HARDDON:


Is the bolded supposed to be a compliment? Or a ploy to score cheap points just like #3 spelt out? Smh

As for d other paragragh, any guy that pops up to pay some bills for an unknown stranger is a douchebag ! God! Is there no better thing to spend money on? Even yahoo boys know better.

As for d lift, u just had to it coy it didnt u?
U stand at a junction with ur puppy eyes pleading as d sun n rain blaze down on u, we had pity n lift u, now u twist it to read we 'trying our luck?' How twisted can u get?

Most times, we even ignore ur presence in d ride, but u wouldn't just let go, u wano pop up whack convo when we trying to think sm biz,then u r 10mins away from ur junction, u inform us ,to prod us to ask for d number, if we don't, u just pick our phone n dail.......thinking to hold us down.

Soon we would stop lifting ur razz a33e3

Can I buy you a drink pls!..damn this sh*t is good

My dear, you're the one that needs slap.

Maamin:


Bwahahahahahaha....babe! any guy that use this type of line for you, give him a dirty slap

My type of wooing line is this...'the minute I saw u, I just want to fvck u'

Diamond kor diamond ni.

When u know the guy will later find out wat u are really made up of......Lol, so tell me who is fooling who?

The war of sexes is never ending and never won.

Individual difference matters a lot.

I have paid bills for a guy.

Be be first to make sensual approach.

I have given surprise gifts even when its not his birthday.

Initiated dinner and footed the bills.

Represented a guy perfectly business wise in his absence.

I have been the first to say sorry even when I wasn't wrong.

The list is endless.....Its my life ......Its my individual difference....It gives me kicks....It creates the change I want to see.....Its thrilling.


The question is who is the guy??

My answer is he is worthy.

Lol its part of our gift nah. We luff u too!!

joseph1832:
Na there dem sey see una. Instead of una to use am take beta mankind na to dey use am to take know who wan toast una and who no wan toast una.

Woman, "take live with them can't live without them". That's the more reason I love you guys.

Elantracey:


says who , impossibility is not in my dictionary.

mind you, no lady will admit that she has impossibility in her dictionary

Evina:
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men!

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges.

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.

well don't forget to come back later and tell us how he poked you.

folawiyoma:
Very true especially the one that when you have sex with them and maybe she have a bad character which she did not want to change and you leave her.


They will start the curse. Afi tio ba gun orin mi lokun. Meaning except you don't have sex with me.

No be say we both enjoy am ni abi na me be the first.

But few girls don't think like this sha but experience have it that does girls are heartless.

One be like, you have had sex with me. You cannot leave me.

Even if you marry, any day I want anything, I will enter your house in front of your wife and collect it.

Heeey !

I will be concerned. Caus obviously she's not trying to get into my pants. But when its a guy that is beaide u and he has been talkin ro u since the ride started, asking different questions, givin empty compliments, you'll know what comes next. I would much rather have a nice woman pay for my tfare out of the goodness of her heart....unless she is a lez

preshuzpearl:


I think you have a point. Nobody does anything for a stranger. Its a different thing entirely if it's someone you know cos I pay all the time for younger acquaintances.

@owolawitola. Think about it. If it were you and another lady like yourself, a complete stranger, inside the keke and she paid for you wouldn't you have been concerned? You'll definitely want to know why she did that. It will be weird and you might even feel offended

Evina:


I gave him my number because I wanted to be nice and also for productive opportunities that may spring up. It is always a gamble, but one I find worthy.

You are not smart enough to pick any holes. If you were, you woulda analyzed my earlier post before jumping to conclusions and displaying your lack of wit.

Na, i don't need to check another mirror to know what a mirror looks like.. nice you're shifting from just being "nice" to being "nice and productive opportunities". at first, you didn't include the latter, now that the former isn't clicking again, you've now smuggled in the former. way to go girl.. don't get aggressive though , your comments are selling you out on that path.

Evina:
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men!

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges.

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.

How many times have you been an angel to a guy just take his day without strings.

tyconcepts:
The war of sexes is never ending and never won.

Individual difference matters a lot.

I have paid bills for a guy.

Be be first to make sensual approach.

I have given surprise gifts even when its not his birthday.

Initiated dinner and footed the bills.

Represented a guy perfectly business wise in his absence.

I have been the first to say sorry even when I wasn't wrong.

The list is endless.....Its my life ......Its my individual difference....It gives me kicks....It creates the change I want to see.....Its thrilling.


The question is who is the guy??

My answer is he is worthy.

Nice perspective
na so u just 4get my side , that phone still dey give me headache even after the heavy patching. Do you have Jiayu g2f?

farano:

Evina:
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men!

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges.

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.

Look at this girl..

If he gives you lift now, and you see a very handsome fresh boy, the type you ladies call Mr. right ( though taken ) and he doesn't ask for your number, then next morning when we log into nairaland front page we start seeing things like.

1. Nairaland lady in distress, he gave me a lift but didnt ask for my number..

2. He works in an oil company, he asked for my number but I was acting hard to get.

3. I school in IMSU, he paid my transport from Lagos and didn't ask for my number..

4. He paid for my Oranges, he didn't lick any .


Please, please I dont want to see such rubbish threads again.

You just copied my thoughts and pasted it here. Thanks

princefunmi:


Let me ask you a question?
And I speak for all guys

Why would I pay for oranges for you or give you a lift if I did not intend to ask you out sometime in the future?

I mean face it, you are a stranger just like every other girl. If I were Santa Claus or an angel, I'll go buy me a BRT bus and give every girl on the road a lift or pay for every girl I see buying soft oranges.

Its still part of the mentality that OP is talking about. Cant you refuse to accept the payment or what? The guy paid for your orange, you didn't refuse. The guy gave you a lift you didn't refuse. The guy asked for your number, you gave him. What do you think he wants to do with the number? Increase the population of numbers on his phone?

Abeg grow up GIRL.

owolawitola:
My dear, you're the one that needs slap.

Lol.. , so I guess you will go with the other guys line and stop complaining.

rittyben:
Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha. U too like list.
Thanks sha, I just realise I have to PM someone sharpenly

Replied...

Check inbox..

No mind them. Osho-free!

Floyd45:


You sef why re you allowing them pay for your stuffs?

StealthyMe:


lol bros,i hate that thing ehn

me sef hate monosyllabic like mad

Such ladies repulses me

Lol. Well, the list can't exactly be faulted. On point!

Many girls need to change. Guys too.

Lol. List so on point, but I need to state that it's not only ladies that possess this mentality, 99.9% of men have same mentality too. Tell your boyfriend you met a stranger in the bus and he paid your transport fare or he paid for your shopping, first thing he'll say is ''I'm sure you gave him your number, mtcheeww, well done!'' Is that not true?

lol

tyconcepts:
The war of sexes is never ending and never won.

Individual difference matters a lot.

I have paid bills for a guy.

Be be first to make sensual approach.

I have given surprise gifts even when its not his birthday.

Initiated dinner and footed the bills.

Represented a guy perfectly business wise in his absence.

I have been the first to say sorry even when I wasn't wrong.

The list is endless.....Its my life ......Its my individual difference....It gives me kicks....It creates the change I want to see.....Its thrilling.


The question is who is the guy??

My answer is he is worthy.

Ok that means you are crushing on a guy that is worthy which you probably don't want to slip away from you. (i might be wrong) but That's cool anyway.

Now can most naija girls see themselves being worthy too..without pride making them think 'a potential mugu' or 'stucker for love'?

Evina:
Tosin, number 8 is sooo true about men!

The other day, I was buying oranges. I said to the seller, "please give me soft ones cos I want to juice them". Next thing I heard a voice that wasn't the seller say, "why only the soft ones"? I no answer. After my selection, the guy paid. I said thank you and was on my way, when he rushed to catch up with me.

I am usually not friendly with guys I don't know, but decided to change since a new year is approaching. LOL. I even gave him my number, an act I regret doing because na so so super story and Ikebe super gist the guy dey disturb me with since then.

All because, I was nice enough to boost his ego by letting him pay for my oranges.

This scenario happens every time. They pay for stuff you did not ask them to pay for and give you lifts because they want to "try their luck" and not because they are angels sent to make your day.

And d intriguing part is that u girls will continue accepting xo eventually we all get what we want.

Ligxy:
Lol. List so on point, but I need to state that it's not only ladies that possess this mentality, 99.9% of men have same mentality too. Tell your boyfriend you met a stranger in the bus and he paid your transport fare or he paid for your shopping, first thing he'll say is ''I'm sure you gave him your number, mtcheeww, well done!'' Is that not true?

Why will u allow him pay in the first place, na your boyfriend?

100 percent true

It's very annoying



But not all tho

Number 5 is applicable to only African ladies. Western ladies grew up splitting bills. A western lady you take for a date is sure of splitting the bills with you. If you as a man says you wanna pick it yourself. She will look at you like a specimen on biology lab.
so number 5 is not true if you think it's applicable to all ladies. Just saying out of experience.

Thanks. But no, thanks. I'll go with none! Lol

Maamin:


Lol.. , so I guess you will go with the other guys line and stop complaining.

tosyne2much:
This write-up is not based on mere assumption but my findings and encounter with ladies

It takes the grace of God if you aint guilty of at least one of the listed points

Lemme Keep The Ball Rolling

10 Mentality Of An Average Lady

1. A guy must be the one to start up a chat and he must be the one throwing the questions else he is not ready to chat

2. The society frawns against a lady making her intentions known to a guy, therefore, a guy has to keep pestering you b4 you finally agree in order to show to him that you aint cheap or desperate

3. A lady has to hide her virginity status or pretend to hate sekks in order to portray a descent or an attractive image


4. Sending Pm to a dude will make you lose your self esteem or pride as a lady

5. The mentality of an average lady is that, a guy should settle the bills. When the bill arrives at the table, you pretend it doesn’t exist cos you believe it's less of your worry cos a guy should always settle the bills by default

6. You are doing a guy a great favour by allowing sekks. Some will go as far as stripping unclad raining curses on a dude the moment he fuckks up because they consider it as a favour

7. A guy who loves you will go extra mile. Most ladies are brainwashed by this assertion. That is, a lady believes she can treat a guy the way she wants and expects the guy should be able to withstand any poo at the expense of true love
, not knowing you can pursue a man God has destined 4u out of ignorance and selfish motive

8. Any guy who tries to strike up a convo or pay your transport fare will later ask for your phone number 'cos he wants to woo you


9. You have to give unending busy excuses in order to portray an image of rear commodity

10. majority of our ladies believe our world revolve around sekks and that 90% of guys will never resist sekks. This sounds really funny but it is the real fact. I have spoken to so many ladies and I have come into conclusion that majority of our ladies believe that 90% of guys lack self control and will never resist sekks at any slight given opportunity

** Feel Free To Add Yours **

no wonder many of women don become customers to pastors always begging pastors to manufacture husbands 4 them

Evina:
I like this title. It is so refreshing to see a thread about females that doesn't have something about "Nigerian girls" as a title.

but na nigerian girls get such xteristics wey op write

tosyne2much:


6. You are doing a guy a great favour by allowing sekks. Some will go as far as stripping unclad raining curses on a dude the moment he fuckks up because they consider it as a favour
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Sex is the biggest favor a woman (or man) can do for you because they are giving you their body. I wish more ladies would respect their bodies more and not give it to tramps who don't value it.

tosyne2much:
me sef hate monosyllabic like mad

Such ladies repulses me

Thats how this lady replied me like that
I left her hanging and she asked wats up...i continued the chat and she kept up with the issh

i started replying same way too and she was asking me whats that?!
Na im she ask me why i dey chat that way...i feign ignorance

I sha tell her say she no like to dey receive am but she can dey do am

I just hate that stuff