oyin17:



may God bless ur hustle

ronald4lif:


Make hin try carry his philandering lifestyle cross my line whether I no go comot hin third leg give bingo. The guy ww no get part 2.

Deejavuu:


This one strong o. Hope it's not what I'm thinking

remsonik:
Op you are right in a way
However every man should strive to be ambitious. A times all a woman needs to see is the zeal and passion you are putting into your hustle and hard work. Most woman will rather stick with a diligent man.
Also men should be able to differentiate between original and replica. Some women are original while some are replicas. I would suggest get a woman who supports your hustle,hard work and pushes you to aim for success rather than when you already have all the money and you won't be able to differentiate from replicas and original.

Also a times all a woman needs is for you to show her love and care
A times many men get carried away with work and having to make money and they don't care about how their woman is feeling.

Above all be with someone who is also trying to empower herself. Someone who has a purpose,goals and vision and is working do hard to achieve them

naijaboiy:
So how Long do wee need to keep "Hustling" and "struggling" before we start finding love?

Some people's success may meet them when they are 40 years or even older. Is that when they should begin to talk about settling down to love someone and marry?

Does Love wait for someone?

This write-up is flawed to me.

StealthIdeals:
@Adaobi12, It's a lie. Whoever makes you believe girls can be reasonable about hardworking stance is deceiving you. I'm earning a peanut salary in my current job. Because of that, a girl that claimed she loved me started acting strange. I showed her a project I started with one international firm that can land me in millions of naira, she didn't believe it until she left. The firm just contacted me that the work is 60% completed, and gave me some specifications. My respect for her was so high that I agreed with her when she said no sex beforppppe marriage. She said she would endure a thousand years of rain 'cause of me. Now if I make it at last, do you think I will have any vestige of feelings left for her? I pwill rather embark on a race of revenge, not against only her, but also the entire women folk.

Setaje:
It's easier for a camel to pass through the niddles eye, than a rich man to marry a good woman. The woman who pretends the most gets wifed!.

Rapmoney:
...sounds like a gold-digger!

Rapmoney:
...sounds like a gold-digger!

Moana:
some women can become the woman of your dreams all because of money

Setaje:


I swear. Who no like good thing. What the guy said is true but it's so difficult to get a good woman when a man is rich. By that time the kind of women they want sef are not women they would ordinarily date if they were poor. The richer a man is, the higher his taste.

Adaobi12:
Sounds like a lazy dude.

Strongfaze:
Bro, your thoughts are valid on one side of the coin. On the other side of the coin is that if you wait for when you have it all, then no woman will say no to your advances. We are warned to get a girl before you have it all because if she sticks with you at that time, she is a WIFE MATERIAL. Imagine that you have a car, a house, and you are gainfully employed, which SENSELESS LADY who wants to settle down can say NO to you? NON, EVEN IF SHE IS PLUTO!

Rapmoney:
I didn't say one should acquire everything before entering a relationship. What I mean is that you should set ur priorities straight! One should not be struggling...just get focused on ur plans first...try as much as possible to be comfortable...u must not have millions first...now, do you think ladies of our time would want to get serious with a dude who has nothing? Most times, we run away from reality! Too bad!

Rapmoney:
Be patient while you read this...

If you are a young and ambitious dude still struggling to get to the top, this write-up will save you the stress and pains of the so-called love we have been deceived about for long!

If you still think that there's what is called 'true love' or 'love without money or resources', then you must be living in a fool's paradise!!! (Quote me if you like!)

The truth of the matter is that what people in the past enjoyed as 'true love' no longer exist. Then it was possible for a man and a woman to fall in love based on personal qualities or characters without materialism attached to it! Those were the good old days! Our society has changed and any one who still lives in the past is not better than the village idiot!!!

I have heard people saying often times that love or relationship is not all about money! To me, that's the highest level of trash and rubbish! If you are a young man with ambition, still striving and toiling to make it, you better forget about love and concentrate full-time...I mean 100% on your dreams and life.
It is so frustrating to see some struggling dudes killing themselves over love issues! What a life! Why spend the meagre salary you earn after working for 30 days like a donkey on a girl? She tells you she needs a phone, you struggle to buy it! She says she needs money for hair, you struggle to give her! She tells you she needs to get a nice bag or pair of shoes she saw at a boutique, you struggle to give her! Be rest assured that you will continue to struggle endlessly in your life if you don't desist from such shameful and wasteful act! If you want to know the extent to which materialism has eaten into this so-called love, watch even the younger girls of today! Even those that are below 21 or 22 will quickly run away from you if you can't be giving her upkeep money, money for hair and phone, etc The mature ones? If you don't live comfortably well, sorry, you are on your own!!! Except for those village girls that are not exposed...but seriously, not in the cities of Nigeria.

Before you criticize me on the fact that these women need to live a comfortable life by hanging out with only comfortable dudes, read the topic again! It is surely the same reason why I said young struggling men should forget about love and focus on their lives!!! When you are comfortable, you can have the resources to sustain your relationship because no matter how a woman 'loves' you, the 'love' must surely die if there's no finance to sustain it!

Adams Oshiomole (not handsome) just got married to pretty Lara Forte! Do you think she didn't see all the tall handsome dudes with six-packs before tying the knot with the governor?

Goodevening everyone!

tpiadotcom:
vanity upon vanity, all is vanity.

ProphetUdeme:
BRILLIANT WRITE UP. The best so far on this thread. Lalasticlala pls hit this as an FP material. Our guys really need to be enlighten and emancipated from this dating slavery. Thanks o.p.
cc : misogynist2014

MizMyColi:
Your DP though....
I'm just gonna pretend it has no effect on me.

ronald4lif:

The emboldened got me laughing. Emancipation indeed.

ronald4lif:


The emboldened got me laughing. Emancipation indeed.

ProphetUdeme:
na so na. Or dont you know that having a girl is a burden and a load to bear. Or abi you never experience am before?