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Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by delpee(f): 7:37pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
@OP I empathize with you. Life is full of surprises. You don't have to live with what is offensive. Avoid excessive anger. It's ruinous. Hurting others and making an issue out of what you can conveniently ignore and run away from isn't worth the trouble. Remember, you're not yet married to him. Move on if you want but don't post the videos or tag her friends. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Enemyofpeace: 7:37pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
As if only you can finish what the guy is offering the married woman. Abeg leaf the guy alone jo and let him help others with what he has to offer the world 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Drsmartphilips: 7:37pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Your guy is an idiot to let loose his guards,why should check his messages, drink sniper that is the solution. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by baralatie(m): 7:38pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Teerach:Even as it is now nobody is safe unless someone takes.action? What is the gaurantee that both the fiance and the cheating wife is not planning to eliminate the lady and the husband So.what will be your advice |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Nobody: 7:38pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mineralzz: Certainly, your pain and anger is justified. But it's on you to make the decision whether to continue with your man or not, and whatever explanation he has to say will help you hasten your decision. Think carefully about breaking the woman's home. The people who actually suffer are the innocent children, think about them! Besides, your man is the culprit here, direct all your anger on him. If your first thoughts when you are vexed is to destroy people's lives and home, you seriously need help because you might break down your own home prematurely. Rethink the situation when your head is clearer. If you're not having sex with your man till marriage, please stop reading at this point. But what is not justified is this: you are no different from that woman. While she commits adultery, you commit fornication, both of you are into sexual immorality and your sins bear equal consequences before God. So why do you want to "stone her to death?" Both of you are guilty, including your man. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Ajilenu: 7:39pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mineralzz:why Like why do you wanna do all of those to get back at someone that you don't know? I understand you're hurt and talking out of emotions but the person you should have a problem with is your guy not the woman. Please act wise not out of enotions |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by tarantino1: 7:39pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Relixy2k: Congratulations. I am sure that if you were the man married to the cheating woman, you would want to kept unaware too. Which means she can bring bastard children to you to raise as yours. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Bishop(m): 7:40pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mineralzz: Always have it at the back of your mind that your man or woman will cheat(let me use that word) and if he or she doesn't cheat let it be a plus, it is unfortunate that he was caught a lot of men have been successful with their escapades. However, coming to the platform to seek advice won't help you at all. Are you seeking advice from fellow cheaters. Brace up my lady, if it's something both of can talk about do so and make your relationship work. The grass is not always green at the other side. Shalom 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by tctrills: 7:40pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
baralatie:Yea the husband of the married woman has the right to divorce. But the boyfriend of the heartbroken lady will also have his day in court. It''s a jailable offence |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by tarantino1: 7:41pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mineralzz: The only person you should send it to is her husband. Whatever he does is left to him alone then you decided what to do with 'fiance.' |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by simplepee(f): 7:41pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Clinghton:You are senseless for this comment sir. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Nobody: 7:41pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
baralatie: Is the husband aware? How sure are you he isn't cheating? Let her face the randy boyfriend than tagging people that might laugh or hurt her tomorrow. What will she gain by causing chaos in both lives?...So if she was married to him, she would disgrace her man like this. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Teerach: 7:42pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
baralatie:Baba, that one na their own. But if I'll advice the lady as a sister or a friend that doesn't like drama. I'll say op take a bow. This is where the journey ends. Everybody go your separate ways. See no evil, tell no evil. We move. Na break up dem break up o. Na man Bleep up o. Na man leave her o. Nor b God leave her. Nor be God Bleep up. Better days are coming. Baba Life is not hard. We humans just try to complicate matter. Plus what the op plans to do on social media platforms is a level of toxicity on its own. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by baralatie(m): 7:42pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
crows2ravens:Triangle of hell fire members fighting each other |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by therajah: 7:43pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
DaudaTheSexyGuy:It's called adultery! There are consequences! The wrath of God |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by baralatie(m): 7:45pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
tctrills:If he survives all the death threat from the husband of the wife he is bonking |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by baralatie(m): 7:46pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Teerach:Okay |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Trogge: 7:46pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mineralzz:............ Your last paragraph states it all..... You are pathetic, |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Funkybabee(f): 7:46pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Only God can redeem all these f@ke guys on this forum Take him back at your own peril, u will cry for it last Las Send the video and pics to the husband directly, don't disgrace her publicly Dump the I'd!it's, there are still better days ahead 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Advancedman(m): 7:46pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Mineralzz: The married woman his source you his liability, how do I know? Unnecessarily intro and your laptop and tv size narration. A smart tv has Netflix pre installed, The narrative could have just been while you were trying to watch Netflix movie a fb msg pop up simple. Hello everyone. Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by tctrills: 7:48pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
baralatie:Would you risk your life and career on that? What if the husband is a decent law abiding citizen and does not go out to kill him? It's never wise to take a decision that could sent you to jail with the hope that the husband commits murder. Haba nah. Just let it go. Do the wiser thing. |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by baralatie(m): 7:48pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Funkybabee:It is not as easy as one puts it ooo |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by larrypappyy(m): 7:50pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Swthrt, I've been happily married for 5years now and still going strong. My wife caught me me having secret affair with her close friend... I can guarantee u that she's happy that she didn't leave me then. How did it happen? The said girl threw condom at me when my wife(girlfriend then) travelled and so I vowed to Bleep her at least 5times before letting her go. But it was in process of doing my vow that she caught me. Long story short, she forgave me and I've never cheated on her nor do I've intention of doing so. So pls forgive him. Talk to him and I believe God will take control. |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by CrudeSon: 7:50pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Why would you expose the woman?did she kill?she had sex with whom she is not married with and what about that? Do you know how her husband is cheating on her?let me tell you ,if you lik your safety leave that woman out of it,those type of woman can be very dangerous and you can imagine how secured Nigeria is now? Forgive your man if you can,move on and leave them to karma or just take him back,to be sincere with you,most men are now dating married women,my guy I know then no send,he get them like 4 sef ,come like one pass others and don drop other for that one,dem dey serious and they are good,I don't like such life though,forget no one will come here to tell you,that is what they do especially those women their husbands is always busy or outside the country. The only thing is both of you should be discreet about it and she doesn't mess up with your current relationship,it is unfortunate your guy is careless enough for you to find out,just forgive him Fine girl take him back or leave the relationship. He will change when he is tired of her.Cheating married women are very dangerous when they are threatened.You can just chat her calmly to leave your man alone,forget the threat or public humiliation cos you will lose Las las,highest 2weeks life goes on 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by baralatie(m): 7:51pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
tctrills:All cases of death of passion Between married couples and exes has one the partners as the perpetrator .and it boils down to the information of the act coming to open knowledge. It has a way of turning gentleness into demons! It takes the Power of God to have a calm head to walk through these times |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Memyselfu2009(m): 7:53pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Really so what happens to your boyf after you do this. Rubbish you have to blame him.big time and let the woman be |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Dudeforall(f): 7:53pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
E phorget:would you have said this if it was the Op that is cashing out from a married man? |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by tctrills: 7:54pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
baralatie:Well, you are free to risk your career and freedom with the hope that someone would kill another for you. I just don't think it's the best choice for you. |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by Yadid(m): 7:55pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
"Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret" As it stands, you are not in the best frame of mind, as such any decision you take right now might be one to regret in few days to come. Take a time out for yourself. Do nothing about it for the next few days, by then your mind will be clear and you'll be able to think straight. In life, everything requires time and patience, including anger and hurt. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by baralatie(m): 7:56pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
tctrills:Okay! So what is the best choice? |
Re: My Fiancé Is Having An Affair With A Married Woman. by VOsimhen144(m): 7:57pm On Feb 06, 2022 |
Brownshoe:Well I suspect that pocochant is same with that Fernandezisback. Anyway Sha I have modified it already, I don add her name. 1 Like 3 Shares |
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