Saecula:

This is pure balderdash. Very phoney and puerile. Why use an exception as the rule.
What about broke guys that were dumped and they never made it but wallowed in abject poverty? Or is it only those that later became tycoons that you saw?

As a matter of fact yes.... Its only the tycoons i see..... The truth of the matter is i have seen and have heard of alot of people whose fortune change from abject poverty to bastard wealth..... Trust me u know or have heard of atleast one person.... Most pple who remain poor is due to the phycological effect of things happening around them and if i'm not mistaken, most times, ladies dumping their boyfriends because they have judged by his present state may leave some pple devastated and shattered probably because the one who they thought loved them has abandoned them to their fate after all he must have sacrificed for her.... Not all of such people make it out of such humiliation and abdject rejection..... Most times we are the cause of the downfall of men who would have been somthing with our support and encouragement without knowing it and only a few might be able to survive the scourge of being looked down on..... Just a single mis spoken word could bring an entire empire down in rubbles..... Never judge a book by its cover... Learn to help people stand on their feet when they need you the most.... Never let them crumble for their success will be your greatest achievement.... We should learn to be our brothers keepers not be our our brothers 'demolition man' !!! IT COULD BE YOU TOMORROW..... Only a foolish man is certain that his riches will last forever and throw caution to the wind..... (My own 50kobo) take or leave it.....

well, like a lady once told me "if money grow on trees some ladies would date a monkey"

you see a girl who wants an handsome, rich, tall, God fearing, funny, caring, romantic and understanding man, and you ask her what do you have? her response - I'm a fine gal na!

As a man, taking care of your partner brings some kind of fulfilment but when it turns out that the Lady just sits there and wait for you to spoon feed her then it brings a whole lot of resentment.

bongolistik: I tuk tim 2 read d 24 pages nd found out dat d OP mite be a very 9ce gel bt quite obstinate on her part, meaning she wuld be quite dificult 2 tek advice dat can evn enhance her future. Despite comin out to pour her aclaimed loved bf esteem on d floor, d OP failed 2 undastand dat som tins ar beta off nt discusd in public nd mindles dat d bf could also see dis thread nd get fuly disapointed in her. But d OP has stubbornly tried to justify evry statement she made includin doz she made in errors.

Well everybody wit dier own palava, wht u sow, u shal reap.

By d way, wr is prettythicksme, has she gotten back 4rm d hole wr she came out 4rm? Her 4kup ws well taken care of. I hate pompose ppl be it male or female. She ws well served. Next time she wil knw dat humility is virture nd nt 2 com d form one thick madam 4 here, meanwhile who knws if it is garri and groundnut she wil sip dis 9t 2 bed.

me no dey give myself headache because of nairalander quotes ,na today dem they insult abi what even special there wey you put the matter for head.anyway just bear in your mind that in a thread,mentions some will like and share,some go insult,some will quote you right or tells you are wrong so different strokes for different folks,

deavicky: see ur mouth na broke guy fit u.cos u fine reach person wah me go even spend money on. Try reduce the size of ur lip.

ogbeni face your front jorr wetin concern you with my lips,quote and insult no big deal okay.

OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one

Guys jump into conclusion that girls don't want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees you in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees you in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.

I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I can't marry him if he continues being broke.

I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely:

*talk about a boring relationship; when your female friends are going places with their rich bf, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.

*your friends will not respect him; by the time your female friends get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.

*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends by buying provision or something for them will make him tear you apart.

*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so you won't disregard him.

*he will naturally look stingy to you ; imagine asking your broke boyfriend to help you with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# you won't just be feeling him anymore.

This is just a few of what I can remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their girlfriend/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled through you, you live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show you off.

I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.

'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'

All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some guys don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech girlfriend/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my Boyfriend's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.

If you become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a girlfriend, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do you guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.

Face it. Some guys may never be rich!

If u will marry this guy, take him as he is now!!

moonraker:

lol mad man calling another person mad. Go thru my response again. you will see that i clearly stated that ultimately, the decision is hers and

not her friends.

Seema you lack the facility to properly comprehend what you wrote that led to this rejoinder

at age 20 I got my 1st car.. at age 22 I sealed a million deal..talk about being independent, but all dsame dis broke guys aint loyal. best liars

QuiverBox:

When you say Man are you referring to your Husband or your Boyfriend?

If you are referring to your Boyfriend, then let me ask, what Morally justification do you have to demand for him to take care of you , what ownership do u have over him? Is it a right for him to succumb to you demand? HELL NO. What ever he will do for you should be consider a privilege not a Right. What are u saying didn't u see where she said she can't go into a relationship when are husband

If you are referring to your Husband , then he as the Man of the House has a responsibility to take care of his Household , you his wife inclusive. Even the Bible says in 1 Timothy 5:8 "any man that does not take care of his Household is worst than an Infidel"

My dear if you mindset has been that of a Guy to take care of his Babe all the time, you have to change that mindset and learn to fend and take care of yourself with or without a man, But if you are Married , please support your Husband in fending for your Household.

Men don't like Liability.

what are u saying? Didn't u see wen she said husband. Beside if a husband will do his responsibilities after marriage it will tell by how well he treats his lady wen they are dating.

This is where we ladies get it wrong wen dating a man and the man is not doing anything for u, u still go ahead to marry him thinking that he will change and after marriage he didn't change next thing is to start talking about divorce.

Like u said, the bible made it clear that a man thaat can't take care of his home is worse than an infidel. By the time u give a man the impression than u can take care of yourself he leave that to you total even after marriage. I no of many homes today where is the woman that takes the man's responsibility even if the man has money.

Am not saying ladies should not work or take care of themselves but am saying we ladies should leave men to do their responsibilities and stop forming miss independent.

Our men are just going lazy by the day because some ladies are giving them the wrong impression. Some men now want to seat down at home while the lady work and take care of the home this is very wrong and plz ladies should stop supporting this wrong things. Men plz wake up to ur responsibilities.

Men, any lady that dose not want to take care of her is not wishing u well it means she dose not want you to have because there is no way a lady will want you to take care of her without praying for God to give u the means.

luvola: why nah .pls nah why nah .pls nah

sorry I'm lost

destante: sorry I'm lost

Common # add me up #gush

luvola: Common # add me up #gush

on where? I don't use bbm sorry.

Fphotographer: after she builds herself to become a complete entity as u put it, you wil now bring up the theory that women are not meant to have more finances than men so therefor she is not a suitable mate.... omo guys dont even know what they want. the say one thing and mean another

do YOU know what you want in life urself?

d moment u know u will stop being confused

destante: on where? I don't use bbm sorry.

k.. I give up.....lol#cover face

OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one

Guys jump into conclusion that girls don't want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees you in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees you in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.

I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I can't marry him if he continues being broke.

I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely:

*talk about a boring relationship; when your female friends are going places with their rich bf, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.

*your friends will not respect him; by the time your female friends get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.

*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends by buying provision or something for them will make him tear you apart.

*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so you won't disregard him.

*he will naturally look stingy to you ; imagine asking your broke boyfriend to help you with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# you won't just be feeling him anymore.

This is just a few of what I can remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their girlfriend/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled through you, you live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show you off.

I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.

'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'

All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some guys don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech girlfriend/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my Boyfriend's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.

If you become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a girlfriend, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do you guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.

This is. Clear truth

Finance is a necessity almost in everything..
Being in a relationship and be broke doesn't bring out the best of the relationship

I once loose a nice girl I was dating because I was broke.its a painful experience sha

Saecula:
Seema you lack the facility to properly comprehend what you wrote that led to this rejoinder

sorry but your daft. dont quote me ever again.

destante: on where? I don't use bbm sorry.

not even f.b or whatapp? hmmm

This where i need my guy dailynews for bitter truth analysis.

slimzypink: at age 20 I got my 1st car.. at age 22 I sealed a million deal..talk about being independent, but all dsame dis broke guys aint loyal. best liars

Pics or adonbelie..... better yet, tell that to the birds!

golddeejay: who is selling n who is buyin

whoever wants it more....

Enahi: You must be sick in the head, don't quote me again dickhead.

oosh... enahi..common#harsh

luvola: not even f.b or whatapp? hmmm

*sigh

luvola: oosh... enahi..common#harsh

Sorry

destante: *sigh

sob....



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Ndababa: whoever wants it more....

fair enuff...because me i aint buyin ntn...guess they wnt it more

idu1: This where i need my guy dailynews for bitter truth analysis.

lolz

FLYGERIAN91: As a matter of fact yes.... Its only the tycoons i see..... The truth of the matter is i have seen and have heard of alot of people whose fortune change from abject poverty to bastard wealth..... Trust me u know or have heard of atleast one person.... Most pple who remain poor is due to the phycological effect of things happening around them and if i'm not mistaken, most times, ladies dumping their boyfriends because they have judged by his present state may leave some pple devastated and shattered probably because the one who they thought loved them has abandoned them to their fate after all he must have sacrificed for her.... Not all of such people make it out of such humiliation and abdject rejection..... Most times we are the cause of the downfall of men who would have been somthing with our support and encouragement without knowing it and only a few might be able to survive the scourge of being looked down on..... Just a single mis spoken word could bring an entire empire down in rubbles..... Never judge a book by its cover... Learn to help people stand on their feet when they need you the most.... Never let them crumble for their success will be your greatest achievement.... We should learn to be our brothers keepers not be our our brothers 'demolition man' !!! IT COULD BE YOU TOMORROW..... Only a foolish man is certain that his riches will last forever and throw caution to the wind..... (My own 50kobo) take or leave it.....

I cannot but agree wit you writ up, nice one bro,

OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one

Guys jump into conclusion that girls don't want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees you in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees you in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.

I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I can't marry him if he continues being broke.

I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely:

*talk about a boring relationship; when your female friends are going places with their rich bf, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.

*your friends will not respect him; by the time your female friends get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.

*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends by buying provision or something for them will make him tear you apart.

*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so you won't disregard him.

*he will naturally look stingy to you ; imagine asking your broke boyfriend to help you with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# you won't just be feeling him anymore.

This is just a few of what I can remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their girlfriend/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled through you, you live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show you off.

I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.

'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'

All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some guys don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech girlfriend/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my Boyfriend's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.

If you become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a girlfriend, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do you guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.

As much as I try to fix sense into your post, its just gets more unreasonable......I can almost ascertain you even make a mockery of your boyfriend in his presence.....if you as a girl are not a broke leech or too busy working to make something out of life, there shouldn't be a problem.....girls like you suffer in the hands of guys till your old age, you boyfriend would be the greatest fool to read this article and not have a secret plan to ditch you when he eventually makes it.....Ask your parents if they are still together especially your mother how she made it in marriage cos with your low intelligence you can't get anywhere......70 percent of the successful marriages you envy today, the man and woman grew into financial stability together, not because ladies found rich husbands. If you really are not a lazy leech, then no man should be a problem for you.. I didn't believe there were ladies like you until I read your post, your replies to people's comments are even worse and displays pride and arrogance( on nothing).....may God help you to change or to find a man that can put up with this.

jcflex:



I cannot but agree wit you writ up, nice one bro,

thanks mhen..... Its just the way things should be.....

winner01: As much as I try to fix sense into your post, its just gets more unreasonable......I can almost ascertain you even make a mockery of your boyfriend in his presence.....if you as a girl are not a broke leech or too busy working to make something out of life, there shouldn't be a problem.....girls like you suffer in the hands of guys till your old age, you boyfriend would be the greatest fool to read this article and not have a secret plan to ditch you when he eventually makes it.....Ask your parents if they are still together especially your mother how she made it in marriage cos with your low intelligence you can't get anywhere......70 percent of the successful marriages you envy today, the man and woman grew into financial stability together, not because ladies found rich husbands. If you really are not a lazy leech, then no man should be a problem for you.. I didn't believe there were ladies like you until I read your post, your replies to people's comments are even worse and displays pride and arrogance( on nothing).....may God help you to change or to find a man that can put up with this.

This person is a thief.... You just stole the words out of my thoughts...... You said the awesome truth..... I just wonder why some girls these days dont wnat to learn from others..... Please tell them....

FLYGERIAN91: thanks mhen..... Its just the way things should be.....

sure. that way tinz shld b as u rightly said. bt the issue of trust is one of our biggest problem this days.

i can't even finish reading what she wanted to say. first of all, u don't choose broke or rich! u choose personality-WHAT I MEAN IS- u choose a guy who has A HEAD on his shoulders! if he is stupid - will never be rich. choose a guy who constantly has ideas in his head and is hard working. saying i can't marry the guy until he is rich. such a bull*hit. so if u marry rich guy, u have nice family and kids and one day he looses all his capital? what u gonna do even if he is rich, marries u and later decides to divorce u? darling u gonna sit on the sidewalk crying your eyes out. relationship is about encouraging each other and working together towards wealth and not just sitting like a hen on the perch waiting for golden times!