Give her your salary and be collecting transport from her. Your village people have gathered and said you will never progress and you're doing everything to ensure that

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

I have gone through this, don't start what you can't finish.
Because the moment you are not able to give again, either intentionally or by circumstances, she wouldn't cope.
She would either still be with you and start cheating on you, or totally begin distance herself from you.
How can you be giving her over 25 percent of your salary monthly? What does she do for you?
You are meant to support her, not take full responsibility of her.

I made it known to her that i cannot foot all her bills since I'm not a rich person or son of a politician.
She started keeping friends with benefit, infact she reluctantly picked my calls.

Me i had already made up my mind, because the constant billing was eating me up.. i dont even send that amount to my siblings or mother, although they don't depend on me.

Bro better stop sending her money every time she requests, even if you have it.
You are spoiling her and it wont end well.

If she loves you, she would cope.
If she moves on, she never loved you, it just the money she's after.

She is not ur gf,she is ur ripper

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

I think it's quit cheaper to get a dog.

Mumu man.
You dey pay girl money to stay with you as if you no get worth

Don’t forget when you broke she go dump you

Autobot05:
Increase the amount you give her

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Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

This is the reason I don't want to be in a relationship. Most of naija girls are gold digger. Chop you finish and run away, if you are not ready for marriage yet my broda stat alone

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Perhaps you should set up a business for her. This may financially enable her to foot her bills and ameliorate the bane on your pocket(s).

How you start with a woman is how you gonna end with her.

Most Nigerian men buy women.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Is your money yielding any dividend?

Are you happier since you met her or sadder?

If she is not contributing to your financial or emotional wellbeing, you know the right thing to do.

No over complicate simple matter.

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Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

If this tale is true, please walk out of the relationship.

Juliearth:




Perhaps you should set up a business for her. This may financially enable her to foot her bills and ameliorate the bane on your pocket(s).

But why una dey talk like this sef? Open business for who? Has she run a business before? Abi na to lavish the little wey Op get using another format?

Me sef dey this Op shoes, though my own billings never too much. But I wonder why person go graduate from school and she no go find even menial work to keep body and soul together. Dey tell me say she go start to work once she don collect NYSC posting. In the meantime, na my pocket go dey support her for now.

I dey think of whether to serve her breakfast now, or maybe new year if she never still get the job. But the breakfast dey mandatory shaa. Because Dem no dey use wasteful spending become rich man

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

Tell her that's what you can afford atm as God blesses u u would add more. If she no gree tel her the doors is wide open to leave..u av a long way to go.

Oga SIMP, you fuckup big time. Instead of you to be giving her 350k monthly, you are giving her just 100k. Don't you know she is ur investment?

I will kindly advise that, you remove just ur Tfair from the 400k and give her the rest.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

If you can give a mere girlfriend 100k monthly how much are you giving your mother? Because if it's anything less than 100k too thunder go fire you. Nonsense

You will start something you cannot finish then come online and be ranting making posts like this that portray women as gold diggers meanwhile you are the "enabler"

Jeferious:
But why una dey talk like this sef? Open business for who? Has she run a business before? Abi na to lavish the little wey Op get using another format?

Me sef dey this Op shoes, though my own billings never too much. But I wonder why person go graduate from school and she no go find even menial work to keep body and soul together. Dey tell me say she go start to work once she don collect NYSC posting. In the meantime, na my pocket go dey support her for now.

I dey think of whether to serve her breakfast now, or maybe new year if she never still get the job. But the breakfast dey mandatory shaa. Because Dem no dey use wasteful spending become rich man

E get why I talk so. If the person wey get this tori set up business for him woman and e flop, she no fit gather liver ask for money again and even if she does, he won't be bounded to bail her.

DND069:
How you start with a woman is how you gonna end with her.

Most Nigerian men buy women.

While this is true, there are still some exceptions. I have a girlfriend who I started on a "bestie" level with. She was my next door neighbor during my university days. At a point in time, she started demanding full commitment from me. I succumbed, and we started a full-fledged serious relationship.

I noticed that during the "bestie days", she wasn't asking for even a pin. The only thing she wanted then was compliments, time and attention. But now, I dey collect billings like never before. She once told me that her people are having issues financially, so she isn't as buoyant as before. I understand, and I have trying my best. But mehn... it's starting to choke me. I don't mind giving up on the relationship. I value my money abeg.

So Bro, no be must say the relationship started on a "commercial" note. My own is just I also desire someone who's financially stable too

Jeferious:
But why una dey talk like this sef? Open business for who? Has she run a business before? Abi na to lavish the little wey Op get using another format?

Me sef dey this Op shoes, though my own billings never too much. But I wonder why person go graduate from school and she no go find even menial work to keep body and soul together. Dey tell me say she go start to work once she don collect NYSC posting. In the meantime, na my pocket go dey support her for now.

I dey think of whether to serve her breakfast now, or maybe new year if she never still get the job. But the breakfast dey mandatory shaa. Because Dem no dey use wasteful spending become rich man

By the way, my standard rule of thumb to you men is that do not start a largesse that you cannot sustain. Most of you woo and win women over using gifts and money. Such relationships would thrive on the aforementioned and that explains why you will continue to be billed by my gender. I'm not saying you shouldn't be generous to your love interests, but tune it down so women can love you for who you are and not what you are or could be.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

na Una dey encourage rubbish. Ogbeni drop that bissh asap.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

My babe doesn't ask I give because she's a nice person, along with my siblings and family, but I won't tolerate someone ungrateful 100k is alot.

Weigh the cons and pros in the relationship, if she doesn't bring much value, then you can dump her, after all you can always do bad by yourself.

Try and earn N50k per month first before you dream of earning 400k and giving your gf 100k

You give 25% of your salary to your gf monthly

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Juliearth:




By the way, my standard rule of thumb to you men is that do not start a largesse that you cannot sustain. Most of you woo and win women over using gifts and money. Such relationships would thrive on the aforementioned and that explains why you will continue to be billed by my gender. I'm not saying you shouldn't be generous to your love interests, but tune it down so women can love you for who you are and not what you are or could be.

You've said it all. In addition, avoid girls from poor homes, unless they have been thoroughly verified as good people. And even at that, it is still a risk. Poverty has a way of making its victims look virtuous.

Jeferious:
You've said it all. In addition, avoid girls from poor homes, unless they have been thoroughly verified as good people. And even at that, it is still a risk. Poverty has a way of making its victims look virtuous.

I think this has nothing to do with background but orientation. Orientation itself cannot be tied solely to background but a myriad of factors such as peer pressure, environmental exposure and so on. What I am saying in essence is that a lady from a poor background should not be ruled out as being needy.

Jeferious:
While this is true, there are still some exceptions. I have a girlfriend who I started on a "bestie" level with. She was my next door neighbor during my university days. At a point in time, she started demanding full commitment from me. I succumbed, and we started a full-fledged serious relationship.

I noticed that during the "bestie days", she wasn't asking for even a pin. The only thing she wanted then was compliments, time and attention. But now, I dey collect billings like never before. She once told me that her people are having issues financially, so she isn't as buoyant as before. I understand, and I have trying my best. But mehn... it's starting to choke me. I don't mind giving up on the relationship. I value my money abeg.

So Bro, no be must say the relationship started on a "commercial" note. My own is just I also desire someone who's financially stable too

I get your points. But execptions Don't make the rules.

Op i feel like giving it to you very hot the way i feel it but i just pity you. You sound so much like the simp of simps. 100K is the 25% of your salary and you give up to that to a girl friend monthly ?

chineke ekwena ihe ojooo. Bro you need deliverance i swear. You are not qualified to be called a man at all. If at your salary of 400k you want to keep a loyal girlfriend you can get a well brought up working class educated lady that will cost you less than 30k monthly t-fare support. She will be eternally grateful.

Please just kick that olosho out of your life

Una Dey try o.

Naijagram:
Seeking your thoughts, everyone!!!

I work as a salaried individual and earn around 400k monthly.

However, my girlfriend constantly asks for money. I give her almost 100k every month and she feels it's not enough for her. She's even voiced discontent, suggesting I only send her money when she explicitly requests it.

I'm beginning to suspect her motives, as she seems solely focused on my income.

She never suggests saving or helps in cutting costs; her primary interest lies in spending everything.
Despite my genuine love for her, I can't keep up with her demands. I had hopes for our future together, but it seems unlikely now.

I'm considering a breakup as a solution.

Has anyone navigated a similar situation?

U still dey put girlfriend on top salary

Look! I was once in your shoes but I now regret every bit of it . The girl I last dated knew nothing but money. Funny thing is she was working as well but I used the proceeds from her own business for AJO. I got glued cos of the mind/blowing sex she was providing me then. So sad she had to leave me cos the amount I was struggling to giver her(60% of virtually every kobo I earned). didn’t seem enough to keep her cos her previous guy is a yahoo boy.
My advice bro, is: don’t do more than yourself. A girl that truly likes you will be appreciative of the little you provide and offered her . Don’t be surprised, such girls usually have another guy(s) that supply her material needs.

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peter0071:
Oga i dont understand you ooo.. Do you enjoy stress?? if yes...no wahala... if not, DUMP her sorry ass..

Why would you even start up what you cant continue? does she work? she doesn't know the value of what you re giving her... Throw her sorry ass out of your life mbok

I dated a girl for years, I was spending my money on her most times, I had to break up with her this December because I need to invest more in my future.
Moving forward I’m only going to Date women earning high income, if she’s not making enough money, I’m not going to Date her.