lordthree:

you're making sense boss but what do i do about all this, whats your opinion?

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

bayulll01:
this one just they rant like say she be macho,since the accuse u that nobody quote you,let me make your day by quoting you,happy now

UnimkeAk:


Exactly What I keep telling them, when ever matters like this arises.

Durchmann:


Seconded!!!

I still have platonic relationships with the opposite sex but there's been a good number which went sexual or close.

It's a real tricky situation. Only a handful can withstand the heat.

My 2 kobo!

Evina:


Like really close? Such that you are always together, "best friends". And you say no romantic feelings from you? Well, what about the chick(s)?

Baddestguyp:
and you expect us to understand what u just typed

lordthree:

we friendzoned each other, i had a girlfriend and she had a boyfriend, she used to ask me relationship questions about him, and i did the same.

shadowgwalker:
dafûq you saying?

adewale2011:
guy you just want make I use versiline this night, but God Win....Next time Bros go CNN not Nairaland

femi4:
Well, I don't know what's going through her mind

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

lordthree:

she has helped me through a lot and i always ask her for advice when i have problems with my girlfriend she has been a good friend why her behavior now confuses me

Nelrulez:
well I can boldly and proudly tell you that I've been in a close platonic relationship with the opposite sex for over 8years with no strings attached and we're and we're cool just like that.

eyeview:
Let me tell you this...
1,The moment you get to have sex with her,that friendship is destroyed forever. It will never be same again with her.
2,Its not every advance from a lady that you must weakly fall for. Had it been she was the one in a troubled relationship that had issues,would she give in to your advances? I guess no.
3,She's going thru a lonely phase and if you manage to avoid this,when she gets into a happy relationship,she'll appreciate you for being a gentleman.

datkoded:
Chai. U mean am? This ur story familiar die, especially the sleeping naked part(that seduction technique is 99% effective)... 100 L, I was still a virgin. She happened to be a notorious lesbian and my childhood friend. The only difference between our stories is that I gave a the f*cking of her life.. Till today I never told her she's my first, even my guys never believed I nailed her. I just keep it to myself. Just in case of next time, avoid such compromising situations by all means... We are men and we are humans, blood flows in our veins. I bet if it happens again u'll fall, I.e is if u haven't already?? badt guy

Evina:


Exactly! You wouldn't. Until she can't hide it anymore and danms the consequences just like the op's "friend".

Truth is, two people become close because there is some form of attraction. They share common likes and enjoy the company of each other. It is near impossible not to want more.

femi4:
humm....I pray it won't get to that level

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

AJdDon:

You re very right, as a guy wen i kip female Friends, I try tu kip dem at distance. Show a lady an atom of Care and d next day, she starts to get emotional!
Stay away Bro, those moves of her's re but sexual, not for love, just pleasure!

Evina:


LOL.

katzz:
thank you

lordthree:
Lately, I and my girlfriend have been having problems so we broke up two weeks ago and immediately my best friend heard about it she has been behaving weird. She called me to her place and when i got there she was in her underwear and told me to help her pick out clothes to wear it took like ten mins and she was in her underwear all through. She even rubbed her butt a couple of times asking what i thought about it .

Another day while we were talking, she asked if i found her attractive and i said i did but we are just friends then she asked why I'm not emotional with her, i said i have a girlfriend, she said "you have an ex" while saying this she had her hand on my thigh and was stroking it. It took the grace of God to leave there without doing anything

I'm confused. Do i go ahead and give her what she wants or do i just wait till i get back with my girlfriend because we have been dating for a while and sometimes we break up.I'm just confused.

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

lordthree:
Lately, I and my girlfriend have been having problems so we broke up two weeks ago and immediately my best friend heard about it she has been behaving weird. She called me to her place and when i got there she was in her underwear and told me to help her pick out clothes to wear it took like ten mins and she was in her underwear all through. She even rubbed her butt a couple of times asking what i thought about it .

Another day while we were talking, she asked if i found her attractive and i said i did but we are just friends then she asked why I'm not emotional with her, i said i have a girlfriend, she said "you have an ex" while saying this she had her hand on my thigh and was stroking it. It took the grace of God to leave there without doing anything

I'm confused. Do i go ahead and give her what she wants or do i just wait till i get back with my girlfriend because we have been dating for a while and sometimes we break up.I'm just confused.

timilehing:
It happened to me while in school, not that I broke up with my gf but this friend keeps looking for ways to get in line. This very day, she came to visit her friend in my hostel, she decided to stay late with her & later left her room saying it's late already that she can't sleep with her cos her friend's bf is around & she can't go to her place that night. Though I knew what she's up to but I played along. She started by undressing claiming she can't sleep with cloths on (but she can sleep with only bra & panty with a guy on the same bed). She was surprised I didn't even said anything to her big boo.bs or curvy hips, we went to bed but both disguising as sleeping. About an hour later, she starts her trouble, gently & softly still I played along & helped her to the mood she want but when it got to a place that she wants more than caressing, she was urging me to go in like that (full aboard) I use my last lifeline (I don't have con'dom at home & I'm even a virgin lol) I can't start nursing STDs at this stage. She got annoyed calling me different names but I didn't bulge. Though I see free punny in my front but I've decided not to give in. She tried times after times but I stand on my decision every other day. Don't ever give

Evina:
This is why I always give the side eyes when some heterosexuals delude themselves into thinking they can have really close platonic relationships with the opposite sex.

Hawlahscho:




Wow!

You're the real definition of self control.

My guy, don't make her feel rejected else you'll lose a frnd.
Don't accept her offer, else everything will become poo.

What you'll do is, turn everything to joke (if you're d funny type) and she'll think you don't take anything serious. (it worked for me though we had a kiss and I made it look like it ws just friendly kiss)





Hope nobody knows me here

RUNS OUT

sauceny:


Sista calm down na¿

onadana:
Confused for osho..free. dude.Who is this guy?I can see traits of a learner.Whatever happens to chop clean mouth.Its not like you are cheating on your babe...or ex...she is your ex....until you people come back together.