whalesbanks:
Its circumstances like betrayals from trusted/loved ones that always shape our thoughts in the aftermath, you don't want people getting close (including family) cos it reminds you of the betrayal (as in shey dis no go do am again), you hibernate into a shell like a snail but the ing thing is to forgive and move on, its hard friends but doable. This is life, very real, things don't go the way we always want them to be. Above all trust the man above and ur instincts.
Just my thoughts but it might differ from yours.
Mprex, u asked for this.

yea. Thanks for the contribution

Cutehector4u:
Mprex

morning

passionate88:
My siggy is the gospel truth

which gospel


btw, i'm still waiting for you to share your experience unless you have'nt been betrayed before

Mprex:

morning

mawnin cute...how u doin dis mornin

Mprex:

you sound real hurt. Anyway, thank God you can still trust someone

it was really painful, but thank God I'm over it

Mprex:
At one point or another, we have been betrayed by friends or family. Its actually a heart breaking thing to know that people you feel that they got your back can turn their backs on you when you need them most. Lets share our experiences and hurts here.

Guess, i'll start myself. Year 2013, everything went so wrong in my life. Like, there was nothing close to happiness around me. I was so miserable and pitiable. When things took the wrong twist, everyone i called a friend vanished. Even the self acclaimed love of my life began finding faults in our relationship. My close friends, distance friends, besties, all of them disappeared. I felt so alone and i realized that i never had a true friend all along.

Anyway, that was in the past, and I'm certainly a better person today but seriously, i dont have friends. I just dont have friends. Very few people i interact mutually with are guys and i dont even know most of them physically. Just online friends.

Once bitten, thrice shy

so, i have opened the floor, come in and share your own experience.


Happy Weekend

From all u said above, its obvious u are still hurting. Time will heal u. Getting betrayed in life happens every now and then especially in today's Nigeria. In the same 2013, I lost millions of naira through so called trusted friends who arranged with some Indian and Lebanese guys to dupe me. I have been hurt and betrayed emotionally in the past. But stuff like that should u make u a stronger and a better person. Lessons I learnt in all these, forgive no matter how difficult and put them behind u. Trust little or not at all until d person or persons prove themselves and finally count on God more he is d only one worthy to be trusted.

warripekin:

From all u said above, its obvious u are still hurting. Time will heal u. Getting betrayed in life happens every now and then especially in today's Nigeria. In the same 2013, I lost millions of naira through so called trusted friends who arranged with some Indian and Lebanese guys to dupe me. I have been hurt and betrayed emotionally in the past. But stuff like that should u make u a stronger and a better person. Lessons I learnt in all these, forgive no matter how difficult and put them behind u. Trust little or not at all until d person or persons prove themselves and finally count on God more he is d only one worthy to be trusted.

my jeeez!
Well, even God knows that the heart of man is desperately wicked.

Sorry dear. I hope you recovered finance-wise

Mprex:

which gospel


btw, i'm still waiting for you to share your experience unless you have'nt been betrayed before

I haven't... I try not to give people that opportunity.. But I know it might happen one day.. It's inevitable

Cutehector4u:
mawnin cute...how u doin dis mornin

i'm just fab. You?

Mprex:

i'm just fab. You?

chillin.... With my bed... Nd my gadget..lol.. Wah ur plans for today?

Cutehector4u:
chillin.... With my bed... Nd my gadget..lol.. Wah ur plans for today?

same as yours. Lol

Mprex:

same as yours. Lol

lol why dnt we chill together.....

Been betrayed a lot buh the one that really pain me n I shed tears so much like a baby was when Spiky ran out of the house with that Street Bitch of a LovePeddler called Shilah and up till today I didn't see him

So this thread make front page bah?

Mprex don dey date one of 'em mods bah

Those situations either make or break us. Its one of those things . av gone tru worse. Sighs

Mprex:

thanks, we are cool now. As for my bf, we aint together anymore

If doz tinz u mentioned up there are wat u call 'betrayal' Sister, na him be sey doz pple dt did that to u still dey learn work.



Here's mine; A friend of mine whom d world refer to us as 'Sisters' has alwz complained about how she doesn't find luck wen it comes to relationship stuff. Many at times, she ascribed her problems to spiritual tinz which I told her I don't bliv in. One day sha, she managed to hook up with one 'Motherf*cker*, dey were happy together until d f*cktard asked me out. Nd b4 den, I'v been telling my friend about how bad a player I perceive his guy to be.

At first I didn't tell my friend dt he asked me out, dnt wana tear dem apart. Yet, d madman wldnt let me be. He doesn't call my friend on fone, but he kept disturbing my line. To cut d long story short sha, I told my friend nd she confronted him. Come see lie na, it was den I knew some guys could even tell lies better dan d devil himself.


Funny tin, dey both settled everything nd turn everything on my own head. D first tin dt my friend did to me was to expose some of d online runz I was doing to my guy which led to our breakup(1-1 U'll say abi?). Finally, she went for d kill, she kinda logged on to my e-problem(as we OAU stdnts often call it) deleted a prerequisite course I offered nd substituted it with an irrelevant course. Honestly, ds is wat led to my extra-year in school. Me wey suppose graduate since 2012,in d midst of dt crises, I failed my ICAN exam,got disowned at home, lost my relationship, was duped of a large amount of money because I wanted to leg it so dt I won't eventually get an extra year. Up till ds moment, I can't help but still imagining d day I'll lay my hands on her. Honestly, I'll avenge(God forgive me in advance).


Well, like someone rightly said; 'I may not be where I'm supposed to be, but I'll still thank God cos I'm not where I used to be'. It was one useless frnd I lost den, now av got many true frnds; Babawale Ajibola, Oyebanji Elizabeth, Sunday Jessica, Lawal Mariam, Ajisefini Abimbola Grace, nd my kid brother Akinola Olayinka. Come wat may, u pple will alwz be my frnds.

Erhm, I don't keep friends but niqqaz. Betrayal doun exist in the crew. You set we up, kiss your sorry arse goodbye....

Erhm, I don't have a 'love of my life.' That's bullshit. We go around with mature ladies who ride diçks without a need for relay-shun-sheeps. So whenever one butts out, the other bìtch takes her place.

This is the best way to avoid disappointments (limit your expectations).

Cc: Mprex

Tallesty1:
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ALKARULEZ615:
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Oh..I dey come. My story plenty

Mprex:

which gospel


btw, i'm still waiting for you to share your experience unless you have'nt been betrayed before

I'm running out of patience. Open the floor with your case(s), or I order the super mod to betray you (delete your thread).

yea.. couple of close friends that owed me money and refused to pay!

Well all nairalanders have been betrayed by GEJ and failed by Buhari

Any time I hear the word betrayal, 80% of Yoruba's comes to mind even right now in my office. Attackers are welcome.

Reiyvinn:
Erhm, I don't keep friends but niqqaz. Betrayal doun exist in the crew. You set we up, kiss your sorry arse goodbye....

Erhm, I don't have a 'love of my life.' That's bullshit. We go around with mature ladies who ride diçks without a need for relay-shun-sheeps. So whenever one butts out, the other bìtch takes her place.

This is the best way to avoid disappointments (limit your expectations).

Cc: Mprex

I think i'll adopt this, I like the way it sounds

I think we are all in our private traps, we scratch and shout not realy at each other but at the air.

Hmmmm..

Zeemoor:

Sweetheart, You haven't opened the floor
We need a detailed story, not a sneak peek

thank you jare... I was about to say the same thing. She didn't tell us her own and she wants us to tell her our own....it doesn't work that way sister.

OEmperor:
When I experience one I will tell you for now who has Nokia pin mouth charger

I have BIG pin Nokia charger. Ask my lady.

Too painful to share...