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Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by RaeMystix: 7:11pm On Nov 22, 2014
Mprex:

owk. Like i stated earlier. December 2012, my dad was poisones but it started manifesting by january and got very critical by june. My mum started spending on medical bills from one hospital to the other until we realized that it was a spiritual attack. Along the line, i had to differ my education to assist my mum take care of my dad and run the family business. Its not like i'm the only child but i just opted to do it.

That was a very miserable time for me and my family @ large. My friends were no where to be found. I asked my bf to come and see me severally but he didnt, always giving excuses.

My casual friends stayed away. None of them cared to ask after my ill dad or my welfare. I just had no one around.

Is that okay or should i go on?


Cc: Rocktation
Damn!
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by frankells(m): 7:24pm On Nov 22, 2014
Mine is quite a bitter experience; my gf has agreed to marry a rich guy behind my bck if not 4 her cousin brother who is also my close frnd who disclosed this to me am sure I would still be a fool in love till now, am still trying so hard to put her behind me. I really love her.

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Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by melissa429(f): 7:44pm On Nov 22, 2014
Wen someone u have dated all ur lyf 4 d past 6yrs of ur lyf,says its ova nd den goes 2 pregnant a lady,dat has deliVered,I rilly dnt knw if we call dis betrayaal,anyway,have been dere,bt have moved on,lovin only myself nd hope 2 marry a white man,heard dey ar d perfect partners u could eva dream of havin

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Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by 2prexios: 7:46pm On Nov 22, 2014
Zeemoor:

Thanks for sharing
I know people don't get past a betrayal overnight; it takes months or even years but I hope you don't resent them for letting you down
Afterall, we all are imperfect smiley
*
My story:
I was betrayed by a group of people who not only stabbed me in the back, but conspired against me (I can't go into details)
I've forgiven them and moved on with my life
I don't dwell on it anymore.... I can't change the past

I've come to realise betrayal has been going on since time immemorial and no one is immune to that shii
Not even Jesus christ...... He was betrayed by his own

My love, you are inspired. Katodaye, niran odale tiwa, aoma ri solution si. Misd u.
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 7:54pm On Nov 22, 2014
Rocktation:
You haven't shared anything here.

You are right rocktation
Op hasn't shared anything here,her friends not being available when she needed them may just mean they are busy with thief own problems
Her problem may not be life-treatening enough
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 7:59pm On Nov 22, 2014
you didn't reply my mail
Rocktation:
You haven't shared anything here.
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by winningbt: 8:00pm On Nov 22, 2014
Mine happened some weeks back,till now I am still in shock.My so called best friend of 5yrs set me up to get beaten by her bf and his friend( Sug president) and there reason are that I said they wear ibo made which I never did my best friend said I didn't invite her to mybf birthday and so on I would have upload pictures of me covered with blood stains but I won't. Am now my self best friend so much fake people all over
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 8:09pm On Nov 22, 2014
2prexios:
My love, you are inspired. Katodaye, niran odale tiwa, aoma ri solution si. Misd u.
Evening, pre mi kiss
Missed you too smiley
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 8:10pm On Nov 22, 2014
A bestie(then) I had soo much trust in went behind my back and took my man..lol..it sounds really stupid now but it wasn't funny then..she said lots of ugly stuffs abt me to him..the both of them even went as far as throwing their love in my face..all my friends then supported her..I felt soo hurt cos at a point I was the only friend she had when others were against her..then when I think of both of them together I start feeling pains in my chest...haha..it was that bad..in the end they didn't last 6 months..unfortunately it made me really scared of having friends..female friends especially..I still don't have close friends just acquaintances..and I am so secretive..but lessons taken and am glad it happened..it really made me a much stronger lady..the end!
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Gideon20(m): 8:19pm On Nov 22, 2014
i have been betrayed by some people i happened to trust..i have forgiven them but am still dealing with it.now i only trust my self.
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by AdmiralISAAC(m): 8:21pm On Nov 22, 2014
He thought he was ruining my career and future, didn't know he was doing God's will for my life. That helped me forgave and forget d whole thing.
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by 2prexios: 8:30pm On Nov 22, 2014
Zeemoor:

Evening, pre mi kiss
Missed you too smiley
You are so beautiful and dearly so intelligent, my prima ballerina. I believe the night is terrific at your zone? Sleep well till morrow.
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by chlowi(f): 8:38pm On Nov 22, 2014
Mine. Came from my sister, best friend and my bf. All within 3months am yet to recover. God help me
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 22, 2014
2prexios:
You are so beautiful and dearly so intelligent, my prima ballerina. I believe the night is terrific at your zone? Sleep well till morrow.
How sweet your words taste to me; they are sweeter than honey grin
Good night, dear one
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 8:50pm On Nov 22, 2014
frankells:
Mine is quite a bitter experience; my gf has agreed to marry a rich guy behind my bck if not 4 her cousin brother who is also my close frnd who disclosed this to me am sure I would still be a fool in love till now, am still trying so hard to put her behind me. I really love her.

isn't her cousin's brother also her cousin? stop telling lies please
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by emperorwhale(m): 8:58pm On Nov 22, 2014
Mprex:

lolsss. Sorry oh! But that one is National Betrayal na
Bros na only dat guy don betray me,
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Kenfil(f): 9:08pm On Nov 22, 2014
I rather be friendless than have close female friends... I can't stand some ladies...
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 9:24pm On Nov 22, 2014
PrincesAsinya:
A bestie(then) I had soo much trust in went behind my back and took my man..lol..it sounds really stupid now but it wasn't funny then..she said lots of ugly stuffs abt me to him..the both of them even went as far as throwing their love in my face..all my friends then supported her..I felt soo hurt cos at a point I was the only friend she had when others were against her..then when I think of both of them together I start feeling pains in my chest...haha..it was that bad..in the end they didn't last 6 months..unfortunately it made me really scared of having friends..female friends especially..I still don't have close friends just acquaintances..and I am so secretive..but lessons taken and am glad it happened..it really made me a much stronger lady..the end!
. I know how u feel dear. But why do women hate themselves so much. Female friends for me are now at arm's lenght.
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by 2prexios: 9:24pm On Nov 22, 2014
Zeemoor:

How sweet your words taste to me; they are sweeter than honey grin
Good night, dear one
We all are products of words, of love. We are made to be sustained by our source, which are pleasant words that enliven the soul. Good words are enchantment, truth is therapitic and love is like ornament poured forth. I mean, when a man loves a woman, then robin will sing. I wish a song for my zeelady, and a song to all that are capable of loving others unconditionally, a true love song. In the still of the night.

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Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by lexdino: 9:27pm On Nov 22, 2014
Reiyvinn:
Erhm, I don't keep friends but niqqaz. Betrayal doun exist in the crew. You set we up, kiss your sorry arse goodbye....

Erhm, I don't have a 'love of my life.' That's bullshit. We go around with mature ladies who ride diçks without a need for relay-shun-sheeps. So whenever one butts out, the other bìtch takes her place.

This is the best way to avoid disappointments (limit your expectations).

Cc: Mprex
One bottle of chilled Alomo for you.
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 9:34pm On Nov 22, 2014
zoelife:
. I know how u feel dear. But why do women hate themselves so much. Female friends for me are now at arm's lenght.
I don't know why women hate women so much..I guess we are just that way..just that some try to get over their hatred while others just loving using it.
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by peeparty(m): 9:39pm On Nov 22, 2014
Evathyst:
If doz tinz u mentioned up there are wat u call 'betrayal' Sister, na him be sey doz pple dt did that to u still dey learn work.



Here's mine; A friend of mine whom d world refer to us as 'Sisters' has alwz complained about how she doesn't find luck wen it comes to relationship stuff. Many at times, she ascribed her problems to spiritual tinz which I told her I don't bliv in. One day sha, she managed to hook up with one 'Motherf*cker*, dey were happy together until d f*cktard asked me out. Nd b4 den, I'v been telling my friend about how bad a player I perceive his guy to be.

At first I didn't tell my friend dt he asked me out, dnt wana tear dem apart. Yet, d madman wldnt let me be. He doesn't call my friend on fone, but he kept disturbing my line. To cut d long story short sha, I told my friend nd she confronted him. Come see lie na, it was den I knew some guys could even tell lies better dan d devil himself.


Funny tin, dey both settled everything nd turn everything on my own head. D first tin dt my friend did to me was to expose some of d online runz I was doing to my guy which led to our breakup(1-1 U'll say abi?). Finally, she went for d kill, she kinda logged on to my e-problem(as we OAU stdnts often call it) deleted a prerequisite course I offered nd substituted it with an irrelevant course. Honestly, ds is wat led to my extra-year in school. Me wey suppose graduate since 2012,in d midst of dt crises, I failed my ICAN exam,got disowned at home, lost my relationship, was duped of a large amount of money because I wanted to leg it so dt I won't eventually get an extra year. Up till ds moment, I can't help but still imagining d day I'll lay my hands on her. Honestly, I'll avenge(God forgive me in advance).


Well, like someone rightly said; 'I may not be where I'm supposed to be, but I'll still thank God cos I'm not where I used to be'. It was one useless frnd I lost den, now av got many true frnds; Babawale Ajibola, Oyebanji Elizabeth, Sunday Jessica, Lawal Mariam, Ajisefini Abimbola Grace, nd my kid brother Akinola Olayinka. Come wat may, u pple will alwz be my frnds. smiley
this was a serious issues u can think and die sef. or even go mad.but God as really been faithful.pls fogiv her av been der too
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 9:42pm On Nov 22, 2014
lexdino:
One bottle of chilled Alomo for you.
cheesy I hail thee bro. *Drinks directly from bottle*

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Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by franzis(m): 9:44pm On Nov 22, 2014
Growing up I watched my dad so called friends turn their backs on him , ever since then I have learnt there are no true friends

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Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 9:49pm On Nov 22, 2014
Mprex:

hmm. Different strokes for different folksbut seriously, i dont fancy that lifestyle. Its tooooo shallowundecided


all thesame, if its cool by [you], Fire on!wink [sic]

Gurlie, shallow saith thou. That's living life to the fullest without having to fool ourselves with silly relay-shun-sheeps. Those things are overrated you know... Anyway, *Sips Alomo* *Ignites Engine* *Fires on!*

(You're beautiful by the way)
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Nobody: 10:00pm On Nov 22, 2014
simp:


Are u alright?

You should not have dignified his comment.It is clear that his senses are "betrayig" him that he is as normal as us
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by DavidJohnDavid(f): 10:00pm On Nov 22, 2014
I was having satanic delay in my life so someone advised me to contact mfm church branch here in Europe.
The so called house fellowship leader, aspiring to be a pastor, told me of a plot of land in lagos for about 5,000 euros.
She refused to give me the account number of the woman selling the land. She said i'd have to pay it through her to avoid her cheating me. I paid her the money. And it later turned out and was exposed she never sent the money to the seller of the land, but used it for her personal consumption and needs. But instead told the land seller to write me a receipt to look as if she paid her money. Not until i told her that i was no longer buying that i wanted my money back did the woman selling the land expose her and she herself confessed that she never paid the land seller my money and the land she said was in Lagos , was actually in ogun state.
She is a house fellowship leader in mountain of fire and miracles ministries europe, aspiring to bring more members so it can be ordained a church. I wonder what foundation she wants to lay for those members she is looking for or what kind of pastor she wants to be, probably for the tithes and offering of the members, i guess.

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Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by realnas(m): 10:30pm On Nov 22, 2014
Hmmm its lik d ophad me in creatin this topic hmm I was betrayed by two of my so called friends around 2013 ,first a guy I considered my friend rly stabbed me in d bac,k let me put it this way I saw a girl 's result on d board and culdnt help but tell my jolly gud friend that the gri 's result was bad (it was veri bad sha )after tellin him I went home and my good frnd gladly went to meet that grl and told her everything I told after hearin him d mumu grl went and contacted som strong men to com and beat me up hmm that was d biggest mistake she made cos hmm unknown to most pple I no be ordinary student d strong men told her in clear terms tht they can't touch their own and advicedher to clear off if nt! My niggas com gist me everything sfter some brain work I discovered it was that bastand one other guy in my class that told d girl what I told him well as for wat happened to thosebitch niggas I don't nid to say much .as for d other betrayal well that frnd went behind my back nd separated me and a grl I was toastin in his compound and he "joined "d grl wit sonme other guy hmm these two experiences left a lastin impression on me wen it comes to frnds .thnk god I'm now team one man parade and boy I'm so lovin it
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by realnas(m): 10:35pm On Nov 22, 2014
zoelife:
. I know how u feel dear. But why do women hate themselves so much. Female friends for me are now at arm's lenght.
my sister this world has turned into something else its best u kip to urself cps trust is a rare commodity nowadays be prayerful and blv in urself shikenan
Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by pweetixandy: 11:18pm On Nov 22, 2014
realnas:
Hmmm its lik d ophad me in creatin this topic hmm I was betrayed by two of my so called friends around 2013 ,first a guy I considered my friend rly stabbed me in d bac,k let me put it this way I saw a girl 's result on d board and culdnt help but tell my jolly gud friend that the gri 's result was bad (it was veri bad sha )after tellin him I went home and my good frnd gladly went to meet that grl and told her everything I told after hearin him d mumu grl went and contacted som strong men to com and beat me up hmm that was d biggest mistake she made cos hmm unknown to most pple I no be ordinary student d strong men told her in clear terms tht they can't touch their own and advicedher to clear off if nt! My niggas com gist me everything sfter some brain work I discovered it was that bastand one other guy in my class that told d girl what I told him well as for wat happened to thosebitch niggas I don't nid to say much .as for d other betrayal well that frnd went behind my back nd separated me and a grl I was toastin in his compound and he "joined "d grl wit sonme other guy hmm these two experiences left a lastin impression on me wen it comes to frnds .thnk god I'm now team one man parade and boy I'm so lovin it
and u went to school o..comma,fullstop,I no see any. Only u understand dis tin wey u write.

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Re: Share Your Betrayal Experiences Here by Evathyst(f): 11:27pm On Nov 22, 2014
Mprex:

my jeeeeezshocked bae, you mean a girl did all these to you because of a guyshocked shocked

i give up. Sorry honey. So sorry
Sister, na so we see am o. Little wonder why some ladies don't make friends with their fellow ladies. Women gan self....

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