ronald4lif:


Facts are sacrosanct bruv. Love without money is a fool's game. No man should be manipulated or dribbled with that bullshit.

ronald4lif:


Yes. But the question is how sensible it is for a guy who doesn't have much money to be footing the bills of his girlfriend monthly hair, outings, gifts etc. Is it wise for a student guy who for instance receives less than 30k from his sponsors to fund most of his girlfriend responsibility?. When there's a great possibility she might dump his ass if someone who's better off comes her way?. It's not like guys shouldn't have a relationship when they are still struggling, no it's a necessary evil but still an unwise decision.

While it is true one should have a girlfriend while they are not financially buoyant so they can be sure her intentions are genuine when money sets in, but in a case where a guy was the one footing a lot of her essential needs when he was still managing his student allowance her intentions can't be said to be genuine and it's questionable. She was still there for the money during those period when her (financial) benefits were meagre. Only difference is that his situation changes for the better with more money and of course she will still stick around.

I think a real wealthy man, who knows how to treat a woman right, romantic and all is capable of making his wife grow to love him even if she's there for the money. Once one have the money and know how to treat a woman their least of concerns will be to make her love you. Splash the money and be romantic bro love will grow by force.

iAmCharis:
You talking like it's compulsory for a guy to foot his girl's monthly bills. If he's footing the bills monthly then the purpose is defeated. My point - it's when the money is not coming out(not footing the bills always or not at all) that you have a better opportunity of knowing their purpose of been with you. Take a look around your environment how many of such girls do you think are still available


@last paragraph__Ask those caring rich men whose wives cheat on them.

Bia nwokem, it's not compulsory neither can it be prevented. The chances of a man in this age of greed and materialism to date a woman of his "choice and standard" without parting ways with part of his monthly income to assist her is very slender. He might end up searching forever without getting successful. Take a look around you how many of such girls do you think are still available

Of course riches isn't a guarantee that a cheating woman won't cheat, but there are other reasons why a wife could cheat. Which could be lack of attention, less caring to her needs or lack of sex etc. Hence I stated, be rich and romantic your wife will grow to love you even if money was what got her attracted to you initially.

Rapmoney:
Love without adequate resources is like driving around a round-about and thinking u are moving somewhere!

ronald4lif:


Bia nwokem, it's not compulsory neither can it be prevented. The chances of a man in this age of greed and materialism to date a woman of his "choice and standard" without parting ways with part of his monthly income to assist her is very slender. He might end up searching forever without getting successful. Take a look around you how many of such girls do you think are still available

Of course riches isn't a guarantee that a cheating woman won't cheat, but there are other reasons why a wife could cheat. Which could be lack of attention, less caring to her needs or lack of sex etc. Hence I stated, be rich and romantic your wife will grow to love you even if money was what got her attracted to you initially.

Adaobi12:
Na for only Nl lazy broker niccurs dey exist.

iAmCharis:
How many of such girls are still available?? I know some of them.

Bia, you better agree with me.

Adaobi12:
I disagree with your write up. there are a thousand one girls out there, willing to love and swim the red sea with a hardworking broke dude.
As long as he is hardworking, I will stick with him because I know someday Oluwa go reason him matter.

Rapmoney:
So u compel people to share your opinions?

oyin17:
Rapmoney who is playing with your heart? Girls are not smiling.

Rapmoney:
I nor even get heart wey person wan play with

My hands are always itching...busy to count good money at the close of work Mon-Fri

iAmCharis:
How many of such girls are still available?? I know some of them.

Bia, you better agree with me.

ronald4lif:

iAmCharis:

ronald4lif:


Hope say when in uni you no been dey carry your meagre student monthly allawee give Deejavuu when she been dey deceive you with love. Shebi e don clear for your eyes as she dump your ass for that Maitama big boy abi? Olodo.

iAmCharis:
See finishing

Dey there! We'll send you our I.V soon.

ronald4lif:

iAmCharis:
Why are you bending your mouth?? You've got eyes on her??

Is that an excuse to help her ministry?. You no dey taya

ronald4lif:


Hope say when in uni you no been dey carry your meagre student monthly allawee give Dee.javuu when she been dey deceive you with love. Shebi e don clear for your eyes as she dump your ass for that Maitama big boy abi? Olodo.

Deejavuu:


ronald??


Ayam a good girl

ronald4lif:


Did you or did you not dump that mumu iamcharis ass or not after raping him off his student allawee?

ronald4lif:


Is that an excuse to help her ministry?. You no dey taya

Deejavuu:


Wetin charis do you? He snatch your babe

ronald4lif:


Make hin try carry his philandering lifestyle cross my line whether I no go comot hin third leg give bingo. The guy ww no get part 2.

naijaboiy:
So how Long do wee need to keep "Hustling" and "struggling" before we start finding love?

Some people's success may meet them when they are 40 years or even older. Is that when they should begin to talk about settling down to love someone and marry?

Does Love wait for someone?

This write-up is flawed to me.