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Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by pickabeau1: 11:48pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I won't mind chipping in myself 1 Like |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 11:49pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
pickabeau1: I am sure we are not the only ones. |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by delishpot: 11:49pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
damiso: My sister, na so e be. Some time ago some otondos here were saying its their right to force a woman get an abortionif they choose not to be involved in the child's life. See how low some men can go? This is an example of some naija men mentality. They ask for an abortion then turn around and claim the child ad theirs and they deserve to keep it. A woman will be pregnant for 9 months, the guy did not support her for a day. She had the baby, raised her alone for 2 years( any parent will understand how hard pregnancy can be on the expectant parents talkless of only one parent carrying the whole wahala) then all of a sudden, the mumu old cargo comes and steals her from the mom. Na wa o. Its well. This life sha. 3 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 11:52pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
The useless baby daddy. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by pickabeau1: 11:52pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: She has to be strategic Let her get a lawyer who can work the case even pro bono or something The angles r too many Kidnapping Child trafficking They file a report in UK, EU and interpol UK high commission Travel ban They will now contact Nigerian Police Stinking up the place.... The lady must be strategic 2 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 11:52pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 11:54pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Anyone from PH who knows the family. Tell these wicked people to bring the girl back to her mother. The name of the wicked "grandma" Annette Ehiemere |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by delishpot: 12:05am On Oct 10, 2014 |
soulglo: Not all of us sha. But yes, some nigerians are wicked and evil. Who will ever think a 2 year old will be better off with her dad when its not like her mom is a junkie or prostitute? If the mom takes good care of her and protects and keeps the child safe, why in the wide world would some insane persone think the child would be betteroff to live with a man she did not know, a man who wanted her abborted, a man who did not care when she was brought into the world a man who prolly has another woman now who can never love this child as her own( any woman or man with a child he/ she loves, will know that you can never love another persons child like you love yours) how can any sane person think the 2 year old will fare better there? Plus only a dunce will believe that naija courts just give kids to dads without looking deep into the dads and moms lives first before the decision of who to release the child to is made. Which kain mumu talk is that? I just hope that otondo will not take that lie to foreigners o. Haba. The grand ma kidnapped the child and only an adult with an abusive mom will consider such act an act of kindness. Cos he or she wished they had such intervention from their own abusive moms while they were growing up. 4 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by evea: 12:06am On Oct 10, 2014 |
Sue dem 2 court. get ur child bk |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 12:15am On Oct 10, 2014 |
am not like you,am not brain washed am pure breed,my passport if full,yet i cant stay outside Africa for more than 2 weeks but nothing can put me against African way of life carefreewannabe: |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 12:17am On Oct 10, 2014 |
that's what the girl should have agreed to before going to hide behind uk law aderonila18: |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 12:19am On Oct 10, 2014 |
you care about the woman but don't care about the man,that is what you are telling me. secondly African psychology is different from the white man even a fool knows that carefreewannabe: |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 12:24am On Oct 10, 2014 |
onoja12: I didn't know child abduction was African culture. I thought child abduction was Boko Haram's job. 8 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by itstpia1: 12:31am On Oct 10, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: With those looks, more babies are surely on the way from a plethora of women. 4 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by soulglo: 12:33am On Oct 10, 2014 |
delishpot: I know not all but the ones who want to do the right thing get bullied into not doing it. Many times they have to hide and do it so society won't tear them to shreds. People put tradition and religion before humanity in Nigeria and it just drives me crazy. 3 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 12:33am On Oct 10, 2014 |
MsNas:Note where he used "In Igbo customary law, if he is married to the girl". He is not generalising |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by soulglo: 12:35am On Oct 10, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: 1 Like |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by itstpia1: 12:36am On Oct 10, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Why did the child have a passport? Or what documents were used to take her out of Britain? 1 Like |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by itstpia1: 12:40am On Oct 10, 2014 |
onila: Ok, that explains the appearance. |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by itstpia1: 12:43am On Oct 10, 2014 |
So, what we have here is an allegation of a missing child, allegedly kidnapped by the grandmother, no birth certificate in possession of the mother, child's nationality unknown, parents' nationality not yet clear. Is the mother going to get a replacement birth certificate for the child? Whose names are on the original document? |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onila(f): 12:55am On Oct 10, 2014 |
itstpia1: the parents are both Nigerian the girl is yoruba while hes igbo |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 1:01am On Oct 10, 2014 |
can someone Pls educate me on how the grand mum got hold of the baby's passport & even the birth certificate how immigration allowed an advanced woman to pass through with a 2yr old baby ? Without the presence of the mother or a letter(even this I'm not too sure it applies) The mother stated the baby hasn't travelled out of the country before, so how did she pass thru immigration?? the story isn't complete at all, it's one sided 2 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 1:16am On Oct 10, 2014 |
The mother messed up big time - why would you allow the child's biological father's mother stay with you at all. This is how you know that this young girl did not suffer enough at the hands of this man. I am still confused as to why the mother did not specifically state to the passport office that no one can travel with her daughter other than her or obtain travel documents without her consent. i mean i know ukba are incompetent - but to this level? well I feel for the mother and this 2 year old, one has to remember that nigeria is one of the countries that has not signed up to an international child abduction convention - so I believe that if the child has dual citizenship or solely nigerian citizenship she may have problems getting the child back, however if the child is solely British I honestly think less twitter and more time with the met police. This child needs to be returned and for all these families that allow women to go thru pregnancy alone and the first 2 years (first 2 difficult years) alone only to claim what you denied - I hope God punishes you very well. 7 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by itstpia1: 1:19am On Oct 10, 2014 |
onila: Ok So, its assumed the child would have a nigerian passport or travelling papers. The mother did not know when the grandma got these, or she ( the mother) already had them then showed them to the grandma? Does the mum have a record of the child's birth from the hospital? Where are the mother's relatives? Btw, in Igboland, children born out of wedlock usually belong to the mother. This case is different because times have changed maybe? 3 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by onoja12: 1:22am On Oct 10, 2014 |
a father can not abduct his child carefreewannabe: 1 Like |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 1:23am On Oct 10, 2014 |
Hey chill mr,i dnt depend on welfare neither do my 2kids, my husband work hard to care for me and kids,and am a fulltime home maker and enjoying every bit of it,but for those who depend on it,its very ok for them,its a working economy that assists their citizens,not African nations where children die of hunger and diseases simply because parents cannot afford it,are you now saying the uk govt should stop immigration because of welfare immigrants are getting?common,they are smarter than us African to have reached that stage,and they are not complaining,you should rather be ashamed that Africans particularly Nigeria is not giving so much to its citizens upon all the available resources,we are supposed to be feeding the whole of African nations with parts of Europe joined together because God richly blessed us,so now mr,i expect you to charge your greedy leaders to ICC or kidnap or kill them one after the other so you can all enjoy the wealth God gave you.dnt blame anyone for collecting welfare,its everyones right here as long as you are legal to receive it. donedy: 4 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 1:35am On Oct 10, 2014 |
how much is this benefit self - do people actually think that a MOTHER is crying because of £20 a week child benefit. wow http://www.pact-online.org/Advice/advice-action-guide-pact-parents-and-abducted-children-together-parental-abduction-missing-children-associate-of-icmec.html http://www.thefamilylawco.co.uk/child-abduction/what-is-parental-child-abduction/ https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/international-parental-child-abduction anyone that knows the mother should direct her to these sites and inform her to contact a lawyer/seek legal aid (if eligible) and contact the FCO and Met police. http://www.reunite.org/ 1 Like |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by BaddieKay(f): 1:36am On Oct 10, 2014 |
Alot of silly and stupid people commenting sh*it here...That grandmum is a very wicked and heartless criminal,how would she feel if some1 kidnaps any of her children?Thats d thing with guys,u get her pregnant and u runaway 4rm ur responsibility(@least accepting its urs)den later wen shes bn through sum tough and bad times u resurface to claim a child u gave up. If d father wants his kid,der better ways to go about it,d lady here has a good heart(4 allowing d grandmum into her home) and i think she wont deny d guy from seeing his kid anytime he wants.Kidnapping isn't d way out no matter wt d situation might be 4 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by soulglo: 1:47am On Oct 10, 2014 |
cotton101: I agree she messed up but she's a young mother. At 22 years old she still has no clue about life. This is just the truth. It's sad that this woman came into their life with the intention of wrecking havoc. i have seen young mothers with no help make desperate decisions when it comes to the kids. I'm sure she thought it was a miracle because now she could focus squarely on her education and not worry about leaving her daughter with strangers for hours while she's in class all day. She probably thought who else could come close to loving my child as I do than grandma. 4 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 1:54am On Oct 10, 2014 |
I agree - she was probably still in love with the guy coupled with her age. chei i feel for her cos I know the safeguards I put in place and still have in place for my own child. This girl needs to get this is the mainstream media - cos this is a 2 year old we are talking about. I am actually angry as to why the UKBA did not even question the fact that a child was traveling without the mother. 4 Likes |
Re: UK-based Nigerian Mother Pleas For Help For Kidnapped Child by Nobody: 1:55am On Oct 10, 2014 |
Leave them,is the oversabi men that are crying over benefit. cotton101: |
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