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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Mar 25, 2015
Martins301:
It is no rumour or mere saying that the human race has survived this long because of the selective powers of women. These set of darlings can see your future by mere looking at you and tell if your bullets are capable of bringing forth healthy progenies. The question however is what are the top most qualities that ladies look out for in a potential mate in terms of physical appearance, finance, spirituality, health status, emotional strenght etc?


Cc: Missmossy Ishilove DuchessLily almostFamous Midehi cutieberie1 Missyetty bisisolex nanauju
I'm gonna keep it short,I'm a lazy writer.




I just want a good man,a man who has love for humanity and more importantly family.
I'm keen on looks,I can't date a guy who doesn't like to look good. I'm like that.



Financially,a stable person. I'ld prefer someone who already has financial responsibilities like sending a sibling to school or something.




I want a guy who's spiritually grounded,not religious






I prefer older guys,like 30 and above. Although I'm no where close to that. Older guys just appeal to me more.



Health wise,someone who's as healthy as I am

A girl loves a guy who's got a great sense of humour,responsible. And oh! I personally look for a guy who only needs to take off his shirt to turn me on,I'm like that,that connection has to be there smiley

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by LewisO: 7:21pm On Mar 25, 2015
Rexhenrex:
must u say everything u see?
[size=14pt]How many thing have i said? Just telling u it's "Staled" [/size]

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by frodobee: 7:54pm On Mar 25, 2015
Ishilove:

What do I look out for in a man?

Physical Appearance: I'm not too keen on physical appearance. Just be neat and well groomed, no mouth/body odour. I remember about eight years back, in my undergraduate days, one nigga came a'toasting. Sweet Jesus, how his breath stunk.

Tall, well built, dark complexion with very thick lips, the kind my Yoruba brethren will call 'ete jumkpai' or 'etelombolo'. When he opened his mouth to start the toasting, my eyes watered, my nostrils flared and I almost passed out as waves upon waves of dizzying mouth odour washed over me. I was traumatised for weeks. cry sad

There's something called mouthwash, guys. It helps alleviate gangster halitosis. Seriously.

Deodorants help too. Don't approach a lady smelling 'mannish'. You know that man smell; a combination of armpits and sweat smell. Rather unpleasant.

Guys, Nivea deodorant is just 350 naira. Abeg!

Finance: Money isn't everything. Just have a stable source of income. Shove your big dreams and empty pockets up a rat's raggedy buttocks. STABLE source of income is what will reassure a lady. You don't have to be a millionaire, but have something that will ensure your family don't die of kwashiokor because they are forced to drink garri 24/7.

Spirituality: I speak for myself alone. I want me a prayer warrior. It is important your partner knows the things of the spirit,and does not leave the weight of spiritual responsibility for you to carry alone.

Character: Respectful and responsible. A verbally abusive man is a no-no for me. I speak for myself alone though.

Some ladies don't see anything with a verbally abusive or bossy man. I think the term they call it is 'submissiveness'.

Emotional strength: Mild mannered, easy going. No childish tantrums for me. I will verbally whip you to pieces if you do that near me.

I think that does it.

Nobody is perfect though. You first of all have to love yourself and work on yourself before thinking of others.

Aside from the attraction of height( I have this fetish for tall women it is infact my first definition of physical beauty) the rest of your post I dare say is what I or any man for that matter look out for in WOMAN. So I think this post also applies to men too.
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Ishilove: 8:11pm On Mar 25, 2015
almostFamous:

A girl loves a guy who's got a great sense of humour,responsible. And oh! I personally look for a guy who only needs to take off his shirt to turn me on,I'm like that,that connection has to be there smiley
Meeeow... wink

That shirt thing is kind of sexy grin
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Ishilove: 8:13pm On Mar 25, 2015
chimerase2:
Suddenly ishilove has turned dis thrad to inspiration thread embarassed undecided
Lol cheesy
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Ishilove: 8:13pm On Mar 25, 2015
afolayan22:
With all dis ur apparatus I guess u are a military lady!
No, not physically smiley
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by nanauju(f): 8:15pm On Mar 25, 2015
Martins301:
It is no rumour or mere saying that the human race has survived this long because of the selective powers of women. These set of darlings can see your future by mere looking at you and tell if your bullets are capable of bringing forth healthy progenies. The question however is what are the top most qualities that ladies look out for in a potential mate in terms of physical appearance, finance, spirituality, health status, emotional strenght etc?


Cc: Missmossy Ishilove DuchessLily almostFamous Midehi cutieberie1 Missyetty bisisolex nanauju

Oops I'm a bit late in here
First of all, what I look out in a guy's physical appearance is his neatness. I so much dislike guys who just treat themselves anyhow. Trust me, wen u re neat, u'll be good-looking

For finance, the guy must be living in his own apartment, not with his parents or attaching himself with others. He should have a good paying job so that there won't be this fear of financial insecurity
Spirituality: he must fear God o. Any guy who puts God first will definitely respect ur person as a woman

My kind of guy should be healthy. No one wants to leave with a sick person that one is an unnecessary burden
At one time or the other ladies tend to show some emotional weakness no matter how strong they try to make the whole world see them. Now, my kind of guy should be the person who will hold me in his arms and cheer me up in my down times. I don't like guys who are just indifferent about a woman's feelings. Let my guy be happy wn I'm happy and be concerned wen I'm not

Hope this is not too long

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Beamborla(f): 8:29pm On Mar 25, 2015
I tried really hard to come up with something to write down but I just couldn't
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by chrislu(m): 9:05pm On Mar 25, 2015
Ishilove:

Meeeow... wink

That shirt thing is kind of sexy grin
hey kitty kitty!!!
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 25, 2015
Beamborla:
I tried really hard to come up with something to write down but I just couldn't

Try harder grin
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Mar 25, 2015
chrislu:
hey kitty kitty!!!

You don forget ur pills again?

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Beamborla(f): 9:47pm On Mar 25, 2015
Martins301:


Try harder grin
I tried... and tried... and tried...


Brain error cry
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Ishilove: 10:53pm On Mar 25, 2015
chrislu:
hey kitty kitty!!!
Purrrrrrrrrrrr...

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by chrislu(m): 8:07am On Mar 26, 2015
Ishilove:

Purrrrrrrrrrrr...
come closer let me rub ur neck and tickle ur belle, I love cats.

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by chrislu(m): 8:08am On Mar 26, 2015
Martins301:


You don forget ur pills again?
u stole em 4rm me, can't u remember? U thought it was white weed.
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Nobody: 8:33am On Mar 26, 2015
chrislu:
u stole em 4rm me, can't u remember? U thought it was white weed.

Clown. grin
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Ishilove: 8:54am On Mar 26, 2015
chrislu:
come closer let me rub ur neck and tickle ur belle, I love cats.
This pussy cat is afraid of men angry

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by chrislu(m): 9:07am On Mar 26, 2015
Ishilove:

This pussy cat is afraid of men angry
i'm a good man baby. Plus I love pussys! I take it easy on em. grin

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Burger01(m): 3:03pm On Mar 26, 2015
chrislu:
come closer let me rub ur neck and tickle ur belle, I love cats.
Rub and tickle wetin? Ogbeni, behave. angry

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by doublem: 3:18pm On Mar 26, 2015
Missyetty:
Wow! I dn't want a perfect man, i just need to find some qualities in him, i admire a man who is religious, social, decisive, straigthforward, presentable, @ least he should be okay finacially and above all someone who i can always be my true self whenever am around him.
miss yetty you find me , I think am qualify , I have all the above mention credentials

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Missyetty(f): 4:07pm On Mar 26, 2015
doublem:
miss yetty you find me , I think am qualify , I have all the above mention credentials
oh! Sorry, i am taken
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Mar 26, 2015
chrislu:
i'm a good man baby. Plus I love pussys! I take it easy on em. grin

Young man u don derail this thread o. Hope u no wan chop ban?
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Mar 26, 2015
Missyetty:
oh! Sorry, i am taken

Tell me ur joking
cry
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by chrislu(m): 2:01pm On Mar 27, 2015
Martins301:


Young man u don derail this thread o. Hope u no wan chop ban?
wen did loving pussy cats attract ban?
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by gascoign1(m): 2:19pm On Mar 27, 2015
The greatest good we will du for Buhari is to come out and vote massively for him and not liking comments and post here. The reality is for your likes to reflects in tomorrow elections and not liking even without a PVC.

Sai baba for life
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Bonapart(m): 2:19pm On Mar 27, 2015
Yeye trend created by yeye ....
the quality they need is money
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by obaty(f): 2:20pm On Mar 27, 2015
good looks
intelligence
respect
maturity
understanding
patience

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by loomer: 2:22pm On Mar 27, 2015
Ask them this question again wen them don reach 32years without husband

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Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by Dcaliphate(m): 2:22pm On Mar 27, 2015
atm qualities have proven to be paramount
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by princeonx: 2:24pm On Mar 27, 2015
The requirement/qualities differs according to age!

E get when e go reach all men go be the same na just anyone wey show
Re: Ladies What Qualities Do You Look Out For In A Man? by nanizle(m): 2:25pm On Mar 27, 2015
OP is seeking replies from ladies... Why comment from NL GUYS just full everywhere??

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