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Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Babymama1: Hahahha. And that's by judging purely by his moniker? Isnt that funny? |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
rigarmortis: So I don't go off topic suffice it to say that that essence of courtship is to get to know your partner before saying I do And the essence of the knowledge you acquire at that period should guide you in moving ahead or calling it quits. A violent man or woman has a major flaw in their character And multiple acts of violence should send the other partner running quickly and far far away Choosing to go ahead with it is unwise That is the summary of my posts You salvage marriages ,you don't attempt to salvage a boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship especially with violence involved It's a total waste of time |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:09pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
MzNelly:Ok, I will but on one condition. Whenever he wants to write his stupid stories ,he should keep my moniker off his dirty,useless stories. Talk to him o ,because whenever I see trouble I'm always happy ,I don't know why but this is how I feel. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:09pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye: |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:10pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Babymama1:When you go change sef? |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by UnimkeAk(m): 9:10pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye: It is ok to slap ur gf/fiancee bk 2 reality, like the nigga in the gist did.. And end it there. Chics can be very unruly. Just scanned tru the front page ; all the ladies saying they'll quit; can't take it; are actually the ones suffering from serious abuse. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by slimwhite(f): 9:11pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
[quote author=Babymama1 post=32535342] This is pathetic especially coming from a woman Are you speaking from your own experience or what Didn't you read they were having an argument Was she arguing with herself How did a verbal altercation end up being a slap? 3 times in 4 months And you want to talk about the woman? There is no excuse for physical violence Period! No ifs or buts We are not talking about a married couple o People together just 4 months And your advise is for her to control her temper keep quiet to avoid slaps and go ahead with the relationship Seriously? Will you tell your own sister this thing you just said? I understand u perfectly but one thing you should know is that something prompted the slap.....they guy didn't just wake up one morning and decided to slap her....yes their was an argument ....but we don't knw the topic of argument.....wat if the argument is based on something the girl is doing wrong......that he slapped her 3times in 4 months doesn't mean they have argued just 3 times in 4 months....there must be a reason for every action..... My advice is both of them should understand themselves better and knw hw to handle their issues without bringing violence into every issue... |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:12pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Justfollowit:That won't count the moment you've been caged. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
slimwhite:. You were not there so we are bound to believe what the poster told us They were having an argument A back and forth verbal argument that got heated up she said then he produced his fist and no it wasn't a slap It is three slaps in a space of 4 months in similar situations Clearly a man who cannot control his anger She is better off with someone else at this stage,they are not married,nothing is at stake here Not all men dish out slaps There are men out there with self control She admitted to three,it could be more |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by monopoly3072: 9:17pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
EggovinMma:r u sure u can stay in a marriage |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by slimwhite(f): 9:17pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Sophyrocks: We aren't in any relationship so if I get a slap from you I won't hesitate to retaliate with better and more resounding slaps...... We are taking abt relationship swthrt |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 9:18pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
dearpreye:op a coin has two faces but u have just told us the first face wat abt d second face n 2 girls of nowadays can make one run mad if care is not taking but beating is neva an option guys pls der many ways to kill a rat in a pot without braking dat pot oo BUT BROS OP TELL US WHO START DAT FIGHT AND DEN WE CAN GIVE REASONABLE ADVICE TO U UR FRD [i][/i] |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:20pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
UnimkeAk:But bro on a serious note ,how would you feel as a man and some persons with some form of authority keeps beating you up every now and then over little arguments that can be overlooked. Sometimes we should put ourselves in the shoes of those being slapped around for voicing out their concern - To me ,this is pure intimidation ,after all if you have the same argument with a fellow guy you won't just dish out slaps if his mouth is getting the better part of you. I still maintain that a strong warning and sometimes a simple joke over some issues will make a difference though I have always said it to girls that I have dated that the day you make me so mad that I would turn up a woman beater ,I will just walk away and I WILL NEVER LOOK BACK ....It is better to walk away forever from a provocative woman than try and beat some senses into her. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
You can always tell a woman beater when you read their posts 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Okay Truck Pusher. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:22pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
MzNelly:Gerrout of here |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Truckpusher: So there are nairaland men as reasonable as this Kai Unbelievable This is the same thing I have preached for years and I keep hearing about women running their mouths Why are these professional slappers not slapping their bosses at work for commanding them around and calling them names Why are they not slapping rude policemen on the streets Why are they not slapping their fellow men who tell them worse Why their wives and girlfriends and claim they were insulted when they have taken worse insults from outsiders 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by deebrain(m): 9:22pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
I won't slap. Never. I would simply shove. Knowing that she might shove back, i would position for a RKO. Reason- No one will say i was wrong. The report will be that we both fought and i came out on top. Thanks. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:22pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Babymama1:Lol |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by lainie(f): 9:24pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Dat was just a warning signal against worst scenes in d future...wuld flee if I wia d 1 |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by rigarmortis: 9:24pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Babymama1: Well, you are right though, no relationship is what the uncertainty of not knowing when, if and how the next slap/punch is gonna come.. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by ednut1(m): 9:24pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
hope u wud post d topic ere in 2021. wen he beats her to death. ode gal |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:25pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Babymama1:If you've been bullied as a kid ,you'll understand how women that are being beaten by their hubby or boyfriend feel. Beating anyone that you're stronger than at the slightest provocation is like bullying and not any form of correction. Though slapping that asss is a normal thing eh - No man can stop me from doing that one. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:26pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
MzNelly:Is too early. Is your bf threatening you with a slap? |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
slimwhite: I am female by the way. People get talked down by bosses, friends and others. People dnt go slapping anyone who talks or runs his/her mouth. Thats the analogy i am using. relationships arent just byfrnds-girlfrnd types. They include friendships and other kinds. Just saying that for the fact that one talked to you in a way you dnt like doesnt mean you must slap the person. Even men could have toxic tongues like women. You've forgotten that men can be verbally abusive too. Its nt just women. No man has any excuse to raise hands on anyone. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Truckpusher: No, he just doesn't like me talking to "bad boys." |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Babymama1: Ofcourse yes. Women beaters full this site. Nairaland is a site for rogues and riff raffs. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Truckpusher(m): 9:29pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:Any man that beats a woman is simply trying to send a message and that message is - I want to control you and will do anything necessary to maintain that control over you. It is a shame but some women deserve it and I simply recommend that you dump her asss. You can't put up with someone that brings out the worst in you. |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Truckpusher: Why are you cursing me |
Re: Ladies, Your Man Slapped You During Courtship: Will You Go On? by nicerichard05: 9:30pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
80% of gals commenting are hypocrites! Mtchewww sayin no man can ever slap dem meanwhile dey hav been beating up several time by deir bf. Nt trying to support the man oo buh try to find out wat happened b4 u judge, for instance no woman born of another woman can insult my mother, I fit give her reach lik 6 slap sef. As for the gal she should continue if she really loves the guy, true love sees beyond slap. |
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