well said,now please help me ask the girl if she had the consent of the father before she went to hide the child in uk?if am to go by what you said the girl should be arrested first for kidnapping her own child
and just for the record,it is not possible for a husband to rape his own wife,that can only happen in the imagination of the white men.the funny part is this same white men don't have laws that say wifes can rape her husbands,what a sick world you people leave in

soulglo:



YES!!!! YESS!!!!! YESSSS!!!! Onoja12 a father can kidnap his own child. A mother can also kidnap her child. No parent has the right to take away a child without the consent of the other. Only on NL will you hear that husbands cannot rape their wives and parents cannot kidnap their children. You have asked thus same question a couple of times already and I think you just want someone to tell you that every father has the right to take any child their sperm contributed in making. That's not how it works.

BananaBender:


You are reaching............

@Mondisweets: some of your comments are hilarious. The nigga is paper-weight, take it easy with him.

Sholly, you found ya voice today.

Anyway, Angela Davis, Alice Walker, and Assata Shakur have a message for you.

bournvita:


Are we reading the same story or what? Didn't they tell her to terminate the pregnancy?

the dude is just trolling.....
he's trying to use his village lens to analyse the world beyond him.

i cannot, for the life of me, believe someone in the 21st century can ask if a father can steal his own child......formal education didn't achieve much in nigeria.

kunlejazz:
I feel the lady's pain.
The grandma's actions are by whatever standards (moral and legal), unjustifiable.

But... you know what? Something tells me we need to hear 'the other side of the story'- the boyfriend's family's version.

Tust me, things are never as simple as she's making it look.

No matter how they try to explain it, I will never understand how grandmama's actions are justifiable.

If Temmy was an inadequate mother, it would have been easy to call child services on her.

It's obvious that Temmy is open to her child's father's side of the family, therefore she's not excluding him from his parental rights.

So why sneak a baby across the borders like a thief in the night?

And really, reading some comments on this thread is reflective of certain Nigerian cultures that we need to abolish.

so she claims,even at that for the fact she decided to keep it doesnt stop it from been the boys seed

bournvita:


Are we reading the same story or what? Didn't they tell her to terminate the pregnancy?

well said,now please help me ask the girl if she had the consent of the father before she went to hide the child in uk?if am to go by what you said the girl should be arrested first for kidnapping her own child
and just for the record,it is not possible for a husband To Molest his own wife,that can only happen in the imagination of the white men.the funny part is this same white men don't have laws that say wifes can molest her husbands,what a sick world you people leave in

soulglo:



YES!!!! YESS!!!!! YESSSS!!!! Onoja12 a father can kidnap his own child. A mother can also kidnap her child. No parent has the right to take away a child without the consent of the other. Only on NL will you hear that husbands cannot rape their wives and parents cannot kidnap their children. You have asked thus same question a couple of times already and I think you just want someone to tell you that every father has the right to take any child their sperm contributed in making. That's not how it works.

onoja12:
so she claims,even at that for the fact she decided to keep it doesnt stop it from been the boys seed

and being the boy's seed means the child can be stolen?

carefreewannabe:


I didn't know you were selling yourself.

Smh. Apart from black and white, are you cognizant of any other colours?

Not everything would be explained to you, hence cognitive reasoning is there for reading between the lines.

coogar:


where was the crime committed?
go on youtube & check the number of times criminals like this grandma have been arrested in nigeria on camera.....

nigerian police are not loyal to you, they are only loyal to their bellies. if they get paid, they would physically take the woman to the airport & hand her over to the british authorities.

You keep talking ill of the Nigerian police force. Do you think everyone is as corrupt as you. I know bribery get you where you are today, since you know more about it.

can you steal your seed,its just like saying the boy stole his sperm

coogar:


and being the boy's seed means the child can be stolen?

onoja12:
so she claims,even at that for the fact she decided to keep it doesnt stop it from been the boys seed

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It...okay the child is a IT. So being a seed of his gave his mother the right to take her child away without asking the mother?

SirShymex:


Lmao...empty barrels!

She posted a link, and didn't even read the content. And these are the same folks who spout that utopian feminism pipe-dream everywhere. Talking about how they're superior to men. I can't take these folks seriously!

Lool welcome to the mondibit*ch show!!

Let her entertain you with her endless stream of buffoonery

did the mother ask the child father

bournvita:
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It...okay the child is a IT. So being a seed of his gave his mother the right to take her child away without asking the mother?

onoja12:
did the mother ask the child father

Ask him what?

onoja12:
can you steal your seed,its just like saying the boy stole his sperm

why can't the boy make another spërm? why must it be the one he rejected?

donedy:

You keep talking ill of the Nigerian police force. Do you think everyone is as corrupt as you. I know bribery get you where you are today, since you know more about it.

criminals have always been captured by any means possible......why are you getting hot under the collar? are you the grandma?

SirShymex:


Smh. Apart from black and white, are you cognizant of any other colours?

Not everything would be explained to you, hence cognitive reasoning is there for reading between the lines.

I have read between the lines that you look down on people who behave exactly like you.

Mondisweets:
i agree with you the fact that the child was abducted from one country to another means international law and courts have to intervene

I'm surprised that someone actually mentioned that since the grandma is in Nigeria now, she only abides by Nigerian law.

Once she gets her baby back, she should file restraining order on that side of the family. If they can kidnap a child, they can kill.

Hopefully, the child has not been auctioned off to ritualist or being used for ransom.

I commend any woman that keeps her pregnancy, cares for her baby while obtaining her education and let's in the same family that wants that same baby aborted. That is a lesson in courage, love and forgiveness.

coogar:


why can't the boy make another spërm? why must it be the one he rejected?

criminals have always been captured by any means possible......why are you getting hot under the collar? are you the grandma?

I think the "Donedy" guy is the baby's dad.

Mondisweets:


shut the Bleep up, in your deluded head this is what you call intelligence. Stupid bi*tch assssssss nigga, you can take a mad man out of a village, but you can never take the village mentality out of him!

Looool only intellectually retar*ded dogs like you can't see I was clearly having a laugh.

I've vowed never to engage you again, it's demeaning to a person of my calibre.

So bask on in your stupi*dity.

50calibre:

Lool welcome to the mondibit*ch show!!

Let her entertain you with her endless stream of buffoonery

Brazen buffoonery!

Badge of honour, yet she won't discuss how women are their own worst enemies.

this matter would keep going round in circles,which doesn't help the matter,the solution is not ownership but well been of the child,the child needs the father and mother,if the girl claims she loves the child as she is claiming,she would be more than willing to mend the fence for the well being of the child,but rather what i see here is someone fighting for ownership,i keep advising black women,western way of life doesn't work for us,it may work for them but it doesn't work for us,and if you check the black women abuse the western way of life at an alarming rate even the white women don't do this things

bournvita:
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It...okay the child is a IT. So being a seed of his gave his mother the right to take her child away without asking the mother?

SirShymex:

I think the "Donedy" guy is the baby's dad.

ahhhhhhh, no wonder.

he's probably hiding in a bunker now. with PH thugs on the lookout for him, he cannot be safe. for £100, his local government chairman would rat him out easily.

no comment till I hear the other side of the story. so many things not adding up

SirShymex:


Classic cognitive dissonance synonymous with what I diagnosed earlier.

I'm sure you're smart enough to deduce the sex of both the victim and the accused. Stop feigning ignorance!

And it's part of the topic: a crime committed by a woman against another woman. And the kid is also a girl.

You are the one showing ignorance at its best, thats not the purpose of this thread. if you want to discuss "women committing crimes against other women", CREATE A THREAD THAT SERVES THAT PURPOSE.

carefreewannabe:


I have read between the lines that you look down on people who behave exactly like you.

Don't look down on them or people in general. I just want them to learn the art of being responsible for whatever actions they take, or choice they make.

Why should a girl who isn't ready for motherhood, and without a solid family structure to raise a child, with the two pillars of the family decide to get pregnant in the first place? That's an irresponsible behaviour!

However, the nan is still a psycho though. She just dug her own grave with the law.

onoja12:
this matter would keep going round in circles,which doesn't help the matter,the solution is not ownership but well been of the child,the child needs the father and mother,if the girl claims she loves the child as she is claiming,she would be more than willing to mend the fence for the well being of the child,but rather what i see here is someone fighting for ownership,i keep advising black women,western way of life doesn't work for us,it may work for them but it doesn't work for us,and if you check the black women abuse the western way of life at an alarming rate even the white women don't do this things

The western way of life doesn't work for us so...tell me why are you wearing clothes? What are you not walking around naked covered in plantain leaves? Why did you attend primary/secondary school....I will hold off on university.

What are you browsing Nairaland with? A phone? A laptop? A tablet? You bought any of the above or all of the above made by the people in the west and you are spewing thrash? Throw them all away and then come back and preach this nonsense to me. I will be all ears then...

You are not making sense and if only there was a shop where people can purchase sense for x amount of dollars, trust me...I would have invested my dollars in you a long time ago.

my sister you are lost from the way you speak,i know you came from a broken home or raised by single parent or you are a lesbian.i am not insulting you,and please don't take it as such but that what you are leading me to believe.you kind of thinking if what the father of that child is trying to prevent

coogar:


why can't the boy make another spërm? why must it be the one he rejected?



criminals have always been captured by any means possible......why are you getting hot under the collar? are you the grandma?

onoja12:
well said,now please help me ask the girl if she had the consent of the father before she went to hide the child in uk?if am to go by what you said the girl should be arrested first for kidnapping her own child
and just for the record,it is not possible for a husband To Molest his own wife,that can only happen in the imagination of the white men.the funny part is this same white men don't have laws that say wifes can molest her husbands,what a sick world you people leave in

This makes no sense

50calibre:


Looool only intellectually retar*ded dogs like you can't see I was clearly having a laugh.

I've vowed never to engage you again, it's demeaning to a person of my calibre.

So bask on in your stupi*dity.

well if you vowed never to engage me again, is it not absolutely stu.pid of you to be quoting and mentioning me? Idiot, if there is anything demeaning here its your, "village boy mentality"

coogar:

ahhhhhhh, no wonder.

he's probably hiding in a bunker now. with PH thugs on the lookout for him, he cannot be safe. for £100, his local government chairman would rat him out easily.

Lmao...he's pissed!

Donedy, be a good son, and save your mum from the wrath of the British law. And you lot need to stop dragging naija's name in the mud!

SirShymex:


Brazen buffoonery!

Badge of honour, yet she won't discuss how women are their own worst enemies.

Hahahaha that's mondibitc*h for you.

dont get it twisted does are not way of life,and secondly for the record wearing cloths and technology including education started right here in Africa,go and read history

bournvita:


The western way of life doesn't work for us so...tell me why are you wearing clothes? What are you not walking around naked covered in plantain leaves? Why did you attend primary/secondary school....I will hold off on university.

What are you browsing Nairaland with? A phone? A laptop? A tablet? You bought any of the above or all of the above made by the people in the west and you are spewing thrash? Throw them all away and then come back and preach this nonsense to me. I will be all ears then...