Take Ūя̲̅ babe τ̅☺ TB Joshua. Though, it may be difficult τ̅☺ see him, Ūя̲̅ persistence will c U̶̲̥̅̊ tru. A̶̲̥̅ word Ȋ̝̊̅§ enuf FƠ̴̴̴̴͡я̲̅ fools nowadays.

U are a disgrace to manhood, can't u see say, she bi ashawo, go do DNA confirm say those kids are urs, mumu, u dey polish shoe for anoda man to wear

my guy, have U done blood test to comfirm that those children are realy urs, If not do that now b4 U waste that rest of ur life wit her. afther thr confirmatn, let her no that U are no longer interested in her. let her GOOOOO!!!!!

Oghene shuuu!wat other form of marriage do u want?u guys re already married with 2kids just dat it aint official.aint u guys living together?mtcheww

adetunrayo: @poster
u shouldnt have been intimate before marriage at all.

If you let nairaland's wolves catch you with that statement

ismhab: Go ahead and fuc.k her until u have the fifth child.

Make una see this aboki pervert. Na so una dey do am for north wey una dey born like pigs. BH

even before we had the second kid, i pressure her into doing the right thing but she kept on changing the topic... its the kids that is my concern here .... she wont let me have them .....

Guy walahi those kids are not urs, read d handwriting on d wall and run for ur life, that gal na ashawo she be,how come u fall mugu like this, I'm ashamed of u lip gloss wearing boys. Rubbish

adetunrayo: @poster
u shouldn't have been intimate before marriage at all.

And you had to show up with this placard two kids later? Bravo. So besides the point.

Oh boy, I want to believe that both of you agreed on contract marriage[/b]Now, the contract is not favoring her and she will never change. Please Please and please, she is not yours and if she sees another man that has more money than you are, off she goes. Be WISE

If I were you ehn, Hmmmm. I will not tell you what I will do because of the reader of this thread because [b]even devil will be surprised of what I will do to her[i][/i]

Nonsense

Pls dnt be offended re u sure u re d biological father of those kids?pls open ur eyes ok

Thank you so much.....

the kids re not urs. wake up bro. Go for DNA test to confirm properly.

obagangan: my guy, have U done blood test to comfirm that those children are realy urs, If not do that now b4 U waste that rest of ur life wit her. afther thr confirmatn, let her no that U are no longer interested in her. let her GOOOOO!!!!!

He knows the children belong to him

OP, I have two words for you: 'Bad Market'.

free2ryhme:

Make una see this aboki pervert. Na so una dey do am for north wey una dey born like pigs. BH

u are a pig fuc.ker

pd piper pippen: U are a disgrace to manhood, can't u see say, she bi ashawo, go do DNA confirm say those kids are urs, mumu, u dey polish shoe for anoda man to wear

this is the point, nothing more, nothing less.

It is obvious she is cheating. It is also possible that she is religious.
If so, she is avoiding the 'STRONG GUILT' of being married and having an affair (Adultery). She is probably preferring the option of being a fornicator rather than adulterous.

She is hiding something, and what she is hiding is her affair with men. That explains why she is always on her phone, and wouldn't pick some calls in your presence.

The day she agrees to marry you is the day she decides to give up having affairs outside your bedroom.
Put her in a tight corner (create the tight corner) and insist that she makes a choice, either marry you or lose you. Then she will be made to face the reality and stop living in fantasy and carefree.

After 2 kids you are still having issues like 'she doesn't pick certain calls in my presence', 'she doesn't want me to have the kids' etc. And you are here wondering whats wrong. I think the person who said those kids may not be yours has a very valid point. Mscheeeeeeeew

There are so many things wrong with your scenario...

By deir user name 'bleedingheart' u shall kno dem. Mayb u sud bandage d heart to stop d bleedin.

On a more serious note Op ar u sure doz kids ar urs? after 2kids she stil hs nt accept ur proposal, mayb she's waitin for d father of d kids dax why she always laugh each time u talk abut marriage.

jst my thought

convienence relationship!! una type scarce ooo. see,i want to believe she is doin that for your interest. seriously, u dont want to know the real truth that prompts her funny games. but,is it that u dont have elders that talks to you? abi na you no dey listen? i recommend the book of proverb for you. mumu ni e joor! ode!

bleedingheart: tasandra: thank you each time i asked her, her reply is always "nothing"... and she just smile and laugh

just smile and laugh? That ls scareful! And it could be she has spirit husband o, or demonised. My advice, leave her alone, and let her be, at d right time na she go tire.

bleedingheart: she is from abeokuta, a nigerian.... the family memebers are no problems.... i dont know wht she is hiding from me.

Oga bleedingheart..e be lyk ur wife dun do u wayo..go check ur children's true paternity. If u get lucky n d kids r truly yours, then wt her youthful exuberance excuse it is safe to conclude dt d mother of ur kids is a prostitute, u r a male version anyways. Seriously i no knw d advise to give u. Ur matter complex small. Nairaland no fit solve am na only God fit do am

Marriage is not by force.If she's not ready,go find someone else.It's as simple as that.

Y don't u jst 4get d marriage ish
She said no, y pesterin?
U lucky enuf she gave u 2kids n u ere cryin
Grow up

bleedingheart: hmmm just that she is not taking good care of the kids, always on the phone and wont let me know who is calling.... she wont answer some calls that come in when am around....

My friend wake up and be a man. Go and confirm if those kids are yours asap and leave her alone. Don't bleed your heart to death for nothing, even the devil will blame you.

bleedingheart: hmmm just that she is not taking good care of the kids, always on the phone and wont let me know who is calling.... she wont answer some calls that come in when am around....

Guy ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ ar jst tolkin . D truth is dis babe still enjoys other f**ks asyds yours.to tell d truth d only tin she's afraid of is , wen she finally get married to ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ , obviously she wuld b movin in wiv ‎​U̶̲̥̅̊ ,her waka about wuld b monitored nd stuffs, d xtra f**ks wnt b comin lyk b4 .


Cai ii too lyk dat babe she too smart. She already analysed it . Dis 1 no b matter of dliverance ooooooo.she's neatly gettin somtin more dan usual outsyd d race

Obviously the lady is involved with some other guys, she can't commit herself to just one man. She's been fair enough to you to let you know that much. You are the one that needs to 'borrow yourself brain' small and move on with a decent life, if you actually have that. And by the way, those kids might not just be your o

have done text to confirm that thy are ur children? U need todo that now[quote author=bleedingheart]gboyega thank you so much.....
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I think she doesn't wanna accept your marriage proposal cos she believes doing that would mean getting t☺ stick t☺ a man. I'm suspecting that she has another guy who's is assisting you in servicing her. Perhaps, she's avoiding the guilt that follows being taunted as an adulterous woman. So my guy, my advice is for you t☺ look for a woman who is willing and ready to accept you as Husband.

this is odd. . . lol. Im not even sure I know how to respond to this!

Right, if marriage is important to you she needs to respect that, you either live together as husband and wife or you don't live together at all. I must say the children you have has complicated things so leaving is going to be a bit of a problem.
Regardless of her reasons for not wanting to marry you she is showing a lack of devotion to you and your relationship, if she loves you enough marriage shouldnt be a problem. You may want to start thinkign along the lines of 'she's probably not the one'

Guy,Your woman has spiritual husband.whether u believe it or not. There is nothing you can do for her to mary you.But if it is for you to have more children she will allow u but for marriage she never agree.That is how it is.