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I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by lovediehatelive(m): 9:29am On May 14, 2023 |
I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago. She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed. She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her. She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me. We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy. As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest. The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted. What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever? She later left and we became really close from then. I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth. I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify. So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable. She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen. She was 19 years then. Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy. She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then. Now she's 23. The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else. My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking. Should I ditch her and keep looking for a virgin? Or should I continue with her? I'm planning to see her people this December. 14 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by ukaface(f): 9:32am On May 14, 2023 |
lovediehatelive:Keep looking for virgin Don’t settle for less 566 Likes 40 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Jennyclay(f): 9:35am On May 14, 2023 |
What makes you believe that getting married to a virgin would guarantee you happiness and peace of mind Even you, are you a virgin?? You this cheap randy man!! If truly she’s everything you wanted in a lady, you won’t even reason her past. Oga you’re a randy man!! You just want to have your way than dump her later. We know your type!! Shior!!! 250 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Geniemoi01(m): 9:35am On May 14, 2023 |
She lied to you. She has been sexually active withun those years, buh because you are chasing she hasto play the giod chaste girl card for you so that she'll look worthy in your eyes. My guy, If you have the opportunity to go through her phone, you'll die of shock. You better be extra careful. 392 Likes 34 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Nobody: 9:35am On May 14, 2023 |
The same virgin that you'll still go ahead and cheat on with someone that's not a virgin? Come on, wake up from your slumber. I've read stories here of guys cheating on the same wives they met as virgins with women they met already sexually active.. some would even leave their wives for such women. 91 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Nobody: 9:36am On May 14, 2023 |
Exactly, it's as if virginity is a character. Jennyclay: 47 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by dawnomike(m): 9:42am On May 14, 2023 |
lovediehatelive:Dey play you hear? Be searching for a virgin over happiness. I know a couple, they dated for 10yrs, he married a wife as a virgin and she still cheated on him. Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing, but getting married to someone that will give you joy and peace goes beyond explanation 102 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by KOMZYLEE(m): 9:44am On May 14, 2023 |
Virgin! Is that all you really want in a woman? Cos things don spoil pass that level 65 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by lovediehatelive(m): 9:49am On May 14, 2023 |
ukaface: Where will I find Them 8 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by lovediehatelive(m): 9:51am On May 14, 2023 |
Geniemoi01: I thought of this too. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by lovediehatelive(m): 9:54am On May 14, 2023 |
dawnomike: This one is strong o. 10 years? The thing here is that I can never forgive a cheating partner. It's not me, it's above me. My soul doesn't accept such. So I believe a virgin has lesser chances of cheating than a non virgin 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by lovediehatelive(m): 9:55am On May 14, 2023 |
KOMZYLEE: Not all I want. But the unlock code to other characteristics 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by ukaface(f): 9:55am On May 14, 2023 |
lovediehatelive:Oh you don’t know? I thought you do o The opposite place you found this said girl you will find a virgin. 37 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Savedday2: 10:42am On May 14, 2023 |
Marrying a 9ja girl is high way to the grave. Virgin or nonvirgin dey are all the same .. Oloshio is their real name 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Sonnobax15(m): 10:44am On May 14, 2023 |
Op, you should be happy that you've found a very homely banny according to your write up....... Well,I used to have similar principle like you not until I realized that some dreams will always end up as mere dreams especially in a country like ours where virgins have become a very scarce commodity 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by ItisWell22(f): 10:51am On May 14, 2023 |
Samantha124: I personally nursed a woman who died of depression following diagnosis of HIV. She kept telling me, “He’s the only man I’ve known all my life”. 😢 She couldn’t believe her very godly, churchly, super-deacon husband was sleeping around to the extent of bringing home the deadly virus. He married her a virgin. She had 7 sons for him. Yet, he was popular outside for womanizing, despite being deep into church activities. She died within few months of diagnosis… 67 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by torqque7(m): 10:59am On May 14, 2023 |
lovediehatelive: My brother I know how you feel,getting married to a virgin is great and will always make the man value her if he is a reasonable man.However some cheat in the marriage or long run and same also goes for non virgins cheating too, because my ex ,na me disvirgin am and I valued her and respected her more than almost all other exes of mine, until she cheated so last last we all hope and pray to marry a Virgin that will be a good wife. We can also settle for a good non virgin too but we WONT place her on the same respect level as we would have if she is a good virgin. I wish you luck sha. Ignore all these females making fun of you because you want a virgin..they are pained because they will NEVER EVER truly have that respect from their man or husbands that would be given to a virgin. No be you ask them to go dey mount different cockks for their life so don’t mind them with all their sarcastic responses to you and your story. Virgins will always be the NUMBER 1,most reasonable men will ALWAYS want a Virgin for a wife if they had the choice to pick. I mean who will want an Old used car compared to a brand NEW TEAR RUBBER? It’s a no brainer. 79 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by CgRay: 11:04am On May 14, 2023 |
Continue with your virgin search. I pray you don't later regret it, if you end up marrying a virgin that will frustrate your life. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by torqque7(m): 11:09am On May 14, 2023 |
ItisWell22: And SO WHAT? does that happen to Virgins alone?even Oloshos have these experiences so your point is invalid..so because some people are not lucky in their marriages then decent girls should become hoes?what a joke..Are you also aware of women who got married as virgins and are very happy in their homes too? Just pray for Gods grace and mercy to marry a good human being Virgin or NOT..but we would always prefer virgins simple as that. 46 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Victor2707: 11:18am On May 14, 2023 |
Mr. Nice Guy, that girl has been sexually active. She is playing you big time. Virginity doesn't make a girl good. It only makes her bond with you sexually. If she truly desires you, she will have sex with you with no conditions. You are just the available guy for her at the moment. When the owner of the pu*sy comes, she will go without thinking twice. Date/Marry women that want sex with you. Be Wise. 36 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Streetmovement(m): 11:22am On May 14, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking Let me not say anything, "For those who have eyes shall see clearly and for those who lack wisdom shall suffer" Happy Sunday to you 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by cvarinzechukwu: 11:40am On May 14, 2023 |
Looking for virgin in NIGERIA is like looking for a rare commodity I remember the other man that created a thread on January about looking for a virgin said that ended up marrying at the age of 43 But the marriage lasted only few months 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by efficiencie(m): 11:45am On May 14, 2023 |
lovediehatelive: If she is sexually pure (has abstained from illicit sex), pious, has a plan for her life, is loyal and submissive, then you have a wife. As for you, I hope you are a true husband. If you don't know what it means to lead, to sacrifice your pleasures for others, to be sexually pure, to be God fearing and to have a plan for your life then you will be a terrible husband. So do the needful. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by efficiencie(m): 11:49am On May 14, 2023 |
Victor2707: A lady can desire a man sexually but not submit to him or be loyal to him particularly when the lady has destroyed her sexuality. So you cannot conclude that the lady's decision to be celibate does not necessarily mean she is pretending. And you guys need to quit using ladies and expecting to marry a virgin. While it is possible, it is not moral. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by otipoju(m): 11:51am On May 14, 2023 |
lovediehatelive: A virgin will want to explore after a while. No human being will want to have only one sexual partner all his or her life. It is not natural. Especially in this modern era. Problem is once she starts,she won't stop exploring for a while and because she will be doing it while in the marriage, she would be cheating and hiding and eventually loose interest in the husband or bring a STD to him Nothing is guaranteed other than to pray to marry a peace loving and reasonable partner with good conscience and minimal drama. 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Rokiat(f): 11:58am On May 14, 2023 |
Yes please don’t marry her since you based the qualities that make a good wife solely on virginity. Go look for your virgin wife and let the people daughter go please. Nonsense! 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by ItisWell22(f): 12:01pm On May 14, 2023 |
torqque7: I wasn’t and I’ve never been against people marrying virgins, or as virgins; NAH. Was only making an example to the post I quoted, to buttress the point. So rest Mr Man!!! Whatever the fvck your preference is or preferences are, they are yours; not mine… 4 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by adefitim(m): 12:03pm On May 14, 2023 |
Op abeg forward me her contact lovediehatelive: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by OKUCHI11(m): 12:04pm On May 14, 2023 |
Dat storyline no just add... Somebody dey pound her every now and then... 7 Likes |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by LIVINGICONREBOR: 12:05pm On May 14, 2023 |
Don't let anyone sway you from settling down with a virgin. You know what u want and u must go for it. Don't ever settle for less. As for that girl, u know what to do. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by Dabronze(m): 12:09pm On May 14, 2023 |
If you are mature enough I think you should have experience on what you are looking for in woman There are a lot .of things that are still.important to your personality aside woman virginty Have you find your purpose in life As a man you need to understand the true fact that life doesn't fair to you 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Marry Her But Discovered This Thing by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 12:15pm On May 14, 2023 |
lovediehatelive:you will end up getting tokunbo virgin 1 Like |
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