Seriously,this isn't an issue.for ladies that have sense,they know every guy likes good and tasty food.and the quickest way to cease him is what you feed him with,whether in ur house or his.I cook but only when my girl friend isn't around.she won't let me when she is arround.and I won't date any girl who says she can't do one or two tins becos she isn't my wife yet.I bet wen we are married and she has more power she won't do them still.be wise ladies.Cook for your guy anytime.there is nothing wrong with it.it doesn't make u a slave or house maid.practice been husband and wife while dating unless u r not sure of the relationship.

Must u read?

nikkyshyne:
Speak english please. What is all these jagons

datalossvictim1:


Saay whaaat??

Girl, your hair is GORGEOUS!!

If a lady wants and loves to cook then I see no problem with it.

Why the hell was I banned?
Pascal09, Where you dey?




Okay,
I posted pics sorry about that girls but you had it coming....

M[b]essage for pascal09....[/b][i][/i]
If this continues.... Nairaland membership will increase by 1000 (One thousand) before 8.am tomorrow. And thats me with 1000 usernames.

This is to pass a message. other monikers wont bear this name again.

But girls... una dey pretend jare... Food that you will cook and even beg him to eat..

Till then this images will do justice to the subject...

TahariX:


Girl, your hair is GORGEOUS!!

Aaww thanks

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datalossvictim1:


Saay whaaat??

what are u saying?

@nomabee, saphire and Tamarix,

Sorry for uploading your profile pics.. That was childish...

But then, make una start to cook for una bfs oh...

Wait, which one should I date amongst you self?

Eyi je, Eyi o je, to ba je ma gba

nomabee, saphire, Tamarix...

Na saphire ooooo
saphire you got mail....
reply ASAP...

Wait... you will cook sha...

Sapphire86:


Yes! She is still a guest after all.

Na you my eyi je, eyi o je catch oo

sunnedee2:
@nomabee, saphire and Tamarix,

Sorry for uploading your profile pics.. That was childish...

But then, make una start to cook for una bfs oh...

Wait, which one should I date amongst you self?

Eyi je, Eyi o je, to ba je ma gba

nomabee, saphire, Tamarix...

Na saphire ooooo
saphire you got mail....
reply ASAP...

Wait... you will cook sha...

I no understand this plenty talk....What does it matter if you cook or don't cook??

I cook coz the kitchen is my first best place in every house and I LOVE to cook be it in my house or in his, not because am trying to impress him with what I can offer but then again its part of my CV

Op your topic should be "Not giving boyfriends husband's privileges" because even if you don't cook always but you guys bleep always when you visit, your point is unmade.



TYCONCEPTS of TECH MARKET

pasqal09:
So what's the girlfriend suppose to do when she visits? Balance on his bed while he cooks for her?

pascal...
Please delete the pics of those girls I posted.

Since that account was banned I couldn't edit the post and remove them myself.



Oh.. By the way.. Free that moniker "sunnedee".. Check my posts...You will discover I don't always comment here.. (too busy for that shite mehn) which means I wont miss it. All the same unban it.

And thenk you for making me discover something important tonight.

One Bajinatu for you!

Peace out !!!

Should a lady cook for the guy she's dating? Well, it depends... I think it has to do with the mood, if she feels like it, yes and vise versa.
She just shouldn't be compelled to do such all the time, like its a must. And besides, a relationship requires much more than cooking to thrive.
*MyTwoCent*
MODIFIED
I see some folks misinterpreting being submissive... Submissiveness is a two way thing to me. In a way, it applies to both party and not like relegating one party to the background.

Adaeze003:


I'm sorry, who is a black woman? Go back even to the stone age, you will never see it as acceptable to treat a bf as a husband... ehm r we even meant to date or be in relationships? Ehn? R those not white concepts?

A black woman btw is who ever she says she is! We are much more than the list in your head...

I'd already dosed off.
Em...
Normaly I wouldnt have bothered, but i guess this issue is a bit special, so I am constained to this bit of a reply.
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How is it even possible that it is lost on you girls that you are already 'PLAYING' husband and wife with your BoyFriends by being intimate with them...
And your men are already 'PAYING' the same by all the 'Totaly unnesesary expenditures' they undergo with you their beus (which would have been equally totaly uncalled for 'in the past', as you say). So why not play it to the full? ...whos deceiving who?
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I am Firm and unflinching that weather in 'acting' or the 'real thing' what makes black people who they were (that the black woman in particular is most eager to toy with, until she makes a complete mess of her life, like those white manequins) should be untouched.
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Be careful what you ask for because you might get it.
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Isn't it OBVIOUS some guy could simply REVERSE the question on this thread 2 read..
"Should nija men spend anything on women whom they've not yet commited to ...blablabla?"
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And then half the Brazilian hairs would Disapear...!!

Osode:

I'd already dosed off.
Em...
Normaly I wouldnt have bothered, but i guess this issue is a bit special, so I am constained to this bit of a reply.
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How is it even possible that it is lost on you girls that you are already 'PLAYING' husband and wife with your BoyFriends by being intimate with them...
And your men are already 'PAYING' the same by all the 'Totaly unnesesary expenditures' they undergo with you their beus (which would have been equally totaly uncalled for 'in the past', as you say). So why not play it to the full? ...whos deceiving who?
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I am Firm and unflinching that weather in 'acting' or the 'real thing' what makes black people who they were (that the black woman in particular is most eager to toy with, until she makes a complete mess of her life, like those white manequins) should be untouched.
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Be careful what you ask for because you might get it.
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Isn't it OBVIOUS some guy could simply REVERSE the question on this thread 2 read..
"Should nija men spend anything on women whom they've not yet commited to ...blablabla?"
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And then half the Brazilian hairs would Disapear...!!

And I guess u don't know generalising is a lil oh... no, allot silly...

I'm no Brazilian hair, I have my principles, u have urs. I won't cook 4 a bf, many girls will so the solution is simple... guys who must get husband privileges should go for girls that will give it... shikina.

Besides, I see no reason why a guy should spend on a girl he isn't married to save for dates n all but again, some actually love to spend and not whine about it like u...

So u see? In the seven billion peeps, you will find someone that suits u... iz all m saying...

TahariX:


Y'all do realize sex is MUTUALLY beneficial, right?

u be olodo. sex is mutually beneficial but cooking isn't abi?

Wait till u turn 45yrs and u still single

TahariX:
I personally will not cook for anyone I'm not married to. I can cook for you if you're coming over to visit but going to someone's house and cooking for them is just a no-no. I'm not your wife bruh.

presher:
all these feminist on nairaland are the reason i will find one responsible small girl in her early 20 to marry after chopping their kpomo

You want peace ehn?

i dey laff this silly thread o..
i hear some girls ranting, is she ur housegirl?, is she ur maid?


so a maid, a housegirl, a wife are the ones condemned to the kitchen abi?

so u admit they are females, nd because of that they should do those tasks under the right circumstances, shey?


so my question is, why do these same feminists ranting here object to cooking for their husbands when they get married.?? they still want thier husband to help out in the kitchen.


broses of nairaland... my deduction is,.. girls wey no go cook as a gf, would hate cooking as a wife.

marry a girl that enjoys cooking more that sex...

marry a girl that would use the kitchen more often to escape u knacking her than the one wan go come chop and be knacked.

my two cents..

NairaMode:
I can only guess that most of the girls on this thread are below 25.

Actually more like 22/23

Then they start from 35+.....those who have lost hope

Is she going to eat the food too or not?

Is she going to eat from the food?or is she going to cook for the Guy to eat alone

Adaeze003:


Go back even to the stone age, you will never see it as acceptable to treat a bf as a husband... ehm r we even meant to date or be in relationships? Ehn? R those not white concepts?

HellooOoooooO? Back in Paleolithic times.... Grown ups will just grab a girl of their choice and make a family with... Who knows what was marriage then? Or courtship? So that's a pointless shrewd!!!.....

Point iz, its wholly discretional...whether to cook or not!

maternal:


Foolish women like you talk this until the time comes. Play the equality game to make yourself look good, but will insult a guy and bring his rep down if he doesn't cover the bill. Nigerian women are walking hypocrites.

Brother, this is a public forum, not everyone shares the same view with you. You dnt need to throw insults 'cause I have a different view on this

TahariX:


Some of us don't want guys that'll love us for being submissive (whatever that means). I actually stay away from those kind of guys.

your type are all over the place, keep staying away, when the time comes nobody will teach you to stay around...

Its not obligatory, but it happens naturally mosttimes. When she in the mood to do it, enjoy & when she z not, allow it. Its not her duty.

So all these young small girls now study Genevieveism, Oyekaism, funkeism, tiwaism e.t.c instead of their books? Na wao

Just a thought. What if all these online posts by some women on what other women should and should not do is just the posters' crafty way of gaining competitive advantage in the relationship space by subtly modifying the psyche of the female audience with a view to making the other females less desirable. Or the posters may even be victims, that is, simple tools in the hands of smarter women who want to achieve the aforementioned objective. If this is the case, then I can say it has been an excellent strategy so far.

The way to a man heart is through his tummy....

Nashoji:
why don't you wait when society term having sex with your boyfriend your duty before doing it?

since you know me and my relationship well enough, who am I to respond?

Thank God my gf doesn't visit Nairaland. Even if she does, it won't change who she is. Let say I have two gfs A and B. whenever A visits she will just sit down there like a non living thing and Whenever B visits even though she's not under any obligation to cook but offer to help with cooking. I will rather marry B than the zombie A. To all the nice and submissive ladies out there, don't take advices from these feminists serious oo especially here on Nairaland that fake people are rampant. Be yourself. Cooking for your bf does not makes you his housemaid or his servant. The fact that my gf cooks for me whenever she comes over does not mean she's my housemaid whatever. I rebuke every spirit of feminism. god send feminists far away from my life and my family.

Idowuogbo:

A guest indeed! Make u no cook oo...i am begging you sef don't cook. I trust my take over babes, when dem finish with your bofy hen,I mean the ones that'll overfeed him and knack am wella, na "it's over!!! We are not compatible anymore" he go ping you.

Madam, you r free to cater to your boyfriend the way you deem fit just as I am allowed. To each her own!