wetin b ur own nah,as a fren u get limit to ur fren relationship ooooooo,make ur guy find out by himself.b4 u go pass info wia u no dey sure of.

eskober:
Am in a delima right now. My best friend is planning on getting married to the love of his life by the end of this year. I help her to secure a job in my office, I have been noticing this closeness btw my boss and her, when asked her she told me that my boss is just being nice but now it's very obvious in the office and everybody is talking about it. Every time they are always going out together under the umbrella of official duty. Everytime I ask her she will always deny it. Now I don't know what to do I don't know how to tell my friend, I have tried to set her up in the office maybe that can make her loose the job but my boss is always there to defend her. Fellow nairalanders what should i do in this situation?

see me see front page finally. Dancing unclad on the express way

See jst go and tell ur friend ok bt don't let her no dat u r d one dat told ur friend ok.

Official Duty

Davidovinci:
Your topic is misleading tho.....thought you had tangible evidence to proof your accusations..but since u are smelling something fishy,just let ur friend know what's up.

To proof ke

Dubemkelly:
Be focused and mind your business... Every marriage has its lapses, let the man find out himself

the problem with people is that they don't shut their mouth up all for friendship, me don't care. I'm of the belief when you an adult you know wrong from right,I believe I'm not the only one seeing the error.so therefore, I'm not a fool to play the good guy at expense of the good things I've built, they met,fuuuck without my consent, they cheat without my consent

Lol

Everyone thinks my boss likes me too, but we're just good friends. Having dinner and going out to events doesn't mean anything else. I'm sure my boyfriend asks the same question because he keeps bringing it up. It's annoying.

OP just mind your business abeg. They're just friends.

Tell your friend or lose ur job... The choice is yours.. I believe you are wise sha

Tough one OP.

You're in a lose-lose situation. You can lose your job & friendship together.

I have caught my friend's sexy babe with another man before. Not in the act but holding hands like an obvious couple. I was even with another friend when we suddenly bumped into them, to her shock. My friend had gone to another country.

To make matters worse, I was even temporarily housing this girl at that time, my friend requested for such help.

I knew the girl was that type because she did things to seduce me at home but I didn't fall for it.

She begged me not to tell my friend/her boyfriend. I didn't tell my friend, not because she begged but because she could turn the whole case around against me.

She could claim I tried to molest her or that she refused my advances in my house, hence the lies against her.

A sexy, curvy girl's word against a guy's or two guys' word. A guy has no chance. 95% of people would believe her. Even my friend, a typical woman wrapper would believe her.

But both of them never got together again. Some things that will not be will not be.

Fact of life.

If you can gather hard evidence, anonymously make it available to your friend.

Tel your friend to handle her well for bed. ..she no go remember your boss again. Him fit go enlarge am e go help big time

No 2ways abt dat

kestolove95:
How e take concern. U?

Ado Ebot... U Be Goat.

Exponental:
u haven't made a convincing point. being together is not an evidence of affairs btw opposite sex. get proves else u break wat is built.
smart people have flings without traces, only fools expose their weaknesses.

. I love ur advice because u spoke maturely

kestolove95:
How e take concern. U?

I wonder.

Do you have another job or source of income? If you cause problems between the boss and ehmm...his mistress....guess who would be leaving? If you know for sure something is going on....you already got involved by questioning her. Without giving details....just tell your friend you don't think his fiancee would make him a good wife....and end with 'I know what I am saying'.

kestolove95:
How e take concern. U?

You are a fool.
Selfish goat.
What if it was your fiancee?
What are friends for?
I believe most of the likes you got are from those whòres

Did you really write that? So if another is eating your to be wife you would be glad he is cleaning the konga right? Lubish

kestolove95:
How e take concern. U?

You better stop it. Don't think its fun even though you both are not having anything. Keep your job professional.... That may affect you when you want to get another job...if you value your relationship then do the needful.

Ilekeh:
Everyone thinks my boss likes me too, but we're just good friends. Having dinner and going out to events doesn't mean anything else. I'm sure my boyfriend asks the same question because he keeps bringing it up. It's annoying.

OP just mind your business abeg. They're just friends.

That's what the guys get when they decide to date small girls who joke with every dick and harry and call it fun... Nothing is happening....rubbish...

nothing disgusts me more than a woman that can't keep her legs closed. why are some women so useless sometimes?
op please try and devise a means to get evidence to back up Ur claim. your friend might be in doubt. check her messages or get someone 2 track them down when he takes her out.

if you ask me na who I go ask??

I don't even understand it...who's banging who?? sharing is caring...the money don't sleep so the punnany can't rest

pastorKosiso:
You better stop it. Don't think its fun even though you both are not having anything. Keep your job professional.... That may affect you when you want to get another job...if you value your relationship then do the needful.

My job is professional, in a relaxing atmosphere.

People are just too perverted and think that the only thing that must exist between a man and a woman is se...x.

Just reduce how you go out with him or act. I have a married lady in my office, everytime she is in my office to see me, for no reason at all. She'll want to hold or touch me and I'm not that free guy that do all those public show, so she thinks i hate her. She complains i don't call her or care...married woman? A beg. So you see? I keep it professional because i won't be happy if a man is touching my wife anyhow...work and that's all.

Ilekeh:


My job is professional, in a relaxing atmosphere.

People are just too perverted and think that the only thing that must exist between a man and a woman is se...x.

eskober:
Am in a delima right now. My best friend is planning on getting married to the love of his life by the end of this year. I help her to secure a job in my office, I have been noticing this closeness btw my boss and her, when asked her she told me that my boss is just being nice but now it's very obvious in the office and everybody is talking about it. Every time they are always going out together under the umbrella of official duty. Everytime I ask her she will always deny it. Now I don't know what to do I don't know how to tell my friend, I have tried to set her up in the office maybe that can make her loose the job but my boss is always there to defend her. Fellow nairalanders what should i do in this situation?

Too many cooked up stories these days on naira land. Well nollywood is moving

pastorKosiso:
Just reduce how you go out with him or act. I have a married lady in my office, everytime she is in my office to see me, for no reason at all. She'll want to hold or touch me and I'm not that free guy that do all those public show, so she thinks i hate her. She complains i don't call her or care...married woman? A beg. So you see? I keep it professional because i won't be happy if a man is touching my wife anyhow...work and that's all.

Ok. I do none of that, thank you.
No touching. No unprofessional language (body parts, intimate talk etc).
We're going bowling this coming Friday for my birthday
He's a fun person, like an older brother jare

AreaFada2:
Tough one OP.

You're in a lose-lose situation. You can lose your job & friendship together.

I have caught my friend's sexy babe with another man before. Not in the act but holding hands like an obvious couple. I was even with another friend when we suddenly bumped into them, to her shock. My friend had gone to another country.

To make matters worse, I was even temporarily housing this girl at that time, my friend requested for such help.

I knew the girl was that type because she did things to seduce me at home but I didn't fall for it.

She begged me not to tell my friend/her boyfriend. I didn't tell my friend, not because she begged but because she could turn the whole case around against me.

She could claim I tried to molest her or that she refused my advances in my house, hence the lies against her.

A sexy, curvy girl's word against a guy's or two guys' word. A guy has no chance. 95% of people would believe her. Even my friend, a typical woman wrapper would believe her.

But both of them never got together again. Some things that will not be will not be.

Fact of life.

If you can gather hard evidence, anonymously make it available to your friend.

Bros you and many people here talk about getting hard evidence,

how do you gather such evidence.... ?

now lets be real..

I have seen seen a gal that slept in a guys house overnight and claimed nothing happened (no touching, no hugging..) well its possible she is saying the truth..... after all a lady has slept in my room before and i didn't have sex with her (not that i didnt touch her)

The husband of someone i know will carry alomo in his pocket, goto an hotel room with books and you will see a lady coming of the hotel, but he will claim they are there to negotiate stuffs or that he is there to read but the lady just came for only a visit, funny enough the guy's wife will believe him.. now he maybe saying the truth, only God can tell what truly happened...

Now what i am trying to stress is, you cannot really get that hard evidence you people talk about unless it was a 3some or you had set a camera in their room or you laced your gf with magun.

What i often tell people is, don't give people the chance to suspect you!
Dont play with smoke while saying to yourself, there is no fire under!!
There is what we call IMPROPER RELATIONSHIPS & COMPROMISING POSITIONS but some ladies of today call it friendship and yes they maybe correct. I am not advocating that people shouldn't mix up with opposite sex BUT lets set boundaries that is OPEN/OBVIOUS for everyone to see!!!

anyaekekehinde:


Bros you and many people here talk about getting hard evidence,

how do you gather such evidence.... ?

now lets be real..

I have seen seen a gal that slept in a guys house overnight and claimed nothing happened (no touching, no hugging..) well its possible she is saying the truth..... after all a lady has slept in my room before and i didn't have sex with her (not that i didnt touch her)

The husband of someone i know will carry alomo in his pocket, goto an hotel room with books and you will see a lady coming of the hotel, but he will claim they are there to negotiate stuffs or that he is there to read but the lady just came for only a visit, funny enough the guy's wife will believe him.. now he maybe saying the truth, only God can tell what truly happened...

Now what i am trying to stress is, you cannot really get that hard evidence you people talk about unless it was a 3some or you had set a camera in their room or you laced your gf with magun.

What i often tell people is, don't give people the chance to suspect you!
Dont play with smoke while saying to yourself, there is no fire under!!
There is what we call IMPROPER RELATIONSHIPS & COMPROMISING POSITIONS but some ladies of today call it friendship and yes they maybe correct. I am not advocating that people shouldn't mix up with opposite sex BUT lets set boundaries that is OPEN/OBVIOUS for everyone to see!!!

Gather evidence ontop of another man's matter.

Una no get work at all.

Ilekeh:


Gather evidence ontop of another man's matter.

Una no get work at all.

I saw your earlier post and i avoided it and avoided you because we know your type....
now did you read what i wrote at all..
did you not see where i wrote that is not possible to gather such evidence that Areafada2 was talking about.

I was intelligently reacting to what Areafada2 said.

so what is your problem.?

anyaekekehinde:


I saw your earlier post and i avoided it and avoided you because we know your type....
now did you read what i wrote at all..
did you not see where i wrote that is not possible to gather such evidence that Areafada2 was talking about.

I was intelligently reacting to what Areafada2 said.

so what is your problem.?

Intelligently indeed. Dey do amebo for wetin no concern you.

You know my type? lol

I forgot, in Africa, everything has its hierarchal order. Over here, the pedestal is the same height. We all communicate with the same language.

Didn't even bother to ask if my boss was my colleague......as in same classes (PhD student)....... same age bracket...... etc. You jumped to a conclusion.

Nigerians...forever backwards. Pervertic minds with no room for growth.

Ilekeh:


Intelligently indeed. Dey do amebo for wetin no concern you.

You know my type? lol

I forgot, in Africa, everything has its hierarchal order. Over here, the pedestal is the same height. We all communicate with the same language.

Didn't even bother to ask if my boss was my colleague......as in same classes (PhD student)....... same age bracket...... etc. You jumped to a conclusion.

Nigerians...forever backwards. Pervertic minds with no room for growth.

You just want my attention but i wont give you.. i was talking with area father.. what concerns you.. who is the amebo here now

Areafada2 mentioned hard evidence and i said its not possible to gather hard evidence of whats going between a guy and a gal.. and you just descended on me

But i have learnt something new this morning... having sex where you are based is dependent on pedestal ..lol. (colleagues don't have sex, same age bracket don't have sex and even people that are Phd students don't have sex)

Mind you, I have never denied not having a pervertic mind, not everyone will be a saint and be disciplined like you.. we are still learning...
Good morning and move over to the next guy

gbam.ask him is it because you find a job for her.stop being a guardian Angel. you have it hot with that your friend and boos too.