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Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by tosyne2much(m): 11:14am On Jan 09, 2015
This is my first time coming up with virginity stuff 'cos the issue of virginity is so alarming taking different forms each day and I keep wondering why.

Note: I'm not taking cues based on my encounter because every girl is different.

Generally, I guess many ladies claim that virginity doesn't define a good relationship & shouldn't be an issue in courtship or choosing a partner, yet they lie about it. One thing I keep asking myself what would be their incentive on lying that they are when they are not?

Take a deep breath and read meticulously wink

Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin
1. Because Of Her Age
Personally speaking and general summarizing, a girl of 18-19yrs is most likely to lie using some retarded logic to justify her virginity like she has never had sex sober or in a committed relationship and is therefore still a virgin

2. Because That Is What Guys Love To Hear
YES girls lie about their virginity because they assume that is what we want to hear. Most dudes tend to hold firmly unto ladies the moment they realize they are truly virgins & barely play pranks on them just to get under their skirts 'cos they know what it entails. However, an average lady lies about it cos she believes being a virgin will make her appear innocent, respected & holy. Anyway, no dude should dare demand a virgin if he himself is not a virgin, all these chop & clean mouth dudes dey find tear rubber to settle down with tongue

3. She Doesn't Want To Be Pestered For Sex
We are in an era where sex seems to be the talk of the day. Since that it's now terribly difficult to differentiate those who truly love you and those who only want to get under your skirt, she's most likely to lie if she gets to know that you are desperate for sex

4. Because She Wants To Scam You
Many ladies lie about their virginity because they want to use that as a leverage to get you scammed. They will screw you up & get you dumped as quickly as possible when they know you will most likely get to know the truth


5. She Had It Only Once
YES a lady who had it only once and desist from it for a very long time still considers herself as a virgin and will most likely claim to be one because she believes she still as tight as a virgin and only a professional dude will get to know when he gets in there

6. The Reaction Of Others
Some people react badly when
they learn a woman is not a virgin. Hence, ladies would rather not deal with that reaction & may lie to avoid it because of the fear of Being chastised Or castigated


7. She Wants To Portray A Good Image
Girls will always lie about their number
cause they are worried how it will
make you look at them and they don't
want it to hurt their chances having you or change the way you feel about
them. They worry a lot. **That's girls 4u** lolx

8. Because Guys Attach Too Much Importance To Virginity
Take it or leave it, almost all chics will lie about being a virgin if they get the feeling that virginity and crap matters to you, they will lie about it.. The issue is that guys attach so much importance to virginity without being one themselves. lolxxx.

9. Because You Are Not My Boyfriend
Yessss!! An average non virgin lady is a TIGER & will tear you to pieces when you ask if she's a virgin. She's like, "Are you my boyfriend ?", and if she decides to tell you, she will lie about because she knows that your chances of getting to know the truth is next to nill. The funniest thing is that, even if you are her boyfriend, she might still lie to you especially when you are in a NO SEX relationship

LET BASHING BEGIN BECAUSE THE YNASH OF THE FOWL HAS BEEN EXPOSED

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Fabdedon(m): 11:17am On Jan 09, 2015
very nice one.. smiley
9 .Virginity is very valued(Hot cake) esp in Nigeria.
10. Being a virgin increases your bride price.
11. They believe men would trust and be faithful to them more when they are virgins.
12. To earn respect.
13. Its somethings to be proud of.

Where em girls let em come and bash
grin grin

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by ireneony(f): 11:19am On Jan 09, 2015
tosyne2much nice write up....by the way i just updated this your topic on my blog

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by SeverusSnape(m): 11:20am On Jan 09, 2015
Yeah!...You have some nice points, My advice to guys is this; Don't bother asking if a girl is a virgin, The chances that she'll tell you the truth is very slim, So if you must know, this is the only genuine way to find out.↓↓↓

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:21am On Jan 09, 2015
Holla me when its makes fp
S.ban
President
cool

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:22am On Jan 09, 2015
ireneony:
Hmmm.
why you dey hmmming
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by thiefnubu(m): 11:24am On Jan 09, 2015
Ok

#bakfromban

The op is so much on point... The nyansh of the fowl has been totally exposed... grin


Most girls' virginities are like Baba Ijebu....even if you have never won sh**t, you can always brag about how you win a couple of millions every other month.... Na only God dey see una undecided

Other reasons she might want to lie about her virginal status include-

1- Her pastor calls all virgins out during Sunday service... And her parents who have taken their time to bring her up in the 'way of the Lord' are expecting their daughter to stand up and make them proud embarassed

2- The habit of lying perversely is already embedded in her DNA angry... Even her 'Good Morning' is often a lie.... She just can't help lying about everything... These ones can even muster enough liver to come to church and give well concocted false testiomonies, just to increase their rep among 'the gathering of the saints'.....

Point is, if they can lie to God, lying to mere mortals will certainly be a walk-over for them...




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#pleasedontban

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:25am On Jan 09, 2015
Just passing.
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by ClintonNzedimma(m): 11:25am On Jan 09, 2015
Oga, e nor reach 10?

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by chibwike(m): 11:27am On Jan 09, 2015
Guys nko

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:28am On Jan 09, 2015
this is going to be interesting
*spreads my mat* Kristina1 come and join me
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:31am On Jan 09, 2015
in as much as it won't disturb me from entering inside am ok

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by haryormeedeh(f): 11:31am On Jan 09, 2015
its true sha, especially that of portraying a good image. Most people want to be seen as saints
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 09, 2015
dorlapoh20:
this is going to be interesting
*spreads my mat* Kri.stina1 come and join me
Abi o,,let's observe things.
care for refreshment??
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by tosyne2much(m): 11:38am On Jan 09, 2015
ClintonNzedimma:
Oga, e nor reach 10?
Still modifying and correcting some errors jawe grin

Oooya add the remaining one na tongue
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:40am On Jan 09, 2015
lol,yoruba babes be like

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:42am On Jan 09, 2015
Unibenstudent:
in as much as it won't disturb me from entering inside am ok
smiley how far with this your Smileys na wink
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by Nobody: 11:43am On Jan 09, 2015
Japhet04:
smiley how far with this your Smileys na wink
anything?
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by theorbiters: 11:45am On Jan 09, 2015
Hmmm.
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by vizkiz: 11:45am On Jan 09, 2015


yes we don land

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by dudesexy1111(m): 11:47am On Jan 09, 2015
coolMake i dey observe....
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by englishmart(m): 11:47am On Jan 09, 2015
96% of nigerian ladies ranging from 20 to infinity are not virgins undecided

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by tosyne2much(m): 11:52am On Jan 09, 2015
haryormeedeh:
its true sha, especially that of portraying a good image. Most people want to be seen as saints
Ayomide oya go through d list & tell me d ones you are guilty of wink

Remember no liar will make Heaven
tongue
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by jmoore(m): 11:52am On Jan 09, 2015
englishmart:
96% of nigerian ladies ranging from 20 to infinity are not virgins undecided
Who deflowered them? Robots?

smh

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by englishmart(m): 11:52am On Jan 09, 2015
tosyne2much:

Note: I'm not taking cues based on my encounter because every girl is different.

Generally, I guess many ladies claim that virginity doesn't define a good relationship & shouldn't be an issue in courtship or choosing a partner, yet they lie about it. One thing I keep asking myself what would be their incentive on lying that they are when they are not?

Take a deep breath and read meticulously wink

Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin
1. Because Of Her Age

2. Because That Is What Guys Love To Hear

3. She Doesn't Want To Be Pestered For Sex

4. Because She Wants To Scam You

5. Because She Knows You Will Not Believe

6. The Reaction Of Others


7. She Wants To Portray A Good Image

8. Because Guys Attach Too Much Importance To Virginity

9. Because You Are Not My Boyfriend

Let Bashing & Condemnation Begin

bro. grin na nine e dey o. E no reach the usual 10, hope all is well.....

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by CzarRex: 11:53am On Jan 09, 2015
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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by englishmart(m): 11:56am On Jan 09, 2015
jmoore:

Who deflowered them? Robots?

smh
it still doesn't change the fact that they are non virgins
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by ClintonNzedimma(m): 11:57am On Jan 09, 2015
tosyne2much:
Still modifying and correcting some errors jawe grin

Oooya add the remaining one na tongue
Some girls also lie just to console themselves.
Maybe their first sex was a big mistake and they regret it.

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by tosyne2much(m): 11:57am On Jan 09, 2015
englishmart:
bro. grin na nine e dey o. E no reach the usual 10, hope all is well.....
English baba.. Na 9 my brain fit carry dis morning ooooo grin
Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by ronald4lif(m): 11:57am On Jan 09, 2015
Whenever a girl tells you she's a V, when she's not you better take to your heels coz she'll never let you see her undies.

Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by jmoore(m): 11:59am On Jan 09, 2015
englishmart:
it still doesn't change the fact that they are non virgins
Well, look in the mirror and check if you are a virgin or hypocrisy is what you can see.

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Re: Reasons Why An Average Lady Is Most Likely To Lie About Being A Virgin by JoeCutie(m): 12:00pm On Jan 09, 2015
Numbers 2 & 8 though...
* "Because that is what guys want to hear"
* "Because guys attach too much importance to virginity"

What Virgin? Virgin Nigeria abi Virgin Atlantic? undecided
Well, I'm not part of the "guys" being talked about here, because I fear virgins. Ok, not that I fear them, I'm really not a fan of them. Almost everything they do is virgin-like. I'm more comfortable around & with non-virgins. Yeah, I'm that weird. I have my other very personal reasons though.

I said this to my guys sometime in the past and they thought I was joking; I'm NEVER going to marry a virgin. Period! undecided

Don't quote me & say I'm discouraging girls from maintaining their virginity, I'm not. This is about me; I'm just talking about MYself!

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