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Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi: No ooo she did not say she hits him oo, she disputed that. To be honest she has a lot of growing up to do. I hope she has started the process. Hmm I have noticed a lot of your woman hating posts and I've avoided you. I hope it's just an act 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi: Relationships are difficult . . . yes we women tend to push men to the wall. Me, I can try the patience of a saint . . . It's not something I am proud of ooh. But the day my husband lays his hands on me is the day I walk . . . we go share the kids 50/50 . . . Every man to himself. Abeg I want to live long to enjoy my children jor . . 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:18pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:so you can do anyhow and I won't be able to beat you for your rudeness abi NO WAY. In naija we must live |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:18pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Hmm yes they are painful but if someone is always verbally abusing me I would leave them just like I would leave a physically abusive person. I wouldn't beat them up. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:19pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi:Why not call it quits instead of murder, that's the part I can never wrap my head around(pardon my slow understanding of domestic violence) And I mean both male n female |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:20pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
fem29:I equally hope he's not as violent as his online personality depicts And to think he's judging this lady by her post not knowing how he projects himself on nl consistently 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:21pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
fem29:and when the person locks you up nkor? See I saw a gentle guy who always say he wouldn't touch a lady, I saw him beat his GF for the first time cos she locked him in and refused him to cool down even inside the room after almost an hour of begging from him and we the flat mates. I can't even imagine myself in that position. Oya imagine urself |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dinachi(m): 12:21pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:Oh you actually mean you intentionally provoke him..The day he will snap and beat seven shades of shit outta you will learn wisdom. Meanwhile, can you post his blood pressure results for all to see his state of health? No be when he is at the verge of death with high blood pressure issues then you will be here calling him a gentleman for dying at your hands without making a single fused. No wonder many nice men die suddenly from HBP and STROKE. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:22pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi: 'beating' him? Abeg what harm will her weak/boneless hands do to a big muscular man like him. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:23pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
I strongly believe this lady would still TOLERATE the dude if he hadn't gone bankrupt.... My submission... Lady, we wish you the best in life, there's really no point in mending a cut slipper, it'd cut again... you cannot live with someone you clearly disdain... In your next marriage, I hope you don't attempt to physically assault your husband, he might retaliate.. I also hope you ain't this foul mouthed and insultive in real life, change oh, it may still count in your next marriage.. I pray, you husband doesn't try to seduce your friend, he shouldn't bring in any lady to sleep over, if out of happenstance, he does, he shouldn't have the effrontery to tell you, he should hide it... it's less harmful that way.. Finally, I pray you learn to take your friends' opinions less seriously, I also hope you learn to keep certain details about ur marriage from them... Mcdokwe, when you open another thread I go give you your own advice... but you fit take some from here, as it applies to you... 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:24pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:hahahahaha so you know you are weaker vessles loooolz I no fit laugh. But, Have you not been seeing threads on FP where women kill their husbands? Comooooon 1 Like |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:25pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:Don't mind them Did u by any chance see the blow the guy was shamelessly describing that he gave the mother of his child What happens to breaking up with her if she was so bad?There is god indeed |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by remsonik(f): 12:25pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
May you guys cheering mcdokwe not end up like kolade arowolo o There's nothing I wouldnt see on nairaland. You guys are quick to judge her online charater, Do you know how many times he has abused her? Even the condescending words he used to describe her? shey he agreed he insulted her family abi, all of you are blind to see that part? the part where he gleefully recounted how he beat her up and showed no remorse for it you people applauded it? mcdokwe, may all this boys on here(yes i said boys because there are no men on this thread,just some overbloated chauvinistic lots claiming to be alpha male) not push you to the hangman's noose 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
dinachi: Stroke? HBP I reject it IJN! Women are given to petty quarrels and cat-fight, but not MEN biko. You guys expect us to see you as the superior sex and yet can't act it. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by MizMyColi(f): 12:26pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
iykedare: Don't be too sure. Me sef like better thing o. Well....like I always say to myself..... If a guy's physicalities (looks and money) hampers a lady's will to go ahead with him....... No Judgement o, but the fact is that she just doesn't love him enough to wanna make a life with him....das all. Well, easier said than done. iykedare: Which is why I maintain that he is a good person who just missed his way. (who doesn't sef) There is a root problem which she must be bold enough to talk about. Perhaps, someone has gotten into her head. iykedare: Nevveerrrrr. They will be forming one yeyerish version of iykedare: I will be factual here. We all love the good life. No girl sets out on this journey of love looking for a guy she will feed or one that will be dependent on her. But it happens. And some of us graciously accept it.....believing that things'll get better someday. While that may seem like an issue to her......if other things are/were equal...save the broke part.... Trust me...the babe will darn ALL consequences and go ahead. Last I checked No condition is permanent. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod: No The kind of love he has towards her is a dangerous one That is what abusers do in the name of love, they think they genuinely love their victims Maybe he had realised that she is the only woman that can tolerate his bullshit He needs help |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
MarvellousGod:E get as e be 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:27pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Before nko? I am an African woman . . . women empowerment or not, my husband is my LORD and MASTER and I serve him as such. He is also the MAN . . . So I expect him to act it. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by coogar: 12:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon: and by acting it, you mean he should stay calm whenever you provoke & push him to the wall? why not just polish your own behaviour and stop acting like a tomato seller that you indeed are? 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: I did ooh . . . I was too angry to respond to that his useless post. Choi, if na me, I for arrange area boys to re-arrange im face. Anu mpama! |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver:How are we sure their men haven't been abusing them before and they eventually retaliate. No gender has the monopoly of violence D lady may be taking it until the devil advise her one day n she listens Pls don't beat ur woman sweetheart. Just drop her ass if she's giving u high bp. Same advise for women |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:29pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Justfollowit:you don come here again... They both need help not just hime... At least he admitted to some of his faults. The lady needs the more help. Its obvious |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dre11(m): 12:30pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014: And you want to tell me that a guy can win a lady in that....... Let the lady tell us what she said before the guy decide to abuse her family too Taking my red wine as I keep reading 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:31pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:oh yh he will. And you as an african woman don't be provoking someone and expect him to be a gentle man. F^ck gentle manliness jare. Everybody behave normal and live peacefully that's how it should be. Control urself |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Rose2014: 12:31pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
remsonik: You're even advising the McDokwe guy Let him continue battering women until they cut off his JT one day |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:32pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Owliver: Of course. She also needs help |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Nobody: 12:32pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
coogar: I will still treat your Bleep-up Coogar . . An yes, he needs to maintain his calm and cool . . . When tempers are flying up and down, I expect him to remain calm and collected. I will act like a Tomato seller if I want to, I have earned that right. Carry pregnancy for 9moths and see what that does to your hormones. Untill you can do that oga Coogar, STFU! 4 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dre11(m): 12:34pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
fem29: Its his second time of hitting the lady that I condemned but other than that........ I won't cast any blame on the guy They both need to work hard on themselves to bexome a better individual........especially the lady. |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by remsonik(f): 12:34pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Justfollowit:That was how one man stabbed his wife 72 times all in a fit of rage |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by Owliver(m): 12:35pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:why must she listen to the devil. Tfk is that... And oh yh I'll drop her as soon as she let's me go outside, failure to do that I'll term it "restriction" which I think its a punishable crime under the nigerian constitution and I wll resist at all cost. I repeat. AT ALL COSTS |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by dinachi(m): 12:36pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Wedon:My advice to you go on your knees and beg your husband for forgiveness for all those years you made life hell for him. He deserves better and should be given a national merit award for putting up with you. No wonder, you have been defending this lady with all your power. You can see yourself in her? From now on my prayers is for your husband not to die an untimely and pain full death at your hands . So you are an abuser? If I call you a beast now, you go say I dey insult you. 2 Likes |
Re: He Hit Me, He Regrets It, I Deserved It by remsonik(f): 12:36pm On Mar 16, 2015 |
Rose2014:yes I am advising him before he will kill someone in annoyance o...... |
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