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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by GamaG(m): 2:58am On Oct 18, 2014
Benbisco:
Bro, it can be anyone depending on who feels it the most @ the moment
for 7years now we've been together, she neva say it once to me. so am curious av decided to stop saying it.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by mcfarlin(m): 2:59am On Oct 18, 2014
Na wa oooo


Una no dey sleep
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by valuka(m): 3:00am On Oct 18, 2014
decode55:
hmm. Almost 3:00am

Una no dey sleep?

Na inside dream u dey comment? kiss

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by decode55(m): 3:00am On Oct 18, 2014
tjones007:


MTN free Night plan (3gb) at work.

abi? grin grin
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by 19naia(m): 3:00am On Oct 18, 2014
If not for women taking the lead and giving birth to men, there would be no men... The women of course lead the way in all matters of proper function of humanity.. The men are just there to challenge them by making problems so things dont get boring for the women... Oh and yes the men also are slaves to do the hard labour, feed and house the women when they are laden with children to birth and raise...

If we wait on men to initiate love, then we allow opening the gate for Esu to harness the world for his kingdom of hell.... If we step aside and let women, they will find the way even if with failures and difficulty along the way but only to bring us all closer to love without laying foundations for Esu and his kingdom of hell.... I know some womem are evil ,but behind every evil woman is an abusive or manipulative man of usury.. wink

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by decode55(m): 3:01am On Oct 18, 2014
valuka:


Na inside dream u dey comment? kiss

you don see am na cheesy cheesy

How far na?

I no see you for meeting today.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by tjones007: 3:01am On Oct 18, 2014
GamaG:
for 7years now we've been together, she neva say it once to me. so am curious av decided to stop saying it.

7 years shocked shocked shocked. . Her heart must have been cold towards love.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by bunmioguns(m): 3:05am On Oct 18, 2014
I don't know



undecided
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Alexsmith20(m): 3:20am On Oct 18, 2014
happykidArotiba:
lyk dont some people sleep? grin grin
Are you dream-typing?

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by amunekeuto: 3:21am On Oct 18, 2014
for me, he need not say it. let him act it. let him carry drinks to my folks.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 3:23am On Oct 18, 2014
GamaG:
I want to know whether it is the sole duty of men to say 'I love you' first before the women respond with 'I love you too'.

honestly speaking, this issue has been giving me cause for concern as when I refused to say it, my fiancee will not initiate it. your opinion is highly needed please.
@op since you love her why not initiate it. You will soon get tired of this "I love you" you are waiting for.

Yes it is the sole duty of men to say 'I love you' first because I believe you were the one that worked up to her. You are sure and know what you really want from her.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 3:24am On Oct 18, 2014
LEERICIST:
Well I don't know much about love so I'd rather sit this one out.
hehehehe see lover boiiii
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Alexsmith20(m): 3:24am On Oct 18, 2014
kenbee:
[size=16pt]This Life is not fair![/size]

It is a man's duty to:

Compliment, Toast, Protect, Provide, To initiate "I luv U", Propose, Introduce, Marry......and the list is endless!

Men's World indeed?
Nd dey would say what a man can do a woman can do better.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Alexsmith20(m): 3:25am On Oct 18, 2014
decode55:
hmm. Almost 3:00am

Una no dey sleep?
GateMan yu dey dream abt Nairaland.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 3:27am On Oct 18, 2014
Anyone can say it but guys should always be the one to say it first not a ladies so that we won't look cheap.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Alexsmith20(m): 3:28am On Oct 18, 2014
decode55:


Omo, I dey dinner party o! cheesy
nah breakfast party u go call dis one o.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 3:28am On Oct 18, 2014
GamaG:
for 7years now we've been together, she neva say it once to me. so am curious av decided to stop saying it.
Some people are not good with love words but they mean it whenever they say it. she might say it to you on your wedding day.
The most important thing is showing you how much she loves you. Some girls can shout and sing 'I love you' even when on top of another man.

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 3:30am On Oct 18, 2014
GamaG:
for 7years now we've been together, she neva say it once to me. so am curious av decided to stop saying it.


Yomieluv:
The women folks are something else,they want everything center around them.

I thought I was the only one in this,till this thread.

Fiancee won't say it,till I say it first. Since I noticed that,I locked up too,after all,display of affection shouldn't be one sided..

I only say it when in the mood to fight "chinese" with her to grant me easy access. Body no be firewood.

My brothers, Nigerian women are just so unromantic. It is common to hear phrases such as "He is the man, he is suppose to call me" and tjings like that. They feel that they are doing you a favor when they are dating you so to even say "I love you" na big wahala! The only time a woman display topmost affection to you as a guy is when they want you to give them something or take them shopping. Smh

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Alexsmith20(m): 3:31am On Oct 18, 2014
tjones007:


MTN free Night plan (3gb) at work.
hw did yu do it?

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by decode55(m): 3:34am On Oct 18, 2014
Alexsmith20:
nah breakfast party u go call dis one o.

cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by kolamilan(m): 3:36am On Oct 18, 2014
very soon they will be saying what a man can do.........
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by decode55(m): 3:42am On Oct 18, 2014
Alexsmith20:
GateMan yu dey dream abt Nairaland.

Nna gi gateman tongue tongue
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by HARDDON: 3:44am On Oct 18, 2014
GamaG:
I want to know whether it is the sole duty of men to say 'I love you' first before the women respond with 'I love you too'.

honestly speaking, this issue has been giving me cause for concern as when I refused to say it, my fiancee will not initiate it. your opinion is highly needed please.

Three things r iinvolved
1) shez not into u....just hanging on until a better deal shows up....if this is d case, u already know it ain't gonno work but because she is endowed u still want her BADLY ( run now if this is d case, cos if she cant express it now that itz hawt, wen wud she ? When her tommy pops from ur seed n she go hating u for sowing ?) Ehmmm, some1 said his wife go reading newspaper when he is on her missionary! Know that kinda feeling?

2) she does love u but she's the very shy type n find it hard to put emotions into words. A simple look into her eyes would reveal d volumes of her heart! This is very rare nonetheless.
How come she is not too shy to sing those melodies when u guys r having them hawt sessions?


3) she is into u deeply but she's fully in the picture n blivs strongly that the power in a r/ship/marriage, belongs to him/her who cares less. So she pretends not to send, to care, nor display any emotions unless u have the first go. These types r most common now n most frustrating .

Remedy: wisely put her in her place.....she was not d one that proposed to u! If u saved her number with a pet name b4 , change it to her NATIVE name(I know dey hate this) . if u've been d one doing all d calling, retract. Chill a bit n let her return most of d calls u've placed across earlier . she would complain I know, that should not make u bulge. To make up a lil, instead of returning her calls, send mages. Make ur self unavailable unlike before. If u see her twice a week , make it once, sometimes none. btw, it is not every time she calls u , u wud pick . n b4 u pick, if u must, let it ring for a while( don't just rush n pick) if she says she doesnt have much airtime , that u should call back, tell u will n take ur time. When u guys r on call, always be the one to round off the talk....aii....I got stuffs to handle now, chat latter . make these a lifestyle
She can't but straighten up if she takes u crzly(so many of them would be happy u got ur balls on)


I know some folks would ball in here quoting this and saying this is d best way to lose her, well it is better she is gone than wasting my time n resources and blocking more suitable prospects

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by LEERICIST(m): 3:52am On Oct 18, 2014
prettythicksme:
hehehehe see lover boiiii

lol tongue
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by HARDDON: 3:53am On Oct 18, 2014
Yomieluv:
The women folks are something else,they want everything center around them.

I thought I was the only one in this,till this thread.

Fiancee won't say it,till I say it first. Since I noticed that,I locked up too,after all,display of affection shouldn't be one sided..

I only say it when in the mood to fight "chinese" with her to grant me easy access. Body no be firewood.
This r/ship isn't going no where. N we all know who"s got d control knob
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Lakayanah: 3:55am On Oct 18, 2014
I only say it when we are doing the "thing" and at th moment when my man dey sabi the "thing".
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by ElekeNtioba: 3:55am On Oct 18, 2014
Its high time we men put our feet down and demand they say it first. Threaten them, heck deny them sex....anytin bruvs!!

Its tym we change dis norm for d future of manhood.
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Lakayanah: 3:57am On Oct 18, 2014
I only say it when we are doing the " thing " and at the moment when my man dey sabi the " thing ".
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by drkay(m): 3:58am On Oct 18, 2014
No
Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by kobonaire(m): 3:58am On Oct 18, 2014
Get her a D&G handbag, you go hear am sharp sharp grin

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by Nobody: 4:01am On Oct 18, 2014
prince3009:





My brothers, Nigerian women are just so unromantic. It is common to hear phrases such as "He is the man, he is suppose to call me" and tjings like that. They feel that they are doing you a favor when they are dating you so to even say "I love you" na big wahala! The only time a woman display topmost affection to you as a guy is when they want you to give them something or take them shopping. Smh
Are you really sure

So you have rolled with all Nigerian women

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Re: Is It The Duty Of Men To Initiate The I LOVE YOU Statement? by HARDDON: 4:04am On Oct 18, 2014
paramedic:
if you don't, who will?
or you looking for whom to call a cheap girl?
as far as the flag is green white and green,
it's your responsibility to initiate such

angry angry have u ever really felt Love in ur life?

Have u ever colasped into ur guy's warm embrace n for once felt protected from d scourging of dah sun?

Have u been so trampled , tossed n troubled by life's storms but a single Kiss from his lips seems to drawn all ur tears n soothe all ur fears?

Tell me, hv u really felt love b4?

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