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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by victorazy(m): 4:00pm On Apr 04, 2015
Vickybee:

Just shut up. Did you read anywhere that they didn't have sex before marriage?.

A silly attempt to make a mockery of people that still uphold to their dignity because you have lost yours. undecided

For your information, sex before marriage is still not helping matters because pretence usually becloud dating and relationship.

What would you say in the case where some men or women turn monster after marriage meanwhile they have been acting saints before that...

Don't insult

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by priest2u(m): 4:02pm On Apr 04, 2015
missclasssy:


First of all, you took my original post out of context and you quoted me, foaming at the mouth, ranting and raving nonstop like a hag experiencing menopause or an orgasmic mad woman.....

I said it's always advisable for a couple to "know each other" before deciding to enter into marriage
This doesn't imply that you go around sleeping with every tom, _dick and harry.

This helps you in knowing if you are both sexually compatible.

There have been lots of couples who have had marriage problems just because one partner isn't sexually satisfied or just because sexually, they aren't just congenial, due to the fact that they hadn't engaged in sex before sealing their relationship in marriage

I will still continue to affirm my assertion that sex before marriage is always the best.

If you sleep with every man you intend to marry , I wonder how many men would have sampled you before your unfortunate husband .
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:02pm On Apr 04, 2015
austelright:

The children were not conceived via rape, the woman has no right over her body because she is legally married to him.
I wonder what people call rape this days.


Rap*ist Alert!!!!!! So marriage is slavery now?

I shall leave you to your opinion.
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by xp17(m): 4:03pm On Apr 04, 2015
Vickybee:
That woman is very SILLY.
She has no right to deny the man sex since they are married except the man has a secret he isn't divulging.
she has every right to say no to sex with her husband, but she doesn't have the right to stop her husband filling divorce petition, with regards of getting another wife who can satisfy his sexual urges.

I think the man should be incarcerated, for forcing himself on his wife. That's a felony cheesy

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by harizonal123(m): 4:08pm On Apr 04, 2015
Not every woman enjoys sex. Speaking from experience ,no matter how hard u try to please her; you have to plead your way in all the time & in the end it will look as if she is doing u a favor. If u jam 1 u will be tired of relationship
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:09pm On Apr 04, 2015
Dimples192:


Oh the irony. Check out your moniker and what you're advising.


The icing on the cake is you're chatting to missclassy

You just can't make this shi up grin

undecided
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nicepoker(m): 4:11pm On Apr 04, 2015
Utchgirl:
#10,000 on monthly basis? To take care of 4children.I think it's too small .
really? Try 5k then.
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by brosprophet(m): 4:11pm On Apr 04, 2015
Vickybee:
That woman is very SILLY.
She has no right to deny the man sex since they are married except the man has a secret he isn't divulging.
my bro ibeg no blame the woman joor, maybe the guy joystick na budoza!
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by repogirl(f): 4:12pm On Apr 04, 2015
Two sides to a story......

BTW 10,000 child, sorry children support is too small nah! This our judiciary system sef.... undecided

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Tunagee(m): 4:14pm On Apr 04, 2015
dre11:




http://dailypost.ng/2015/04/03/we-had-our-4-kids-through-forceful-sex-man-seeks-divorce-from-wife/

Ladies using their hands to destroy their marriage since time immemorial. Most of our ladies are idiots!!
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by bqlekan(m): 4:14pm On Apr 04, 2015
N10,000/Month for the wife n four kids.. the poor lady must b suffering, but she brought it to herself

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:15pm On Apr 04, 2015
dickrider:


undecided

Then looked at your dp shocked

This jst gets better grin

Can you say Hypocrisy angry

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by yomi007k(m): 4:22pm On Apr 04, 2015
ijustdey:



I get your point sir,
but how man go dey earn 18k and go still give birth to 4 children...... that's just my thinking.



Bros u no knw say na poor man dey born pikin pass?

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by bejeria101(m): 4:26pm On Apr 04, 2015
missclasssy:


First of all, you took my original post out of context and you quoted me, foaming at the mouth, ranting and raving nonstop like a hag experiencing menopause or an orgasmic mad woman.....

I said it's always advisable for a couple to "know each other" before deciding to enter into marriage
This doesn't imply that you go around sleeping with every tom, _dick and harry.

This helps you in knowing if you are both sexually compatible.

There have been lots of couples who have had marriage problems just because one partner isn't sexually satisfied or just because sexually, they aren't just congenial, due to the fact that they hadn't engaged in sex before sealing their relationship in marriage

I will still continue to affirm my assertion that sex before marriage is always the best.


If they dont curse n insult its nt nairaland,how would u knw its nl if the reply no be insult i tire for una
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by 1miccza: 4:30pm On Apr 04, 2015
Hmmm may God in heaven never allow me to experience such in the nearest future but if i meet with such kind of woman,na there she go dey wey i go look for another woman ASAP... No time to waste oo....
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:32pm On Apr 04, 2015
AndreRose:

I think a woman has every right to disagree when she's not in the mood, likewise the man too. Though in the case at hand the woman acted so silly just like you pointed out.
she's not been in the mood for 4 years haba! conji no get timeline o!!!

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:32pm On Apr 04, 2015
missclasssy:


First of all, you took my original post out of context and you quoted me, foaming at the mouth, ranting and raving nonstop like a hag experiencing menopause or an orgasmic mad woman.....

I said it's always advisable for a couple to "know each other" before deciding to enter into marriage
This doesn't imply that you go around sleeping with every tom, _dick and harry.

This helps you in knowing if you are both sexually compatible.

There have been lots of couples who have had marriage problems just because one partner isn't sexually satisfied or just because sexually, they aren't just congenial, due to the fact that they hadn't engaged in sex before sealing their relationship in marriage

I will still continue to affirm my assertion that sex before marriage is always the best.


There is no point beating about the bush.
i support you,sexual compatibility before marriage Is good in my opinion too.
Only God knows how many women are married to closet gays.

For those who criticise for speaking your mind, na Dem sabi.Every aboki with him own kettle!

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Precioussilas10: 4:34pm On Apr 04, 2015
say no to lesbianism
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:35pm On Apr 04, 2015
cococandy:
I don't even understand some people.

You don't want sex, you don't want a second wife, you don't want a divorce. Hmm.
The woman gat issues no be small.

And The man by his own admission had been raping her since they got married. How horrible!

This divorce he's seeking now is something he should have done long ago when she made it clear she didn't want to consummate the marriage instead of raping his wife to conceive his children.


Jezzzz!


When you don see say husband dey rape wife.




Stop this your rubbish talk abeg
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by lozanni(m): 4:35pm On Apr 04, 2015
I hope the man's Anaconda is not the cause of this problem, cus I remember the one that happened in Zamfara state recently where the woman filed for divorce because the man's thing was too big for her to handle grin

Seriously, the woman should be examined to see if she has the sexual problem of frigidity. A thorough examination of her past can throw more light on the problem because its possible she was sexually abused as a little girl by a trusted person or that she was raped at a point in time.
The above reasons can make her hate men and sex completely. I also hope that she does not have a spirit husband like some NLanders suggest often.
I wonder if we have shrinks that help her emotional healing, if she needs it. undecided

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by J4parry(m): 4:36pm On Apr 04, 2015
1miccza:
Hmmm may God in heaven never allow me to experience such in the nearest future but if i meet with such kind of woman,na there she go dey wey i go look for another woman ASAP... No time to waste oo....

It may sound very easy but in truth, it isn't at all. We're talking about keeping your home together. Am not in any way supporting the woman but I think there's something they're not telling the court. Don't always take family issues at face value cos there's a whole lot more involved.

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by eckersley: 4:36pm On Apr 04, 2015
Utchgirl:
#10,000 on monthly basis? To take care of 4children.I think it's too small .
Oversabi
How much be minimum wage?
U know better than d judge, right?

Isn't d 'wife working' ?
Is she not supposed to add her own quota to make it up?

Na ur type dey suffer total disrespect from boys/men in a rship/marriage.
Una go just sit down think say una only responsibility na to provide puna. While d man go dey slave.
How he go take respect u?
tooth pick, pad, tissue paper, razor blade, even eye shadow, ur type go expect man to buy.
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Defcon1(m): 4:37pm On Apr 04, 2015
Utchgirl:
#10,000 on monthly basis? To take care of 4children.I think it's too small .
Try finding out how much the man earns first.
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:38pm On Apr 04, 2015
Truckpusher:
You're right.

Some peeps do not have an idea the crazy sexual fantasies that exists in the head of their partner.

I once dated a girl that wants me to make our love making look like a rape before she'll do anything .

[b]After sometimes ,I got tired of spanking somebody because it's not in my nature and [/b]I left . angry

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Neplusultra(f): 4:38pm On Apr 04, 2015
She must be circumcised or was a virgin.
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by bukatyne(f): 4:41pm On Apr 04, 2015
dre11:


gringrin



Abi nah.....
The man dull small.


But I don't just understand women just like this serene did play in court too

“My husband cannot sexually satisfy me in bed” – Woman tells court


This is a woman yearning for more action while this woman is just dulling the action

women...... You can't seems to understand them

Oh please...

It is about the women

Can We understand the men?

Rather than acknowledge that people have different needs or they should have swapped spouses on a lighter note, it is about the wives.

@OP: What does the woman want?

Did they have sex before marriage?

Was the wife a virgin? Raped? Indoctrinated with the dirt of sex?

What is the problem

Whatever it is, she is extremely selfish and does not love her husband undecided

@husband: raping her was wrong however If the wife was consistently denying him of sex and We don't want him to cheat, the options are rape or divorce.

Option 1 is nice longer working for him. I really pity him. He can neven be satisfied with rape.
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:44pm On Apr 04, 2015
Precioussilas10:
say no to lesbianism

Exactly, she may just be a chronic lesbian.
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by bukatyne(f): 4:44pm On Apr 04, 2015
Dimples192:



Rap*ist Alert!!!!!! So marriage is slavery now?

I shall leave you to your opinion.

I guess he is coming from Biblical standpoint.

A wife doesn't have rights over her body likewise the husband.

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by 1miccza: 4:45pm On Apr 04, 2015
J4parry:


It may sound very easy but in truth, it isn't at all. We're talking about keeping your home together. Am not in any way supporting the woman but I think there's something they're not telling the court. Don't always take family issues at face value cos there's a whole lot more involved.

In as much as i agree with you totally,i also believe whatever it is should never had led to sex starvation and now that it did apparently the wife is bottling up so much,the husband said from the onset "can you imagine??"
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:46pm On Apr 04, 2015
10k monthly for 4 kids? *makes a quick sign of the cross*
But seriously, why por people no sabi plan their life well? angry

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Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Gbanj11: 4:46pm On Apr 04, 2015
Pics or didnt happen
Re: Husband Wants Divorce From Wife Because Of Sexual Starvation by Nobody: 4:47pm On Apr 04, 2015
bukatyne:


I guess he is coming from Biblical standpoint.

A wife doesn't have rights over her body likewise the husband.

And the bible justifies a man forcing himself on his wife Because he said forcing yourself on to your wife is not rape.

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