Don't wrestle with ghosts from the past.

Mprex:

sorry dear. Thats life for you. The ones we love most actually hurt us the most. I hope you forgave him and moved on with your life

hey soul sister! you doing a fine job here,is like a virtual grief session. would share mine later. ciao!

Don't dig out the past you cannot live with.

only God can solve ma own problem...

@OP you didnt start the thread well enough,you need to narrate your story.why did you family turn their backs on you...

We all play politics with the future of our country by not telling the truth to all our leaders. It is unfortunate but that is the truth. 4 more years of Jonathan are going to be a train wreck for Nigeria if the truth must be told. Nigeria will remain in big trouble until we Nigerians and saTANist appreciate that God is not coming down to do our work for us. That is the big difference between the countries of the first and third world.

The man has to go and the way to do it is to reject him at the polls like is done in every civilized country
My betrayal is in goodluck Jonathan a.k.a GEJ for the past six years I haven't had power for 24hours for once , can you imagine ? Now he wants to ride on for another fours years making it ten year and I won't have 24hours power for one day in ten years ? Absolutely poor , wait are we owing his ancestors ?

spenca:
We all play politics with the future of our country by not telling the truth to all our leaders. It is unfortunate but that is the truth. 4 more years of Jonathan are going to be a train wreck for Nigeria if the truth must be told. Nigeria will remain in big trouble until we Nigerians and saTANist appreciate that God is not coming down to do our work for us. That is the big difference between the countries of the first and third world.

The man has to go and the way to do it is to reject him at the polls like is done in every civilized country
My betrayal is in goodluck Jonathan a.k.a GEJ for the past six years I haven't had power for 24hours for once , can you imagine ? Now he wants to ride on for another fours years making it ten year and I won't have 24hours power for one day in ten years ? Absolutely poor , wait are we owing his ancestors ?

pls ds is not a politics section..

i havent had any for now

Betrayal, betrayal, betrayal, ummm... Lemme think..ok! There is this girl back in school(UNIBEN), we stayed at the same hostel, she use to have this phobia of sleeping alone, so she comes to my room to pass the night most times. My guys will be strokin me, that "guy u dey F up o, u suppose dey shine dis chic congo na". But I didn't want to make such move on her, cos of some reasons. Not only that, her parent hardly send her money, she feeds from me most times. So after I graduated, she called me one day, that she will never forget all I did for her, that people hardly believe I never made a move on her all the while she pass the night in my room. Na so on this unfortunate night o, I went back to my school to collect my certificate. That day was sunday, I was to collect the cert the following day. That night I was passing the front of my former hostel. So I saw this particular girl with 3 Ekosodin guys, they were talking n laughing while I was coming. Immediately I got to where dey were, they stopped me n started harassing me. What this my girlfrnd did was "una gud9t o" and she walked away. My jaw dropped o, I cudnt believe it. The rest na history sha.
With all d betrayals up n down doh, there are still many good persons out there, and have been lucky to meet some too.

ALKARULEZ615:
kk

lol..u got me crackin bro...silly i'l say

Mine was back in my university days.. When I was in my final year.. My friend who had also been my roomate since my first year and he was also my coursemate.... He was more like a brother..

I was very close to my HOD.. Helped him mark scripts, and even drive his car to go pick and drop his kids at school.. Never knew my this my friend/roomate was jealous because we were in the same dept and my HOD never noticed him..

So in final year I fell sick and my HOD visited my hostel with lots of goodies for me.. Beverages and stuff like dat. And I guess this my friend couldn't take it anymore..

He knew my HOD was also a pastor and had zero tolerance for cultist, So he went to him and told him that I was a cultist since my year one and I even had a gun in my room.. My HOD was mad at me but luckily he was a matured man so he called me to hear my side of the story..

Anyway the entire plot failed and dis my friend couldn't hide his shame so he moved out of my room.. And honestly its been 4 yrs since we spoke last because its been impossible for me to forgive him..though he has tried to make ammends but its impossible to have a friens dat I can't trust.. So our friendship is over

Cutehector4u:
pls ds is not a politics section..

That wasn't totally political , GEJ betrayed me and I was expressing it , it would be wrong for you to ask me not to express my betrayal because it is political ,in fact it would be in just for you to say so

Orikinla:
Don't wrestle with ghosts from the past.

Yes, rather ghosts from the past need to be exorcised from the present and expelled/expunged from the future.

Orikinla:
Don't dig out the past you cannot live with.

Yup! There's no need to exhume past ghoulies, unless to conduct forensic autopsies, to determine what went wrong and avoid repeating the same mistake(s).

ciao

CoCoLav:
Too painful to share...

No pls, we wanna hear and learn from it

My bestfrnd in the uni dose days made out with then my gf (I was mad), as if dt wasn't enough he swindled me of some cash whc I later got to find out but he never refunded d money in full, I forgave him 3years later not until I told him my mind and he apologised wholeheartedly, and d biggest shocker of all, my gf/fiancee who I've been faithful with for 2years cheated on me twice (whc culd be more)after warning her severely of d dude. She confessed to me, believe me, I culdnt sleep for a week, I took ill after. It hit me so hard. Right now I don't tink I can trust any lady, she's been begging for forgiveness and I agree if I still wanna be with her I hv to forgive but my biggest problem is forgetting d hurt, cuz I happen to remember tins easily.

spenca:


That wasn't totally political , GEJ betrayed me and I was expressing it , it would be wrong for you to ask me not to express my betrayal because it is political ,in fact it would be in just for you to say so

loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool... Oh oh oh... Now i get it... Well, all follow...

Betrayers, backbiters, backstabbers, fake friends, useless colleagues, greedy ladies... God forgive them all!!! :-\

I av bin betrayed by my loved one, up till now I dnt know what happened...I'm heartbroken, I need someone to talk to by losing my mind

Before*

kamez:
Mine was back in my university days.. When I was in my final year.. My friend who had also been my roomate since my first year and he was also my coursemate.... He was more like a brother..

I was very close to my HOD.. Helped him mark scripts, and even drive his car to go pick and drop his kids at school.. Never knew my this my friend/roomate was jealous because we were in the same dept and my HOD never noticed him..

So in final year I fell sick and my HOD visited my hostel with lots of goodies for me.. Beverages and stuff like dat. And I guess this my friend couldn't take it anymore..

He knew my HOD was also a pastor and had zero tolerance for cultist, So he went to him and told him that I was a cultist since my year one and I even had a gun in my room.. My HOD was mad at me but luckily he was a matured man so he called me to hear my side of the story..

Anyway the entire plot failed and dis my friend couldn't hide his shame so he moved out of my room.. And honestly its been 4 yrs since we spoke last because its been impossible for me to forgive him..though he has tried to make ammends but its impossible to have a friens dat I can't trust.. So our friendship is over

wow, he really hurt u. Sorry abt dt. Some of ds hurts stay with us till we hit d grave, yes we can forgive but to forget is d main issue.

Mprex:

thanks, we are cool now. As for my bf, we aint together anymore

Am not together with my girl frnd any more...... But we cant remain single for eva lets u and i start something ASAP

kirikiristars:
I think the worst thing that could happen to you is losing someone without knowing the reason.

Babe u r very very very correct, i had a girl which i lov n trust her like my dick ... which has nt fail me in any way... one day she jux woke up n end everything

mine would be when my ex boyfriend and i had an issue just few days to my final paper. he did everything to frustrate me to the extent he went to my parents to tell them that i should return the laptop he 'bought' for me knowing fully well that my project,books,almost everything that made me happy was in that laptop! twas hell that period..the most painful aspect of the whole drama was that i knew he was capable of all he did but didnt just want to believe he would do half of it to me. now my eye don clear sha

coolfredo:
Babe u r very very very correct, i had a girl which i lov n trust her like my dick ... which has nt fail me in any way... one day she jux woke up n end everything

Have you let go?

kirikiristars:

Have you let go?

Yea but jux too hard to forget.

coolfredo:
Yea but jux too hard to forget.

Ypu will be fine.

ALKARULEZ615:
So this thread make front page bah?

Mprex don dey date one of 'em mods bah

e pain you Ntorrrrrr!

Evathyst:
If doz tinz u mentioned up there are wat u call 'betrayal' Sister, na him be sey doz pple dt did that to u still dey learn work.



Here's mine; A friend of mine whom d world refer to us as 'Sisters' has alwz complained about how she doesn't find luck wen it comes to relationship stuff. Many at times, she ascribed her problems to spiritual tinz which I told her I don't bliv in. One day sha, she managed to hook up with one 'Motherf*cker*, dey were happy together until d f*cktard asked me out. Nd b4 den, I'v been telling my friend about how bad a player I perceive his guy to be.

At first I didn't tell my friend dt he asked me out, dnt wana tear dem apart. Yet, d madman wldnt let me be. He doesn't call my friend on fone, but he kept disturbing my line. To cut d long story short sha, I told my friend nd she confronted him. Come see lie na, it was den I knew some guys could even tell lies better dan d devil himself.


Funny tin, dey both settled everything nd turn everything on my own head. D first tin dt my friend did to me was to expose some of d online runz I was doing to my guy which led to our breakup(1-1 U'll say abi?). Finally, she went for d kill, she kinda logged on to my e-problem(as we OAU stdnts often call it) deleted a prerequisite course I offered nd substituted it with an irrelevant course. Honestly, ds is wat led to my extra-year in school. Me wey suppose graduate since 2012,in d midst of dt crises, I failed my ICAN exam,got disowned at home, lost my relationship, was duped of a large amount of money because I wanted to leg it so dt I won't eventually get an extra year. Up till ds moment, I can't help but still imagining d day I'll lay my hands on her. Honestly, I'll avenge(God forgive me in advance).


Well, like someone rightly said; 'I may not be where I'm supposed to be, but I'll still thank God cos I'm not where I used to be'. It was one useless frnd I lost den, now av got many true frnds; Babawale Ajibola, Oyebanji Elizabeth, Sunday Jessica, Lawal Mariam, Ajisefini Abimbola Grace, nd my kid brother Akinola Olayinka. Come wat may, u pple will alwz be my frnds.

my jeeeeez bae, you mean a girl did all these to you because of a guy

i give up. Sorry honey. So sorry

Reiyvinn:
Erhm, I don't keep friends but niqqaz. Betrayal doun exist in the crew. You set we up, kiss your sorry arse goodbye....

Erhm, I don't have a 'love of my life.' That's bullshit. We go around with mature ladies who ride diçks without a need for relay-shun-sheeps. So whenever one butts out, the other bìtch takes her place.

This is the best way to avoid disappointments (limit your expectations).

Cc: Mprex

hmm. Different strokes for different folksbut seriously, i dont fancy that lifestyle. Its tooooo shallow


all thesame, if its cool by on. Fire on!

Mprex:

my jeeeeez bae, you mean a girl did all these to you because of a guy

i give up. Sorry honey. So sorry

Sup? Buzz me when you are free.