Tallesty1:
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Read the comment that I replied.

Okay. My bad. I think i meant to write 'bearing one's husband's name solely' without adding yours.

Chiamaka01:


How many times do i have to say it? I called him a misogynist because he said, 'a woman is an extension of her husband'.

smh

freshdude2:
I assume spoiling you and treating you like a woman are self-explanatory. I'm sorry I don't know how to explain those concepts.

Just give examples.

carefreewannabe:


But but the man is not asked to change his name, is he?



How has it been beneficial to women?



Would you also say that women do not need men when they have their own money?

He is speaking the truth. Women are now sex objects, men call their private parts mockable names and women litter their womanhood on streets, their body are used to advertise and make money by musicians. USA is the worst. The kind of clothes women wear can't be worn by the worst of men and ur story is like the king and his invisible clothes; women are näked, but men cheer you as being beautiful. Women have being OBJECTIFIED!!!(emphasis added) Proof me wrong. Its a pity, feminism has failed the west and its shadows torment many other countries. I still remember the beautiful songs we used to sing for our mothers during the primary school days. I still remember how I was beaten by a female teacher for prefering dad to mom and couldn't tell mum when she asked why I was beaten ) Goodbye to the good days of yesterdays, when I used to love and appreciate women, those times are long gone, the times I looked at women with love and gentility and EQUALITY(emphasis added), but now, I won't blink my eyes if I see a man beat his wife mercilessly, send her packing and marry as many wives as he wants.
Now, the emotional nature of women which I once loved, irritate me. I don't have respect for women giving birth to children again(its your job, pop them out ). I actually wish those nostalgic days can come again. Goodbye to the beautiful days of yesteryears.

^^^Dude nobody cares.

hehehe.
As the 'wise' men would say. "You deserve to be castrated"
:-x
Not my words

ElFenomeno1:
This shouldnt be a big deal....... My wife mentioned it before we got married, i simply said whatever rocks your boat

There are other pressing issues to worry about!

Dude you have issues. Go get help. You can blame whoever you like but the problem is from within you.
If you used to see women as EQUAL to men,you won't have problems with feminism. Liar

Anyway Who's business is it that you don't appreciate the women around you anymore?
And who's interested in your nostalgic sob stories? If your wife bears a baby girl,you can cook it and eat or better still marry a man so that you'll be spared the involvement with females.

We are not homophobic. We won't judge you

cococandy:
hehehe.
As the 'wise' men would say. "You deserve to be castrated"
:-x
Not my words

Hey foool, I see you love that phrase of mine that you mentioned it twice already. How was your day? If you have anything intelligent to say about the topic or my post in particular, feel free to spit it. I'll be right here.

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Misogynist2014:
He is speaking the truth. Women are now sex objects, men call their private parts mockable names and women litter their womanhood on streets, their body are used to advertise and make money by musicians. USA is the worst. The kind of clothes women wear can't be worn by the worst of men and ur story is like the king and his invisible clothes; women are näked, but men cheer you as being beautiful. Women have being OBJECTIFIED!!!(emphasis added) Proof me wrong. Its a pity, feminism has failed the west and its shadows torment many other countries. I still remember the beautiful songs we used to sing for our mothers during the primary school days. I still remember how I was beaten by a female teacher for prefering dad to mom and couldn't tell mum when she asked while I was beaten ) Goodbye to the good days of yesterdays, when I used to love and appreciate women, those times are long gone, the times I looked at women with love and gentility and EQUALITY(emphasis added), but now, I won't blink my eyes if I see a man beat his wife mercilessly, send her packing and marry as many wives as he wants.
Now, the emotional nature of women which I once loved, irritate me. I don't have respect for women giving birth to children again(its your job, pop them out >). I actually wish those nostalgic days can come again. Goodbye to the beautiful days of yesteryears.

Just like your mun spit you out.. Such a shame.

cococandy:
hehehe.
As the 'wise' men would say. "You deserve to be castrated"
:-x
Not my words

Who is this dumbfu..ck?!
Tell the wise men they are fu//cking lunkheads and you are a vacuous troglodyte
Brainless twerp

freshdude2:
But, but, the man also had a life before marriage. He's charged with the responsibility of provision and protection of his wife and family where he only had to provide for and protect himself. There's nothing denigrating to women about the man as head of household. His responsibilities give him the privilege to be the boss. That is the truth.

And what's all this patriachy business. The patriachy, historically, hasn't been unfair to women, on the contrary, it has been beneficial to women. I'd advise you to speak about the patriachy with respect.

I'd have you know though, as far as objectifying women is concerned, feminism is to blame for that. This is why: we no longer need women for anything but sex. The modern man can cook his meals, do his laundry, etc. The only thing he literally needs from a woman is sex. Sorry, that's the truth. You people objectified yourselves.

This is sad but true.

freshdude2:
Therefore, he moves to his in laws house since the bible does require the woman to leave her own parents.

Hahahahhahahah and his in laws will feed, cloth, shelter and pay their bills.

Shirley07:

Just like your mun spit you out.. Such a shame.

You are angry that I made that statement on carefreewannabe's post, aren't you? Women in the west face a bitter scenario. Most of them are single parents and the father of the child(that is if she knows the father) pays child support and never looks after his child. I watched 'the test' on SET, the mother of the girl(owner of the child) was explaining to the guy(supposed father) that she doesn't need his money but what she needs is the guy standing by the baby but he kept talking of money(to them, women and children are synonymous to money). I even heard a married man on trisha claiming he has slept with over 1000 women . Do you remember Brazil 2014 where women were used to entertain footballers ? I've watched programs where men disqualified women for being virgin. Below is the sketch of how male and female's brain in the west operate(a female friend here in Nigeria once lamented that men don't value women again.) A good part of male's brain is sex while that of female is respect(you only dedicate your brain to respect because it is scarce in town). This link shows you the meaning of the mocking word called 'pùssy' http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/pussy?s=t The longman dictionary clearly instructs us not to use the word, but men use it on the female organ everyday.

So dear, be not mad at me but feminism cos women's value deteriorates everyday.

ElFenomeno1:


Who is this dumbfu..ck?!
Tell the wise men they are a fucking lunkheads and you are a vacuous troglodyte
Brainless twerp

Misogynist2014:
You are angry that I made that statement aren't you? Women in the west face a bitter scenario. Most of them are single parents and the father of the child(that is if she knows the father) pays child support and never looks after his child. I watched 'the test' on SET, the mother of the girl(owner of the child) was explaining to the guy(supposed father) that she doesn't need his money but what she needs is the guy standing by the baby but he kept talking of money(to them, women and children are synonymous to money). I even heard a married man on trisha claiming he has slept with over 1000 women . I've watched programs where men disqualified women for being virgin. Below is the sketch of how male and female's brain in the west operate(a female friend here in Nigeria once lamented that men don't value women again.) A good part of male's brain is sex while that of female is respect(you only dedicate your brain to respect because it is scarce in town). This link shows you the meaning of the mocking word called 'pùssy' http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/pussy?s=t The longman dictionary clearly instructs us not to use the word, but men use it on the female organ everyday.

So dear, be not mad at me but feminism cos women's value deteriorates everyday.

Yeah and white people who are as ignorant as you are (no insult, fact), think that most Africans have AIDS and are hungry.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that African men smoke weed all day long and African women push out babies they cannot feed countless times.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that black people must be avoided like a plague since they are spreading Ebola.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that black people still live in huts and run around na*ked.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that black men are extremely ho*rny creatures who have plenty of baby mamas everywhere and a problem with AIDS consequently.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that Africa is a country and refer to Africa like you refer to the West as one uniform place.

Can you see how ignorant you are?

Hello, Carefreewannabe.

freshdude2:
Hello, Carefreewannabe.

Good morning Freshdude.

carefreewannabe:


Yeah and white people who are as ignorant as you are (no insult, fact), think that most Africans have AIDS and are hungry.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that African men smoke weed all day long and African women push out babies they cannot feed countless times.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that black people must be avoided like a plague since they are spreading Ebola.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that black people still live in huts and run around na*ked.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that black men are extremely ho*rny creatures who have plenty of baby mamas everywhere and a problem with AIDS consequently.
White people who are as ignorant as you are, think that Africa is a country and refer to Africa like you refer to the West as one uniform place.

Can you see how ignorant you are?

Thanks ma'am . Res ipsa loquitur(the thing itself speaks).

ElFenomeno1:


Who is this dumbfu..ck?!
Tell the wise men they are a fucking lunkheads and you are a vacuous troglodyte
Brainless twerp

Oboi! No kill cocoa and candy(cococandy)

Misogynist2014:
Thanks ma'am . Res ipsa loquitur(the thing itself speaks).

You're welcome.

sexybash:
I got married a year ago but
I and hubby agreed. That there shall be no change of name until after 20 deserving years
I made him understand he has to earn it
And we are fine :-)I no fit. Shout

Jesus! Holy mary!! Joseph!!! I bow for some men o. Nothing I won't hear in this worldm it is well

haftob:
Islamically, women are not supposed to change dia surnames to dia husband's name wen they get married, they are supposed to maintain dia father's name,tho many muslims don't do dis or don't even knw abput it sef. So women still using dia father's name are right.

U took this outta my mouth. I'll def retain my father's name Our children too will bear and keep his name nah.

Sorry!!!
Did you just say this!!!
Who are you an extension of.... Whose name did you bear before marriage.
Are u really going into marriage with this mentality?

Chiamaka01:


Thank you for that. We're all extensions of our parents, agreed. But i am not an extension of my husband.

Chiamaka01:
It's
getting less uncommon to see women, especially those occupying high
positions in society hyphenating their surnames and their husbands'
surname. I think it's a good thing, at least, it will erase the notion
that the daughter you've invested much in will bear another man's name. Ladies, would you do it? Guys, would you marry a lady that has this notion?

I think I'm happy with the fact that your brain told you it happens with 'high positioned' women. It is just as silly as telling Linda Ikeji to change her name, when your brain tells you its difficult. Are you the high positioned lady that won't bear her husband's name #veryfunny. Many intelligent women like Beyounce add their husband's name to 'father's'. Lest I forget, who told you marriage is btw 2 people? Many women stüpidly and ignorantly are of your notion until their husband's demise. Polygamy is still very active in Africa, in this world where women are begging to be 10th wife, it will be very nice 4 u to know we are not in America.

Misogynist2014:
I think I'm happy with the fact that your empty brain told you it happens with 'high positioned' women. It is just as stupid as telling Linda Ikeji to change her name, when your empty skull tells you its difficult. Are you the high positioned lady that won't bear her husband's name #veryfunny. Many intelligent women like Beyounce add their husband's name to 'father's'. Lest I forget, who told you marriage is btw 2 people? Many women stüpidly and ignorantly are of your notion until their husband's demise. Polygamy is still very active in Africa, in this world where women are begging to be 10th wife, it will be very nice 4 u to know we are not in America.

bros u shudnt av to result in2 abusive or co-descending words like empty brain to pass ur msg across.. Cos dat will serve as an avenue 4 an appropriate rebuttal 4rm her which will spoil d sanctity of diz thread.

Mutaino7:
bros u shudnt av to result in2 abusive or co-descending words like empty brain to pass ur msg across.. Cos dat will serve as an avenue 4 an appropriate rebuttal 4rm her which will spoil d sanctity of diz thread.

Thanks, I'll edit it.

How old are these 'men' on NL?? 200?

I can't believe we still hv men that demand their wives take on their last name.

*checks calender*

These mor0ns are definitely from the past. Go back to your graves please and 'RIP'

Whether d wife takes d husband name or not depends on d couple,if d guy is ok wit it no p. But as 4 me she av 2 take mine. We ar no more 2 but 1 and dere is difference btw 2 and 1. I believe in God's definition of marriage not man's own.

tmosco:
Whether d wife takes d husband name or not depends on d couple,if d guy is ok wit it no p. But as 4 me she av 2 take mine. We ar no more 2 but 1 and dere is difference btw 2 and 1. I believe in God's definition of marriage not man's own.

Why do you have to be okay with it?? Why are you demanding from your wife what you can't give her??

Can you take her last name?? Why ask another human being to do what you can't do, you are a selfish fvcktard......

..but don't worry, there is always a woman suffering from mental slavery somewhere that would conform to your demands.

BananaBender:

Why do you have to be okay with it?? Why are you demanding from your wife what you can't give her??

Can you take her last name?? Why ask another human being to do what you can't do, you are a selfish fvcktard......

..but don't worry, there is always a woman suffering from mental slavery somewhere that would conform to your demands.

Are u sure u're OK cos I don't see wat I wrote 2 get dis reply and u will come here 2 say feminist don't hate men.

tmosco:


Are u sure u're OK cos I don't see wat I wrote 2 get dis reply and u will come here 2 say feminist don't hate men.

We have male feminists all over the world, why would I hate my fellow feminists?

Your wife doesn't need your permission, she can bear whatever name she so desires. You are not OK