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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by egobetatoday: 10:08pm On Jun 17, 2015
Alikote:
The rate single girls bleep this days is alarming I cant even differentiate them from whores.my married oil and gas worker friend was,permantly bleeping on law,student from owerri depsite her knowing he will not marry her he is hausa she is igbo and look decent I keep wondering one unlucky guy will end up marrying her .women are weird

hehehehe ...did u say an ibo girl?
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by CrixusD(m): 10:26pm On Jun 17, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
This is a typical example of what I mean. There are two types of women.

The type you men like to complain about. Naive, attitude, dependent, self entitled etc etc. Then you get the independent, educated, no nonsense, "feminist" which you men also love to complain about. Best thing would be for you men to decide what you want and which of the two you would be able to better deal with and deal with it because you will find the same thing in every race of women. That's the truth

Babe, you still don't get, do you? So long as black girls(Especially Nigerian girls) keep on believing that their "pucci" and "fine face" are their most heralded assets, we will keep having these problems. What problem exactly you may ask. Let me help out:

1. Nigerian girls believe that besides their assets, they do not have to bring anything else to the table.. Heck! do they even bother to know whether there is even any other thing to be learnt again, talk more of presenting to the table?

2. That with their "assets", they are actually doing the Guy a favour by dating him therefore he should (after church thanksgiving) show her care by calling all time, recharge her phone, hand her(and some of her family members) monthly stipends,always make her hair, take her out, even with all of that still wants him to be funny, witty, patient, loving, understanding, licking her ass, turn into a "Superman" for her, bla bla....

But ask the same girl in question what her contributions to the relationship is gonna be and she goes..blank.., forgeting that the Guy in question here is neither a Superman or nor have a heart of steel which does not need care, love and understanding as well.

In summarry, a typical Nigerian girl is a greedy, selfish, self-centered, money grabing bitch who have no iota of Geniune care, concern or interest for her Guy. Rather its all about "her, her, her and her" taking, taking, and taking all the time without giving out. But the last time i checked, people who eat, eat, and eat all the time without *defeacating* stinks.... and Ms. Nigerian girls STINKS!!!

Hope you get where i am coming from 'cos most of' em won't undestand the truth even if it hit them in the face.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jun 17, 2015
Who cares if they want to get married or not?

If they like, let them marry.

If they like, let them not get married.

Na their wahala.

Every saturday, wedding keeps happening, and i am very sure this ladies are nt marrying themselves.

So, all those guys that are rich yet still single, is because they are not husband material. They have a bad character, that even a mad woman will prefer to remain single, than to marry them.
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by elknice: 10:50pm On Jun 17, 2015
Ethical Hacking

Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jun 17, 2015
Viciyus:
AND HOW MANY SATURDAYS WEDDING YOU DON AT TEND?

And, hw many have you attended too?
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Royzevic(m): 11:08pm On Jun 17, 2015
ITbomb:
The more girls you Bleep, the more you think girls are whoress and the more difficult you can trust a girl to be decent.

Other times the ones that are passing in our faces are the confident runs girls, the decent ones are locked up in a room somewhere and very anti social. Such ones are only gotten through recommendation by someone you never thought was noticing her.

Best quote since i joined nairaland

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by tosyne2much(m): 11:14pm On Jun 17, 2015
masterchi:
problem is the girls dont want to work and the guyz dont want them to reap where they did not sow.
You nailed it bro


May God bless you
cool

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by grad2012(f): 11:34pm On Jun 17, 2015
It's just simple the richer you become the slimmer the chances of you finding true luv.Most guys like this will mostly find gals who are in it for the money and it will be so hard to find a gal who really luvs them and then if they really find they will be in doubt whether it's for the money or luv.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Abugab(m): 11:56pm On Jun 17, 2015
omoharry:
some men too do not show love to thier wives or girl friends.if they do they they wont be the serial cheater they are known for.some are inconsiderate that after the woman finish just finish giving birth, they wiill begin to loose in the womaan becos they is no longer the lekpa theywanted.its a two way.... u guys keep complaining about women being gold diggers but i m surprise tht the kind of young men we women come across these days are equally gold diggers ,maybe due to the harsh nigeria economy i do not know.abeg u guys should not lebel all girls as gold diggers...in my life all my phone i have been using from my uni days till date have been bougt by me.....i do not ask for money becos i d embarrass easily especially when my the person turns me down.. so guys pls let us be and stop the steereotypeing Nigerian women.

The last time I checked men don't cheat with themselves but with women.
So women are accomplice and thus as guilty as the men.
If women no cheat nobody will be there for men to cheat with. Iron sharpeneth iron my sister.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 12:16am On Jun 18, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
Not to be vain but I have all that and more and I have many Gf's who are like me too. There are so many black women in the world for you to Generalize and make it seem like it's some sort of norm. At the end of the day most of the stuff you mentioned cuts across to all women and not black women only. If you want snow bunnies, you don't need to bash black women or insult us. Go for your preference and let that be that.

Anyways one thing I have noticed is you men love playing the victim. Black women are this and that but a lot can be said about you men too.


You are a cretinous fuuktard!

You have what?

What did you say you have? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

They want a fine woman, who is approachable, is not rude, is good in conversation, does not over-value herself (or the thing between her legs' powers), brings something to the table apart from her what is between her legs (e.g. being comfortable in domestics), has good manners, does not have alterior motives apart from genuine like of the guy, does not have a history as a slut, knows a man being with her/nice to her is not a birthright but mutual reward AND understands what the man wants (or is willing to find out) and willing to satisfy it if she is interested in him.

You have all that?

That is why you sound like a belligerent hooodrat c*nt?

And by the way, dumb c*nt, I never generalised. I frequently said "most". But your daft arsse would not have noticed.


Notyourb1tch:

If you're a Nigerian man who has more than enough negative thought towards your fellow nigerian women you are self loathing. You can not be a Nigerian man and hate that which you come from. If you do it starts with the women in your lives like the mother, aunts, sisters, grandmother. What is it about them you don't like? Could it be their response to how they were treated by nigerian men Ponder that thought and be a better man. Stop pointing the finger and change what You do. Raise your daughters to be better women. It starts with you Nigerian men.

I forgot to add "intelligent" to my list. That bit you obviously fail in as well despite all your rants of "When they see an independent, well together, educated and strong black women".

Mugu want educated?

Okrika or Okada education? grin grin grin grin grin

The education that taught you that if I say I prefer Japanese product to Aba product then I am self-loathing?

If I decide I prefer a UK education for my kids, rather then a Nigerian one, then I am self-loathing?

That logic is what comes out of "an independent, well together, educated and strong black woman"?

Dumb c*nt!

You are educated? grin grin grin grin grin

You naaa? (Same you?) grin grin grin grin

I don't know about your own family o. But in my family, the thought of coupling with the opposite sex does not start with my mother, aunts, sisters or grandmother. Maybe that is how it is in your family, please keep such dumb advice to your moronic "strong" black arsse.

Classical piece of shyt we continue producing in Nigeria.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 12:20am On Jun 18, 2015
CrixusD:




Are you my brother from another mother? Damn it! You keep stealing my thoughts. How i wish, oh just how i wish all guys were like us(you and i), i swear girls would be the ones begging us for a date. I slay them bitches especially those with this same "sense of pucci entitlement mentality" without mercy,... i keep no prisoners.

love you bro! #nohomo#......, btw you need to stop lecturing them about the truth 'cos its an effort in frutility.

But in all honesty, we need them to keep wallowing in their self-imposed naitivity...'cos thats what we feed on to slay them. . wink

No mind many of them.

They are valueless but yet over-value themselves. grin grin grin grin grin

They are "strong". grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 12:21am On Jun 18, 2015
Notyourb1tch:
This is a typical example of what I mean. There are two types of women.

The type you men like to complain about. Naive, attitude, dependent, self entitled etc etc. Then you get the independent, educated, no nonsense, "feminist" which you men also love to complain about. Best thing would be for you men to decide what you want and which of the two you would be able to better deal with and deal with it because you will find the same thing in every race of women. That's the truth

Unfortunately for your dumb arsse, you do not realise there are women that don't fall into your 2 dysfunctional categories.

Says all about you and you friends you were claiming are sane and a catch. undecided

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by limamintruth: 12:30am On Jun 18, 2015
grin grin grin grin

All i see are irresponsible men seeking for responsible ladies. tongue

Not my business sha cheesy

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by limamintruth: 12:38am On Jun 18, 2015
missbronze:
Who cares if they want to get married or not?

If they like, let them marry.

If they like, let them not get married.

Na their wahala.

Every saturday, wedding keeps happening, and i am very sure this ladies are nt marrying themselves.
....

True oooo cheesy

I'v got two separate wedding events to attend this weekend sef & i'm still wondering how i'l grace these events the same day cos i really dont wanna miss out on any. Hmmm...
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sagamite(m): 1:01am On Jun 18, 2015
CrixusD:


Babe, you still don't get, do you? So long as black girls(Especially Nigerian girls) keep on believing that their "pucci" and "fine face" are their most heralded assets, we will keep having these problems. What problem exactly you may ask. Let me help out:

1. Nigerian girls believe that besides their assets, they do not have to bring anything else to the table.. Heck! do they even bother to know whether there is even any other thing to be learnt again, talk more of presenting to the table?

2. That with their "assets", they are actually doing the Guy a favour by dating him therefore he should (after church thanksgiving) show her care by calling all time, recharge her phone, hand her(and some of her family members) monthly stipends,always make her hair, take her out, even with all of that still wants him to be funny, witty, patient, loving, understanding, licking her ass, turn into a "Superman" for her, bla bla....

But ask the same girl in question what her contributions to the relationship is gonna be and she goes..blank.., forgeting that the Guy in question here is neither a Superman or nor have a heart of steel which does not need care, love and understanding as well.

In summarry, a typical Nigerian girl is a greedy, selfish, self-centered, money grabing bitch who have no iota of Geniune care, concern or interest for her Guy. Rather its all about "her, her, her and her" taking, taking, and taking all the time without giving out. But the last time i checked, people who eat, eat, and eat all the time without *defeacating* stinks.... and Ms. Nigerian girls STINKS!!!

Hope you get where i am coming from 'cos most of' em won't undestand the truth even if it hit them in the face.

Wow!

They sound like so much fun to interact with ...............................................not. grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 5:58am On Jun 18, 2015
The position some people have taken here against Nigerian women is quite unfortunate. themodernman, sagamite, brandnew2, crixusD, viciyus and the rest, I think you should rather be concerned about the increasing number of aging bachelors and spinsters rather than justify your positions.
It's funny to me that some people here are actually considering having a child out of wedlock to avoid what they have termed the "trap" called marriage. I think a lot of damage has been done to our society. Values have been lost. I am not excusing the female folks.Many of the fine "Nigerian" girls are actually materialistic. I am only saying that both parties are to be blamed EQUALLY and we urgently need a value re-orientation. That was why I created the thread.
Someone will said on the thread "marrriage is for broke men" gosh! I believe many are just using the opportunity of the internet to spew all kinds of statements. In real life, these are the same people that probably die over olthe same African women they are castigating.
We need a paradigm shift.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 6:30am On Jun 18, 2015
Sagamite:


Those are some of the attitudes, behaviours, expectations and mentality I almost always observe from the very first minute I engage with most Nigerian girls and it just puts me off immediately. From that moment, it is almost virtually impossible for it to go anywhere because I find it insanely disrespectful and insulting.

Does this ediot really take me for a fooool that would do anything for pussi?

Do I look like if I have to drag myself on the floor for pussi if I want it?

If I want to pay or work for pussi what makes your daft arse think you are that valuable for such payment/work? Are you Amber Rose?


I just get pissed off.

They don't feel they have to be good at conversations, be fun to be around and be convivial. But yet, oddly, they have this expectation that you should be crazy and infatuated about them.

They just think "Ah, I have a pussi, this guy wants it so he must work like a slave horse for it".

And I am thinking "B.i.tch, are you reetarded?".

hey guy, how far! Where on earth have you been all these while? Anyway, i don't enjoy it very much when you attack women. I only enjoy it when you attack feminists, not women.

How is London, hope fine? And how have you been coping with the feminists?

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 6:57am On Jun 18, 2015
@ topic, your observation is on point. There is a growing number of comfortable men who are reluctant to get married. These men just want to have a child by some means and then just go on with their lives that way. Marriage is of no use to them they don't need a woman just as some women don't need a man.

These men can do things men use to rely on women to do. They can cook, they wash their clothes, can change diaper etc. These men have always done these things for themselves and have never relied on anyone. They are actually independent.

When it comes to sex, they could afford it from a sex worker. They could also take one of the very many ladies who by now and because of their wealth and status, are flocking aroud them already. Some have actually taken to mastur....bation that they don't feel any need to do actual sex. This trend is growing rapidly especially among Japanese men (you can do a little google search on that).

I think humans are becoming more selfish. We use to live in a world where roles were clearly defined and roles gives responsibility and relevance. In a world where gender mobility is possible, humans are begining to feel fewer need for each other.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by skyisthelimit(m): 7:16am On Jun 18, 2015
winnieberry:
I think the problem is from both sides,there are alot of materialistic lazy women out there ,who discourage such men you talked about.Another issue is if you look deeper such men may have had one woman in their life at one point or another but when money comes d'guys start misbehaving cos to them,they got d'money if d'lady likes let her stay or go,after all there are many fishes in d'river.And when they discover that d'women outside are only after d'money they start complaining.And what makes u think dat girls who are always indoors are decent or anti social .Trust me most of all those decent girls are bad deep down.So my advice is this guys if u have a good girl keep her,dont take her for granted and later come and start bitchin about.Most girls have stayed with a guy when there is no money only for the guy to leave them when there is money so Do u xpect such girls to go after broke struggling dudes?And most broke dudes sef no dey try be guy :u arent not fine,rich,caring or good in bed wat thre for d'girl to enjoy and such guys go still dey misbehave .when d'girl leaves them for a better dude they start screaming'those hoes arent loyal.
....Coming from a female..very impressive line of analysis.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by jashar(f): 8:17am On Jun 18, 2015
egobetatoday:


nawa oo.
he said the guys dont lack girls (and i believe it) u want them to use you as tissue paper too?

please dont come and start opening threads on why men are so evil oo?


My guy, you didn't get it, but the OP did.

Na joke me dey joke ooo. BTW, I can't be used as tissue paper. I'm human. tongue grin
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 8:18am On Jun 18, 2015
ITbomb:
The more girls you Bleep, the more you think girls are whoress and the more difficult you can trust a girl to be decent.

Other times the ones that are passing in our faces are the confident runs girls, the decent ones are locked up in a room somewhere and very anti social. Such ones are only gotten through recommendation by someone you never thought was noticing her.
the decent ones pass your face too, but you dont notice them because they are not flashy.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by jashar(f): 8:18am On Jun 18, 2015
RedBenson:


Why must he hook the sisters up with those rich dudes? What happens to those struggling guys dying to have the sisters?

Na joke me I dey joke. Make every man carry im own cross. smiley
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by lurlah2014(f): 9:11am On Jun 18, 2015
Sagamite:


Afraid!

No o!

They are terrified. It is like Saddam's goons about to torture them.

Nonsense talk. Persin no want something, then you see women trying to challenging their masculinity with "afraid".

Black women with all their stinking attitude, instead of changing it, would say "Black men are only going for other women because they are scared of a strong black women". Their undesirable attitude is a sign of "strength"? undecided
LAUGH out loud, cos i can tell how scared you are to face true love from a Nigerian woman
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by BornnAgainChild(f): 9:16am On Jun 18, 2015
themodernman:


Women and their grandiose delusion...I said 10% on this type of woman (who thinks I'm making the money for her) and NOT 10% on the home...for your mind you think you're d home....lols!

Stop dreaming I don't fuucck with my kids! They're the real part of me! Not some woman who thinks she's d final consumer.

And any woman who grumbles with this can get the fuuuck off my house.


Correct yourself there dude undecided
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Revolva(m): 10:24am On Jun 18, 2015
Florblu:


See the words coming out of ur miserable mouth.#Smh#


Fire don burn u before.....am a man I can't b miserable..I tink for myself .u r more miserable n confused as a woman...cos pple tink for u

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Nobody: 10:27am On Jun 18, 2015
SIRTee15:
I think for every age gruop , there are more single guys than ladies. That's a fact. It's always been like that........its not something new.
However, the mere fact that a man can marry younger women while that cannot be said for women makes the case of aged spinsters more disturbing.
Most aging bachelors will eventually settle down.......one way or another.
That for aging spinsters could be a daunting task.........the more reason a young lady should ensure she's plucked when her cherry blossoms the most.
God will help us all.

Are you sure of this because population statistics repeatedly shows that there are more females than males on earth.
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Florblu(f): 10:42am On Jun 18, 2015
Revolva:


Fire don burn u before.....am a man I can't b miserable..I tink for myself .u r more miserable n confused as a woman...cos pple tink for u

Cos u ve been able to think(with ur empty skull) for gals u ve met doesn't mean guys think for all ladies.

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Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sparkles003(f): 11:13am On Jun 18, 2015
RedBenson:


You think you can reap where you didnt sow? You should ask yourself why he hasnt married all the women said to be around him.

#HeartlessGoldDigger
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sparkles003(f): 11:13am On Jun 18, 2015
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You think you can reap where you didnt sow? You should ask yourself why he hasnt married all the women said to be around him.

#HeartlessGoldDigger[/quote
I love to dig for Gold cos they preserve their natural state.m allergic to metal and scrapes.(they rust with time) :
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sparkles003(f): 11:16am On Jun 18, 2015
RedBenson:


You see why they're not willing to marry? Why did you aim at that 33 oil bloc of a dude when a hustling guy near your neighbourhood is dying to get you? Gold digging everywhere.
Thanks for the gold digging compliment.
You win some.you lose some.
You can't win them all
Re: Growing Number Of Rich, Comfortable But Single Men by Sparkles003(f): 11:22am On Jun 18, 2015
Orikinla:
[size=18pt]The best a salary earner can be in Nigeria is comfortable.
No salary earner can be rich in Nigeria, except he or she is doing sharp practices or moonlighting.

When the annual school fees of a child in a very good private school in Nigeria is almost N1 million.
House rent in a decent and safe location is from N1.2 million a year.
So, before a young man earning more than N500, 000 monthly salary can marry, he must consider how to secure the future of his family.[/size]
If all men had this kind of mentality there would be no weddings cos majority won't be getting married,when it comes to money or financial standing one can never have enough.that is why the rich keeps striving to be richer or wealthy and the poor or average strives to be rich or richer.money is a never ending cycle

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