Lately, I and my girlfriend have been having problems so we broke up two weeks ago and immediately my best friend heard about it she has been behaving weird. She called me to her place and when i got there she was in her underwear and told me to help her pick out clothes to wear it took like ten mins and she was in her underwear all through. She even rubbed her butt a couple of times asking what i thought about it .

Another day while we were talking, she asked if i found her attractive and i said i did but we are just friends then she asked why I'm not emotional with her, i said i have a girlfriend, she said "you have an ex" while saying this she had her hand on my thigh and was stroking it. It took the grace of God to leave there without doing anything

I'm confused. Do i go ahead and give her what she wants or do i just wait till i get back with my girlfriend because we have been dating for a while and sometimes we break up.I'm just confused.

This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

The second you start saying stuff like "it took the special grace of God to get out of there" then in your head you have done the deed already...guess she's always had a thing for you and hearing your relationship ended was the greatest news for her.. don't think she was ever your best friend if you ask me

stan241:
The second you start saying stuff like "it took the special grace of God to get out of there" then in your head you have done the deed already...guess she's always had a thing for you and hearing your relationship ended was the greatest news for her.. don't think she was ever your best friend if you ask me

she has helped me through a lot and i always ask her for advice when i have problems with my girlfriend she has been a good friend why her behavior now confuses me

lordthree:

she has helped me through a lot and i always ask her for advice when i have problems with my girlfriend she has been a good friend why her behavior now confuses me

Like i said she has always had a thing for you but couldn't act on it because of your ongoing relationship then but now that you free its open season she'd try to get you to see her than more than just a friend

Oga!! Re u asking us to mislead u ehh kwa...

Y not leave d devil mk d devil leave u..

adewale2011:
guy you just want make I use versiline this night, but God Win....Next time Bros go CNN not Nairaland

lmao sure thing

stan241:
Like i said she has always had a thing for you but couldn't act on it because of your ongoing relationship then but now that you free its open season she'd try to get you to see her than more than just a friend

you're making sense boss but what do i do about all this, whats your opinion?

Let me tell you this...
1,The moment you get to have sex with her,that friendship is destroyed forever. It will never be same again with her.
2,Its not every advance from a lady that you must weakly fall for. Had it been she was the one in a troubled relationship that had issues,would she give in to your advances? I guess no.
3,She's going thru a lonely phase and if you manage to avoid this,when she gets into a happy relationship,she'll appreciate you for being a gentleman.

lordthree:

you're making sense boss but what do i do about all this, whats your opinion?

Its simple really.....What do you want?

ZedX5:


The fvcktard is confused and doesn't know what to do, but he runs his trap when men talk. . . Fvcking cretin.

interesting input

The 1st to comment chick, no wonder nobody quotes her she just dropped confuse english come carry the matter for head like GELE.

stan241:
Its simple really.....What do you want?

i really dont know, i love my girlfriend and i know we will get back together but my friend really gets me more than anyone, what if i regret not doing anything in the future.

Let me Lmao sha. My jt no get time to contribute cos d ladies here are gonna bash me tonite.

falconey:
The 1st to comment chick, no wonder nobody quote her she just dropped confuse english come carry the matter for head like GELE.

i tire oh: D

lordthree:

i really dont know, i love my girlfriend and i know we will get back together but my friend really gets me more than anyone, what if i regret not doing anything in the future.

OK first off what made you and your gf break up? because waiting for someone after a break up can get so depressing trust me been there....Its kinda normal that you still love your gf its just 3weeks but then again it depends on what broke you guys up initially...my advice would be take some time off to be with yourself away from both of them yes...that should give you an idea of what it is you really want...p.s is your best friend single? if yes it may just be a case of her being lonely/Hot she's human too you know

stan241:
OK first off what made you and your gf break up? because waiting for someone after a break up can get so depressing trust me been there....Its kinda normal that you still love your gf its just 3weeks but then again it depends on what broke you guys up initially...my advice would be take some time off to be with yourself away from both of them yes...that should give you an idea of what it is you really want...p.s is your best friend single? if yes it may just be a case of her being lonely/Hot she's human too you know

we broke up because we argued a lot mostly because of her not cooking or cleaning when she stays over, it has been an issue. and yes my friend is single

lordthree:

we broke up because we argued a lot mostly because of her not cooking or cleaning when she stays over, it has been an issue. and yes my friend is single

well that can be an issue especially if you the neat freak type but then again it depends on how long you two have been together as for your friend like i said she's just really lonely so unless you both agree to hir the sack no strings attached then i suggest you steer clear off her especially seeing as you still love your gf

N.igga yhu n me, we dsame... jez dat I don't av a friend Datz showin me greenlight every wer... I broke up wit my gf in December bcoz of dsame reason n I regret it nw kind of... well, don't do it mehn, it can be pretty ugly, dnt Fvck a friend... a friend can't remain a friend after yhu've fvcked her.. so if yhu do it, ur stuck n u may not even like her for a relationship.

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

and you expect us to understand what u just typed

adewale2011:
guy you just want make I use versiline this night, but God Win....Next time Bros go CNN not Nairaland

Hahahahaha... dis guy sef. see ya head like pomo

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

are u saying wat i'm thinking u r saying?

I know you're confused boy/man, please give me your friends number..she'll stop disturbing you afterwards

...beat her blue and black and tell her, 'you don't touch the tail of a tiger and go free '

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

dafûq you saying?

falconey:
The 1st to comment chick, no wonder nobody quote her she just dropped confuse english come carry the matter for head like GELE.

You come tie am like tie for neck.
Chai!! nairalanders and bad mouth.

Her pistol go (bang bang, boom boom, pop pop),
Her pistol go (bang bang, boom boom, pop pop),
I said her pistol go (bang bang, boom boom, pop pop),
Cause she a fashion killa, and I'm a trendy nigga
I said her pistol go (bang bang, boom boom, pop pop),
Her pistol go (bang bang, boom boom, pop pop),
I said her pistol go (bang bang, boom boom, pop pop),
Cause she a fashion killa, and I'm a jiggy nigga

Serious

It happened to me while in school, not that I broke up with my gf but this friend keeps looking for ways to get in line. This very day, she came to visit her friend in my hostel, she decided to stay late with her & later left her room saying it's late already that she can't sleep with her cos her friend's bf is around & she can't go to her place that night. Though I knew what she's up to but I played along. She started by undressing claiming she can't sleep with cloths on (but she can sleep with only bra & panty with a guy on the same bed). She was surprised I didn't even said anything to her big boo.bs or curvy hips, we went to bed but both disguising as sleeping. About an hour later, she starts her trouble, gently & softly still I played along & helped her to the mood she want but when it got to a place that she wants more than caressing, she was urging me to go in like that (full aboard) I use my last lifeline (I don't have con'dom at home & I'm even a virgin lol) I can't start nursing STDs at this stage. She got annoyed calling me different names but I didn't bulge. Though I see free punny in my front but I've decided not to give in. She tried times after times but I stand on my decision every other day. Don't ever give