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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by batiatus(m): 7:24am On Sep 08, 2014
Na you wai get small change for hand na think say no justification.

Frankly speaking they are not looking for justification but just telling you their reason. Its left for you to agree with them or not.

Seriously what will you do if all you have is 100 with no other source of money for the next one month.

If I can't help, I don't wsste time judging.

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by priscaoge(f): 7:30am On Sep 08, 2014
coolzeal: I wanna understand her reasons but there's no justification for being a wh*ore. Someday she will gladly tell her daughter to follow her footsteps in her epitome for money.
I wonder if she will be proud to tell her kids her story n quest to have it all

jmoore: Prostitutes and thieves will always say poverty is the reason for their actions. smh
Exactly what am saying,it's either it's poverty or d Devil.
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by leeport: 7:30am On Sep 08, 2014
Crap!!!
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Abdulazeez296(m): 7:41am On Sep 08, 2014
valkaka: Here's a message I got from a lady who said she want people to know the reason for their action:

Please sir, Mr valentine, I just want to tell you that it's not our fault that we go about servicing all kinds of men for the sake of money. Many guys do yahoo and armed robbery to survive but ladies can't do all that and since we are aware that these men will always need women to enjoy their money with them, there is nothing bad if we make ourselves available for you men and we get paid for our professional services. Wahala dey o why are ladies thinking like this?

Or can you people stay without a woman for one month? We are just helping men with our body...

Times are hard. My parents can't raise enough money for my school fees and my accommodation in school, so how will I feed, buy clothes, make-up and look good like other girls if I don't help my self? Many ladies are doing it here in my school and even other schools. It is condition that caused it.

People should understand that everything has changed!
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Nobody: 7:41am On Sep 08, 2014
whatever rocks their boat.
We all have different ways of fending for ourselves and sleeping around is one of those ways for some girls.
That not withstanding, I don't see most of these girls who sleep around doing anything meaningful with money. They either buy cars, furnish their apartments, drink, buy clothes, bleach, buy weaves etc. They are just so materialistic undecided
But its none of my business.

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by happykidArotiba(m): 7:50am On Sep 08, 2014
some even look @oda decent ladies, as the ones sufferin, its not dier fault.....its either poverty or greed's fault.

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by goalburner(m): 7:55am On Sep 08, 2014
Yomieluv: Is she crippled to make her dependent,or is the word "independent" never exist in her dictionary.

She's just morally bankrupt,and a leech.
Nevertheless no guy would wanna fork a crippled prostitute
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by doctorofgirls(m): 8:00am On Sep 08, 2014
Most girls run prostitution in campuses like a cult
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by lovaleenny(f): 8:10am On Sep 08, 2014
valkaka: Here's a message I got from a lady who said she want people to know the reason for their action:

Please sir, Mr valentine, I just want to tell you that it's not our fault that we go about servicing all kinds of men for the sake of money. Many guys do yahoo and armed robbery to survive but ladies can't do all that and since we are aware that these men will always need women to enjoy their money with them, there is nothing bad if we make ourselves available for you men and we get paid for our professional services.

Or can you people stay without a woman for one month? We are just helping men with our body...

Times are hard. My parents can't raise enough money for my school fees and my accommodation in school, so how will I feed, buy clothes, make-up and look good like other girls if I don't help my self? Many ladies are doing it here in my school and even other schools. It is condition that caused it.

People should understand that everything has changed!



Madam pls speak for yourself and op d topic shud b renamed "why I sleep with different men" not "why we ladies sleep with different men"....am a lady and I don't go around sleeping with men for frivolous things or whatever ur reasons might be...if at this age "you"as a lady av to open ur legs to sustain yourselves when ur mates(ppl like me)r maintaining d hustle the right way den u need to be sent back to d ADs or d BCs wen men used women like boys use toys...Idiot!

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by saalma(f): 8:18am On Sep 08, 2014
perry2020:
What made you think I have never gone through hard times,the hardest times sef back then in school when I would be given 5k as monthly allowance I was staying in an hostel were I had to buy food and buying food each day twice daily alone was 6k for the month(not three times daily ooo)(t wasn't even enough for feeding sef not to talk of other things oo),no other money or source of income,i could sell anything sell able(bedsheets,clothes),i made jewelries and sold,liquid soap and sold(aldoe twasnt as if much money was coming in but at least I could use the little to sustain). I cut unnecessary expenses,planned well and had a list of priorities.i knew girls who would go around with sugar daddies and hunt for white men(where are they today? Either dead,used for ritual or battling with stds and hiv,very few,very very few of them end up fine today and it's coz of grace ) Today look at me,am doing so fine and I have never regretted my doings for one day because those situations helped me in becoming who I am today. if I was into prostitution then do u think the grace of God would have been so buoyant in my life.
But girls of nowadays just love showoff,they want to be on 30 inches Brazilian hair and use the latest phones,assessories,latest dresses,shoes and bags even bleaching cream of 15-45k(which are unnecessary).

U didn't even face hard times. There are people whose parents could only afford that 5k for like 3months or a whole semester. I have examples so I know what I'm saying.
If u think u got it hard, know that there are people who got it harder.
I had parents who gave me what they could, but because I felt it wasn't enough, I started to do a small "business " with it. but all I'm saying is: don't judge a person until u have walked at least a mile in their shoes

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by saalma(f): 8:33am On Sep 08, 2014
And by business I mean buying n selling. I've sold indomie and eggs, I've sold pants and bras, I've sold hair extensions (attachments and weavons), I've sold body sprays, just so that I make the money a little more n i didn't have to beg or borrow to survive or even become a runs girl. These things I had made up my mind about

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Janeify(f): 8:38am On Sep 08, 2014
The girl is crazy..depending on men and not yourself is stupidity.that's one of the reason why some guys have the guts to call Nigerian girls hoes because they've seen laziness and hopelessness in them

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Fourwinds: 11:47am On Sep 08, 2014
perry2020:
What made you think I have never gone through hard times,the hardest times sef back then in school when I would be given 5k as monthly allowance I was staying in an hostel were I had to buy food and buying food each day twice daily alone was 6k for the month(not three times daily ooo)(t wasn't even enough for feeding sef not to talk of other things oo),no other money or source of income,i could sell anything sell able(bedsheets,clothes),i made jewelries and sold,liquid soap and sold(aldoe twasnt as if much money was coming in but at least I could use the little to sustain). I cut unnecessary expenses,planned well and had a list of priorities.i knew girls who would go around with sugar daddies and hunt for white men(where are they today? Either dead,used for ritual or battling with stds and hiv,very few,very very few of them end up fine today and it's coz of grace ) Today look at me,am doing so fine and I have never regretted my doings for one day because those situations helped me in becoming who I am today. if I was into prostitution then do u think the grace of God would have been so buoyant in my life.
But girls of nowadays just love showoff,they want to be on 30 inches Brazilian hair and use the latest phones,assessories,latest dresses,shoes and bags even bleaching cream of 15-45k(which are unnecessary).
hmmmmmmm...... I thought dose girls dat engage in dese activities usually end well because d screwing is pleasurable to dem. oya young girls planning to follow sute. draw ya ear

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by bakandow11: 12:09pm On Sep 08, 2014
OMG!!! wats d nonesense goin on here, sometimes one has to atlist take a stroll to check wats goin on smewhere else....Do all men engage in the above mention act to make a living? moreso why dont you take time to ask yourself how to break through wothout engaging yourself in an irrational condemed behaviour.....let people know what u ar good at and tell dem how dey can help you on it.
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Kunleskey(m): 3:09pm On Sep 08, 2014
What a stupid and bad reason!...
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by youngguru23(m): 3:13pm On Sep 08, 2014
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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Dreyl(m): 3:59pm On Sep 08, 2014
Hmmm
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Nobody: 4:10pm On Sep 08, 2014
valkaka: Here's a message I got from a lady who said she want people to know the reason for their action:

Please sir, Mr valentine, I just want to tell you that it's not our fault that we go about servicing all kinds of men for the sake of money. Many guys do yahoo and armed robbery to survive but ladies can't do all that and since we are aware that these men will always need women to enjoy their money with them, there is nothing bad if we make ourselves available for you men and we get paid for our professional services.

Or can you people stay without a woman for one month? We are just helping men with our body...

Times are hard. My parents can't raise enough money for my school fees and my accommodation in school, so how will I feed, buy clothes, make-up and look good like other girls if I don't help my self? Many ladies are doing it here in my school and even other schools. It is condition that caused it.

People should understand that everything has changed!


Its true that life is bi.t.c.h and all u need to do is fck her hard and find a way to make it out without Her getting the best of u....all am saying is, i don't know what u been tru and i wont judge u.. sometimes we have to do what we have to do....but its important u already have a well planned exit like exactly the road maps u intend to take and make things right with ur conscience in the end...cos that's all that really matters finally...G luck tho (for the lady)
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Obismith(m): 6:18pm On Sep 08, 2014
I tink u need 2 rethink n retrace ur step.it 2 bad of u 2 tink dis way :-XI tink u need 2 rethink n retrace ur step.it 2 bad of u 2 tink dis way

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Mcbussy(m): 7:20pm On Sep 08, 2014
perry2020:
What made you think I have never gone through hard times,the hardest times sef back then in school when I would be given 5k as monthly allowance I was staying in an hostel were I had to buy food and buying food each day twice daily alone was 6k for the month(not three times daily ooo)(t wasn't even enough for feeding sef not to talk of other things oo),no other money or source of income,i could sell anything sell able(bedsheets,clothes),i made jewelries and sold,liquid soap and sold(aldoe twasnt as if much money was coming in but at least I could use the little to sustain). I cut unnecessary expenses,planned well and had a list of priorities.i knew girls who would go around with sugar daddies and hunt for white men(where are they today? Either dead,used for ritual or battling with stds and hiv,very few,very very few of them end up fine today and it's coz of grace ) Today look at me,am doing so fine and I have never regretted my doings for one day because those situations helped me in becoming who I am today. if I was into prostitution then do u think the grace of God would have been so buoyant in my life.
But girls of nowadays just love showoff,they want to be on 30 inches Brazilian hair and use the latest phones,assessories,latest dresses,shoes and bags even bleaching cream of 15-45k(which are unnecessary).

wow!!!....you just earned 170% of my respect lady.

I pray some would read this and learn...but then,naija girls prefer learning d hard way.

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by adeowo84(m): 7:39pm On Sep 08, 2014
[quote author=Dygeasy]lol! Okay.

There's a Yoruba saying. I'll state it in pidgin. "Once food don settle for the matter, poverty no dey again"
grin[quote author=Dygeasy]lol! Okay.

There's a Yoruba saying. I'll state it in pidgin. "Once food don settle for the matter, poverty no dey again"
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by Enasco1(m): 9:06pm On Sep 08, 2014
Clone2020: SMH... There is no justification whatsoever for prostitution
it x nt called prostitution but "RUNS"!!
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by enm(m): 9:34pm On Sep 08, 2014
perry2020:
What made you think I have never gone through hard times,the hardest times sef back then in school when I would be given 5k as monthly allowance I was staying in an hostel were I had to buy food and buying food each day twice daily alone was 6k for the month(not three times daily ooo)(t wasn't even enough for feeding sef not to talk of other things oo),no other money or source of income,i could sell anything sell able(bedsheets,clothes),i made jewelries and sold,liquid soap and sold(aldoe twasnt as if much money was coming in but at least I could use the little to sustain). I cut unnecessary expenses,planned well and had a list of priorities.i knew girls who would go around with sugar daddies and hunt for white men(where are they today? Either dead,used for ritual or battling with stds and hiv,very few,very very few of them end up fine today and it's coz of grace ) Today look at me,am doing so fine and I have never regretted my doings for one day because those situations helped me in becoming who I am today. if I was into prostitution then do u think the grace of God would have been so buoyant in my life.
But girls of nowadays just love showoff,they want to be on 30 inches Brazilian hair and use the latest phones,assessories,latest dresses,shoes and bags even bleaching cream of 15-45k(which are unnecessary).

Hello sister, just tell me the network you want, glo, etisalat or na MTN I go send am give you. Your post made a lot of more than sense.

There was a time in my life, that i was earnestly search for sugar mummy, i spent from the little money i have and almost become an ATM to those dubious people advertising sugar mummy service connection if not for God whose mercy and grace that make me to have a rethink to see that there is no different between a prostitute and sugar mummy boy who is in it for material gain and the dangers associated with it if one is not lucky.

No matter the situation, one should just keep going and pressing forward. It a time like this, that one mental state is improve upon and the discovery of oneself happened because you will discover a lot of things about yourself things like how resourceful you are, your talents and potentials, your weakness and strong point and a lot more that's if one is willing to look inward and hold on to God instead of blaming others, the government and oneself.

I know there are some of them who just need to be silently nudge to the right direction and unfortunately for them they don't have people or person to do that for them, that's why the type of people you keep as friend matters a lot. This is where we have to show that love that was commanded of us to show to our neighbours.

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by tosyne2much(m): 9:37pm On Sep 08, 2014
You ppl are evn goin too far talking abt luxury wen some ladies open their Kitty Cat for ordinary Suya and shawama... grin

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by perry2020(f): 9:41pm On Sep 08, 2014
enm:

Hello sister, just tell me the network you want, glo, etisalat or na MTN I go send am give you. Your post made a lot of more than sense.



No matter the situation, one should just keep going and pressing forward. It a time like this, that one mental state is improve upon and the discovery of oneself happened because you will discover a lot of things about yourself things like how resourceful you are, your talents and potentials, your weakness and strong point and a lot more that's if one is willing to look inward and hold on to God instead of blaming others, the government and oneself.

I know there are some of them who just need to be silently nudge to the right direction and unfortunately for them they don't have people or person to do that for them, that's why the type of people you keep as friend matters a lot. This is where we have to show that love that was commanded of us to show to our neighbours.
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by perry2020(f): 9:42pm On Sep 08, 2014
enm:

Hello sister, just tell me the network you want, glo, etisalat or na MTN I go send am give you. Your post made a lot of more than sense.

There was a time in my life, that i was earnestly search for sugar mummy, i spent from the little money i have and almost become an ATM to those dubious people advertising sugar mummy service connection if not for God whose mercy and grace that make me to have a rethink to see that there is no different between a prostitute and sugar mummy boy who is in it for material gain and the dangers associated with it if one is not lucky.

No matter the situation, one should just keep going and pressing forward. It a time like this, that one mental state is improve upon and the discovery of oneself happened because you will discover a lot of things about yourself things like how resourceful you are, your talents and potentials, your weakness and strong point and a lot more that's if one is willing to look inward and hold on to God instead of blaming others, the government and oneself.

I know there are some of them who just need to be silently nudge to the right direction and unfortunately for them they don't have people or person to do that for them, that's why the type of people you keep as friend matters a lot. This is where we have to show that love that was commanded of us to show to our neighbours.
M so in love with ur comment too.
Glo 5k will do wink wink tongue
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by eminex(m): 9:49pm On Sep 08, 2014
ungodly undecided
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by brennyB: 11:28pm On Sep 08, 2014
Storyforthegods
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by enm(m): 11:45pm On Sep 08, 2014
perry2020: M so in love with ur comment too.
Glo 5k will do wink wink tongue

5k mba, ko jo.

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Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by ayodele123(m): 6:53am On Sep 09, 2014
ADULTERY AND FORNICATION!
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by perry2020(f): 7:03am On Sep 09, 2014
Untill when she wants to marry and realize she has slept with her father in law,ez friends,her husband to be cousins and friends that she would know runs is not good.
Re: Why We Ladies Sleep With Different Men - Student Opens Up by perry2020(f): 7:24am On Sep 09, 2014
enm:

5k mba, ko jo.
Lolxx so you no get,you dey ask.

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