood trauma will not, a lack of support system and community from family and friends will not. Work pressure will not. Mental illness will not. Social anxiety and low self-esteem will not. It is pussy, of all things, that will lead to a life of loneliness for men.

Can we also go further to hypothesize that the bitter men we see all over NL are the way they are because they're not getting any pussy? It's not as a result of heartbreak or women not being good people. Nope, they're incels because they're simply unattractive to women.

And you say you're the superior gender, when you've unwittingly attributed this much power to the pussy. So much so that a man's life can breakdown and get derailed from not matching sexually with women .

ednut1:
If you start feeding wild animals like lion, hyenas , tiger etc . They will lose their ability to hunt. Nigerian men were the one that spoilt the women with money till they became entitled. If you hammer today you will still use your money to snatch another man babe. Why blaming the women

Nigerian men have also carried that useless culture outside and using money to entice women in other african countries. A female friend from mali/france was doing uber food delivery with her bike in Toronto part time. Guess what Nigerian men she has met are telling her. That a fine babe like her should not be doing such hustle, she should come date them so they can take care of her.

PoliteActivist:


If not psychologcal/spiritual explain why most women intentionally tamp down their own ambition so men can be men

advanceDNA:


because they never had ambition to begin with....most women's ultimate subconscious ambition in life is to get married and have kids( that's why u see many women being depressed and miserable just because they are have no marriage or children.)

....women with real ambition and determination don't let go of .their ambition for anything or any man...

See.....It's easy to settle for contributing pvssy u naturally have when all u have is a 70k job and u have a man earning 700k ready to do it all .....it's an easy call....

How many women working in top position left it to go be a fvcking wife to a man earning 50k

U are just playing the woman's game... u claim u leave what u have which is almost nothing to be with a man that will take all the responsibility.........That's not intentionally tamping down their ambition...that's taking a convinient and easy way out....

Iamzik:


Hahahaha I laughed so hard reading this but my generation is not buying this bobo sha 🤣🤣

A women passed away with millions hidden in various accounts that she was hiding from her husbands in addition to collecting his own money regularly. She didn't build houses, buy cars or open business with her own money. Then I ask myself of what use is continuous accumulation and hiding of money that you will never use?

For me I just think it's a sense of insecurity and insatiable greed. And this is not peculiar to women alone.

Men have their own also. Many men also hide their assets from women just to avoid this sense of entitlement.

Both men and women must do better.

Spoil your man with money and presents, it's not a crime....no police will arrest you. You will only make your man happy.

Spoil your woman with presents and money. It will make her happy and secure.

May God give all of us wisdom 🙏

tollyboy5:

I agree with you but that ego stuff you wrote there na lie . You decided to motivate simp and tagged it will men, well men's ego is all about not relying on their wives money.
They make sure they do their responsibility and not let the wife take over their responsibilities in the house. She can use her money for support and other stuff.

PoliteActivist:


So explain why MOST of us would rather have a rich husband than be rich ourselves.
Same reason MOST men are more turned on by a new woman, or have a need to sleep around when we all know it is same exact hole!

realG101:
Though, I've never been outside nigeria and have no personal information about how relationships are run in the western world. I believe romantic relationships are generally more refined and stress free (for the man) outside nigeria and Africa as a whole.

I don't want to be misunderstood, this is not me trying to hold nigerian relationships to foreign standards as this will be unfair due to cultural differences.

However, certain factors should remain globally constant as far as human relationships are concerned.

We are given to understand that in the usa and other advanced climes, both partners in a relationship are at liberty and usually willing to share financial responsibilities and provision generally is not a fixed responsibilities of the man.

Women abroad are generally open to split financial responsibilities with their men according to their capability and unlike their nigerian counterparts, they are not programmed to expect a man to foot all the bills.

Against this background, I'm of the opinion that it is inappropriate for a woman to make demands for personal items in a relationship.

It is very common and almost a norm in Nigeria for a woman to ask a man to buy her a phone or pay for her hair or even pay her rent.

Don't get me wrong, if you have an emergency as a woman, you can ask your boyfriend for help once in a while. But not to make the boyfriend your source of livelihood and maintenance.

Also, it is expected and perfectly normal for a man to buy his girlfriend a phone (maybe on her birthday), or pay for her hair. But I believe such expenses should be at his own discretion not upon demand by the girlfriend.

It is no classy for a girlfriend to make financial demands when it's not an emergency or a crisis.

But also, a classy boyfriend is expected to gift his girlfriend nice items once in a while to spice the relationship and to bond more.

If a boyfriend doesn't send you gifts occasionally, it is likely he is not comfortable financially or he is stingy. In this cases, the lady is required to engage him in order to discover the reason and decide whether she can cope.

Again, a woman is not mean to make financial demands for her personal needs. It's fine if the demand is for household maintenance when you two get married.

Moreso, it is expected that adults should be able to take care of their own personal needs.

Any person, man or woman, who cannot buy their own personal stuff or whose taste or lifestyle is beyond what they can afford by themselves, run from them. They are problematic people and can never be loyal to you.

In addition, any woman who make habitual financial demands when there's no emergency is either a runs girl or has a serious relationship elsewhere.

I am not oblivious of the fact that there are less privileged women out here who actually need to marry men who are capable of giving them a better life. This is an exceptional situation and I personally see nothing wrong in it as life is dynamic and is about people helping people.

What is unacceptable here is the narrative that women are okay to be entitled to men's money even when the woman has her own money.

It is key to note that unlike some decades ago, especially after the several industrial revolutions the world has witnessed, money making is no longer about muscle or masculinity but about brainpower.

There is no scientific evidence that a random man is smarter than a random woman which means money Making is not particularly easier for the man in today's world.

This is just a call to our ladies to up their game and do better so that we can see better and more successful and less problematic relationships and marriages in the coming generations.

Do you agree with these views?

advanceDNA:


because it's difficult being rich and maintaining being rich.......it's easier to spend someone else's sweat doing nothing that having sex and birthing kids....


Holes are not the same...u don't have a penis, u can never, ever, ever know the experience.
If holes were the same, go ask women why they use alum treatment in their pvssy

OvertheTop:


Unfortunately,
This is the Absolute Truth!!!

This Toasting Line is so terrible!!
I hate fellow men who do this !!!
They really destroyed the Ladies and turned them into Love Sellers!!

The money they use is mostly ill-gotten money, that's why they have the guts to lavish it anyhow...

so sad...because the damage done to this ladies looks irreversible.




THE HARD FACT.

Men who have Gotten Huge Income Sources (Mostly Illegal means) Damaged the Ladies by Commercializing them (using the method you stated Above). They don't Toast women, They just Entice them with money and Promise a Life where she does not need to DO ANYTHING but spend their money to get sex and companionship in return.

Now that a lot of ladies have become Damaged ( sell their love to the highest bidder, become very entitled, looking for a lovely Relationship package of NO WORK while you allocate money to her Monthly )


The NORMAL / AVERAGE Men(mostly salary earners / low-income earners) who have not been able to secure such HUGE (mostly Illegal ) incomes are Now very Frustrated by the Damage the MEN ABOVE have done with their MONEY.

The NORMAL / AVERAGE Men can no longer get genuine love from women,
Every time he approaches her, she asks for a relationship package she can only get from the huge income Men above

so now the NORMAL / AVERAGE Men realize love is now 100% commercial and it is available to only the highest bidder.
he realizes he needs to forget the word Love, and faithfulness and start looking for means to buy the love.


in response, the normal Men Cry out, Laments, about the damage that has been done.
But since nothing is changing some have remained stuck to the path (earning legit with the hope to get better salaries) while some have gone into crime to meet up with the illegal earning high income men.

end of story.

The Damage looks irreversible.

PoliteActivist:


Nope. Satisfying our natural hypergamy is very important. And for MOST of us it is difficult to satisfy it when we are richer than our husbands!

So how do they know what type of hole b4 hand?? The NEWNESS of the hole is the attraction, not the hole itself!! BTW, nothing tightens vagina for any considerable length of time

advanceDNA:


Lol...satisfy your hypergamy indeed ..most of u aren't even ambitious and hard working enough to be richer than most men even the average men....and thats why most of you are parasitic in nature....it's not hypergamy........ and when u have no one to parasitize.... u turn to prostitution or blame men for not giving you money wh n u asked....

look at politics...most of u are no where...all u want is for the government to create automatic seats for women, where u don't have to compete with men

Most of richest women in the world from America to Africa all the way to Australia had their wealth handed over to them.... Very few actually paid the price to attain wealth

advanceDNA:


Lol...satisfy your hypergamy indeed ..most of u aren't

PoliteActivist:


I bet you this is why she resigned

advanceDNA:



She was prime minister from 2017 to 2023
Almost 6 years....so are u saying she's supposed to be prime minister for life...

She has been with clarke since 2013..long before she became prime minister in 2017... How will he now be the reason for resigning.. u just dey cap jaré...

And she was far richer than him...so where is ur so called hypergamy...l

ednut1:
the normal average men are also causing wahala. They go for poorer or younger babes. A corper in a rural area will use his 33k salary to entice babes, a man earning 50k to 60k will target girls in jamb lesson, 100 level students or those learning trade. Creating another cycle of entitlement. His cozy room , second hand flat screen tv and tiger generator is a sweet attraction for them .He will also disvirgin / sleep with most of the young girls around this hood while the other men get no action. The poorest resort to brothel for sex and no love for him. Like you have stated this damage is irreversible

PoliteActivist:


The dynamic is NOT sustainable. Notice he never married her. It was either she stayed a powerful PM or be under her man. Like MOST of us, she sacrificed! If she had done so from the beginning (which would have been the case in Nigeria) you'd assume it's because she was lazy or not ambitious!
She won reelection in a landslide victory with 65%

advanceDNA:


U are attributing unrelated things together and jumping into conclusion.... and that's just fallacy...
Politics is a dirty and strenuous game....she may have been burned out like the reason she gave ..she may have been secretly threatened out of office.... And she may have just have run out of ideas and feel it's time for someone else to come in.....do u know how many pple resigned as UK prime minister??

Saying her resignation is because she wants to be under man is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard about white powerful woman

advanceDNA:


There is nothing spiritual and psychological in running from financial responsibility.... Money is hard to make ...pvssy is easy to contribute

PoliteActivist:


Mention ONE young man from anywhere who resigned after winning reelection by landslide.
Maybe her man was tired and gave her an ultimatum. You know issues come up durring relationships and I can bet you he'd attributed them all to the nonsense PMship. If it were the other way she'd would do everything to make sure he stayed PM because it's what fully satisfied her hypergamous nature and that satusfaction is enough to compensate for any other shortcomings!

advanceDNA:


Fallacy....all u have is fallacy....
U are just jumping into conclusions

Magnoliaa:
^^ Na peenis nor dey easy to contribute for relationship?


And for marriage, definitely. Let us act like biology hasn't given a fair of burden through pregnancy, labour and breast-feeding to the woman already, that a man will never be able to contribute.

Trustedpronet:
If the Man is demanding for sex it is appropriate for her to demand for money.

PoliteActivist:


You were humbly asked to cite ONE instance.
Do you honestly think if this were a young man his fiancé would let him resign? Never!
If he resigns that'd probably be end of the relationship!

realG101:
Though, I've never been outside nigeria and have no personal information about how relationships are run in the western world. I believe romantic relationships are generally more refined and stress free (for the man) outside nigeria and Africa as a whole.

I don't want to be misunderstood, this is not me trying to hold nigerian relationships to foreign standards as this will be unfair due to cultural differences.

However, certain factors should remain globally constant as far as human relationships are concerned.

We are given to understand that in the usa and other advanced climes, both partners in a relationship are at liberty and usually willing to share financial responsibilities and provision generally is not a fixed responsibilities of the man.

Women abroad are generally open to split financial responsibilities with their men according to their capability and unlike their nigerian counterparts, they are not programmed to expect a man to foot all the bills.

Against this background, I'm of the opinion that it is inappropriate for a woman to make demands for personal items in a relationship.

It is very common and almost a norm in Nigeria for a woman to ask a man to buy her a phone or pay for her hair or even pay her rent.

Don't get me wrong, if you have an emergency as a woman, you can ask your boyfriend for help once in a while. But not to make the boyfriend your source of livelihood and maintenance.

Also, it is expected and perfectly normal for a man to buy his girlfriend a phone (maybe on her birthday), or pay for her hair. But I believe such expenses should be at his own discretion not upon demand by the girlfriend.

It is no classy for a girlfriend to make financial demands when it's not an emergency or a crisis.

But also, a classy boyfriend is expected to gift his girlfriend nice items once in a while to spice the relationship and to bond more.

If a boyfriend doesn't send you gifts occasionally, it is likely he is not comfortable financially or he is stingy. In this cases, the lady is required to engage him in order to discover the reason and decide whether she can cope.

Again, a woman is not mean to make financial demands for her personal needs. It's fine if the demand is for household maintenance when you two get married.

Moreso, it is expected that adults should be able to take care of their own personal needs.

Any person, man or woman, who cannot buy their own personal stuff or whose taste or lifestyle is beyond what they can afford by themselves, run from them. They are problematic people and can never be loyal to you.

In addition, any woman who make habitual financial demands when there's no emergency is either a runs girl or has a serious relationship elsewhere.

I am not oblivious of the fact that there are less privileged women out here who actually need to marry men who are capable of giving them a better life. This is an exceptional situation and I personally see nothing wrong in it as life is dynamic and is about people helping people.

What is unacceptable here is the narrative that women are okay to be entitled to men's money even when the woman has her own money.

It is key to note that unlike some decades ago, especially after the several industrial revolutions the world has witnessed, money making is no longer about muscle or masculinity but about brainpower.

There is no scientific evidence that a random man is smarter than a random woman which means money Making is not particularly easier for the man in today's world.

This is just a call to our ladies to up their game and do better so that we can see better and more successful and less problematic relationships and marriages in the coming generations.

Do you agree with these views?

realG101:
We agree, peenis is easy to contribute too, so pvssy and deek should cancel themselves.

You speak of pregnancy and childbirth, which we respect women a lot for.

However, men also pay the ultimate price by laying down their lives at wars to protect the women they leave behind at home. The kind of Valor women will never match

This is just as Important as the childbirth thing.

Magnoliaa:


😂😂😂😂😂😂😂


There are about 200+ countries in the world today, and only less than TEN of them are involved in 'formal war'. In contrast, an average of 250 babies are being delivered per minute, running into hundreds of million in a year, with maternal deaths between 200,000 and 400,000 per annum; women do 65% of all physical housework, putting in about 2 hours daily; toddlers are nursed for roughly 5 hours in a day, give or take their age differences. These are things women do actively, everything. All year round. And we've not even considered corporate work.

The last world war ended in 1945; that gives us about 78 years until now and no other war has been tagged the third.

For a population of 200 million, Nigeria has less than 500,000 soldiers. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Even if we add all the other paramilitary personnel, dem no fit reach 10 million, and that is me being generous. So the rest of us (including millions of men) are civilians and non-combatants.

The last war we fought in this country ended ended in 1970.


So you're SERIOUSLY, like SERIOUSLY comparing labour, pregnancy and child- and home-rearing to war?


Since they've given birth to you, which woman have you gone to lay down your life for? Have you ever been conscripted for occupation?

Who is the woman you are sacrificing your life for in big 2023? I can't believe this not-so-bright comparison you tried to make, LMFAO.

BRATISLAVA:
Lol. Stop it, please.

Wars that being creates daily by men are what he's complaining about laying down his life for. He thinks it's women he is doing that for. But it's for old men.

PoliteActivist:


Now you get it!!
Do you really think most men can make more money than us if not that we codedly want it that way? We instinctively tamp down our own ambition, we sacrifice just so men can be men.. That’s why it is so annoying to us if despite all that we still find ourselves richer than our man!

Magnoliaa:


Alfas really be saying the darndest thing.

The fact that he had to bring his point from a time far back in history where waging wars were the order of the day.

Yep. Young men fight wars on behalf of old men and end up making women the victims of casualty, and meanwhile, women have been giving birth and taking care of children in all ages.

HRprof:

Would Nigeria men accept GENDER EQUALITY
If you want to share bills with woman or don’t expect her to ask you money then accept to be equal with women and have same equal right in very thing that’s what white people you are comparing us practice. Many Nigeria men would say over their dead bodies to accept gender equality. So bro the culture made it to be so not women

OvertheTop:


Unfortunately,
This is the Absolute Truth!!!

This Toasting Line is so terrible!!
I hate fellow men who do this !!!
They really destroyed the Ladies and turned them into Love Sellers!!

The money they use is mostly ill-gotten money, that's why they have the guts to lavish it anyhow...

so sad...because the damage done to this ladies looks irreversible.




THE HARD FACT.

Men who have Gotten Huge Income Sources (Mostly Illegal means) Damaged the Ladies by Commercializing them (using the method you stated Above). They don't Toast women, They just Entice them with money and Promise a Life where she does not need to DO ANYTHING but spend their money to get sex and companionship in return.

Now that a lot of ladies have become Damaged ( sell their love to the highest bidder, become very entitled, looking for a lovely Relationship package of NO WORK while you allocate money to her Monthly )


The NORMAL / AVERAGE Men(mostly salary earners / low-income earners) who have not been able to secure such HUGE (mostly Illegal ) incomes are Now very Frustrated by the Damage the MEN ABOVE have done with their MONEY.

The NORMAL / AVERAGE Men can no longer get genuine love from women,
Every time he approaches her, she asks for a relationship package she can only get from the huge income Men above

so now the NORMAL / AVERAGE Men realize love is now 100% commercial and it is available to only the highest bidder.
he realizes he needs to forget the word Love, and faithfulness and start looking for means to buy the love.


in response, the normal Men Cry out, Laments, about the damage that has been done.
But since nothing is changing some have remained stuck to the path (earning legit with the hope to get better salaries) while some have gone into crime to meet up with the illegal earning high income men.

end of story.

The Damage looks irreversible.