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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Fkhalifa(m): 7:47am On Dec 25, 2014
hopefully our ladies can learn the effect of yanga when young.

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Nobody: 7:47am On Dec 25, 2014
10yrs ago she dey snub even guys wey just ask street address, 10yrs later no body dey toast her again. . . circle of life. cool

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by englishmart(m): 7:47am On Dec 25, 2014
maybe someone from the village has painted you with the face of an old ugly woman. Just go for deliverance

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by ladymichael: 7:48am On Dec 25, 2014
Akell:

Come out straight, this is your story.


Sweetheart, I happen to be a very emotional person and caring.just cos people ask opinions on behalf of others don't mean they are the ones.

Please learn to have an open mind and do kindly give ur advise if you can.

Mind you, many are learning from this, so if not for me ,do it for the thousands of women that need advise and are confused

Happy holiday love.

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by major466(m): 7:50am On Dec 25, 2014
At 35, I believe its still not late. There are women who got married at the age of 39, 40 years. She should remain calm.
However, I think she should get herself involve in social activities. Who knows, she could meet potential husband materials along the way.

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Nobody: 7:51am On Dec 25, 2014
KAYCEEJUNIOR:
insult you? hmmmmm, when next you raise a topic never raise the dust, we all marry based on choice and I believe you have yours, you brought up an issue and I felt we can solve it based on the choice of wife I can easily influence him with, you are here talking about tribalism, since she's your. collegue, you can refer her to your friends then if she worth it. Happy xmas
never seen a fool as stupid as you... Atleast not on a day as this and a topic this sensitive.

Grow up son.

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by tomas97(m): 7:51am On Dec 25, 2014
@op, could u send me an email, check my profile for the info pls.
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Dhamiee: 7:51am On Dec 25, 2014
may GOD help her
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by zenithshipping(m): 7:52am On Dec 25, 2014
Hnmmmm am sure she will meet her suitors soon but let her be prayerful and not too selective as well,Allah will be her guide.
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Kirinwa: 7:52am On Dec 25, 2014
ladymichael:


Am not a lesbian.

Lol. He was just being sarcastic. Anyway what was your attitude to men when you when you were 25?
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by mesoade(m): 7:53am On Dec 25, 2014
Whether she's pretty or ugly isn't the case,ugly gals today even get married more than pretty gals . . . I presume it's a spiritual husband thing . .this spirit wil make the woman he's inhabiting, not attractive to men and all 4ms of discouraging things . . . Let her meet a man of God.
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by EmperorSpecie(m): 7:54am On Dec 25, 2014
Op tell her not to worry, 2014 is a week due. Tell her I said 2015 is her year!

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by olaitan4real: 7:54am On Dec 25, 2014
Sis.no need to contact anybody for spiritual things ooo bt ma advice is she shld nt discriminate if she has attain sumtin or acquire sum stuffs bt rather be calm nd well behaved.she shall see a true lover
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by jolassmart: 7:54am On Dec 25, 2014
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by zheroes(m): 7:54am On Dec 25, 2014
this is the problem with some ladies, when they were younger they wont utilise the opportunity they had, they think they are men, a man can marry at 60years to a 25yr old . its nothing spiritual but law of demand and supply, at 35 how many guys at that age are still single ?, secondly a 35 year old guy would rather go for a 2014 babe that would be atmost 28 years or less, when it was her time to shoot she was still picking and making unnecessary choices. the reason a woman shouldn't be too choosy is they aren't the ones making the choice, if a guy doesn't walk up to you am sure most will not, besides some ladies have a very bad character. but have faith its not too late. it can still happen. but please don't get desperate, you can still have a good life being single, not all are meant to be married, besides not all marriages bring happiness, so savour the moment you are in.

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by aniffy4eva(m): 7:55am On Dec 25, 2014
@OP

Please tell your friend I said...

Marriage isn't a destination. When you set your mind on marriage, what tends to happen is that you "screen" every male that approaches you through your "husband" criteria - and where he falls short, your mind puts him in a box potentially missing out on other possibilities that could have happened.

My advice - keep an open mind. Have fun. Break some rules. Enjoy life. Fall in love. Fall out of love. If it happens fine, if it doesn't, no worry. Laugh uncontrollably. Never regret anything that made you smile.... and most importantly. ... BE HAPPY!

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by toyboy1(m): 7:55am On Dec 25, 2014
Read Isaiah chapter 4 vs 1.
Its happening in our time.
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by sheddyboy: 7:55am On Dec 25, 2014
Its either your friend or your colleague, it will never be you, she don't know how to write abi? that also means she cannot read.. until you prove not to be colleague i reserve my comment.
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Muyadek(m): 7:55am On Dec 25, 2014
I am a cleric, let her contact me on whatssap 08183836999
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by mesoade(m): 7:56am On Dec 25, 2014
ednut1:
Op na u be d friend am sure. If u cant find husband at least go born
how pesin wey no c toaster go born? . .

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by jnistrick(m): 7:56am On Dec 25, 2014
Wow dis is serious nt even a toaster. I don't tink its a matter of telling u wat to advise her wt, jst pray along wt her cos even if she is so ugly, got bad character der r people who are worst dan her yet guys are stil dying 4 dem n I guess she aint ugly nor got a bad attitude. Jst pray wt her dear he ll locate her.
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by criuze(m): 7:56am On Dec 25, 2014
When she was young and attractive the thought there's no body like her.


Pls help me tell her happy XmaZ

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Abugab(m): 7:56am On Dec 25, 2014
Certain factors could be involved here,
1. How is her beauty?
2. How is her character cum attitude towards the opposite sex?
3. Not even having toasters, mmmmm...this could be a strong spiritual matter as the enemy would have used a veil to cover her face so that no man can see her.
Whatever the case, she should go for deliverance or cleansing
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by deuce7(m): 7:56am On Dec 25, 2014
Can a picture be posted?
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Nobody: 7:57am On Dec 25, 2014
KAYCEEJUNIOR:
SMH, your level of reasoning is extremely poor, well I thought you are sensitive never knew that you are such a jeck and gulible, are you the one looking for a wife? how does tribalism comes to ones choice of marriage? just wondering how some people reason through their nostril......

Your IQ is very very low! Isn't it obvious u're the one reasoning with his nostril?!

You said... If she's igbo contact me. Now if u're sound enough, u wld realise u gave a condition which was clearly tribalistic.

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by ladymichael: 7:59am On Dec 25, 2014
passionate88:
The way you said it is rude... Very rude..


Was it? My apologies. Am deeply sorry.was just too surprised that at that age and in this era. one is still insisting on a certain tribe to marry.
My fiancee is calabar and am from a totally different tribe yet he has all that I want in a man so it puzzles me when I see people being tribalistic on marriage

Once again,my apologies

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Halaz(m): 7:59am On Dec 25, 2014
okosodo:
She is choosy and have no manners, quote me
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by totalhouse(m): 8:00am On Dec 25, 2014
Op u seem to be coolheaded. That's a good virtue.keep it up.
Your friend only need God's direction and to have 'marryable qualities'.pardon my invention.

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Olufemiolaolu(m): 8:02am On Dec 25, 2014
With God nothing is impossible.

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by ladymichael: 8:02am On Dec 25, 2014
sheddyboy:
Its either your friend or your colleague, it will never be you, she don't know how to write abi? that also means she cannot read.. until you prove not to be colleague i reserve my comment.

Lol....hmmmm ok. Will invite u for my wedding in march.

After wards you go give me advise that's if she never get man yet ooooo

Happy holidays, darling

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Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Uffakowoicho(m): 8:02am On Dec 25, 2014
we have many things in come save for d fact that I'm male and girls don't need to come toast me.i don't have any girl friend and I'm feeling i can stay single all my life. advice me please
Re: Need Advise:she Is 35 And Doesn't Even Have Toasters by Ranchhoddas: 8:04am On Dec 25, 2014
KAYCEEJUNIOR:
SMH, your level of reasoning is extremely poor, well I thought you are sensitive never knew that you are such a jeck and gulible, are you the one looking for a wife? how does tribalism comes to ones choice of marriage? just wondering how some people reason through their nostril......
You need a brain transplant ASAP mister.

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