Abeg the text too long, I no read am but I get the idea

Read, liked and shared.

Cho! First to comment After Almost a Month on Nairaland. #definitely dz z A Thank U to Tamuno#

Ladycloud:
nyc one dear! if all guyz fink this way...d world will be a better place!

TRUST ME U GO PORT NAIJA PRAYER HOUSES TIRE #winks#

Ladycloud:
nyc one dear! if all guyz fink this way...d world will be a better place!

Trust me, u go port Naija prayer Houses tire #winks#

purpose ? very funny

life has no purpose

# Trolling.

Ladycloud:
nyc one dear! if all guyz were lyk yhu...d world would hv been a better place!

Incomplete if gals too dnt tink like dis

Ladycloud:
nyc one dear! if all guyz fink this way...d world will be a better place!

same applies to female folks

Wow... What a way to start my day! Guys/Ladies, this calls for a sober reflection ..

Nice one, @OP... #Food for thought#..

I read it where you called it a 'letter'...
I read and loved the letter *educating*
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I read where you wrote 'rubber'
Anyway, the only 'rubber' I know is 'money' *unique*
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After reading the letter, one question came to my mind...
When do I read the "YOUR'S FAITHFULLY" or "YOUR'S SINCERELY" part of the letter *just wondering and expecting*

wow true talk man.let the countdown begin

barackodam:
I love thread.


Thumbs op!!!

lmao..very thoughtful signature 'Seun Ose wa'

God bless u bros!!

True talk jare thumbs up man

Great. Another woman worshiping thread. I have said it and will say it again. Do unto men as you want men to do unto you. If you push me to the wall don't expect me to stand looking like a fool. Like kanye west said " I won't hit a bi*ch but I will shake the shit out of you" as for going closer to God I rather practice karma than ass kiss men of God who buy private jets in the name of evangelism. We are in a new world where women want equal rights there fore they should be mandated to meet men half way. YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT. I respect Caucasian women when it comes to sex, if they want a one night stand they let you know. Meanwhile most NIGERIAN girls want to marry a rich man that mistakenly spends some money on them, yet they say money can't buy love. Keep feeling like the best thing God has created while you either end up as a single mother or divorced or remain single at age 40 while looking for the rich man that will marry you. MOST nigerian girls are worthless...

Some good advise in a couple of places, but I don't like the preaching format of the article. It was like the OP was delivering a sermon. I really thought I was going to read about the good and bad of marriage, an how to handle things. Instead, I read a letter from a person forming a "holier than thou" attitude, and condemning every other person that can't live as "perfect" as he is supposedly living.

It's a letter indeed, love d whole advise. Pax domini sic simper vobiscum.

OP, with ur kind....Nigeria will be better faster

all dis people reading dis post, dont u ve homes to sweep...dis is Saturday morning for Christ sake

HARDDON:
Take risks! It is risky not to take risks. We all come face to face with a make or break situations and we must have d balls enough to say like Hannah: if I perish, I perish. David did this when he faced Goliath n a host of others even in our time.

Never settle for less. Only a lion's heart is worthy of a lion's share.
Dare for more.

Sir, you just gave my day a lift and fuel to my dream and aspiration. God reward you immensely for this inspiring piece. Thanks.

is better i go to south Africa and marry a HIV-liberated, ~whorish~ girl than waste my God given time on dis useless naija girls who thinks I ve a money growing tree in my back yard.

HARDDON:
3) be liberal : right @ that very state with what u have , learn to give to promote God's works n Bless humanity either in cash or in services . if God could give his Son for us all, there is something about humans that moves him.

hmmm.... Wow. I will book mark this. Thanks once again. This is deep.

What a thoughtful contribution, your signature is even fantastic. Bravo!

tivta:
Great. Another woman worshiping thread. I have said it and will say it again. Do unto men as you want men to do unto you. If you push me to the wall don't expect me to stand looking like a fool. Like kanye west said " I won't hit a bi*ch but I will shake the shit out of you" as for going closer to God I rather practice karma than ass kiss men of God who buy private jets in the name of evangelism. We are in a new world where women want equal rights there fore they should be mandated to meet men half way. YOU CAN'T EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT. I respect Caucasian women when it comes to sex, if they want a one night stand they let you know. Meanwhile most NIGERIAN girls want to marry a rich man that mistakenly spends some money on them, yet they say money can't buy love. Keep feeling like the best thing God has created while you either end up as a single mother or divorced or remain single at age 40 while looking for the rich man that will marry you. MOST nigerian girls are worthless...

Op, thanks. This is all i need.

Wat a kool letter, its so true as d GOSPEL... Spot on OP.

someone should share this post in sexuality section ... We are damaged beyond repair in that section myself not excluded ... Mazi ...foxy ... Zubby ... Kay .
The sex gods that think,sleep,eat,breath sex.

drkay:
This is a vry good advice every young man who has a meaningful plan for his life must heed to.

well said bro.

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kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary.

Nice one. U should also think of writing a letter to the single ladies cos they really need to be told some hard truth.

kentozybee:
A Letter To Single Men
Hey guys, how are you doing? How has life fared
with you lately?


The hustle and bustle of becoming a man ain't
an easy job, I must confess! But with God and
diligence in fulfilling purpose, we'll get there.


I write this letter to you to point out some things
which you ought to know before marriage or as
you continue in that relationship.


This letter is strictly for men, not boys or players.
First concerning how you treat ladies. I know
quite alright that ladies are emotional only few
are not. Please, don't take advantage of that and
inflict emotional pain on them.


If you know she's not going to be your wife,
there’s no point promising her heaven and earth
just to get her in bed.
If you think you're smart, your smartness cannot
prevent the nemesis or daring consequences that
would one day catch up with you.


It's better you avoid the consequences of an
action because of its few minutes pleasure than
to face its agony and regrets in the near future.
What are you doing about your life and future? I
know it's trendy to go clubbing and indulge in all
youthful exuberance. See, life doesn't go on a
stretch forever and every time wasted cannot be
recovered.


If at age 30 or close to it, you haven't define your
life or you're still depending on friends, family or
relatives, you need to work on yourself.


Where do you put God in your life? Consider God
in the time of your youth before it's too late.
Many of you who turned back on God will
someday run back to Him for help. If you cannot
dance to the devil's music, it's better you start
learning God's steps.
Hear this guys, love isn't sex! Don't tell a lady to
prove her love to you because you want to have a
'taste' of her. I know everyone is going haywire
with premarital sex but you can choose to
abstain.


Apart from it being sin against God, it will make
you vulnerable to STDs and some problems
'rubber' cannot prevent.
It doesn't matter if she calls you names if you
choose to abstain, or you become an object of
mockery amongst your friends, run for your dear
life.


Think about your future and life hereafter. Don't
give your strength to strange women, preserve it
for your wife.


Have you discovered your purpose in life? That
very reason why God has created you?
Jumping from one lady to another without
discovering your purpose on earth will make you
miserable and waste away in life.


Know your purpose in life and be on track to
attain it's fulfillment before you think of going
into a relationship. It's not difficult, it would
only prevent you from distraction.


Watch the company of friends you keep. Are they
contributing positively to your life or they are
emptying you of virtues and opportunities?
It's not a must you hang out with friends if you
do not benefit from them. You can stand alone
with God and make lasting impact than to keep
dozens of friends with no footprints in the sand
of time.


Man up guys! Build your financial, spiritual,
mental and emotional life. Only a crazy man
beats a woman even if she pushed you to the
wall. There is a button of patience to press to
control your anger.
Work on your mental development. Read good
books to acquire knowledge and skill. Get
intimate with God so that your wife wouldn't
become a victim of false prophets or you become
a spiritual babe in handling matters of life at the
homefront.


My guy, you're going to be a father someday.
Don't do the things you wouldn't be proud of
your son to emulate or would want anyone to do
to your daughter.


If you wouldn't want to leave a bad legacy for
your unborn children, don't tread the path now.
I'd have love to tell you more but I believe you
know the importance of life and time and I'm
constrained due to space.


Don't waste away chasing every Tom, Dick and
Harry for sex. Conserve your energies and
channel it into a more productive cause in life.
I hope the few wise ones would treasure this
letter, share it or send it to a friend.


Thank you for your anticipated response as you
make amends in areas where necessary.

I like this. I like good things.

Waoooh! So we still have pple who reason this way, then am not ancient. I pledge to God my creator to be faithful loyal and honest to serve God and humanity wt all my strenght to defend her purity and uphold HIS righeousness and grace so help me GOD.