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Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by GamaG(m): 2:32am On Oct 18, 2014
I want to know whether it is the sole duty of men to say 'I love you' first before the women respond with 'I love you too'.

honestly speaking, this issue has been giving me cause for concern as when I refused to say it, my fiancee will not initiate it. your opinion is highly needed please.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by movein: 2:36am On Oct 18, 2014
Wait let me ask ifa grin

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by fitzmayowa: 2:37am On Oct 18, 2014
This is going to be interesting...
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 2:37am On Oct 18, 2014
The women folks are something else,they want everything center around them.

I thought I was the only one in this,till this thread.

Fiancee won't say it,till I say it first. Since I noticed that,I locked up too,after all,display of affection shouldn't be one sided..

I only say it when in the mood to fight "chinese" with her to grant me easy access. Body no be firewood.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Benbisco(f): 2:37am On Oct 18, 2014
Bro, it can be anyone depending on who feels it the most @ the moment

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by LEERICIST(m): 2:38am On Oct 18, 2014
Well I don't know much about love so I'd rather sit this one out.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by shadowwalker101: 2:38am On Oct 18, 2014
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by happykidArotiba(m): 2:38am On Oct 18, 2014
angry angry grin grin grin it will only depend on the first to Truly fall in love at that moment...

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Oyecute(m): 2:39am On Oct 18, 2014
NO ! ... There is no written or unwritten rule to that effect. The statement should come as ones heart feels and situation demands.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by HuJJC(m): 2:39am On Oct 18, 2014
Yels
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by MisterLongman(m): 2:40am On Oct 18, 2014
Duty...... As in call of duty

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by benjichuks(m): 2:40am On Oct 18, 2014
*clears throat* Erm Erm Erm... It is nobody's duty! Anyone who feels it strongly should initiate it as a spur-of-the-moment thing, instead of stereotyping it to specific persons, specific situations, specific time of the day or whenever they talk.

1ST PAGE THINGS! Pls don't hate grin cheesy wink

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Waspy(m): 2:42am On Oct 18, 2014
In Nigeria, Yes....In other climes with no hypocrisy stereotypes, No

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by happykidArotiba(m): 2:43am On Oct 18, 2014
lyk dont some people sleep? grin grin

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 2:44am On Oct 18, 2014
She's just not feeling the love is she doesn't express it.....or perhaps.,she's shy to express her feelings, some people just don't know how to express or say how they feel about someone.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by CuteAnnabelle(f): 2:44am On Oct 18, 2014
kiss kiss Don't Know, Don't Care
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by amolex(m): 2:44am On Oct 18, 2014
I think it can go both ways depending on who is over charged with feelings at d moment but its always better if it comes from the guy....first page things

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by LMAyedun(m): 2:45am On Oct 18, 2014
CuteAnnabelle:
kiss kiss Don't Know, Don't Care
You shouldn't make a comment then. cool

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by guente02(m): 2:46am On Oct 18, 2014
All i know is that the one who says it first loves the most.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by LaurelP(m): 2:46am On Oct 18, 2014
Me I dey wonder too o!
D worst is dat if u don't say it first, she wud try to force it out of u
As if its a crime for a woman to say I Love U


I guess they jst don't feel free voicing it out, though inside they may even be feeling d guy more undecided

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by austinbrown: 2:49am On Oct 18, 2014
No its the duty of my grand father

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by mhiztee: 2:50am On Oct 18, 2014
She may be shy. undecided

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by kenbee(f): 2:50am On Oct 18, 2014
[size=16pt]This Life is not fair![/size]

It is a man's duty to:

Compliment, Toast, Protect, Provide, To initiate "I luv U", Propose, Introduce, Marry......and the list is endless!

Men's World indeed?

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by decode55(m): 2:50am On Oct 18, 2014
hmm. Almost 3:00am

Una no dey sleep?

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by tjones007: 2:53am On Oct 18, 2014
Duty? It's not a life time job and it's a team work.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by amolex(m): 2:54am On Oct 18, 2014
decode55:
hmm. Almost 3:00am

Una no dey sleep?
na security job u dey do? grin[quote author=decode55 post=27237321][b] hmm. Almost 3:00am

oh! u want make our data waste abi ur plan no go work

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by drey22(m): 2:56am On Oct 18, 2014
It Comes Down To Who Wants It Most
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by paramedic: 2:56am On Oct 18, 2014
if you don't, who will?
or you looking for whom to call a cheap girl?
as far as the flag is green white and green,
it's your responsibility to initiate such

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by decode55(m): 2:57am On Oct 18, 2014
amolex:

na security job u dey do? grin

Omo, I dey dinner party o! cheesy
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by tjones007: 2:58am On Oct 18, 2014
decode55:
hmm. Almost 3:00am

Una no dey sleep?

MTN free Night plan (3gb) at work.

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