Pyrrho:
Baby, I "rock" punnies.

Fallacy!!! Men like you who make noise are usually scored very low. Its surprising to u men to see ur wives cheat because of this. men who are too concerned about women satisfying them are very poor, e.g, the Op's hubby.

Sophyrocks:


My virginity isnt the issue and is of no concern of urs. Beast should go and learn how to handle a first timer. simple!!

, lol so you don't want other female to sacrifice to make their marriage work ...

well its you that sabi

blesie

The truth is that you are not compatible with your hubby, but you ought to have known all these during your dating years . ..

This is just so sad, I pray the op gets out of this situation fast or her husband should be more gentle and patient on her.

Sophyrocks:


Oh yes. Im in suppoort of the divorce because her husband married her to punish her. the marriage is based on a wrong foundation. its obvious the huusband doesnt even know how to be romantic, to make a woman love s.ex. Its shameful. I repeat, you dnt rape your wife. You are to make her love s.ex by being patient. Teach her how to love but dnt rape her. Simple!! Bible no talk say you should rape your wife ooooooooo.

Girls sha! Nne it's not like that o! The way you guys are proposing divorce... it doesn't work like that. Little wonder the high number of divorce rates in the country. She should cool down and enjoy se.x with her husband, not being stubborn.

donnypool:


, lol so you don't want other female to sacrifice to make their marriage work ...

well its you that sabi

It isnt only females that are to work on their marriages. Men should too. Marriage is two way street. Two hands have to wash each other well. The hubby should change his mindset, go for counselling and make his marriage work too. It doesnt pay to be a beast. The man isnt enjoying his marriage still.

Sophyrocks:


Rapist on the loose!!

. I'm a perfect gentleman!!

Sophyrocks:


Fallacy!!! Men like you who make noise are usually scored very low. Its surprising to u men to see ur wives cheat because of this. men who are too concerned about women satisfying them are very poor, e.g, the Op's hubby.

I'm beginning to like you. We are getting to a resolution finally.
How else do we end this argument?

blesie

In a way you brought this upon yourself. .. Because your hubby probably got the wrong impression that you'd be an Amazon in Bed*

Sadly you can't starve the guy o oo*
you got to give him what he wants, the way he wants it"

phabulous88:


Girls sha! Nne it's not like that o! The way you guys are proposing divorce... it doesn't work like that. Little wonder the high number of divorce rates in the country. She should cool down and enjoy se.x with her husband, not being stubborn.

It is like that o. Marriage involves two people working it out not one!! Being a beast doesnt pay. You mustnt rape your wife to prove a point. Unless you are a beast or demon.

Sophyrocks:


It isnt only females that are to work on their marriages. Men should too. Marriage is two way street. Two hands have to wash each other well. The hubby should change his mindset, go for counselling and make his marriage work too. It doesnt pay to be a beast. The man isnt enjoying his marriage still.

would you mind if i pm you

blesie

I'm Not tryn to lay blames on you tho*

but you got to work it out with him now that you are married,

don't try to deny him what he wants,
Because you'd piss him off the more,

don't even think of Divorce because it's not an option,

Sit and talk with him, tell him what you want and let him say his,

He said you used to be fierce, now is the time, look him in the eye, crying won't solve any problem"

Take charge"
WORK It OUT !!!

Tholuwaniey:
. I'm a perfect gentleman!!

No you are not. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.

@blesie I just want to ask you a question before I chose to support you on this case. Please be sincere. Where you sleeping with someone else while you guys dated for 3 years

Sophyrocks:


No you are not. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.

I like your eyes, they tell a lot. Now I'm not willing to argue anymore.

Lumpyy:
Ma'am if ds story is true,its in ur hands to end ds nightmare,u can turn ur marriage into bliss by taking over,i know sex is painful for a while but u can learn and gogoole things dt wil make u d leader in d bedroom,its obvious ur hubby is highly concious of sex so u can make him happy by surprising him,he is ur husband so whatever u do to pleasure him is not ungodly,soon hel realise hes treated u badly and change too,take charge of ur marriage and be happy!

I told her samething in her last post. Take charge. Treat him to a romantic dinner for God's sake from what she has been saying she has never done that. Then you guys should make love. Tell him to go slow on u, make u enjoy it. Ahh, no passionate kisses, no sexy lure, noting. And when he seeks outside, what is ur defense. Stop complaining and take charge!

Sophyrocks:


It is like that o. Marriage involves two people working it out not one!! Being a beast doesnt pay. You mustnt tape your wife to prove a point. Unless you are a beast or demon.

Why'd she marry him if she wasn't gonna have se.x with him?

donnypool:


would you mind if i pm you

I smell something in the offing... Hmmmmmm! Carry on bro!

phabulous88:


Nobody's a beast, I only see a dumb wife who has refused to grow up. Now tell me, Why'd she marry him if she wasn't gonna have se.x with him?

Its the way he handles her. He married her with the wrong mindset: to punish her!! Have you forgotten? HE RAPES HER. HE STARTED RAPING HER FROM THEiR HONEYMOON. she was even fantasizing how the s.ex would be like, meaning she was looking forward to it not knowing he was going to rape her. Read her earlier thread again. you check it. Is it right to rape her? Making love with your wife with the right mindset and raping your wife are two different things.

BellaBambina:
I smell something in the offing... Hmmmmmm! Carry on bro!

its you i want to pm ..

2muchopoTBdope:

Wetin u wan talk in private Dis guy eh...u dey find puna on a low abi??

how u no say I be guy

Lol... Naaaaaah! You lie my dear.

donnypool:


its you i want to pm ..

a normal girl that is promised a car will date the guy , while a girl that is promised a marriage will solemnly spread her legs wide without hesitation.





what happened to u the married woman

BellaBambina:
Lol... Naaaaaah! You lie my dear.

check your email.

pweetixandy:
Hmmm..u and ur "husband" are not just compatible sexually. Ur not even romantic sef. What happend that morning would not have happend if u had just kissed him passionately and told him to wait until after service and u'll make him forget his name.instead u were doing like wood. Better divorce his silly behind and move on to the next phase of ur life cos as it is,100yrs of therapy will not help. U are not sensual and he is not patient. Hez a beast who shld be left alone,since u dnt know how to tame this beast. And u two dnt even have kids yet and u have a non existent sex life..incredible!

hmm....making sense......bt neva advice a wife to divorce her man.....no be u she go marry my sister

donnypool:


check your email.

you didn't have to...

onihaxy:
With the silly comments. I'm still seeing here, its so obvious that some people's brain needs re-activation or a hard reset.
Chaiii!!!!. I now see the main reason why so many rich guys are running away from marriage. Atimes, I do ask myself. If niggas who are poor are seeing finances as an excuse to get married. What about the rich dudes?. It was than I realized that so many women are just too dumb and stupid to walk down the aisle with.
From her first story. She never loved this dude, and yet, the poor guy never gave up. She and her friends turned him to a eatery and cinema maga and yet, he never gave up. She raised her shoulder so high for good 3 years and always wanting things to be done in her own way and yet, this dude never gave up. He married her and found out she is a virgin and this same dude went to a car shop to buy a car for her.
And the best thing that some homeless, ghetto, stupid girls can utter is that "he doesn't love the girl in the first place".
Now answer me. How many of you can date a guy you never stepped on his kobo for good 3 years?.
How many of you can see a future in a guy that doesn't buy anytin for you for 3 years?.
And now, you still expect the same guy to still go on his kneels and be begging for sex after he has done the necessary marital rights.

With this few comments I saw above. I'm just convinced on why so many ladies run to idanre hill and ayo babalola mountain to start shouting at the top of their voices begging God for a husband at 35. SMH.
I don't know why naija ladies will always see sex as a "man's thing" as if he is the only one enjoying it. Is it now a crime for a wife to give sex freely without been forced or compelled upon?.
Mtcheeeeeeew. Spits on the threads and the smellos ladies above me spewing trash like silencer. Idiotas

May God bless you with more wisdom! You are more than sensible and real! Stories like this are the reason(s) men develop more dislike for women; and seeing most females here support this psycho woman makes it more scary! I thank God for nairaland and other social medial platforms exposing things like this, I am learning a lot. To those thinking this story is fake, u better believe it and learn. I keep wondering why women are so selfish in everything, jeez!

BellaBambina:
you didn't have to...

yea but still check...i'll be glad if you reply

@ OP, I'm sorry you were raped by your husband. It was a very wrong approach. BUT in all honesty, if what he said was true and he went through all that, then I understand his frustration. You have a lot to learn or you'll end up with a husband that sleeps outside since you cannot satisfy him sexually. You are no longer a kid. If I were in your husband's shoes, I probably would've walked out on the marriage.

yinkeys :
@blesie I just want to ask you a question before I chose to support you on this case. Please be sincere. Where you sleeping with someone else while you guys dated for 3 years

she's a virgin


got dis virgin ed by him

AKMoney1:
Why is everyone blaming the husband? Did you guys read the first part of the story where she clearly stated that she used him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever she just feel like going to the cinema, that the guy never disappointed her? For good 3 years she played and milked him like wtf? How many guys can stand that? To the ladies if ur brother is in such courtship what will be your reaction?

Still yet the guy didn't give up and went ahead to marry her but only for the girl to start misbehaving on the very night of their wedding. Why won't you wanna bath with/for ur hubby? She even tried to resist the sex on their wedding night, come on we all have blood in our veins na and this guy has spent a fortune up till that moment. And even after the sex he realized she was a virgin and might be hurt, he bought her a car to compensate her. But ordinary kiss she can't give her hubby as a thank you.

Even though abusing her sexually is not the best option but what if he was beating her?

None of you guys here is saint enough to call him a beast except you pray to be treated the way she treated him while courting or you want your brother to be treated thus.

As for the lady in question, my advice for you is to beg him and change to a loving wife he wants you to be. Not always about sex, show him love and affections and if it's sex give him he's your husband.

my brother he go better for you.........nice contribution

onihaxy:
With the silly comments. I'm still seeing here, its so obvious that some people's brain needs re-activation or a hard reset.
Chaiii!!!!. I now see the main reason why so many rich guys are running away from marriage. Atimes, I do ask myself. If niggas who are poor are seeing finances as an excuse to get married. What about the rich dudes?. It was than I realized that so many women are just too dumb and stupid to walk down the aisle with.
From her first story. She never loved this dude, and yet, the poor guy never gave up. She and her friends turned him to a eatery and cinema maga and yet, he never gave up. She raised her shoulder so high for good 3 years and always wanting things to be done in her own way and yet, this dude never gave up. He married her and found out she is a virgin and this same dude went to a car shop to buy a car for her.
And the best thing that some homeless, ghetto, stupid girls can utter is that "he doesn't love the girl in the first place".
Now answer me. How many of you can date a guy you never stepped on his kobo for good 3 years?.
How many of you can see a future in a guy that doesn't buy anytin for you for 3 years?.
And now, you still expect the same guy to still go on his kneels and be begging for sex after he has done the necessary marital rights.

With this few comments I saw above. I'm just convinced on why so many ladies run to idanre hill and ayo babalola mountain to start shouting at the top of their voices begging God for a husband at 35. SMH.
I don't know why naija ladies will always see sex as a "man's thing" as if he is the only one enjoying it. Is it now a crime for a wife to give sex freely without been forced or compelled upon?.
Mtcheeeeeeew. Spits on the threads and the smellos ladies above me spewing trash like silencer. Idiotas

guy GOD WILL ENRICH DIS UR WISDOM