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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by ebukaOtika(m): 12:19pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
cc150615: Lol ,,,, just give him a trial,.,,, na dis type dey born ejima trowey face like nothin happened,.,,, |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 12:21pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
cut007: Well, if u really wna keep her, I think wat u need to do is to work on ur mind. Everything is a "soul" thing. If a mindset can be changed den preference can also be changed. Try and see her selling point and use it to build a buffer in ur heart against her minor. Nothing is as bad as marrying someone and wishing she was someone else. Chances of nt bn faithful are high |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 12:34pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Rhapsodi:U ar deceivin ursef. Ur type turn out to be impotent man on wedin night, discovered to d chagrin of d gullible wif. I refused to go into relatnsip in order to avoid sex for years. D moment i tried a relatnsip, sex folowed imediately witout bargainin 4 it. Wil u say i dnt lov her? I felt as if i wud die if she left me. She eventualy left me, and am yet to recova. Sin? Yes, i knw it's a sin but... to say d truth, lif has no meanin. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by swagwu(m): 12:45pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
chester47:fool at 40 after spending ur money on her witout geting nothing at the end she wil still find another guy richer than you thats when you know that u are the real looser.... if am dating a girl nd she gvs me what nature demands what will mk me pay whores for it and for the oil nd soap issure pleas refer dat to ur wifless dad...idiot i can now see u are 1 of the inportent niggurs on NL.. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by obomobo: 12:50pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
oyeludef:funny u b real olobe 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 1:02pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
swagwu:DUDE CONVERT 1GRYV TO NAIRA AND TELL ME HOW MUCH.HEN CONVERT 100.000KGRYV TO NAIRA AND TELL ME HOW MUCH.AND KINDLY EXPLAIN HOW POOR I MUST BE AS A MEDICAL DOCTOR HERE IN UKRAINE.AND WHAT IS WIFLESS??DO YOU MEAN WIFI YOU MUST BE JOKING MAN.Besides I don't care if I spend money on her..guess what I send her 10,000grv a month to take care of herself. If she want's to run I don't,care man I have lot more things I have to gain in future.But you said you can't spend money without getting something in return which is sex?,I am highly convinced you're an illiterate I believe you're older than me but I have accomplished better off |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by ebukaOtika(m): 1:07pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
swagwu: Hmmmmm insults everywhere ,.,,,? But why go to his Parents ,, ,,,,. You for just ignore am and still keep your dignity ,,.,,. Pls dont attack me biko i beg you in God's name. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by awa(m): 1:09pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
RuuDie: @RuuDie, Thanks for your opinion about my contribution however, you may wish to recall that there are some people you might be relating with online and based on their voice, sense of reasoning or other unseen factors you might start developing "feelings" (decision) for them thereby desiring to meet or hang out with them? Same time, do you know they are some kind of people you won't like to relate with while other people prefer relating with such people? This is decision... Desire truly could be "spontaneous" but it's spontaneity is a determinant of decision and not beclouded sentiment - lust. Decision triggers desire. Bros, if you don't decide to like certain things, you won't ever desire them. You can't desire a lady you have never decided to.... you know now. Imagine seeing a Sex Worker along the Street and desiring to have her even when you have already decided not to patronize their service All you do is just lust after her. Desire is action-oriented. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by faithugo64(f): 1:09pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
VivaLaFrans:the DESIRE to sleep with,read the titile again |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 1:12pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Imagine perceiving the aroma of a meal placed in front of you and not feeling like having a bit. Funny question by the OP |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by swagwu(m): 1:24pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
chester47:lolzzzz here in ukraine or barriga lolzzz as a medical doctor or thife.....well i dnt bragg of what i am or were i stay...clap 4 urself u sends her 10,000grv and she sends to the real man that makes her happy fool... u claim to love her dat much but if she runs u dnt care u see y dey call u guys black monkey over there i never wnted to say dis here on NL am 19yrs old 300l civil engineer student in nigeria here (UNN) so u see u are my senior and my future is brighter dan ya |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by RuuDie(m): 1:32pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
awa: Sorry again Ma, you're making sense to an extent but not entirely... you don't - in fact scratch that - I have NEVER known anyone that consciously decides to like someone, something or anything for that matter; it just happens! "Decision triggers desire..." - it doesn't even sound right in the context and sequence with which you put it. If I "desire" something, I then have a "decision" to make whether to chase after that thing or not! What prompts that "desire" is another matter entirely, but 99.999% of the time, it is almost certainly random, unplanned or spontaneous! On a lighter note, based on our banter thus far, what have you decided? Like me or not? And for this your example... I suggest you make it as new post, see and gauge for yourself the responses! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by cc150615(f): 1:40pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
chester47:someone is fucking ur wife to be for u anyway don't come here nd cry to us when u find out after 10years of marriage that the 3 kids u have belong to 3 different men outside. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
AgapeCharis: Ok Sirree! I give up on this.... @cut007... There isn't any medical postulation or affirmation on what u're experiencing! My candid advise is that...you shld love her the way she is coz that's how was was kurated (created)!!!!! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
cc150615:lol..I won't mam.. but what I mean was maybe somebody else is fucking her lol can she remain a virgin till I get back? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
swagwu:lol why would you lie..okay youre 19 300l in NIGERIA!!!when did you finish? At 15?with jamb and screening and waec issue lol.you can do better than this |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by olumzz(m): 2:17pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
temigracie:Am already liking someone here o |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
temigracie:temi dear.xup with you? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by greall1: 2:28pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Relationship without sex is not Possible but it can be limit not all the time because of the love. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by ojodombe(m): 3:10pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
yep nah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by ocheu(f): 3:26pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
rman:I didn't miss it, and that is why I put it to him that way( that the lady will only believe he has control over himself, not that the guy is faithful.) of course he is not faithful though |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Kbraims(m): 3:27pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Luvin a gal witout having d intentn of sleepn wit er is a sign of true luv 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Bunsky: Sweets Thanks for checking on me. Evrythng s fyn dear. How are you doing too? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
temigracie:i'm ok,hw is camp? |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by abm2pistle(m): 4:24pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Rhapsodi: Let's tell our self the truth. Liking someone burns your sexual desire, talk more of love. It could be possible but the chance is very slim. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by UjSizzle(f): 4:30pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
@Awa I already replied your mail. Check your spam folder. |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by kaylight12(m): 4:30pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
It very very rear |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by basilo101: 4:51pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
If u dnt hv sex wit who u luv who else wil u hv sex wit? D more u gals try to force lov without sex on us d more u get sex witout lov |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by dguyindcorner(m): 5:25pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by xtremrules(m): 5:51pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
most of u guys commenting are commenting wrongly. the question is if is possible not to have desire for sex not have sex. having desire for something and acquiring it are quite different. |
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