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Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by MemoriesAndMe: 5:01am On Nov 01, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY:Where did you get that definition from? Which of the holy books stereotypes any of the listed as characters of a bad guy or thats just your assumption? |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Nyascobar1414: 5:03am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Simple law of attraction the bad ones are attracted to the good ones.. And the good ones are attracted to the bad ones... But na una dey get time beg girl.. Girls oppor everywhere... Never you be a SIMPle man 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by favour32(m): 5:16am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Shedrack777:Many of the past bad guys dey grave. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by godliman: 5:18am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Palema007:The one with dread locks, low waists, crazy torn knee jeans, who smokes ganja, do drugs, keep late nights, is a he-goat, drinks and clubs, belongs to a gang or cult, watch porn, does yahoo yahoo. Any of these, many of these, most of these or all of these qualifies. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Omoluabiii(m): 5:41am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Na epistle you dey write. If you like write from today till tommorrow, there will always be bad guys getting most of the girls. And there always be good guys having few ladies. Do you know why? The world is growing in number, and the values begin to matter less and least. Op, whenever you re among multitude always know, that the real human being that possess the human good values are always less than or equal to 1% the remaining 99 are product of caox, marking time, and causing menace, and they tend to multiply even faster. Bro, thats the blue print of life, its rugged, its real, its always active and playing. Dont let it stress you, be a good person which you are, and when you wear white, its you duty to avoid stains, So, we re to know ourself, and scout for the type of lady that suit our personality, that is not an easy job o, it a great job. May God help us 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Oglock(m): 5:59am On Nov 01, 2021 |
bigbossila:In mosdii's voice Nigerian girls are useless...All of them 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by kevinhacker(m): 6:01am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Vanilla4:And you still wear nose ring |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Vanilla4(f): 6:13am On Nov 01, 2021 |
kevinhacker:Yeah cool stuff... Piercing isn't my thing but, I like this one. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by olaBanks(m): 6:33am On Nov 01, 2021 |
I would say that some ladies may which to be dominated. Let's rest this opinion on the principle of 'Unlike poles attracts while like poles repels'. However, the rule is not the same for all. Most calm and nice easy going ladies wane good guys too. Why Okonjo, Alakiji, Awosika no go marry Agbero? Most times we need people to complement our goals and visions, not people who cannot fix into the mix. Also, there are no statistics to work with, so hasty generalisation will not be cool in this instance. In addition, there is a medical condition known as 'Hybristophilia'. This condition explains why an upright/good person may fall in love with a bad person or someone who has committed a crime. The case of the police officer in 'Money Heist' suffices here. In conclusion, good ladies are supposed to be attracted to good guys if there is proper upbringing, correct socialisation, nice circle of friends and value. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Curvinus(m): 6:51am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Due to the effects of childbirth which could be a very painful and traumatic experience for women, including other premodial subjugations that are seen today as a debasement of the woman, they have an abundance of the feel good hormone - oestrogen to help them cope with pain. But the effects of oestrogen also need balancing and this is where bad boys come into play. Nice guys, on the other hand are doing for women what the oestrogen hormone is already designed to do for them and their actions could trigger an overdose of the feel good effect. However there is also the other angle of genetics which is also a predominant factor in mate selection. In this regard, good looks are often associated with healthy genes and one would find that the so called bad boys are usually people of superior genetics who women of lower class are ever willing to submit to, regardless of thier behavioural patterns. In most cases, these bad boys do not really like the inferior women but because they also provide a need for mating as well as other uses of immediate gratification, they allowed to be a part of the harem. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Drella(m): 6:57am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Palema007: E never reach like this na. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 7:39am On Nov 01, 2021 |
MemoriesAndMe:That's what our Nigerian society think is a bad guy Theevilone: I never said 'good boys' relationship/marriage won't crash. There are millions reasons different marriage/relationship crashed...that's another topic entirely. What I meant is most the girls that dated/dating 'bad guys' after seeing the heat is too much will run to we good guys |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by unmask: 7:42am On Nov 01, 2021 |
God1000:first start with what is your definition of a bad guy? You can't say because you are a "good guy", ladies should gravitate towards you. Do you spend, are you social, can you hold a condo, are you good in bed, do you live for the moment and are you fun to be with? Everybody wants to enjoy their youth, most who don't end up having midlife crisis. Besides "bad girls" love "good guys" |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by unmask: 7:47am On Nov 01, 2021 |
God1000:established norms is subjective I believe. And most times, it is as a result of religious beliefs. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by reservd(m): 7:51am On Nov 01, 2021 |
The so called good guys are boring to them |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Nobody: 7:54am On Nov 01, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY:...after the bad guys have exhausted the oil in their puna, when they see cooperate executive like me, they will open their stupid mouth to say "no sex till marriage" ... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Ugandatales: 8:07am On Nov 01, 2021 |
taiwotimitt: Me too. Because, deep down, that's exactly what they want subconsciously. Your girl was just honest enough to say it. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Ugandatales: 8:09am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Theunbothered: GBAM! You have said it all. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Shedrack777: 8:11am On Nov 01, 2021 |
favour32:what are you thinking, that bad guys means being a criminal, doing drugs and other evil vices? no! a bad guy here means an RED PILLED alpha male who knows how to please and control a woman |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Ugandatales: 8:15am On Nov 01, 2021 |
NiceMen: The bolded is so true. It happened to me recently. I rejected her offer, blocked her on Whatsapp, and went by my way. I was shocked when she sent me a message a few weeks later, saying she misses me, and asking if she could come over so I could f*cked her hard, like I was f*cking a slut. I was shocked. Girls don't like nice guys; nice guys disgust them. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Ugandatales: 8:17am On Nov 01, 2021 |
zcee: So true |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by muheeb01(m): 8:19am On Nov 01, 2021 |
I think say na only me noticed this |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Ugandatales: 8:19am On Nov 01, 2021 |
uptownemmygee: lol! This your story made me laugh. Women are generally attracted to bad guys...especially those below 30. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Solofresh2: 8:21am On Nov 01, 2021 |
shogsman:I like this 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by NiceMen: 8:24am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Ugandatales: Thank for validating my position. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Solofresh2: 8:31am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Some women don't know what they want.But the ones that know it go for it, while some are shy because of what the society would say. As a guy, you need to be in total control of a lady and not the other way round. Don't make your self available to a lady all the time.Know your worth. If a lady wants anything from you, make her work for it. These are the attributes of a bad guy. You don't have to smoke and get drunk to be a bad guy. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Pharaohny: 9:35am On Nov 01, 2021 |
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Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Innobee99(m): 11:51am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Shedrack777:I definitely can't pick a point here |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Spiff20(m): 12:16pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Lies.... All lies. Bad girls love bad guys good girls love good guys simple. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by favour32(m): 12:22pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Shedrack777:Ok.. I thought the usual bad guy with negative disposition. |
Re: Why Do Some Ladies Prefer bad Guys? by Okonjo123(m): 12:55pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
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