justmag:
Leave them both n take ya asss to church. You need jesus!

supported. Gham!

slap1:
You can't truly love two people at a time; because if you really love the first, you won't need the second.


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I know you won't take my advice but I'll just give it anyway: LEAVE BOTH OF THEM!
Why? You are sitting on a time bomb by dating a cultist. ( What kind of girl are you self?!)

I also feel the second guy knows you're crushing on him and is waiting to crush you back.

For safety sake, leave the second guy completely and pretend you still love the first one...maka ndu gi.

she no go hear ur own. hw u sure weda d second guy nva buy iphone6 for her

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

you just realized he is a cultist after 3yrs?
Just leave him if you don`t love him anymore,just forget about an unneccesary excuse...
By the way your ex(to be) is cute,you posted his pix on twitter,tagged "MY BOO"

story for them gods.
When you bn dey date am you no know say the guy be cultist
Why do I have this feeling that you're lying about that part?

All these small small girls sha

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

The story of an incoming runz girl. Keep both of them and get extra 3 guys as back up cos most guys are cultists or drunks or womanizers or abusers or sane people.

vivaciouzz:
yea,I know he was a cultist all dis while but I hv trying to save him from being known..only few pple know abt it..its not as if I got into a relationship coz of dat.I knew so many tinz I stopped him from doing like smoking.. I made him take his studies serious.. I really helped him..hez d quiet type n recently has been having issues with the school security, n I don't want to get involved dats y I want to leave ..d oda guy doesn't know dat I had a crush on him n hez loving me now..n hez in anoda school coz assuming hez in my school..dunno wat would hv happened to him n I didn't start my new relationship with se.x..I just wanted someone dats free from problems n who I can b with without being afraid dat something bad might happen to him

I may not be in the best position to advise you ma but the truth is that ending up with a cultist with your knowledge of it is as good as setting time bomb. The end of it most atimes is always very bad. I have seen cases.

You keep saying he is a cool guy, no matter how cool he is, there is this composition in him. If he truly loves you and the potency of your transforming power is real as you have stated, then he should give the cultism up.

As for the second guy, to me from my microscopic point of view, it looks like you even threw yourself to him. Take time to know if he truly loves you. Gracias.

because u want leave d first guy dats y u tagged him a cult ehhh. my dear go back nd finish wat u started nd stop running from tom to dick

vivaciouzz:
yea,I know he was a cultist all dis while but I hv trying to save him from being known..only few pple know abt it..its not as if I got into a relationship coz of dat.I knew so many tinz I stopped him from doing like smoking.. I made him take his studies serious.. I really helped him..hez d quiet type n recently has been having issues with the school security, n I don't want to get involved dats y I want to leave ..d oda guy doesn't know dat I had a crush on him n hez loving me now..n hez in anoda school coz assuming hez in my school..dunno wat would hv happened to him n I didn't start my new relationship with se.x..I just wanted someone dats free from problems n who I can b with without being afraid dat something bad might happen to him

. My friend just shut up, u stopped fire, how would u feel if the cult guy eventualy kills the poor boy because of ur stupid love? I'm very sure that u r crushing on another guy now, leta u will leave this present one, if u want to leave the cultist leave him but don't use the new guy as an excuse in other not to put his life In danger

vivaciouzz:
yea,I know he was a cultist all dis while but I hv trying to save him from being known..only few pple know abt it..its not as if I got into a relationship coz of dat.I knew so many tinz I stopped him from doing like smoking.. I made him take his studies serious.. I really helped him..hez d quiet type n recently has been having issues with the school security, n I don't want to get involved dats y I want to leave ..d oda guy doesn't know dat I had a crush on him n hez loving me now..n hez in anoda school coz assuming hez in my school..dunno wat would hv happened to him n I didn't start my new relationship with se.x..I just wanted someone dats free from problems n who I can b with without being afraid dat something bad might happen to him

Why don't you just take it easy with guys....
You are yet to be free from your cultist bf and you are already hopping into another guy.... Clear your head first and focus more on your studies.... Its not as if this your crush holds your future... Pls stay away for now. Cool down, life is not always about being in a rosy r/ship, there is more to it. I think taking a break from all these mental stress will help you a lot, you are too young for all these.. Come on think straight!!!!!!!

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

Simple Solution:Dump em Both. And date me.

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

See as you are just telling the story with ease...as if you are acting one nollywood movie.

Gals are more heartless than guys, just that they know how best to shout when they taste lil of guy's sting. Miss OP, answer this question. Would have been singing this same song of love now had it been it's that your bf of 3yrs that says it's all over?

I don't blame you anyway, it's women's way, they keep one guy, yet they call men cheats. Have you considered what this guy is passing through?? Have you considered the fate of your new boyfriend's girlfriend or do you think he's been waiting for you to appear all these years

I am not sure that it is appropriate to put this on the FP......But then that is just me oh.......

Missonas:


nah advice him give na

no mind me jor.. I was only disturbed as I see the OP as 'serious'

henryhemon:
You are greedy already by not being contempted with what you had?what's crushing on someone?you didn't love the poor guy before,what you called love was infactuation,what qualities did ur new dick have that the other doesn't have. Aint advising kids like you,continue jumping from one D to another and call it luv. You don't know what luv is,for people like you,its the highest spender.

NICE ONE
@OP old stinks,new scents
new D dey sweet wella.
Remember the devil you know...

From ur story, u not yet matured, so you will not understand even if I tell you that, you don't love your cultist boyfriend and you don't love the present one either. You are just a drifter. Drifters often get knocked around.

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

u r still a kid!! if u were my sister, i would giv u d beatn of ur life

Be greedy and keep two of them. Nah wetin dey sweet pesin, dey hypnotize am !!!

U are too small for such appetite

Hypocrites everywia!! Y'all r in no position to judge ha...hw many of u can kum out n swear dat dey neva had a gf/bf in d university. Shez an adult nd its ha lyf! If u dnt av any useful advice 4 d lady den dnt boda commentin.

equlibrium:


elders are sleeping.
they will be here soon

You guys have a way of making people laugh

Any girl Wey go lead me to my early grave!!
Holy ghooooooost !!!!!

elders said they can't drop their advice cus the girl is knowingly and gladly dating a cultists. Elders don't interfer in such silly cases.

Blitz4real:
were

I thought u were a diva (female version of a hustler) why this small matter kon dey worry u? Anyways no mind the confra guy him go soon kpia with that him mumu cult movement,infact u r still a fresher (smallie), just focus on school n leave men for the main time.if agro too hold u tell me let me ship u a vibrator.I for help u myself but like I said u r still a smallie and ur waist neva ripe,forget say I dey type plenty na just say sun wan kill man pikin for this trotro(danfo) wen I enter,so tell me which of my advice u go take?




MODIFIED: tell me na abi u dey shy nii

Davo93:
no mind me jor.. I was only disturbed as I see the OP as 'serious'

Lol she probably is but she knows what to do.we(ladies) like living in denial

u dey mind am!! i just lost it when i read my boyfriend is a cultist. for real? chalk it up to his CV. Total and mobil are looking for such....rubbish!! childish little girl indeed.

bigiyaro:
From ur story, u not yet matured, so you will not understand even if I tell you that, you don't love your cultist boyfriend and you don't love the present one either. You are just a drifter. Drifters often get knocked around.

After graduation they keep on complaining no job...blaming govt and witches in their village

equlibrium:

on the face of it, ex is a cult guy
dats a no no
thats a yes reason anyday anytime to ditch his twisted arse

This comment got me laughing.I was expecting u to ask her if d guy had always been a cultist. Abi d guy 'jazzed' her?

I think you should leave both guys for now and focus on other important things (not like I think this is even important).

ammyluv2002:
smh

Here is £1000

Missonas:

Lol she probably is but she knows what to do.we(ladies) like living in denial

Na God go save all of you

@op,no one can decide for u except urself..........Abi,we follow u reach there?