Hello Nairalanders!

I have been dating this my gurl since June last year and we did almost everythin in common.
But the mystery behind our relationship is that she'd never ask for anything nor receive anything I gift 2 her. Though we've never had ssex before cos am not a fornicator.

The only thing she has ever receive from me is #200 airtime, and anytime i want to give her maybe some money or gift, she tells me she is not a materialistic lady that I should keep those things till further notice (imagine?).

Pls Nairalanders, should i back out of this relationship or do you think she's the right girl for me?

Sorry to bust your bubble.

She's just keeping her options open.

She's not really that into you (yet).

My christian-ly sisters, am I wrong?

She is taking it easy

vizkiz:
if she ask for cash una go complain, if she no ask, una go complain...watin be una prob sef?

iWONDER

I think she loves you and is understanding. Had a chic sometime back that i lost due to this same doubt. To b honest she gave to. Me more than she collected from me but she left when she discovered i wasnt serious with her. And i havent had any other girl dat beat her standard since then.she wants a future.

2undexy:
Hello Nairalanders!

I have been dating this my gurl since June last year and we did almost everythin in common.
But the mystery behind our relationship is that she'd never ask for anything nor receive anything I gift 2 her. Though we've never had ssex before cos am not a fornicator.

The only thing she has ever receive from me is #200 airtime, and anytime i want to give her maybe some money or gift, she tells me she is not a materialistic lady that I should keep those things till further notice (imagine?).

Pls Nairalanders, should i back out of this relationship or do you think she's the right girl for me?

Perhaps she doesn't want you to ask her if you should give her gifts or money. I always say no when a guy ask me if I want this or that, my pride wouldn't let me say yes. But if the guy already got me a gift then I would accept.

How affectionate is she? if she doesn't let you hug,kiss or hold her hand in public then she is keeping her options open.

Unionised:
Sorry to bust your bubble.

She's just keeping her options open.

She's not really that into you (yet).

My christian-ly sisters, am I wrong?

u re wrong oo

vizkiz:
if she ask for cash una go complain, if she no ask, una go complain...watin be una prob sef?

The thing tire me o

vizkiz:
if she ask for cash una go complain, if she no ask, una go complain...watin be una prob sef?

the prob is dat she must not ask 4 2 much neither shld she keep mute.
SHE SHLD BE IN-BTWIN

jemype:
I think she loves you and is understanding. Had a chic sometime back that i lost due to this same doubt. To b honest she gave to. Me more than she collected from me but she left when she discovered i wasnt serious with her. And i havent had any other girl dat beat her standard since then.she wants a future.

hmmm...m keeping ma fingers crossed

Why should you back off?because she doesn't ask anything from you.may be she thinks you might start demanding for sex,when she receives things from u

Yareey:
Perhaps she doesn't want you to ask her if you should give her gifts or money. I always say no when a guy ask me if I want this or that, my pride wouldn't let me say yes. But if the guy already got me a gift then I would accept.

How affectionate is she? if she doesn't let you hug,kiss or hold her hand in public then she is keeping her options open.

if she wasn't dear 2 me i wld never complain, she means everyfin 2 me ma dear

Ipledge:
Why should you back off?because she doesn't ask anything from you.may be she thinks you might start demanding for sex,when she receives things from u

like I said earlier, m nt a fornicator, so y wld I demand 4 s ex...

I've pledged (just lyk ur name implies) 2 ma God dhat i'll neva have s ex out of wedlock

2undexy:


like I said earlier, m nt a fornicator, so y wld I demand 4 s ex...

I've pledged (just lyk ur name implies) 2 ma God dhat i'll neva have s ex out of wedlock

maybe she is not conviced,I pray u hold on to ur pledges

2undexy:


if she wasn't dear 2 me i wld never complain, she means everyfin 2 me ma dear

Then I would advice you to stop listening to her when it comes to how you spend your money. Tell her that she is dear to you and you want to buy things for her not for her sake but because you want to do it. A lot of girls don't ask guys they like things because they don't want to risk being labeled as a gold digger.

get ready to spend wella after working her down the aisle

I think she loves you contrary to some guy's opinion here. I use to have a girl like that back in d days and when we had a heart to heart talk and I confronted her then, her response was "Love isn't all about money, gift or material things. All I need from u is ur time, attention and care"

Bro I loved and respected that babe until I lost contact with her. Though recently we reconected again after some years but trust me a lot of water has past under d bridge..

She's no longer appealing to me again but I still hold her very high in my esteem grid.

All girls aint same

Yareey:

Then I would advice you to stop listening to her when it comes to how you spend your money. Tell her that she is dear to you and you want to buy things for her not for her sake but because you want to do it. A lot of girls don't ask guys they like things because they don't want to risk being labeled as a gold digger.

u re right ma sis...nd tnks 4 d advice

Ipledge:
maybe she is not conviced,I pray u hold on to ur pledges

insha Allah...nd tnks

vizkiz:
if she ask for cash una go complain, if she no ask, una go complain...watin be una prob sef?

guy i tire o

Emmyginger:
get ready to spend wella after working her down the aisle

u must b writin frm xperience ooo...m I rite?

Unionised:
Sorry to bust your bubble.

She's just keeping her options open.

She's not really that into you (yet).

My christian-ly sisters, am I wrong?

U are very wrong
I don't accept things from my guy n i love him so much....
@op, don't back off every girl can't be the same.

.sneak3:
I think she loves you contrary to some guy's opinion here. I use to have a girl like that back in d days and when we had a heart to heart talk and I confronted her then, her response was "Love isn't all about money, gift or material things. All I need from u is ur time, attention and care"

Bro I loved and respected that babe until I lost contact with her. Though recently we reconected again after some years but trust me a lot of water has past under d bridge..

She's no longer appealing to me again but I still hold her very high in my esteem grid.

hmmm...TIME, ATTENTION AND CARE....tnks bro, this helps a lot

2undexy:


u must b writin frm xperience ooo...m I rite?

well, from a freinds xperience

deb6:
U are very wrong

2undexy:


u re wrong oo

Care to explain your point of view.

Methinks such lady balances her two-timing conscience with the idea that "I did not take advantage". SMH

How on earth can you date someone for so long and not take little things?

Women!

Emmyginger:

well, from a freinds xperience

i see

Unionised:




Care to explain your point of view.

Methinks such lady balances her two-timing conscience with the idea that "I did not take advantage". SMH

How on earth can you date someone for so long and not take little things?

Women!

m the victim of this situation, understand?..nd if she was not dear 2 me, i wuldnt av com here 4 advice..she means a lot 2 me nd d only problem is that she wnt just ask or take anything,buh dat doesn't mean she is oblivious of our relationship

She's jst like me..be happy u ve such a gal as ur gf

2undexy:


m the victim of this situation, understand?..nd if she was not dear 2 me, i wuldnt av com here 4 advice..she means a lot 2 me nd d only problem is that she wnt just ask or take anything,buh dat doesn't mean she is oblivious of our relationship

Bro, it breaks my heart to tell you but you need to face reality.

There's a fair chance that I might be wrong.
I sincerely hope so.

If she is still holding back, then know that THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE or at the least, she's still hopeful of a "better" option.

Open your eyes.