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Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by tmosco(m): 7:56pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
BananaBender: Dis why I hate arguing wit kids, dey results to insult because dey don't understand. Love comes from small things 2 me d reason 4 taking my name shows she respect me and she is humble, it just a small part in all d things l like. To me if u decide to keep ur name just because her friend bananabender is doing it den she is not committed 2 d marriage simple. If she keeps her name that doesn't mine I will also have an happy marriage. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 7:56pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tmosco: The man's acceptance or permission is not needed here, the husband has no weight in this matter. If he doesn't like her choice, then the woman can always kick him out of her life. It is also a man's choice to marry a woman suffering from low self-esteem that will change her name to his and be mother to his kids; and she will thereby pass on her self-esteem issues to her children. No marriage on this planet earth was successful because the wife changed her last name to her husband's. Don't be stup1d, you are repeatedly sounding like someone who can't think. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by tmosco(m): 7:59pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
BananaBender:No marriage was also successful because she kept her name. It d reason 4 her changing dat can make d marriage successful. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:00pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: These are the things Shymex is proud of. 2 Likes |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:02pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tmosco: I never insulted you, I used a conditional clause "if". Let me rephrase, 'any man that thinks a woman belongs to him because she changed her last name to his is a r*etard!" Let me follow your logic for a second, You just said, a woman changing her last name to yours is a sign of respect. Right?? I am going to ask you this, Does a wife deserve respect from her husband? If yes, why don't you also change your last name to hers since changing of last names is a sign of respect to you?? |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by pickabeau1: 8:03pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
The news about jay z taking up Knowles name is at best a rumour until officially confirmed http://www.theroot.com/articles/culture/2013/02/jayz_knowlescarter_name_change_is_a_just_a_rumor.html |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Keep looking for cheap points. Proud of, or just telling you his background, and who he's beneath all the facade, and how he went against all odds to achieve greatness? Hell yes, I'm proud of a guy who never had nothing, but built everything from the scratch. The forgotten stone, who became the cornerstone - that's a success story to be proud of. Especially when his networth is over $300 million. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:04pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tmosco: Exactly! Therefore, it shouldn't matter if she changes her name or not. Trust me, women change their names because that is what the society expects them to do. For the most part, a woman that changes her last name is only a product of the patriarchal society she grew up in. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:10pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
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Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:12pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: You are proud of a successful strong brother, who went against all odds, from riding shotgun with druglords - and hustling on the street corners of Marcy projects but you have a problem with feminism? Interesting. Very interesting. 3 Likes |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by tmosco(m): 8:15pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
BananaBender: Like I said my principles is based on d Bible. Adam named his wife, because dey are not more 2 but 1.He called her d bone of my bone and d flesh of my flesh. Paul said a man shud marry one woman. The husband 2 show love and d wife 2 respect. A man will choose respect over love asking him 2 chose one at gun point. 4 ladies since u are emotional creatures u will chose love. Dat why most husbands are older than their wives. Respect is important 2 dem. A woman dat decide 2 keep her name wit d husband aving no say does not respect him. Period |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:17pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: And she strikes back! Lool Gone back to old habits of unintelligent posts, no? How about ask me to tell you the meaning of "riding shotgun" before jumping to unintelligent conclusions again? Anyway, it seems you are a slow learner, and I will have to double up on my efforts, in trying to stimulate your cognitive reasoning. Ok, how about tell me your myopic definition of what "riding shotgun" is? Let us start from there. 1 Like |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:18pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tmosco: You are not logically sound, at all. Like, I am scared I might lose my patience with you. My brother, go on in ignorance |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:19pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:21pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: I saw that carefreewannabe was already disciplining you, I thought you might die if I added my own a*ss whooping. Shawn Knowles-Carter. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:22pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: Riding shotgun Meaning To travel as an armed guard next to a vehicle's driver. Latterly, (chiefly in the USA) - to travel in a car's front passenger seat. http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/riding-shotgun.html 1. riding shotgun Earning the right to ride in the front passenger seat of someone's car. This is also the direct opposite of "riding bitch," where you are sitting center-backseat, sandwiched by your friends (aka: riding gay, riding LovePeddler). It is "shotgun"'s responsibility for controlling car temperature, changing radio stations, calling out landmarks, and flagging down hot girls. http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=riding%20shotgun Now give us your sophisticated definition of that expression. 1 Like |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:26pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
This is what I call a*ss whooping! Shymex, my polygamous toy-boy, come let me rub aboniki on your yansh. This a*ss whooping is too much |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by tmosco(m): 8:29pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
BananaBender: Thanks, wishing u happy marriage life when or if u do. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:29pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: You can't make this up - bwahaha. So, you basically had to consult google, for a street terminology you don't understand - and the definitions you copied and pasted are way off from what ya initial posts were about. Now tell me what's wrong in being in the front passenger seat, of people you grew up with in the same area, who might be top drug dealers? And how being in the same car as those who are more or less your friends a crime? I await your response. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:31pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
BananaBender: Loool. Just watch how it unfolds. She already crucified herself. That is why I always tell empty headed feminists to improve their cognitive reasoning. 1 Like |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:35pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
Guys, please stop derailing. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:38pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: I know what riding shotgun means in that context, I'm sure she also does. She was only being smart with you, by using the formal/correct/English definition. You half-witted chauvinists, can't detect someone messing with you because you have your dull head so far up your own a*sses. 1 Like |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:39pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: I prefer to consult dictionaries when people try to talk themselves out of something. Is it not astonishing that people call other people b*ytch and w*hore and cheap and on the next day give a detailed account of their s*exapades on a public forum, which include encounters with the baddest girls of all, a*nal intercourse and an almost addictive consumption of po*rn? Is it not remarkable that people come on a thread and are enraged at people bringing a rapper into the context of feminism but are perfectly ok with the rapper in the context of drug selling? You can insult me as much as you want but it is you who is becoming famous for poor sense of judgement 2 Likes |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:41pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
BananaBender: Being smart or being utterly dumb? Ol'girl posted her first intelligent comment ever a few days ago, and I actually applauded her for the effort. And I thought that will usher in a new dawn. But hey, she's back to the old habits. She's not messing with me - that's the classic "carefreewannabe." What do you expect from a "wannabe" that isn't the real thing? 1 Like |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:45pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: When all attempts to defend an asinine comment has failed, it's always time to go on a tangent, and try to get yourself out of the grave, no? Can you see your folly now? How about answer the questions I posted to you? 1 Like |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:45pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
tmosco: Thanks. I also wish you happy married life when or if you find a girl suffering from mental slave. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by tmosco(m): 8:52pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
BananaBender: We all know dey are out dere, just av 2 pick d perfect one out of d many. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 8:52pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: This was your question: "Now tell me what's wrong in being in the front passenger seat, of people you grew up with in the same area, who might be top drug dealers? And how being in the same car as those who are more or less your friends a crime?" So your definition of "riding shotgun" is and has from the beginning only been "to be sitting in the front seat of a car with boys from the hood who by some chance happen to be drug dealers"? Try harder to talk yourself out of it. 1 Like |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 9:00pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: You have haven't answered my question, in the context in which you made your inane accusation. How about tell me what's wrong in riding shotgun with your friends from the same neighbourhood? And also explain why it's a crime and a bad thing to do? You can't talk yourself out of this. I made my comment in a particular context, and you have to stick to that context. No amount of flopping will save you today. You can get all ya feminist goons for back-up. |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 9:02pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
I thought 'riding-shot gun' meant hanging outside the window(seat beside the driver) in a drive-by shooting. No? |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 9:02pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: And I guess your expert knowledge of Jay-Z's life does not include his drug dealing career? You didn't know he was a drug dealer too? 'I knew about budgets, I was a drug dealer': Jay-Z says he learned his business skills from selling crack cocaine during the 1980s Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2440081/I-knew-budgets-I-drug-dealer-Jay-Z-says-learned-business-skills-selling-crack-cocaine-1980s.html#ixzz3Gcg3eOBl Follow us: @MailOnline on Twitter | DailyMail on Facebook So when you wrote "ridin' shotgun" you were referring to an "innocent" act of being in the car with some boys from the hood who happen to be drug dealers? And you are enraged that a female mentions Jay-Z in the context of feminism but you have no problem with and you are proud of his criminal past? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q5NstkX5Dc0 2 Likes |
Re: On Ladies Hyphenating Their Surnames And Their Husband's by Nobody: 9:03pm On Oct 19, 2014 |
SirShymex: See my last reply homie, I have said it all. 1 Like |
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