micronut:
NAWA OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.............LIKE SOMEONE SAID "MANY GIRLS FEW WIVES"

I have few contributions

1. THAT U ARE HELPING someone doesn't MAKE U A SLAVE

2. Those shouting, i would run away should have a rethink.


what if the kitchen had been used for long (cos that kitchen looks very much like a house where no one is staying), when u leave ur room for months and the door is closed, obviously........it would gather dirts overtime.

So, running away is very funny to me? u know what u would meet in the next guy u are running to? NO ONE IS PERFECT.......

3. For those insinuating that. a particular girl that said she can clean it is desperate, i think u might not be right.......so if you like a guy so much, perfect in many ways? what would stop u from making him sees reason why u deserved to be his wife (of a fact, 90% of women/girls are made to do things either by pretending or being real to attract a guy. women making up is about looking good for themselves and for someone to admire them). Thus, u are to complement each other, a very intelligent dude might not be organize in keeping neat, so he definitely needs someone that would be there for him and this is in no way, slavery.

Lastly, the Op said "your guy" and not "a guy".... so we all know, for something to be urs, there must have been some level of closeness and a girl must have seen one or two qualities before accepting to date at the first instance, so why must u run......the best a good lady should have done is to demand for an explanation of what happened to such kitchen? after wc she can talk to the guy this is so bad of u......the worst is to ask him to clean it together.

When, a girl comes to ur place and helps tidy up ur littered jeans and books, dat doesn't make her desperate ok...


my 2cent.....

TrishaP:
That ends the dating my dear. I"ll rather stay outside so we'll talk and then never visit. I mean There is no way I will be excited to see such dirty house and still want to continue. Jeez what kind of impression is that?!!

ikp4succes come and see this

ginawest:
y shud I walk away?I wl simply help im clean it up...wu knows,he myt b testing me

TrishaP:

Ok be honest and realistic, A girl you like so much decided to invite you to her house and you bump into such and even worse, what would be running through your mind?

ThoniaSlim:
Clean it up? Why? Because?

Dude's obviously a pig and the Bible says you do not throw pearls at pigs.

TrishaP:
That ends the dating my dear. I"ll rather stay outside so we'll talk and then never visit. I mean There is no way I will be excited to see such dirty house and still want to continue. Jeez what kind of impression is that?!!

ikp4succes come and see this

Ehn ehn

espn:
Some gals can form..der undies stinks and is more horrible than dis guys kitchen..i won't mention names..dey commented b4 me.

hahahahahahah roflkwmd

You be madt man ooo.. Hahahahah

tosyne2much:
Ehn ehn

richidinho:


That shldn't be the question, cos in a relationship Everybody has a role to play. If a girl invite me to her houz and I bump to her landlord asking her for rent.........
**in ukwa voice**
I will do the needful

creepsyme:
any man who is not ashame to bring a lady into this kind of house for a first date has a problem with his modula oblongata.

TrishaP:

Not you tosyne2much. I have had enough headache on this thread already.

I see as guys wan pieces you on this thread

Equalizer:

Am sure that kitchen doesn't belong to a guy but the question here is more like a litmus test for ladies.. Some girls knows how to boil only water and can not even be able to cook indomie.. Your comment got my attention cos you sounded differently unlike an average NL girl that will deny ever doing such..

ginawest:
y shud I walk away?I wl simply help im clean it up...wu knows,he myt b testing me

espn:
Some gals can form..der undies stinks and is more horrible than dis guys kitchen..i won't mention names..dey commented b4 me.

MarieSucre:
Are you defending a dirty man

tosyne2much:
I see as guys wan pieces you on this thread

Oyefoods:
Since am around, I wil tidy it up and prepare a nice meal for him! Ve done it three times in ma ex house. Infact dis kitchen is clean compare to ma ex

simplisity:
U think thats d best approach. Read what u wrote on ur signature

fabulousdora:
a guy can date you just for cleaning and washing....wnt deny my brother does that

creepsyme:
old story.

ginawest:
y shud I walk away?I wl simply help im clean it up...wu knows,he myt b testing me

MarieSucre:
Taaaaah! Thats absolute balderdash. I remember reprimanding a friend when she came to ask for advice about getting married. She had two guys who were willing and she wanted to test them by either telling them she needed a huge sum of money(test for their financial comitment) or tell them she cheated(test for their emotional commitment).

MarieSucre:
I am pained by how you think! What kind of demonic possession will make a man leave his kitchen like that then pawn of the cleaning to a girl saying he is testing for wife material. If my brother ever does that to a woman my mother will slap his ear. My mother still boasts of how clean my Father's one room apartment was back then. He would make sure it was neat and tidy just to impress her. Till now he still washes his clothes. Lazy "boys" of this generation be forming test. litmus test ko. Ph test ni.

MarieSucre:
I love guys like you. I want to move into a new apartment soon. se you can overcome your pride and clean the whole place, so that we can share the ring. btw I'm female

Gold45:


if thats his test, then we aren't meant for each other cus I am destined to fail it. For crying out loud, those dishes havent been washed for weeks. My house has never been this dirty, I dont do well with dirty men........
Popping in unexpectedly at my house is a far better "test" and as some smart ladies pointed out, he doesnt respect u 4 him to bring u to his house to see that.
4 those saying they will clean it up, na here I go dey when you'll say my husband treats me like a slave et other stories that won't touch my heart