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Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Stillfire: 3:11am On Nov 25, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Ihe if you don't know the difference between this... ...and this... Sorry I can't help you! 1 Like |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Stillfire: 3:23am On Nov 25, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: Good for you. Don't change yourself for anybody. That's an attraction on its own. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by ihedinobi2: 7:13am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Stillfire:Ok. Bond isn't a thug because he doesn't have body art and he wears suits. I do know he smokes and I don't think accent should really count, so those are the main differences judging by this post, right? I find that rather curious though. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by ihedinobi2: 7:14am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Stillfire:That part about me was refuting your blanket statement about men, Stillfire. That was the point. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Nobody: 7:30am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Stillfire: First picture all the way. What a divine creature. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Nobody: 7:37am On Nov 25, 2014 |
No dull yourself. If the female ain't feeling you, then don't feel her. Most "nice guys" have a psychological barrier that makes them feel that thinking about one's self i.e. being selfish, is a bad thing. It most certainly is not, and that female knows it. You cannot please everyone, neither were you put on this earth to do so. Random people, acquaintances and friends will catch feelings for you, that's just life. If it's not mutual, I'm certainly not going to force myself into catching anything back just because someone is jonesing for me. It either is or isn't. If it isn't, I certainly hope they will be able to remain acquintances, but if it's too much for them to deal with emotionally, wish them well with the best of intentions. But it would be dumb to think that just because you like someone that person MUST like you back. In a way, that too in itself is a form of selfishness. Don't be a biach to your emotions. 1 Like |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by UjSizzle(f): 7:54am On Nov 25, 2014 |
CFCfan:It isn't. It's actually beautiful to watch ya know Like watching ballerinas...the grace....hmmmm They just happen to be half/almost nakiid is all But they wear only enough to let your imagination take flight. Beautiful. It's like poetry or a really good novel, where the writer leaves you guessing even to the very end; allowing you connect all the dots yourself. It's crazy because the answer is elusive, but still mesmerizing enough that you stay glued till it's over. That's primal art. Yeah I'm a woman who doesn't mind staring at female strip tease. What else hasn't the world seen 2 Likes |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by UjSizzle(f): 7:57am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Stillfire:What a divine creature. All raw power and sexy arrogance Wayne though Do you hear the things that guy says when he raps? *pukes* |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by UjSizzle(f): 8:13am On Nov 25, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm:Tell your gf I'm sorry |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Sagamite(m): 8:27am On Nov 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Sagamite: |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Nobody: 9:35am On Nov 25, 2014 |
BuddhaPalm:DEEP!! richfella reincarnated(i have gone through your post history and i cannot be mistaken).ever since i read your submission titled 'THE ILLUSSION OF PURITY' on a certain thread. I wish to be like you when i grow up(no shiit).i stay following your exceptionaly perspective on issues about how the opposite sex are wired |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by veave(f): 11:11am On Nov 25, 2014 |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Stillfire: 11:23am On Nov 25, 2014 |
UjSizzle: I like that... 'sexy arrogance'. As for Wayne, I don't listen to rap to know what he says. What would one expect from a baboon bred entity? American women need prayers for ever sleeping with a lil wayne. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Stillfire: 11:24am On Nov 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Lol. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Stillfire: 11:27am On Nov 25, 2014 |
And you seem to hold strip joints in contempt. Well, one of the most beautiful sights I've ever experienced was watching a particular girl pole-dance. Was not the crass, artless booty-shaking variety. Lol, budhapalm has just dissed African tradition. Booty shaking is our art form o. It is art jor. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCCUBTRGSTM |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by bukatyne(f): 11:42am On Nov 25, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: LOL! @ friendzone saga again I 100% agree with you that like attracts like. A lady who is attracted to a 'bad' guy is not nice herself (forget the outward appearance) I think a lot of 'good/decent' guys get burnt because they are trying to attract women not like them (you know the flashy flashy of this world). A woman can be decent and still look sweet. Bitter or not, a lot of ladies do not appreciate the 'meekness' of decent guys and mistake it for 'weakness' Decent guys should know the kind of women that fit into their future and go for them. Let bad men/women roll with themselves I honestly believe a decent lady will not friendzone a guy because she knows that love is quite expensive and truth is when a man genuinely loves, he does so with the whole of his being Friendzoned guys (and ladies), sorry o! 1 Like |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Nobody: 12:45pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Sagamite(m): 12:48pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Okay. Buy a packet of biscuit, by the time you finish eating the 5th one, you will see a card with the proof written on it when you try to take the 6th. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Nobody: 12:52pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Sagamite: No way. I will not ruin my perfect shape by doing what is your job. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Sagamite(m): 1:00pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Eat it and go and dance 'Gobe' at a Zumba class. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Nobody: 1:05pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Sagamite: LOL I would go, if I got enough sleep last night. I will be too tired in the evening because I didn't get the care I deserve yesterday. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Sagamite(m): 1:27pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Go and marry a German Doctor for free Healthcare. But be warned that a German would work you up like a machine, so you will get more tired. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Nobody: 1:30pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Sagamite: I am a strong woman. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by ihedinobi2: 1:35pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
bukatyne:Thank you. You just played Abigail to my David. I was about to bring war to this thread. So, Bond is the standard now ehn? Who was arguing that the women that want bad boys are wifeable again? Tell me exactly how Bond's marriage would look. I'm still wondering at the allegations that men who don't sleep around don't do so because they are inconfident, hypocritical or broke. Lol, as if money is needed to straff. I go tell una my story? I have never had enough money to form big boy and I never really cared but my "girlfriend" back in secondary school was claimed to be the prettiest (unsolicited info I was given). In the polytechnic, I don't know where they ranked her because I never really cared to ask but she was hot and fine and had two dudes proposing to her when she practically moved in with me. Didn't cost me that much. I was just a gentleman that listened when they talked, picked up the tab (and I didn't bother with impressing with classy eateries and hangouts) and moved in for the kiss when I had made her good and ready for it (not that I knew what the hell I was doing then, I was just very attentive and very observant). You think that being decent means being clueless or dull? I hope you all find Bonds to marry. And I hope that you marry no nice guys whatever the case with Bond. Say Amen. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by bukatyne(f): 2:42pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
ihedinobi2: LOL @ bolded I did not go through the thread You be good lover boy o! Having se.x like dogs sure isn't the qualification of manhood else we are all doomed Bond as in James Bond is obviously NOT a husband material (again it depends on who the wife is ) Our decent brothers should find decent women to love and they will see them blossom. A loved and cared for woman is very beautiful and radiates elegance. Ditto a loved man loved and cared for by the woman he loves. The both of them will radiate like stars! |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Classicalmusic: 3:56pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Thinkr:I totally understand. The only thing that is always on my mind when talking to a chick, is not what i can say to impress herr but to see if this girl is cool by pinpointing her conversational style. Once i get bored, then i take the exit door because she hasn't attracted me Fortunately, they're the one talking to me but all in all, I decide on whom to have a conversation with. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by Classicalmusic: 3:58pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Thinkr: |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by BeloHorizonte14: 5:06pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Hi MizMyColi,your maturity ehn,abeg no vex for wetin i wan ask: which year did u graduate from UniBen and from which department? Thank you. OP am sorry,i didnt mean to derail. |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by MizMyColi(f): 5:19pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
2010/2011 session AEE BeloHorizonte14: |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by christabeli: 6:00pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
ihedinobi2:Biko chop kiss |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by missterious(f): 6:29pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
Re: Closing Arguments On Friendzoning And "Nice Guys Finish Last" by MizMyColi(f): 6:48pm On Nov 25, 2014 |
missterious: Owh Realllyy! I heard Adekunle's now a prof. Waow! What level? |
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