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Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened! Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years. They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends! Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender! She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!! I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge! She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow! If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision? Was my advice a wrong one? 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by falconey(m): 6:44pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
OP its only a SLAP! 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Fabdedon(m): 6:45pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
enjoy all nah love 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
eggovinMma tell them 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Fabdedon(m): 6:46pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
falconey:you know there are some slap that can reset the destiny you know 51 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Beamborla(f): 6:47pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Abort Mission kia kia... I wouldn't dare 43 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Court ship kor, judge ship ni. No man dare raise his hands on me. It's better you call off the relationship. I am good in packing and leaving without being told anyway. I go slap my own back! MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD men! 56 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
SmartChoices: I go slap am back. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Missyetty(f): 6:49pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Well it is her life, but a man who is slapping her now might do something worse in the future, she should think with her head and not be blinded by emotions. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
EggovinMma: Dangerous nor try am with an Hausa man dia in Abuja o! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
He has not even married her and he is already hitting her, if they come marry nko? 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
SmartChoices: Hausa man ke? . |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:55pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Missyetty: That's the point. I explained these line of yours to hers. She was just too emotional to have analysed the situation dispassionately. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
4 months relationship, he is already slapping her? The guy no try at all o . Seriously I can't stay in an abusive relationship, if she can cope with him, no problem. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
EggovinMma:? |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
EggovinMma: I think these are the kind of relationships in which domestic violence are rife! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
If you hit me, I'll kick your balls. Then dump you. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
MzNelly: You wan kill am? Haba! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by ronald4lif(m): 7:01pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
How many more slaps will she want to receive before getting some sense and quit it. Except, slaps turns her on though. 35 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 7:02pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
MzNelly:What if you so much deserve it? 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 7:03pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye:No mind her. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:04pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Surprisingly, babe said she was in! Very beautiful girl; well packaged and oiled by the Creator. ...yet, for reasons best known to her, has committed her future to the hands of a slapper! Wetin be my own inside sef! 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 7:04pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Bro, you don show? Ghen Ghen! !! |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 7:05pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye:I'm looking for Mrs Chima |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by MrsChima(f): 7:05pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
My man has no business hitting me period! I got brothers! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Look no further; she's nearer than you tthought! |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye: Yes.Unfortunately, he will never stop. Na from slap e dey start o, before e enter blow for eyes. She better run for her life.Any man that hits me just don't want a step further in the relationship, because after that, the affection will just dissappear fiam! ! From my eyes. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by ronald4lif(m): 7:08pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye: Perhaps she finds slaps romantic. There are some women who are attracted to violent men and those who abused them, physically. Whilst there are some who are moved by the ones who blackmail them emotionally. She could fall within the former class. Her business though. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 7:08pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
MrsChima:What has your brothers got to do with your ish? |
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