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Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 1:37am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Panda7:What exactly has courtship to do with a man selecting only a woman who has a hustle if that is indeed what he desires when looking for a woman to date? 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by cooooooks(m): 1:42am On Nov 11, 2023 |
People being too online, plus social media corruption. Anyone who has run a school or store knows what is going on in Nigeria. Persephone1: 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Panda7: 1:42am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:There is no where it was stated you must follow a woman who already has an hustle as she is already successful but the point here is the woman must be committed to the man and also hustle together to get their financial goals. Isn't that simple to any simp'man or woman?? |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by advanceDNA: 1:51am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tollyboy5: All ur reason has been proven otherwise... There are women smarter than men .there are women stronger than some men.... There are women who go to war.... So what's ur point? |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 1:55am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Panda7:Where is the statement in bold though? So, a man will pick any woman — even one without an ambition for hustle — and then turn around and mandate she must have a hustle while committing to him? Doesn't that sound a tad... I don't know .... abnormal to you? 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by advanceDNA: 1:57am On Nov 11, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: It's because u guys are naturally lazy, and don't like being responsible for anything.... U want everything cheaply handed over to you... 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Panda7: 2:02am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:If you are gay or have been gayed before please stop quoting me, it clearly shows you have never been with a woman not even a baby one and nothing has ever been customised for you. stop quoting me the babies are sleeping already. |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by JapaPrince: 2:57am On Nov 11, 2023 |
After reading this I must say I commend the writer, as always I’m an advocate of using the write words and not turning everything into a confrontational word fight or click baits. We can always get out points through I’m a civil manner no name calling, slut shaming or stuffs like that. Well done |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by PoliteActivist: 3:05am On Nov 11, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Not at all. For MOST of us, everything is just sweeter that way, much more than when we're the ones giving our husband |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 3:09am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tuzle:Why blame the lady? The ones who paid for the schooling probably did not mind doing it for her to then toss it aside at the end of the day. I mean I have seen cases of women Ph.D holders living as housewives with no one complaining. The culture allows it so what is the problem? Also, did she force her boyfriend to take her on as a burden? He wanted a woman as a burden and he got exactly that. She probably wanted a man to fend for her and got herself exactly that. Why blame her for any of it? 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by YoshihideSuga: 3:14am On Nov 11, 2023 |
tshtsh: Would they also be open to equal marriages? Aka 50 - 50? Can they withstand the cultural differences between they and the western bred women? Are they open to doing house chores? Would they like it when the women are assertive and opinionated? There was a reason they went home to marry. They should live with it. 4 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by advanceDNA: 3:19am On Nov 11, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: Sigh....no one ask you to give ur husband...l most men don't even want to collect from their wives because u women end up making a fuss about it See.... at the end of the day, U are just buttressing my point in other words.....Of course....it's sweeter when u are not responsible for what puts food on the table and buys the luxuries of life.......it's still comes down to not being responsible and wanting things handed to you... Imagine someone eating 70k food because it's coming from someone else's pocket... |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 3:24am On Nov 11, 2023 |
YoshihideSuga:You dey mind dem! Most of them just want to eat their cake and have it too! 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Teymanhenry(f): 4:37am On Nov 11, 2023 |
The first thing that draws me to a woman is her beauty. When I come closer, I look at her Educational status, financial status, family, and health, then how humble, hard working and respectful she is. Some people could be parasites or a drawback to your life. I won't end up with a parasite |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Iamzik: 5:14am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed: They need to change that mindset. It's achaic |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Iamzik: 5:22am On Nov 11, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: Well MOST of you are about to wake up to reality. The world has changed! This is not your parent or grandparent 1970 generation. No man wants a liability. Men enjoy spending other people's money as much as women enjoy it. My philosophy is both man and woman should contribute to the home according to their capacity/income. The generation of "my money is my money while your money is our money" is gone... As in Otilo... |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Kobojunkie: 5:23am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Iamzik:Nigerian men should equally give up on the many archaic ideas they too hold, right? 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by PoliteActivist: 5:28am On Nov 11, 2023 |
advanceDNA: It's not what you think my dear. It is mostly psychological and spiritual, it is not about material wealth. It's like MOST of us prefer helping our men be dominant even if we can dominate them 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by PoliteActivist: 5:37am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Iamzik: Men misunderstand. It is not about material stuff, it is mostly psychological and spiritual. Remember, the issue is why we would rather pray that our husbands be wealthy before praying that we be wealthy ourselves 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by ufotunang: 6:11am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Cassandraloius:..they are women that are working and earning good salary but still make much financial demand to their boyfriend |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by ufotunang: 6:12am On Nov 11, 2023 |
What do you expect.. when we have urgent 5k babes everywhere 🙄 |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by ufotunang: 6:13am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Women had made their boyfriends their job vacancies 🙄 |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by ufotunang: 6:14am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed:. Abi.. nigeria women language is...no money, no love...na love I go chop 🙄 |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by BRATISLAVA: 6:16am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Poverty and its misogynistic "logical" appearances. It is inappropriate for a man to make financial, emotional, supportive, cooking and cleaning demands in a relationship. Just go in there, have s*x and walk out. It's the only thing you would want to contribute and gain from relationships anyway. Anything beyond that and you really want your mommy. The other things you expect from the people you won't financially fend for are the things you get as your birthright in the Nigerian patriarchy. Start crying divorce and she took everything from me. Then humbly wash the dishes because your "money" means nothing in the real world, and you will be true equals outside of finances. 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by Iamzik: 6:18am On Nov 11, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: All na scope. I once confronted a female friend who was very rich but was tormenting her husband who can barely get by. Most Women worship money. Alot of women troubling their husbands actually have enough money of their own to live comfortably but No they must collect from the husband. Una wan carry the money go heaven??🤣🤣 |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by BRATISLAVA: 6:24am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Lol. You are dealing with Nigerian men. They are so logical they sound stupid. Look, this thread is a plea for a woman from the west. But he will be ready to become her slave and forget he's a man when she not only helps him with the finances, but he helps her with birthing, rearing and everything else beneath him as an African Nigerian man. He would gladly clean out her toilet pots with his tongue once she has no financial demands from him. It's a gold digger thing. 4 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by PoliteActivist: 6:25am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Iamzik: It is not what you think!! Mostly we're helping you be a man by collecting that money, though we have our own. If we're not there to take it what will you do with it?? If you work hard and finally have some money, if there is no woman to give it to, what good is it to you. We prepare ourselves and make ourselves available to be given the money - something you should really thank us for if you think about it 3 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by BRATISLAVA: 6:26am On Nov 11, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: Lol! 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by PoliteActivist: 6:31am On Nov 11, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: I don't see what's funny. If you work hard and finally have some money, tell me something more satisfying you can do with some of it than give it to a woman 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by BRATISLAVA: 6:34am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Magnoliaa: Lol! 1 Like |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by BRATISLAVA: 6:36am On Nov 11, 2023 |
PoliteActivist: It's funny because what you are telling them is the truth. Give a man money and the next thing us to have 20 girlfriends and if none of them want him, it is 20 prostitutes to lavish his new found wealth on. Or to marry women to spend the money on. Half of their fantasy constitutes having a lot of women. Women to spend on. It is only here they come to demonize women for wanting money, when all their validation is to give women money as a show of strength. It is funny because why are you making such posts all over the thread? Lol. It's polite, but what is the activism there? 2 Likes |
Re: Why It Is Inappropriate For A Woman To Make Financial Demands In A Relationship by ogbe88(m): 6:46am On Nov 11, 2023 |
SIRTee15:U made no sense. |
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