If he's religion permits multiple sex partners it's still ok because I was having a conversation with one of my girlfriends back in the days, she's a Muslim and married now but as of the time they were still courting the guy made it clear to her that he may likely marry other wives as his religion permits and she said she is ok with her. At least if fe comes with ladies of easy virtue hiding under Islam to be doing 2nd and 3rd wife it won't come to her as a shock and common sense will tell her not to dare put her mouth in his common dheek since the dheek is not only her exclusive rights the name of MouthAction after inserting that same stuff into different somethings especially if they share common toilet and bathrooms and their hygiene level is low

tintingz:
Yes it is no longer monogamous.

But the wife in the monogamous marriage with a man that cheats still sees the union as a monogamous setting.

That's deceiving.


Not all begins with cheating, because religion like Judaism, Islam, Mormon etc frowns at adultery.

So in most cases the bringing in another wife is being discussed with the first wife after or before marriage.

Then you should tell that to the women that accept polygamy marriage proposal from the men.

I shudder to think that I'll open my eyes with my clear mind and sleep with a man whom I KNOW is sleeping with other women who I don't know who they are sleeping with.

Some people are very brave and have no fear.
I doff my cap to them.

ileobatojo:


Excellent!

Apart from those that have been brought up religiously to accept it, I see 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives etc as people without scruples. They probably have no qualms about getting it on the side from other men. Lawd knows the number of STD's recycled in these homes where man and women are all screwing around.

tintingz:
Yes, mono men are not different from poly men just that one marry multiple wives to avoid the word "adultery".

Many people believe what happen in poly marriages does not happen in mono marriages because a man is faithful to his one wife, sorry a lot happen in mono marriages as well poly.

Since polygamy involve marriage, where's the adultery there?

Like have said religion like Islam, Judaism, Mormon etc frowns at adultery, so in most cases the first wife will know about the bringing in another wife right from the beginning.


I didn't say all men discuss about the idea of polygamy marriage to their wives.

All I know is that most men from some particular religion background make it known to their wives.

Please define the word 'Adultery'. Its very obvious you dnt know what it means and you are confused.

carefreewannabe:


It's not going to happen as long as women depend on men.

then let's continue reading the everyday stories of husbands cheating on wives

cococandy:
I shudder to think that I'll open my eyes with my clear mind and sleep with a man whom I KNOW is sleeping with other women who I don't know who they are sleeping with.

Some people are very brave and have no fear.
I doff my cap to them.

it is called ADVENTURE

SAMBARRY:
then let's continue reading the everyday stories of husbands cheating on wives

What else can we do?

SAMBARRY:
If he's religion permits multiple sex partners it's still ok because I was having a conversation with one of my girlfriends back in the days, she's a Muslim and married now but as of the time they were still courting the guy made it clear to her that he may likely marry other wives as his religion permits and she said she is ok with her. At least if fe comes with ladies of easy virtue hiding under Islam to be doing 2nd and 3rd wife it won't come to her as a shock and common sense will tell her not to dare put her mouth in his common dheek since the dheek is not only her exclusive rights the name of MouthAction after inserting that same stuff into different somethings especially if they share common toilet and bathrooms and their hygiene level is low

You make sense in first part of your post but the last part....

wetin consign me If they give bl'owjob, hand job, yansh job.

SAMBARRY:
If he's religion permits multiple sex partners it's still ok because I was having a conversation with one of my girlfriends back in the days, she's a Muslim and married now but as of the time they were still courting the guy made it clear to her that he may likely marry other wives as his religion permits and she said she is ok with her. At least if fe comes with ladies of easy virtue hiding under Islam to be doing 2nd and 3rd wife it won't come to her as a shock and common sense will tell her not to dare put her mouth in his common dheek since the dheek is not only her exclusive rights the name of MouthAction after inserting that same stuff into different somethings especially if they share common toilet and bathrooms and their hygiene level is low

My sister, you just made me imagine some disgusting scenerios like the man performing o*r*a*l on all of his wives and then kissing all of them. OMG!! then that same man will sleep with numerous concubines and bring stds and share them equally amongst his wives.

Oh lawd!!

This has to be one of the most disgusting things anyone would have to live with IMO

SAMBARRY:
It's part of the love they are sharing aftetall there is loff in sharing and to crown it all I can bet they are all using the same toilet where the infection can be strengthened well well, that is if they don't steal each other's pants

Sophyrocks:


Please define the word 'Adultery'. Its very obvious you dnt know what it means and you are confused.

adultery /əˈdʌlt(ə)ri/ noun

voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse.

---

A Monogamous married man have sexx with his girl lover = adultery.

A Polygamous married man have sexx with his legal married wives = Where's the adultery here?

carefreewannabe:


What else can we do?

get enteryained, rant, argue on nl and call it a day. After all warri man say cunny man die, cunny man Bury am.na them go dey frolic with sugar sons, hang pregnancy that is not his own on his neck and collectively share stds.



Shebi it's this same Nigeria where we heard of Man with 5 wives. The kids of the 3wives weren't his only the children of the remaining 2 wives were his. He dey do folorunsho for them. He only knew when one of the kids came back from nysc.



N.b for those who don't understand yoruba folorunsho=school daddy or ignorant giver in this context

tintingz:


adultery /əˈdʌlt(ə)ri/ noun

voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse.

---

A Monogamous married man have sexx with his girl lover = adultery.

A Polygamous married man have sexx with his legal married wives = Where's the adultery here?

Can't you see the defination staring at you? can't you see the answer right there? and you are still asking me where is adultery in polygamy?? think man think!!! Gosh!!
Let it be an assignment for you.

This guy is a lost cause!!

SAMBARRY:
get enteryained, rant, argue on nl and call it a day. After all warri man say cunny man die, cunny man Bury am.na them go dey frolic with sugar sons, hang pregnancy that is not his own on his neck and collectively share stds.



Shebi it's this same Nigeria where we heard of Man with 5 wives. The kids of the 3wives weren't his only the children of the remaining 23 wives were his. He dey do folorunsho for them. He only knew when one of the kids came back from nysc.



N.b for those who don't understand yoruba folorunsho=school daddy or ignorant giver in this context

I can't help but feel schadenfreude. Shame on me!

tintingz:
You make sense in first part of your post but the last part....

wetin consign me If they give bl'owjob, hand job, yansh job.

why e go consain you before? Dey there dey deceive yasef

SAMBARRY:
get enteryained, rant, argue on nl and call it a day. After all warri man say cunny man die, cunny man Bury am.na them go dey frolic with sugar sons, hang pregnancy that is not his own on his neck and collectively share stds.



Shebi it's this same Nigeria where we heard of Man with 5 wives. The kids of the 3wives weren't his only the children of the remaining 2 wives were his. He dey do folorunsho for them. He only knew when one of the kids came back from nysc.



N.b for those who don't understand yoruba folorunsho=school daddy or ignorant giver in this context

OMG!! Hahhahahahahahaha.

I said it that multiple women struggling for only one man is like trying to get crumbs of bread. Why struggle for crumbs when you can have loaves of bread outside? I said it that these men cannnot successfully satisfy their wives. They were really s*e*x starved. And the men are busy deceiving themselves and beating their chests. i am sure that man boasts about outside. Hahahahaha.

It's part of equal treatment under Islam . After all whatever a husband has is his wives own to.DISEASES INCLUSIVE ARE ATTACHED TO THAT

Sophyrocks:


My sister, you just made me imagine some disgusting scenerios like the man performing o*r*a*l on all of his wives and then kissing all of them. OMG!! then that same man will sleep with numerous concubines and bring stds and share them equally amongst his wives.

Oh lawd!!

When people say at least polygamous men are not committing adultery I just laugh. How do most of them acquire wife no2,3 and 4 if not through adultery. There are very few men these days who will get a second wife that they haven't already been dating or sleeping with. It's mistresses that become wife 2. A lot if times sef the 2wife comes in already pregnant so how is that not adultery

Sophyrocks:


Can't you see the defination staring at you? ccan't you see the answer right there? and you are still asking me where is adultery in polygamy?? think man think!!! Gosh!!
Let it be an assignment for you.

This guy is a lost cause!!

hehehehe

Sorry oo.

Is like you don't know the concept of polygamy.

Polygamy involve marriage, with more than one wife.

The same marriage wey monogamy dey do.

Fela married almost 30+ women, they are his legal wives he's their husband the olori oko.

[img]http://tinkjewellery.files./2011/08/fela_and_wives_tad.jpg?w=600[/img]

SAMBARRY:
It's part of equal treatment under Islam . After all whatever a husband has is his wives own to.DISEASES INCLUSIVE ARE ATTACHED TO THAT

Equal treatment kwa. Jeeeeez. Disgusting!

tintingz:
hehehehe

Sorry oo.

Is like you don't the concept of polygamy.

Polygamy involve marriage, with more than one wife.

The same marriage wey monogamy dey do.

Fela married almost 30+ women, they are his legal wives he's their husband the olori oko.

[img]http://tinkjewellery.files./2011/08/fela_and_wives_tad.jpg?w=600[/img]

You have refused to see adultery for what it is. let me ask you, before a polygamous man can marry a 2nd wife, what does he do?

And he was boasting up and down for those who care to listen . my 2sons are chattered acountants, one of my daughter is a teacher and the other girl is a medical doctor. My last child just finished his nysc and he is a graduate of chemical engineering. Just imagine training all those children and they are now all successful only for you to know when you are retired that only 2 are yours

Sophyrocks:


OMG!! Hahhahahahahahaha.

I said it that multiple women struggling for only one man is like trying to get crumbs of bread. Why struggle for crumbs when you can have loaves of bread outside? I said it that these men cannnot successfully satisfy their wives. They were really s*e*x starved. And the men are busy deceiving themselves and beating their chests. i am sure that man boasts about outside. Hahahahaha.

Sophyrocks:


Equal treatment kwa. Jeeeeez. Disgusting!

o it's just dawning on you that polycrap is disgusting and demeaning?

SAMBARRY:
And he was boasting up and down for those who care to listen . my 2sons are chattered acountants, one of my daughter is a teacher and the other girl is a medical doctor. My last child just finished his nysc and he is a graduate of chemical engineering. Just imagine training all those children and they are now all successful only for you to know when you are retired that only 2 are yours

F00lish man!! That is why its not good to boast. You end up looking like a f00l outside. Never be too sure when it comes to women. we are full of surprises.

Sophyrocks:


You have refused to see adultery for what it is. let me ask you, before a polygamous man can marry a 2nd wife, what does he do?

Date and marry her.

We can't call this adultery since he married her and the first wife knows about it.

tintingz:
Date and marry her.

We can't call this adultery since he married her and the wife knows about it.

Apart from muslim women and other women who are aware, there are a host of others who are not aware like the case of that polygamous man in this thread. Before he married her, he dated her. He even had s*e*x with her. what is the dating between a married man and a single woman called?

And he died shamefully. Even up till now his seed of discord which he sowed when he was alive is still bearing fruits. Shebi his wives and kids have messed up his acquisitions. instead of him investing into the lives of his children he was marrying she hooligans annually. Let him go and be playing his saxophone where he is



what's that his song sef.let me sing it for him



palava you dey find palava you go get yioooo

tintingz:
hehehehe

Sorry oo.

Is like you don't know the concept of polygamy.

Polygamy involve marriage, with more than one wife.

The same marriage wey monogamy dey do.

Fela married almost 30+ women, they are his legal wives he's their husband the olori oko.

[img]http://tinkjewellery.files./2011/08/fela_and_wives_tad.jpg?w=600[/img]

SAMBARRY:
o it's just dawning on you that polycrap is disgusting and demeaning?

For where? It has always been disgusting to me since i flew down from planet jupiter.

Sophyrocks:


Apart from muslim women and other women who are aware, there are a host of others who are not aware like the case of that polygamous man in this thread. Before he married her, he dated her. He even had s*e*x with her. what is the dating between a married man and a single woman called?

In the OP case it is adultery.





...but the adultery as been wiped out because he married her to be his 2nd legal wife.

SAMBARRY:
And he died shamefully. Even up till now his seed of discord which he sowed when he was alive is still bearing fruits. Shebi his wives and kids have messed up his acquisitions. instead of him investing into the lives of his children he was marrying she hooligans annually. Let him go and be playing his saxophone where he is



what's that his song sef.let me sing it for him



palava you dey find palava you go get yioooo

Hahahahahahahaha. And that is the life Tintingz wants to live. Fela is his idol and role model.

Sophyrocks:




F00lish man!! That is why its not good to boast. You end up looking like a f00l outside. Never be too sure when it comes to women. we are full of surprises.

before nko?




the funny thing is that the man vexed and chased the 3 wives out, those ones weren't even bothered and told him that the most important thing is that he has helped them train their children, after all the reasons they married him has been achieved, na the children wey dey pay their house rent in different places where each of them live. Na so so lagos mama/socialite them dey do for lagos

SAMBARRY:
And he died shamefully. Even up till now his seed of discord which he sowed when he was alive is still bearing fruits. Shebi his wives and kids have messed up his acquisitions. instead of him investing into the lives of his children he was marrying she hooligans annually. Let him go and be playing his saxophone where he is



what's that his song sef.let me sing it for him



palava you dey find palava you go get yioooo

Fela is respected African legend.


The founder and king of Afro music.

His lifestyle is non of my business.

Sophyrocks:


Hahahahahahahaha. And that is the life Tintingz wants to live. Fela is his idol and role model.

God forbid.

I just used him as an example here, haba.

tintingz:
In the OP case it is adultery.





...but the adultery as been wiped out because he married her to be his 2nd legal wife.

The adultery has nt disappeared because he took further steps to make the adultery more concrete. Marrying the 2nd wife is an adulterous marriage. Adultery will disappear if he didnt date and marry her in the first place. Stick to the defination of adultery. Legalising robbery doesnt make robbery disappear. it only makes robbery more concrete and acceptable. now will such a man stop there? Nope. If he wants another wife, he has to commit adultery again then legalise the adultery. Adultery remains adultery. This tells you that religions who kick against adultery are telling you that you are supposed to be Monogamous. you are supposed to stick to only one woman. Once you cannot do it, its adultery whether you leaglise or not.